That is an eye opener to you, in such that if the money isn't there she can't stay with you, she was there just because of the money.
Date someone who loves you for who you are not for what you are, so that even if the money is not there, she will still stay with you and struggle with you, until you come back to your feet.
Be wise bro

Lols. Calm down bro.. Las Las you go dey alright.. You should be happy she left, she could be the one behind your misery lately, God just removed her from you so you will prosper, trust me she will come around by then it's gonna be late..

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

Hey! Congratulations, young man.

You would wonder why I felicitate with you? Because, this is the beginning of your good success. I had a situation, when I was growing up- whereby my guardians never believed in my ability to pass WAEC or succeed in life? as they believed I wasn't showing those sound academic attributes enough and this was due to domestic related activities overuse (I actually repeated SS2), this affected my confidence a bit, then I stumble on a verse in the book of proverb that says, "As a man thinketh in his heart, so he is...That means, Other peoples' thoughts and opinions doesn't really make me. It is my personal thoughts that makes and mold me, then, the n I purposed in my mind to be positive about every issue of life, even unto this day.

Young man, God is turning situation around for me to the extent that someone who "they" thoughts was not academically sound enough, obtained BSc and MSc degrees with excellent grades, got grants and scholarships for both Local and International academic pursuit. This was the beginning for my success story. I can tell you now that I am "BALLING" by God's grace and all praise to God's holy name.

The summary of my "sermon" is do not allow your ex-girl friend and other people's opinion control your destiny. Take charge of your life, have a set career goal and pursue it like your life depend on it. I am positive you will come back to Nairaland, one day with an excellent testimony like mine? The Girl in question may even be the bad-luck in your life?

I hope you or anyone else that are in a similar situation will read this and make good use of it. This is my personal experience. 'not them say'

All the best.

You dont make any sense.

Divay22:
PROVE HER WRONG !


*Modified*
Don't make her words taunt you into doing bad things or using illegal means to make money.. Follow the right way. It might be long or short but trust you'll surely get there.


If possible, get a carbon paper write her name and her surname boldly E.G
Blessing okeke (Her name and surname)
I (write your name and surname)
Will prove you wrong.
And place it on the wall. (Her words are likely gonna cause a lot of damages to you, most especially if you are thinking about it and things seems to be going slow, even if not often but you will subconsciously)



Don't let anybody's version of your life make you feel that's how your life should be.. (it's your life, you owe it, you rule it and you decide)
You're are the Architect of your life!



And Hey
Good news is that, she'll come back

SHE KNOWS THE NOW BUT YOU DECIDE THE FUTURE

A nigga once said:Who is this one again.abeg face front you no ge talk for mouth.

Sold your expensive stuffs cause of a girl mtwee...

guy no cryy again...just make money,look for her,beg her again infact promise to marry her and also promise to build a new house for the parent..destroy there old building then you run..and make sure you do am for raining season so that rain go beat her parent wella
if you know you know

OP, you are a kid, that kind of lady won't add any value to your life. So why are you still inclined? Develop yourself and hustle well the idiot will come back and beg you and after that teach her a lesson and disengage her after you have invited her to grace your friend wedding which will eventually be your wedding. Abeg, I don't like seeing something life this again.

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

Seriously, guys with this mentality that they must spend on their girlfriend always almost end up miserably, if not dead.

This is pure toxic masculinity, just by being a man you think you should automatically be financially responsible for your girlfriend or wife. You do this because you don't see her as equal, you think she's under you. It's not because of love, is a horrible combination of lack of self-control and toxic ego.

Get wise and stop being enslaved by female beauty

Divay22:
PROVE HER WRONG !


*Modified*
Don't make her words taunt you into doing bad things or using illegal means to make money.. Follow the right way. It might be long or short but trust you'll surely get there.


If possible, get a carbon paper write her name and her surname boldly E.G
Blessing okeke (Her name and surname)
I (write your name and surname)
Will prove you wrong.
And place it on the wall. (Her words are likely gonna cause a lot of damages to you, most especially if you are thinking about it and things seems to be going slow, even if not often but you will subconsciously)



Don't let anybody's version of your life make you feel that's how your life should be.. (it's your life, you owe it, you rule it and you decide)
You're are the Architect of your life!



And Hey
Good news is that, she'll come back

SHE KNOWS THE NOW BUT YOU DECIDE THE FUTURE

I read this post and was screaming....who's this guyyyy??
Then I scrolled up to check the name and saw the female gender.

So girls wey get sense still dey this world
Na wa o

if you had used her pant all this nonsense wuldn't hav happened,we dey fink of the next 4yrs u dey come worry us here.Oga go and hustle and make money forget her. its too early for this rubbish after una valentine

Never consider or accept a fake prophesy over your life.
Haven't you ever been in a contest before?This is a kind of contest where only suckers lose. Take your sword of prayers and meet God in the theatre of war and if you perish, you perish. He is and he is the rewarder of those who diligently seek him. He answered Jabez, Gideon, Esther and me, he will answer you.
But first, Just go to the section of your brain where her memory is, and format it.

Note: circumstances will still keep her around to witness your transformation.

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

My guy some ladies don't deserve that kind of attention, u really drop urself on the floor for her, how on earth will u be paying her bills when she's not ur wife?... Walai she Don chop u finish,Remember theres nothing u can do to satisfy a lady... Let her go and move on with ur life.. She will come begging I had similar experience but today, na she dey rush me but I don't give any f**kng damn coz I have so many on a queue... Man up and move on she doesn't worth u

Bro take charge and be a man.stop all dis beg beg emotional talk, that's what females do. Control your emotions man.

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

First of all, I commend you for sharing this burden! You did well, very well by not bottling it all up.

The truth is, you might not be able to just format her instantly from your head right now, however, it is very possible to overcome this pain.

1. Archive her chats and messages in your email for posterity reference and then delete her from all your social media platforms, delete her number, pictures and everything about her.
2. Take a break, go on a short vacation. Leave that your current location temporarily (if possible).
3. Give your time to a new/old purpose (learn how to play a musical instrument or learn a new language (e.g download an app called "duolingo" and use it to learn any language of your choice) or engage in any new legitimate thing. It will help you redirect your mind and give you focus for better things.
4. Talk to people that you think can help. Don't bottle your pains and regrets, talk to good people. You sound like a good person, you should have some of your kind around you. Please talk it out.
5. Don't rush into any other relationship for now.
6. I recommend a book for you to read; it's titled "Forgetting Your Past" by Bob Gass. Read that book with open mind.
7. Learn from your mistakes; Never give your all to people with questionable character + Loyalty is very expensive, don't invest it where you won't get dividends.
8. Forgive her but NEVER give her a place in your heart again.
9. Believe me, YOU WILL BE RICHER if you work hard doing legitimate business. You need to know that she's wrong with her assumption that you are addicted to brokenness.

I wish you healing bro.
Some people (Guys&Ladies alike) are just so heartless. pELe

bro I swear just de smoke paw paw non stop for weeks....thank me leta

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

U want died uptop woman mata... Oya na go ahead iz free of charge.

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

Sometimes when life wants to move you to another level, it breaks you and strips you of everything. You'll lose everything that'll hold back.
For you to be truly made you must be broken.
Prove her wrong by hustling even harder and having the biggest come back of your life.


About your depression Pls kindly reach me on the number on my signature.

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

don't go and start hustling lime your fellow men keep thinking about woman mugu

Bros, if somebody asks you to jump in a deep well and kill yourself, will you do it?
Ask yourself: Are you really destined to be poor?
The only revenge you can get is to turn your life around. Work hard and she will eat up her words when she hears that you have gone higher.
Ladies like her always end up with the wrong man and suffer later.

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

God with his love for you chased away the devil in your life, and you are here wailing. Guy ibu akpa amu

Itzneowizy:
Please guys....why do many of us lack sense...ordinary sense oo ...

baba I just tried for that guy see as he day mumu he self for love

Infact bring your head let me wash it with hypo bleach. All you men who go about training ladies who later show you their true colours of ingratitude, una no dey learn?

What a silly girl. Oh! She got a man to buy her expensive phone but will still come back to ask you for money, let the expensive phone buyer fund her expensive lifestyle na.

Guy move on and the God's favor will set in in your life. Some bad luck people have to leave your life for break through to occur.

Guy forward ever. When God blesses you, don't even come back here to tell us you are confused and you want to take that parasitic ingrate back o!

Saffi:
Every lady has encountered that mumu guy that will shoot him self in the leg for you. Them guys are never respected, fellas please respect yourself ahbeg. That you love someone doesn’t mean your sense should fall outside of the window.

Women fall in love with leaders. A guy with confidence who is sure of himself. Women like men who don’t care too much as crazy as it may sound. Don’t ever act like you will die without a woman or will fall into depression if she ever leaves you. Once a woman knows this, she will take full advantage and walk all over you. Just an advice.

Finally, a lady that can confidently tell the truth Lol. Even though I don't agree with some of the things you say, a lot of women live in self denial but you don't. Even women it comes to money, you voiced your opinion, you & poco.

There are so many Implications to this, women's emotions work in reverse honestly & It's embarrassing to even admit for women themselves because It is natural & not intentional at all. History has proven that the less attention you give to a girl, the more she goes crazy about you.

I have ladies I met in Church that I'm currently ignoring but they keep reaching out & asking why I'm ignoring them, sending me emoji's, pics etc. I also have ladies that I've almost died for in the past that didn't reciprocate the love one bit. So I ask myself what's the difference really? Is it that those women in the past are more beautiful. No, i realized I just gave them too much attention & centered my life around them. That was all.

There is obviously a flaw in the human design.

You will surely heal bro, its just gonna take time,

Guy your own is better! What of me that took a girl from d streets because of beauty n love for her! Cleaned her up well, married her legally through traditional, church wedding n even court join! send her to d university and graduated self but after NYSC it all changed when she started collecting little cash of her own! She started showing her true colours of sturnborness n adultery. Six years all gone with only one child of 5yrs old! Her problem is just that she wants to be richer than me By all means! The more i try to hold her d more she do worst things! So i collected my child n let her go simple! Am moving on n i tell u time will surely heal that heart of yours just be positive n happy!

This is to tell you that you don't spend on someone who is not your wife, because you don't know what tomorrow will be and in such cases for some men, they get hyper tension after spending much and the lady disappoint them, what she said won't affect you unless you forget about her and move on, she does not love you, she was there for your money, since you didn't offend her, what she said won't stand unless you forget about her and move on with your life and also be prayerful.

Mehn!! I have to first check memes before I read the story cos the title got me hard hahaha hahaha!!

Write her name in a sheet of paper tie it to a tree with red and black cloth snap it and send the picture to her, I'm sure we are going to read her own part of the story soon! Lolzzzz lolz!

When we tell guys stop doing like a sizzy! It will looks as if we are beefing! Right now I'm privilege to be in a high class corporate meeting with about 10 beautiful ladies as ushers infact I can't even pick who is more beautiful among them, their beauty is top notch. So if you think that ur gal is beautiful mehn I'm telling you that you haven't seen anything yet!! Forget her and hustle more! There are more classic beautiful ladiew waiting for you at the top!

Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

Op you will overcome this. Please may I know how you lost 1 million naira? Thanks .

JustMakeMoney:
Guy your own is better! What of me that took a girl from d streets because of beauty n love for her! Cleaned her up well, married her legally through traditional, church wedding n even court join! send her to d university and graduated self but after NYSC it all changed when she started collecting little cash of her own! She started showing her true colours of sturnborness n adultery. Six years all gone with only one child of 5yrs old! Her problem is just that she wants to be richer than me By all means! The more i try to hold her d more she do worst things! So i collected my child n let her go simple! Am moving on n i tell u time will surely heal that heart of yours just be positive n happy!

You a man. You've truly come of age. More success and grace to you.

ClassiqKufor:
I don't know why some guys invest more in a relationship. The money you suppose to be saving/invest for your future
See your life now

Ask am when last he send money to mama n papa...