| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Od1n: 1:02pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
When your will is broken, that is when you lose. Until then, keep on fighting. Do not forget this woman, use her words as motivation every other day till you get to where you want to be. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by EhisChelsea1(m): 1:04pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Divay22:
PROVE HER WRONG !
*Modified*
Don't make her words taunt you into doing bad things or using illegal means to make money.. Follow the right way. It might be long or short but trust you'll surely get there.
If possible, get a carbon paper write her name and her surname boldly E.G
Blessing okeke (Her name and surname)
I (write your name and surname)
Will prove you wrong.
And place it on the wall. (Her words are likely gonna cause a lot of damages to you, most especially if you are thinking about it and things seems to be going slow, even if not often but you will subconsciously)
Don't let anybody's version of your life make you feel that's how your life should be.. (it's your life, you owe it, you rule it and you decide)
You're are the Architect of your life!
And Hey
Good news is that, she'll come back  
SHE KNOWS THE NOW BUT YOU DECIDE THE FUTURE
couldn't have bn better rendered. Gid bless you for this advice. You are wise |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by vicadex07(m): 1:07pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.
I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.
After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.
She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.
After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).
This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.
She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed Don't let Hollywood fool you. Being nice and caring is a turn off to most ladies. They're just wired that way psychologically. Just work on your self esteem and confidence and stop being a pusssyyy. You are a man. Take charge in all situations. Be strong and control your woman. But make sure you have money first. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by sterlingD(m): 1:15pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Celestial777:
You nailed it ! Such as once happened to me like 4 years ago. The girl left me just because I lost my job. I started business with the little cash that is with me. Several times she will ask me how and when will I make it under this Nigeria govt and how things are... Those words got me depressed. She finally left me for a guy that just return from Malay. Now the guy has left her. She came back to me last year August begging me. In no time I accept sharp sharp say na devil. Yours sincerely I begin use drug , jedi even Hausa buratashi bleed this fellow. I swear she confess say I won kill her. When I nearly finish her with buratashi power no body tell her to make way. Those six months is so sweet cos she knew I have cash but she can't ask me for money with the mindset that she has changed. My brother no worry ur head. Its even better that u r not yet married to her. Go make money sure she will be back in no time... see bro u go even try bdsm style with her she will not complain..I smile while writing this ... Eves can be so funny... Buratshi sha
Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad Guy |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by CoolVoice(m): 1:32pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.
I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.
After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.
She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.
After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).
This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.
She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed Mumu..wake the F up!!! |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by nwanyionitsha: 1:34pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.
I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.
After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.
She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.
After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).
This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.
She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed sai babar. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by babzlim(m): 1:39pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
TOO EVERYONE IN NAIRALAND.. STOP PAYING BILLS FOR GIRLS THAT DOESN'T HAVE ANY STEADY SOURCE OF INCOME... THEY DON'T VALUE OR APPRECIATE IT BECOS THEY HAVE KNOW IDEA HOW MONEY IS MADE...
ONLY GIVE THEM WHAT THEY NEED... WHICH IS T. P AND FOOD. TRUTH IS BITTER. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Mickolad(m): 1:45pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend . I used to spoil her with everything when I have money.
where I stop reading ....
seriously some guys are somehow thisday. MUST you always please a lady for the sake of what you called LOVE in your own sight?
well, I felt for you just let the BRAT go; wake up and move on with your life and I believe the right girl will come at the right time..
BUT don't forget to prove her wrong that you aren't a POOR MAN.
hope you've learnt your lesson now.. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by teamobanabo(m): 2:08pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
free her... 
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| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by val4sure(m): 2:09pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
iezeiyida:
Take heart bro! I feel your pain. You really love and do good for this girl but she left bcoz she never really loved you. Money is good but True love knows no financial limit.. 'Simi told us that love don't care.' This kind of thing happens often. Some one I know very well was abandoned this way by a girl he dated from Secondary school days.. A girl he did everything for. He even lived in same room, in the University with the girl for 5 years, supported her school, financially, assisted her poor family, loved her so much, and sacrificied ultimately for her bcoz he so much loved her and wanted to marry her after school.. But she left immidately she went to NYSC, for no good reason.. Married one illiterate rich Nnewi business man.. It was really difficult for the guy to deal with, but he still moved on with his life later.. Now he has a Federal job, has two cool cars, happily married with 2 fine boys. So try and try and try to delete this fool of a girl from your mind and hussle your life on. Sometimes are just like that. Some life experiences' are really painful, but sometimes, they're programmed by invisible forces to either mar us or make us. May God console, strength and bless you. Amen Am also going through this ordeal you just narrated now, my babe left me just recently due to pressure to marry, have been with her for ages, asked her to wait for me a little while because I just started a business, wanted the business to grow a little before I can go and see her people for the marriage rites, I later have to back out from asking her to wait for me because her people started seeing me as a threat, sometimes I feel depressed and sad in me but I know life has to move on and what is yours will definitely be yours. Can't cry over spilled milk. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by AFONJACOW(m): 2:41pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
You and Sai Barbar who mumu pass  |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by ACE1010: 2:57pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
hoodedjaystrim:
Go and make money and stop wailing on Nairaland
She gave you uppercut though 
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| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 2:57pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
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Guy, work on yourself now |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by MissJoy29(f): 2:59pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
val4sure:
Am also going through this ordeal you just narrated now, my babe left me just recently due to pressure to marry, have been with her for ages, asked her to wait for me a little while because I just started a business, wanted the business to grow a little before I can go and see her people for the marriage rites, I later have to back out from asking her to wait for me because her people started seeing me as a threat, sometimes I feel depressed and sad in me but I know life has to move on and what is yours will definitely be yours.
Can't cry over spilled milk. Sorry! 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by ACE1010: 3:00pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Ntoooor!!! Next time fall in love with your sense and your eyes wild open!! Love is not blind!!! 
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| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by MissJoy29(f): 3:03pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
olasclef:
Don’t love because of beauty bro. You can make the lady that loves you beautiful. Be strong,work smart, be prayerful and be grateful to almighty GOD. Words on marble @bolded! |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by 2kurupt(m): 3:09pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
My broda count it all joy. A wise man once said "sufferings are lessons". I doubt if you've learnt your lessons though if you're still here asking how you'll forget about this leech & move on.
If you had spent just a fraction of what you've invested on this foolish girl on your parents am sure their prayers and blessings would have shielded you from this kind of blood suckers.
This is why you must set your priorities right in a relationship & forget about beauty that shall surely fade away.
Rather than lose hope, use her words as a challenge & prove her wrong.
@Kalashnikov382 |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Davico(m): 3:19pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.
I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.
After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.
She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.
After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).
This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.
She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed hi bro I just sent u a pm. Pls reply
asap with ur contact I will give you a call. If u are in Lagos and it environs I will drive down to see u and encourage u. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by bayocanny: 3:20pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
mhizdebbygold:
My sweetheart am a lady and I urge u for no reason what so ever to think about going back to her. if u did all that for her and she insulted u for being broke karma has a way of dealing with this type of girls leave her to God u deserve a better woman in ur life that wouldn't take ur current state as a leverage to insult u. It's not like u have never given her something u paid her fees, bought her phone twice spoiled her naughty with money and now she turned her back on u just because the flow is no more.. u should be happy u got to know her for who she truly is before u slip a ring to her finger...I don't want to hear after she abandoned u things later returned back to normal for u and she comes back begging u'll come here and start asking us if u should accept her you're on time sis, one cold origin for you 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Rhaspody(m): 3:21pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
My new year motivational quote = stay away from broke girls with expensive taste 2 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by mario2k(m): 3:28pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
My brother,you don't need woman in your life right now.Focus on God, serve God and you will see.
Finally strife to make heaven,if you continue with women(girlfriend) they will destroy you.You will only over come them with you serve God and live on the word of God. Honestly,you will be surprised at it. 3 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by HolyTitus(m): 3:31pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
How really sure are you that she hasn't been the one responsible for your financial ailment ?? My brother, just DON'T soil your hands in anything stupid just to prove her folly right - that you will surely regret for the rest of your life; you dig what i mean ? Sit down and think where you've been getting it wrong all this while; make this situation a viagra to improving your life positively. Whilst doing this, pray and fast too against every form of badluck and barrier that have been obstructing your greatness - don't visit any prophet nor spiritualist; you're your own prophet in this situation. Goodluck! |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 3:32pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
mhizdebbygold:
My sweetheart am a lady and I urge u for no reason what so ever to think about going back to her. if u did all that for her and she insulted u for being broke karma has a way of dealing with this type of girls leave her to God u deserve a better woman in ur life that wouldn't take ur current state as a leverage to insult u. It's not like u have never given her something u paid her fees, bought her phone twice spoiled her naughty with money and now she turned her back on u just because the flow is no more.. u should be happy u got to know her for who she truly is before u slip a ring to her finger...I don't want to hear after she abandoned u things later returned back to normal for u and she comes back begging u'll come here and start asking us if u should accept her Her actions cannot be justified for any reason, but you also need to know that God shows mercy unto anyone He decides to show mercy. If at the end of "the day" , she ends up doing well in life and becomes a better person, it doesn't mean that it's unfair, it simply reflects the fact that sometimes we just need something unpleasant to get us to our feet. Her downfall or the consequences of her actions shouldn't be the basis for his recovery, because if what's expected isn't what is yielded, then his success wouldn't be a success, to him. Her words however can be an efficient motor to his passion for success. All I'm saying in essence is, he should forgive her and also be thankful to her, if he eventually allows her words to fuel his passion for success and then succeeds, rather than plunging into discouragement and depression. Forgiveness is even the best form of revenge, think about it! Karma isn't real. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by bravesoul247(m): 3:37pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
1StopRudeness:
iPhone ....the breaker of relationships......
Shey Una don hear now.??...if u can't afford an iPhone don't date material driven ladies....they don't care...they don't love...they are not paitient...they want it fast, they want it now.......
The only thing they have to offer you, you can get it elsewhere, they are hoes, let that sink, hoooooooessss!!!!!!they are not different from those at Allen jnctions, it's the same give and take transaction. don't let the wig and make up fool u...it's the same prostitution...u even get to pay more
better still..try abstainance.....lack of sex no dey kill person ooooooooo...
Una go just they let worthless women make Una life miserable.....now this dude is frustrated...just because a lady that doesn't give a damn about u is fvcking other guys for material gain and still have the guts to insult ur life and parents..and u are sad....shouldn't u be happy she's gone??
guys Una dey fvck up...... best comment I've ever read on Nl |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by ogyunging(m): 4:31pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Broski, that's strong. She no get joy, you self shake bodi and move on. It's hard, over time she'll wash out of your system, now you have an idea of her true character. Not all that glitters is gold. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 4:33pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
babzlim:
TOO EVERYONE IN NAIRALAND.. STOP PAYING BILLS FOR GIRLS THAT DOESN'T HAVE ANY STEADY SOURCE OF INCOME... THEY DON'T VALUE OR APPRECIATE IT BECOS THEY HAVE KNOW IDEA HOW MONEY IS MADE...
ONLY GIVE THEM WHAT THEY NEED... WHICH IS T. P AND FOOD. TRUTH IS BITTER. So it's safe to say a guy should give money to a woman with a steady source of income ryt? Nice |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Meduzah(f): 4:34pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
I just don't get how some women can be so 'short sighted'. The irony of it is that most short sighted women are broke a$$ always begging without contributing financially to the relationship.
OP the truth is you're in a bad situation and you cannot get out of it unless you want to. All you have to do is use this as a source of motivation to get successful and show her that her claim isn't true.
I hope you find the strength to move on 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 4:35pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Davico:
hi bro I just sent u a pm. Pls reply
asap with ur contact I will give you a call. If u are in Lagos and it environs I will drive down to see u and encourage u. Hope you don't wanna introduce him into yahoo yahoo or ginger him to use the geh pant sha |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Meduzah(f): 4:35pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Davico:
hi bro I just sent u a pm. Pls reply
asap with ur contact I will give you a call. If u are in Lagos and it environs I will drive down to see u and encourage u. This is quite thoughtful |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by iphanyi10(m): 4:46pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Adeinfo:
Truth be told, you committed some blunders. Why must you pay her school fees, don't she have a guardian?
Is she and orphan?
Never you inconvenience yourself because you want to look good to others.
Moreover, if truly you rendered those help to her, count it as your loss and move on. Always guage people if they are worthy of your favour and when you help people, do it without a mind of expectations This your last statement is contradictory, If you only help people who are worthy, It means you are thinking deep down that this person will help you someday, that's in itself expectation. 1 Like |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 4:46pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Gofwane:
the guy na correct montol. I still find it hard to believe that guys like this op still exist. Imagine, selling his properties just to give a girl he's not married to the money - Not just any girl, but a naija girl You didn't see beautiful abi? Nigerian guys that fall sick and even get hospitalised because of beautiful girls. They'll give everything to show off with the girl. It's when they see average ones they'll have overload of sense. |
| Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Sarang(f): 4:57pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Divay22:
PROVE HER WRONG !
*Modified*
Don't make her words taunt you into doing bad things or using illegal means to make money.. Follow the right way. It might be long or short but trust you'll surely get there.
If possible, get a carbon paper write her name and her surname boldly E.G
Blessing okeke (Her name and surname)
I (write your name and surname)
Will prove you wrong.
And place it on the wall. (Her words are likely gonna cause a lot of damages to you, most especially if you are thinking about it and things seems to be going slow, even if not often but you will subconsciously)
Don't let anybody's version of your life make you feel that's how your life should be.. (it's your life, you owe it, you rule it and you decide)
You're are the Architect of your life!
And Hey
Good news is that, she'll come back
SHE KNOWS THE NOW BUT YOU DECIDE THE FUTURE
You rock! 1 Like 1 Share |
