TimiRume:
I don't know about giving money before or after marriage, but if you are a traditional woman as most African women are just make sure your man CAN provide for you and your unborn kids before you plunge into marriage. And how would you know he is up to the task if you don't use your discretion while dating. If he doesn't take care of you in courtship, he won't in marriage.


Learn from American women. They have toed this independent, strong woman path and have emasculated the men in their lives.

Men are very malleable. It doesn't take much to drive them to work hard, Just love them conditionally. It also does not take much to keep them lazy, just love them unconditionally.

Saffi:
Please speak for your mora fuckiing self. Thank you

I refuse to be in a relationship with a guy with sealed pockets.

truthsayer009:


No right thinking man would be happy with a woman who doesn't ever collect things from him, be it cash or gifts, be it cash or gifts. In fact, he will see it as a sign of unsubmissivess --- For the record though, this mentality only happens in Nigeria, with our entitled Nigeria men & I'm super sure of that Lmao with Proof. That is the sole reason why Women in other African countries like South Africa, Botswana etc love Nigerian men so much because they love to spend money on *their* women. This December, just go on vacation to East & South African countries for 3 weeks, you will be shocked. On the Contrary the Men in those countries hate Nigerian for the same reason, I'm sure you know why.

1. If he isn't trying to buy you over with money, treats and gifts, please be vulnerable enough to let him "care" --- Lol, Dem no dey tell Nigerian Women this one, na normal thing.

2. DO NOT have an entitlement mentality --- Lmao, Nigerian Men thrive on entitlement mentality, in short they swim in it like River Benue. This will never change until 4 generations.

Finally, the lady was clearly being sarcastic & nothing more, abeg no mind that Ignoramus talking about "prostitute".

hope4life:

Thank you for the last question. I'm always sad seeing how our girls have made sex cheap.The most precious gift God gave to you ladies is your body while making it cheap.No man will value you once he sees your nude before marriage.This is the reason for marriage crash landing these days.He may tell you no problem while still basking in the euphoria of infatuation but latter he will realise himself and begin to detest you while looking for fresh one.Pls I beg you in the name of Jesus,keep your body pure for the real man-d.one who will.be your husband.

AntiBrutus:


Is your mother a slave?
Or you want to tell me she has never depended on your father financially?

toplinetrtrend:


My mum never depended on my dad while they were dating and after they got married. She was gainfully employed, but now a retiree.

Is your mother a slave, a burden and a liability to your father? Is that why you think every other mother is a slave like your mother? Are you also taking after your liability mother?

EmpresFIDEL:
definitely, but sex is a no no

OgaBuhari:
if so then we match together. Let's hook hook up.
Can I copy the number on ur signature to communicate with u on whatsapp a d get to know u more?

EmpresFIDEL:
thanks, am in a relationship.

OgaBuhari:
I'm not asking you for a date.
So because you're not in a relationship you won't communicate with any male again bah?

hilario12:



This your post is true. My fiancee don't use to ask for money..intact she quarrel with me anytime I send her money willingly.
But she do buy me gift...like perfume, shoe...stuffs like that.
She always says she will only collect from me after our marriage. That she didn't know am gonna be rich when she accepted to b my girl in the first place. So even now that she knows I have she still keep reluctant. Now she wants us to get married and she appears to truly love me from my own judgement o.

My fear now is after marriage...I don't know how her demands will be

ivolt:

You don't have to give her money directly.
Buy her gifts instead but if she rejects your gift or ask you to stop, then you should think twice about moving
forward because gifting is about feelings not the gift itself.

Saffi:
Please speak for your mora fuckiing self. Thank you

I refuse to be in a relationship with a guy with sealed pockets.