James289:

I love him more than her . She is fat and ugly

Enjoy it while it lasts.

He will leave his wife...very soon.

James289:
I really love this man, far more than his wife, and I don’t know what to do. We’ve worked together in the same office for about three years and he started sleeping with me last year . He’s my manager and married so we had to keep things quiet but he’d come round to mine after work to watch TV and stuff and we’d hang out most weekends because his wife works Saturdays in retail.
He said his marriage is dead but he wants to stay with Her because for the children sake and he wants to do the right thing, I’ve never been the other woman before and I feel like he’s just using me for sex because he’s bored of his wife.

Its really horrible when she comes to office events with him because I have to stand there like nothing has happened. I told him after the Christmas party that I couldn’t deal with it but he said he couldn’t help that he needed both of us, and he wasn’t going to leave her.
I told him I didn’t want to sleep with him anymore but he bought me a car and I took him back because I didn't like being without him
I am really jealous and I don’t know what to do. He clearly doesn’t love her but I don’t know if he loves me either. I don’t even dislike her I just want him; the whole situation is unfair. What do I do to get him to leave her?

You are a pretty lady, and a smart one at that, why struggling with someone else's property? are there no single guys in your office or neighborhood?, why this man?

You aren't getting any younger, once he is done with you, he'd move on with another young lady, forget the flashy things you do get from him, he is just trying to trap you down. Get a man, settle down and build your own family.

Efewestern:


You are a pretty lady, and a smart one at that, why struggling with someone else's property? are there no single guys in your office or neighborhood?, why this man?

You aren't getting any younger, once he is done with you, he'd move on with another young lady, forget the flashy things you do get from him, he is just trying to trap you down. Get a man, settle down and build your own family.

You even get time to dey advice your fellow MAN.

JasonScoolari:
You even get time to dey advice your fellow MAN.

Lol, a troll u guess, didn't notice it on time.

But many single ladies are in similar situations, them mumu die, but no lele, men must shop, na the matter.

Efewestern:


Lol, a troll u guess, didn't notice it on time.

But many single ladies are in similar situations, them mumu die, but no lele, men must shop, na the matter.

Wetin concern Aeroplane with side mirror? We go dey knack dey go.

You are so dumb! Can you see that it's very obvious that he is using you as a sex machine. What is good for you is to end the so relationship and get married, before it will be too late for you.

Don't you guyz think that this is a fabricated story?

James289:
I really want to tell his wife what he has been doing then maybe it would make her leave him so I can have him for myself

hahahahaha kikikiki what a thinking. This is where you girls get it wrong. He will never leave his wife and his wife will never leave him. You cannot destroy their marriage. It will only make them stronger. Don’t be a fool pls. Get your head together.

Train him to break her heart by leaving her. Someday, expect him to use his experience on you...QED!

Believe this bullchit story, you'll believe anything.

egojeny1:
Don't you guyz think that this is a fabricated story?

I'm surprised people are taking it serious.

This one is just a mad troll.

Bae
He is just guiding u
Wasting ur time and tearing ur life for ur real man.
I have 2 advice for u
1. Leave him as soon as u can
2. Follow my first advice

If he eventually leaves his wife and marry u...he will do the same for you.
If am wrong please I need to be corrected

I know this story is total hogwash by a troll, but stuff like this really happens. There are lots of side chicks that believe if they hang in there, the man will leave his wife for them. The men always claim they're in miserable marriages that could crash soon. One carried out series of abortion for a married man because he told her he's tired of his wife and would soon throw her out and bring her in. It did her like film trick when she found out that he has relocated to Canada with his entire family including the wife he claims he hates.

A man that wants to keep a mistress needs to tell her where she stands. Stop giving her false hopes that she will soon be the new madam because your wife is awful and your marriage is at the verge of crashing. As for the side chick, it's only a lucky few that eventually gets the ring. Most of them would have become saggy, wrinkly, murderers of countless unborn children before they find out that they were only wasting their time with a sweet talker.

If you think you loved him so much and you can't let go, come out open to him to make you his second wife

If he agrees fine that shows that he needs you but if he objects to it, let him go.

You can't get another man unless you drop him

But if you think he us the only one on earth and after him nothing else, become pregnant and have a child for him

In life, we have different ways of getting happiness, it's your choice to choose yours

Just be ready to defend the outcome of any decision taken by you

Ishilove:

I'm surprised people are taking it serious.

Seriously, i just dont get it.. 95% of people here believe this crappy story. I weak.