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Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by joegigs(m): 12:48pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Quinolone thanks.i will do just that 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by joegigs(m): 12:52pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
COOL10:Lol she has a nice heart.and can take a decision and stand by it.her ego wouldn't let her say she is sorry but can show it |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Kodext(m): 1:01pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
joegigs:I can smell Marriage |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Quinolone(m): 1:20pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
MUSACALLY: Ah You've even mastered the tricky part congrats taking things to the next level is extremely easy 1 The aim in any seductive process is to get her talking, and I mean talking, whether you take her out or not is immaterial,( do not think because you took her out she would like you, no, she would like you because of how you make her feel ). the main thing is for you not to confess any feelings whatsoever. Talk about the things she's interested in, be genuinely interested in what she's saying and ask questions which would make her open up more Its easier if you are genuinely interested because you ask thought full questions and she knows What's the aim of getting her to talk We feel a bond with people who genuinely listen to us, even us men, the more she reveals about herself, the more she falls for you, in her mind she would say that If you guys didnt have a connection, she won't have told you all this,not knowing that she only said all these because someone was genuinely interested. Trust me, most guys don't know how to listen, they would interrupt to say a half baked joke or talk about themselves. See in the beginning, unless she already finds you attractive she doesn't care about you. So resist the temptation to talk about yourself extensively, if she asks keep it short and sweet then divert back to her, you can occasionally throw in a thing or two about yourself so the convo doesnt seem like an interrogation 2: Very soon you'd realize that she tells you everything that happens in her life, you own her at this point but you still have to be careful not to mistep, because you would enter The friendzone. This is the point where you begin to man sexual remarks, make sexual jokes, talk about her body, how sexy it is, her sexy lips. begin to call her 'my baby' e.t c. Make this light hearted and not serious, you are planting seeds in her mind, and these seeds will grow, she will be very receptive to these sexual statements at this point 3: begin to ignore her, now that shes already addicted to you, you can stop chatting her up often, and trust me, she will be the one to chat you up most of the time. Mix periods where you give her so much attention to when you can't even give her time of the day, now she is working for your attention 4: She's Ripe for the picking when a: She's very interested In your life, remember you've been a mystery up until this point, now she wants to know because she's fallen b: shes angry or jealous cos you don't give her as much attention as before c: She begins to ask about your love life quinolone 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Mekanus(m): 1:50pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
This thread is another version of Harddon's "dating drills for guy's only" 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Kodext(m): 3:55pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Quinolone How do you go about girls that their looks are astonishing and you probably can't make a move towards her because guys r most likely to be around her and she likes their company too. another reason one can't make d move is that one probably may not know how many boyfriends she may have that's lol that's if she doesn't have just one. |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by afonjabreed(m): 3:55pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Quinolone:I have a question I met a girl months back, we exchanged contacts and we starting chatting often, I confessed my feelings to her but she turned me down, haven given me excuses that weren't up to par, I decided to give up the chase.... We met often, but when we meet I act as if nothing ever happened, now she's getting all touchy with me,teasing, staring at me and all sh*t, what should I do? |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Quinolone(m): 4:29pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
afonjabreed: Very very good decision you made. I'm sure deep down you knew that this girl just wanted to mess with you The moment you confessed your feelings, all the tension dissipated, Initially she wasn't sure, but you then comfirmed it for her, the truth is that she wasn't attracted to you enough, if not she would have jumped at the opportunity. If she doesn't show those signs I mention in my previous post, the signs of addiction to you, then she is not yet ready Now she is teasing you lmao, she wants to get your attention back, to know if you still like her, act aloof, indifferent, start talking about other girls in front of her, look at other girls walking around, show her that she doesn't have you anymore If she goes out of her way to ask you if you still like her, ask her why she cares, don't say no or yes, keep her guessing Never show any emotions of anger or anything, just be polite and sweet, it will confuse the hell outta her I'm telling you if you do these things right, she will begin to work for your attention which she has lost when she rejected you, when youve seen that she has worked hard enough, start rewarding her with little attention her and there, start using indirect game 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by afonjabreed(m): 4:58pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Quinolone:I need your advice is it a good idea to get NY ex gf back? If yes how can I go about it? |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by MUSACALLY(m): 5:49pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
[quote author=Quinolone post=76279714] Ah You've even mastered the tricky part congrats taking things to the next level is extremely easy 1 The aim in any seductive process is to get her talking, and I mean talking, whether you take her out or not is immaterial,( do not think because you took her out she would like you, no, she would like you because of how you make her feel ). the main thing is for you not to confess any feelings whatsoever. Talk about the things she's interested in, be genuinely interested in what she's saying and ask questions which would make her open up more Its easier if you are genuinely interested because you ask thought full questions and she knows What's the aim of getting her to talk We feel a bond with people who genuinely listen to us, even us men, the more she reveals about herself, the more she falls for you, in her mind she would say that If you guys didnt have a connection, she won't have told you all this,not knowing that she only said all these because someone was genuinely interested. Trust me, most guys don't know how to listen, they would interrupt to say a half baked joke or talk about themselves. See in the beginning, unless she already finds you attractive she doesn't care about you. So resist the temptation to talk about yourself extensively, if she asks keep it short and sweet then divert back to her, you can occasionally throw in a thing or two about yourself so the convo doesnt seem like an interrogation 2: Very soon you'd realize that she tells you everything that happens in her life, you own her at this point but you still have to be careful not to mistep, because you would enter The friendzone. This is the point where you begin to man sexual remarks, make sexual jokes, talk about her body, how sexy it is, her sexy lips. begin to call her 'my baby' e.t c. Make this light hearted and not serious, you are planting seeds in her mind, and these seeds will grow, she will be very receptive to these sexual statements at this point 3: begin to ignore her, now that shes already addicted to you, you can stop chatting her up often, and trust me, she will be the one to chat you up most of the time. Mix periods where you give her so much attention to when you can't even give her time of the day, now she is working for your attention 4: She's Ripe for the picking when a: She's very interested In your life, remember you've been a mystery up until this point, now she wants to know because she's fallen b: shes angry or jealous cos you don't give her as much attention as before c: She begins to ask about your love life Thanks bro. U are a champion |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Kodext(m): 6:12pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
Quin guy answer my question now... |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by m6tem: 8:53am On Mar 03, 2019 |
Quinolone I'm feeling this thread keep it coming. I have an issue and I need your advice on it, can we discuss privately. 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Quinolone(m): 12:26pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
Kodext: Oh sorry about the late reply, I was a little under the weather Okay so concerning your question, you need to realize something. These techniques work even more on attractive girls. - Lemme tell you something about attractive girls, they always have a couple of guys flocking around her, (any girl that doesn't have guys chasing after her to me isn't even worth gaming, she needs to be very attractive) and most of these guys don't even have the confidence to game her, also even if they did have the confidence, most don't use the proper techniques, and end up I'm the dreaded friend zone But when a guy comes around, armed with confidence and the right techniques, she will have no choice but to fall for you, have you heard the phrase 'attraction isn't a choice' - You need to also stop treating attractive girls like they are some sort of alien, they are just like everyone else, they eat, sleep, shite, burb, do everything you do, they are only just attractive - Whether she has 5 or 6 boyfriends is immaterial, she can be stolen and will only answer to you when you get her addicted to you quinolone 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Quinolone(m): 12:28pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
m6tem: Thanks, I just replied your email |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Kodext(m): 12:45pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
Quinolone: Great... Thanks |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by worriedguy(m): 7:02pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
OK let me drop my own here..... I have this girl in my class we have been good friends since year one... I have asked her out a couple of times but she keeps telling me no... The last time she did was early January this year.. She told me she doesn't want any relationship with anyone and if I can't be her friend I can go. Since then I haven't called her and I have been off social media since then so we don't chat... But last month.. That's February she called me and talked normal and acted as if nothing happened before. Now I miss her ND I feel like calling her but I feel what should I continue to close to her when she have rejected me multiple times.. What should I do now? |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by mawaki: 7:18pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
Quinolone:Bros I have problem approaching a lady when she's with her friends. Some times they might be walking and some times sitting and jisting..How can I go about it in both the two instances. Second question is I lose confidence and become shy of approaching a lady even when she's alone if other people I know are close by.How do I tackle this? |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by psalmsmiles(m): 12:03am On Mar 04, 2019 |
Quinolone nice work. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Quinolone(m): 11:16pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
worriedguy: she called you because she misses your attention, its good that you didn't call her since then, showing that you aren't needy What you should do is ( warning this is absolutely immoral ) 1 Also act as if nothing happened before, call her, treat her like a friend, not someone that rejected you before 2 Meet with her, do not, i repeat do not tell her that you still have feelings for her, just talk to her like an old friend, let the rapport build up again, but this time, let her feel that you have moved even if you haven't. talk about other girls causally in front of her, dont act like you are trying to make her jealous, act totally normal, or it won't work. 3 Mess with her self esteem, you might casually tell her that she got darker or she gained weight, again not like you want to make her feel bad, just casually and change the topic, look her other girls while you guys are together, let her know she has to work for your attention this time. 4 Remember how i told you guys to mix pleasure with pain, now alternate what i said above with full interest in the girl, look into her eyes when she's talking like shes the only person in the world, validate her emotions, laugh at her jokes,be generally nice to her 5 She will be confused as hell, she won't be sure where your emotions are anymore, this is the emotional state you want her to be in. she will try to make you admit your emotions, but deflect it by asking why she cares, never a direct answer, do not agree or disagree, if she teases you, never mind, she just wants to manipulate you into reaffirming your affection to her, and once you do , she will loose interest again 6 use indirect game to get her addicted to you, get her comfortable telling you everything about herself, i'm telling you, its a like a drug, once they start, they can't stop, and if you give her attention and then subsequently take it back, she will miss you thoroughly. it is in your absence that she falls in love with you when she starts showing signs that she likes you, go in for the kiss, no need of asking anybody out, i have never asked a girl out, i just kiss them and see what happens, asking them out confirms your emotions for her and unless she really really likes you, she will turn you down because women don't know what they want. Kiss her and she will reciprocate quinolone |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Quinolone(m): 11:25pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
mawaki: let me tell you something about this life, you only have one, and one alone, would you want to live it having unnecessary fears?. There are two types of fears, Logical fears and Illogical fear. Logical fears are -fear of snakes, fear of getting an accident, fear of drowing. These fears are logical because these situations might lead to loss of your life however illogical fears don't lead to loss of life or anything in general. for example - fear of rejection, fear of embarassment. Imagine yourself being the most confident you can ever be, yes, its attainable, all you have to believe its possible and it will be. Do you think the confident guys you see around have anything special? No, they just have a believe that they are confident and in turn they are Stop fearing rejection, most times when a girl rejects you on approach, its not even about you, she might be in a bad mood, might be shy, you might not be her taste and its very fine, everyone can't be everyone's taste, get rid of your big ego, stop letting outward events affect your emotions and lastly, wouldn't you want to look back at your life when you are older and be glad that you took all the chances you were given, its better to try and fail than not try at all, one gives you experience, the other gives you nothing quinolone 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Quinolone(m): 11:28pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
psalmsmiles: the question i need you to answer is , how did you mess up specifically, lets start with fixing that |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by kecee99(m): 12:18am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Pls i need powerful ebooks on getting women |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Anagha123: 1:22am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Quinolone: Please I have a problem, there is this neighbor of mine that like me. I ask her out and she told me she has a boyfriend. A week later I travel out for work and for like three months I have not communicated with her. Now am going back. This lady is very beautiful and curvy and guys in our neighborhood are dying to date her. Please my question is how can I have sex with her? That was my interest from the beginning. I only ask her out thinking it was the easiest route to Sex. |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by COOL10(m): 3:27am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Anagha123:. Number one MAJOR mistake most guys make. Thinking asking a lady out or being nice and kind to her will automatically make her want to have sex with them . The only thing this will do,is turn you into her personal ATM while she keeps giving you blue balls anytime you ask for sex 1 Like |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Quinolone(m): 6:27am On Mar 05, 2019 |
One Big Secret - Emotional unreactivity[color=#000099][/color] Let me tell you about something I learned during my journey to understanding women and life in general, and that's how to be emotionally unreactive Emotionality unreactive? yes, you heard me right. This is when nothing fazes you, when you don't negatively to react emotionally to stressful situations Now let's apply that to women Women will always test you from the beginning of your encounter till the end, they are wired to. Whether its a rude comment about you m, or throwing a tantrum. What makes you very attractive and I mean insanely attractive is when you remain unreactive. She's a woman, she's testing your confidence and your ability to be in control, and she does it subconsciously most of the time. In her mind she won't be able to read or predict you when you are immune to her antics How to remain unreactive 1- Don't get drawn into her drama 2- Do not ever get angry or emotional if she trys to make fun of your appearance or something about you. Treat it like a Joke, you might even amplify it. Or totally ignore her by looking into her eyes like you couldn't even care less about what she's talking about at that moment, showng her that you don't talk trash with her. Then continue your pleasant Convo like nothing even happened 3- Learn how to keep your emotions in check - This is very crucial. And with practice can be learned I hope you can incorporate this into your normal behavior, you would definitely see the difference in your dating life quinolone 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Quinolone(m): 6:37am On Mar 05, 2019 |
kecee99: Emotional intelligence - Daniel Goleman Social intelligence - Daniel Goleman Art of seduction - Robert Greene 48 laws of power - Robert Greene Art of manipulation - Rb Sparkman Think fast and slow - David khaneman 11 laws likability - Michelle lederman The charisma myth - Olivia fox cabane This is to name a few, read these thoroughly and practice , and you'd begin to have a deep understanding of psychology quinolone |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by nestic(m): 10:52am On Mar 05, 2019 |
Quinolone:uhmm firstly thanks for ur reply. back to the topic. I've known her for a while now, it started last year june, when i first asked her out and she said no, and there's this thing about when u keep asking a girl out she might change her mind, so i heard. Anyway i kept asking out and she kept saying no until i go tired and i stop every contact with her for like 3 months.. Then Last month i sent her a text and we started talking then i asked her out a again, now she didnt say no buh now she told me to give her reasons to date or luv me, that i shouldnt be too pushy and i should give her time, i'm confuse cus i dont even know what to do or how to go about it |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by KAGMEN11(m): 11:26am On Mar 05, 2019 |
COOL10: PLS can you throw more light on the above quote ☝@cool10 and Quinolone |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by COOL10(m): 12:34pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
KAGMEN11:. Alright. Lots of times,we guys tend to think that being nice to a lady,buying her gifts,sending her money,always agreeing with what she says no matter how irrational,etc will make her love us and want to sleep with us. That's a feminine social convention that's been embedded into our psyches right from when we were boys. Our mothers started this. You'd hear things like: Never hit a girl,always stand up for her to sit,treat her like a princess,etc. If we didn't do these things,we were either cautioned by our pussified dads or shamed by our controlling moms(and we both know how boys hate making their moms angry). In order to keep mommy happy and get such remarks as 'good boy' or 'my little boy is such a gentleman',we continued doing these things and as we grew,they became a part of us. The downside to this is becoming someone who's too expectant. He gives to receive. He buys her gifts so she could kiss him some more. He takes her out to prove he's romantic. Little does he know that women don't want these things. They might say they do,but their actions speak otherwise. It's in a woman's nature to interpret a man's kindness as weakness. Something to exploit. That's why she'll keep extorting money from the sexless Nice Guy while she's fucccking that broke but manly jerk who knows how to press all her buttons. I hope you understand now 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by mawaki: 1:41pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Quinolone:Thanks alot |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Nimexy(m): 1:53pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
Quinolone:baba NLA .. Nice tips |
Re: How To Get Any Woman You Want by Anagha123: 5:26pm On Mar 05, 2019 |
COOL10:So what is the solution at COOL10. I really need advice on what to do. Quinolone |
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