adanny01:
My story.

Just secondary after school waiting for admission, there was this sweet girl living with a family in the same quarters. We were good friends until i developed feelings for her. I had very little courage but mustered it to approach her. After jisting one night, she was walking me down the street, i began my pre-planned moves trying to be more than friends. The girl cut me short with a wave of hand to my face saying, "hold it there, are you toasting me. You are disrespecting me. We are age mates and i cant go out with you. I date only people who are older and matured not boys like you." She said a couple of things that stoned me. I said sorry, tried to do damage control and later bade her goodnight.

I never spoke to her about it again even though we remained very close friends. Infact our friendship grew stronger after i made that attempt. I was shocked one day she gave me water in her house with all the respectful gestures she would her own father. I was shocked or confused to see her change of behaviour. I swore i wasnt gonna attempt again so i wont be humiliated.

To cut the long story short, i later asked another girl out and she agreed same day (my wife today). The other girl wasnt happy with me and our friendship suffered. About 10 years later, we met, she told me how she just played hard to get and i abandoned her. That she was so in love with me but i misread the signs. I just told her it was destiny.

Adasun:
nothing special.




maybe u have an ugly face,dats why u hid it.

sharpwriter:


Hahahahaha ....abeg come finish yur story ... did you not see her again ; the following semester and years or yu wanna tell us yu both never spoke again till yu passed out? What became of her eventually before leaving school?

henriettttta:


Thanks

kay29000:


That's true. So, what happens to shy beta guys? I guess they become poets and writers, and then get girls in the end.

konkonbilo:
maybe your smile is magnetic that's why

HungerMustGo:
The thread confirms what I know already.

Men are so psychologically messed up big time.

Annoying thing is that many of them never learn. And many of them morons are on nairaland always disturbing ladies that didn't beg for their attention.

adanny01:
My story.

Just secondary after school waiting for admission, there was this sweet girl living with a family in the same quarters. We were good friends until i developed feelings for her. I had very little courage but mustered it to approach her. After jisting one night, she was walking me down the street, i began my pre-planned moves trying to be more than friends. The girl cut me short with a wave of hand to my face saying, "hold it there, are you toasting me. You are disrespecting me. We are age mates and i cant go out with you. I date only people who are older and matured not boys like you." She said a couple of things that stoned me. I said sorry, tried to do damage control and later bade her goodnight.

I never spoke to her about it again even though we remained very close friends. Infact our friendship grew stronger after i made that attempt. I was shocked one day she gave me water in her house with all the respectful gestures she would her own father. I was shocked or confused to see her change of behaviour. I swore i wasnt gonna attempt again so i wont be humiliated.

To cut the long story short, i later asked another girl out and she agreed same day (my wife today). The other girl wasnt happy with me and our friendship suffered. About 10 years later, we met, she told me how she just played hard to get and i abandoned her. That she was so in love with me but i misread the signs. I just told her it was destiny.

kollinzgee:
all these guys crying here about greenlight if you read bang rule you will understand women better infact you will beat them in their own game ...happy sunday am going to church.

ceeroh:
Countless green lights... But my pride and ego won't let me. There's nothing more disappointing than a girl giving you green light and then you approach only to find out she never even thought of you in that way. Your self esteem gets smashed against the wall and the girl would feel you can be easily manipulated.

God help you if a girl gives you the green light and you play along hoping to win her heart someday. She go too use you ehnn, sotey no single oil would be left on your skin.

And if she wants to finish you, make she dey reply your chats with... OK baby, Thanks dear, Hey boo, Alright dear...

As we speak, another one is giving me green light. She won't let me rest on WhatsApp, sotey I disable my 'last seen'. Once you open your mouth to ask them out, shakara don start be dat.

Budline:


Baba, a typical Nigerian girl case is different. Bang rule fit no work here o. When they dull it, just move to the next one, that's what works. Don't be too attached to a Naija girl wey never gree for you. You got to do like a player until you get that special one or else they no send you o.

ceeroh:
And if she wants to finish you, make she dey reply your chats with... OK baby, Thanks dear, Hey boo, Alright dear...

obeycian:

I am having the same issue right now.. I dunno even know how to convince her to agree to my terms after 7years of intimate friendship,as some point, we dated for some months but we weren't serious about it. Now, I want us to continue from where we stopped but she keeps friendzoning me, can you imagine a lady telling you I love you so much as a friend, my escapades with her hasn't been uplighting..

kollinzgee:
all these guys crying here about greenlight if you read bang rule you will understand women better infact you will beat them in their own game ...happy sunday am going to church.

damoceile:


I'd mistake this right here for green lights a lot... There is diswan that do call me my "My Love" sef

ceeroh:


Lol.. Don't mind her oo.. She just needs attention and looking for someone to manipulate. But I must confess, it's not easy standing your ground with all these green lights.

ceeroh:


Boss, don't stress yourself. We all have gone through similar situations. Best thing is to cut her off completely. The 'green light' is just to manipulate you to do her bidding. Look for someone else and please don't waste time in letting your intentions known. 7years!! Ah! Bros, you try.

adanny01:
My story.

Just secondary after school waiting for admission, there was this sweet girl living with a family in the same quarters. We were good friends until i developed feelings for her. I had very little courage but mustered it to approach her. After jisting one night, she was walking me down the street, i began my pre-planned moves trying to be more than friends. The girl cut me short with a wave of hand to my face saying, "hold it there, are you toasting me. You are disrespecting me. We are age mates and i cant go out with you. I date only people who are older and matured not boys like you." She said a couple of things that stoned me. I said sorry, tried to do damage control and later bade her goodnight.

I never spoke to her about it again even though we remained very close friends. Infact our friendship grew stronger after i made that attempt. I was shocked one day she gave me water in her house with all the respectful gestures she would her own father. I was shocked or confused to see her change of behaviour. I swore i wasnt gonna attempt again so i wont be humiliated.

To cut the long story short, i later asked another girl out and she agreed same day (my wife today). The other girl wasnt happy with me and our friendship suffered. About 10 years later, we met, she told me how she just played hard to get and i abandoned her. That she was so in love with me but i misread the signs. I just told her it was destiny.

Uglymind:
That is why prostitutes are reliable
Love will ruin you

kollinzgee:
all these guys crying here about greenlight if you read bang rule you will understand women better infact you will beat them in their own game ...happy sunday am going to church.

Gaspardd:
This event happend 2011 in my undergrad days.
Was in thesame faculty with this girl, she was very cute and somehow our eyes used to meet whenever we were in class. This happened repeatedly that i was convinced that yea she was the one for me(virgins lol ).

Whenever i come back from lectures i used to jist my frieds about this girl that used to stare at me, they would cheer me up, and i would respond with pride.
I decided to step things up by trying to catch the time she would come in for lectures and sit beside her. It was tough but one time i was lucky, even lent her my pen and left it with her afterwards. All this while in my mind, i don see gf, but i never spoke a word to her but damn i thought we had this nonverbal friendship thing going on and i would always daydream about how i will write her love poems, surprise her with gifts(got this from laws of seduction).

At the last lecture of the semester i decided to be brave for once in my lifetime by introducin myself to her and stuff but on tapping her on the shoulder after class, her response was harsh, like i wanted to steal from her or sth. She walked off hurriedly and i ran towards her tryin to remind her we re classmates and that i even lent her my pen once. She said that was actually the first time she would be seeing me in her whole entire life. I was speechless. At the end she hailed down a bike and climbed.
That day i actually lost hope in myself and humanity and i wanted to leave this planet.

henriettttta:



Shut up
See this frustrated goat
Because you go carry oyibo picture put am for your profile you think say naso you really be
Oga put your real picture make we see am if you no go ugly pass oshiomole
Benue cow

queencalipso:
Men do mistake my smile for green light, so annoying..

henriettttta:



Shut up
See this frustrated goat
Because you go carry oyibo picture put am for your profile you think say naso you really be
Oga put your real picture make we see am if you no go ugly pass oshiomole
Benue cow

henriettttta:



Shut up
See this frustrated goat
Because you go carry oyibo picture put am for your profile you think say naso you really be
Oga put your real picture make we see am if you no go ugly pass oshiomole
Benue cow