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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Foodforthought: 11:33pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:The best comment on this thread. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by okwabayi(m): 11:34pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Life got sweet for me when I realized ‘girls are like buses, one gone next fifteen another coming’. OP, reject him. In the next six to ten years you’ll come across him again, possessing confidence which comes from aging and achieving real goals in life. By that time you’ll lack the confidence to approach him. You’ll start flashing his line from time to time if you still have it, hoping he’ll give you the time of the day. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by jaxxy(m): 11:35pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
seekingop: Haha how did u arrive at he lacks confidence exactly is what I like to know, in what way? Sm guys start of slow bt know exactly what they are doing. Sm start of fast bt end up being jerks. If he sure he lacks confidence which i kinda doubt it cud be for various reasons, like how he met u or his perception of u. Whatever u do don’t tell him directly bt rather indirectly or in a subtle way he shud get ur point. I’ve had such experience and I chose to played it soft cos she’s been hurt b4 in her past relationship, only for her to say I’m too soft when other gals I’ve been with say I’m bad, cool or overconfident. So I told her Naah she’s very wrong I’m a badas$ she now says so Im pretending... lol thats just gals for u. 3 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by apelike1: 11:35pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Charmingrascal:let her go and follow the one that will beat black and blue out of her and the next day sweet talk her! Black women are officially dumb so I don't really blame them 5 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by aywhy93(m): 11:37pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: I really don't know what women want. Tell me! I'm interested in knowing. I'm just like this guy, the same way I lose myself when interacting with you. Your love don dey scatter my head tey tey but I just dey low-key. 3 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Kobicove(m): 11:37pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Charmingrascal(m): 11:38pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
apelike1: Don't mind her, let her even define confidence. Yeye rolling 2 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Tolubory(m): 11:38pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
[quote author=Davash222 post=76314021]A round of sex from you will boost his confidence level. Thank me later .[/quote Are you Sure! Person we no Get Confidence, E go dey Fear to Shoot Nah!!!!! |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by artworks1: 11:39pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by benson1411: 11:39pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Davash222:Lol.... |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Heineken(m): 11:39pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Rubbiish:lol rubbish |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by kollinzgee(m): 11:41pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: so even you too like confident men wooow .remind me of dan bacon (google him) american pickup artise .he always talking about confidence that it is what women majorly want in a man.ubunja is right. now truth don surface.... 4 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Turn him down base on who you be. He is not your type... basic! Wait... Is it what l'm thinking... That you are smarter than him or... That you think he should be smarter has a man or... That his intelligence level doesn't impress u much or... That you are comparing him with someone or... Don't mind me Never take external advice when it comes to matters of the heart; not even from a pope. Be in charge of your life. 11 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by apelike1: 11:41pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Charmingrascal:who no know her type! She use confidence and boring to cover up! The guy no get money so she won bailout As you see women so na where paper dey na him nyash dey follow! 8 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by jeff1607(m): 11:43pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: you should have allowed her learn the hard way my money is on her leaving the guy for another who would take her for granted. most ladies would always prefer irresponsible guys that brother deserves someone better not someone seeking the opinion of a public forum for a life long commitment 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by kollinzgee(m): 11:44pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
apelike1: so confident guys are women beaters see your reasoning shioor... |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
kollinzgee:Well, no matter your personality, there's always someone for you. Just know that. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Cue4rm: 11:44pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: I swear yu don madt finish I go like invite yu for my house this weekend, how see am? I won't do all those things you posted up there, I'm a shy guy 5 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by apelike1: 11:46pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
kollinzgee:were did I write confident guys are women beater? Is like your brain is paining you! 1 Like
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Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Charmingrascal(m): 11:46pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
apelike1: Lmao |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by rawpadgin(m): 11:46pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:this na old haina 2 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Eatmyshit: 11:48pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Olosho shut up. Just say he dosnt have money So u are thinking twice 3 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by XTHRONE(m): 11:49pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
edicied: I dey tell u, the guy too much 2 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by jaxxy(m): 11:50pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
seekingop: In response to what u quoted there. Pls note u don’t have to sleep with a guy or go naked to make him confident. That’s Rubbish! Simple flirting games shud do the trick. If he’s shy that shud bring him out of his shell unless maybe he’s a total introvert, u can figure that out. Its important to be compatible to sm extent, u don’t have to be thesame bt u must compliment each other well, so work on it and see if it works. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by benson1411: 11:51pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
seekingop:Carry your issue comot for here jare...naso tonto dike start...we are still mourning how we gonna cope for the next four years ,you are here talking about a boy that has his fiance somewhere in Maiduguri and doesn't give a Bleep about u...continue ...now that bubu has said the 16years PDP spent would still affect him,you are here talking about one man that has not even known who Yusuf is...take time o 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by King44(m): 11:51pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
what I realized as a guy is that we guys tends to develop cold feet when approaching the girl we feelings for or think is out of our league like the other lady said except if you such guy doesn't see anything special about u or if such guy is one of those guys who changes girls like wrapper cos a lot is on queue only then confidence is guaranteed |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by clemmonce(m): 11:54pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
seekingop:well well well .... Confidence is the beauty women see in men, that's why many not too good looking men sometimes end up dating pretty ladies. I understand you 100%. Here is the jeck. Did he lose confidence when he started wooing you ? Or has his lack of confidence been there before now. Because you said you guys have been friends for a while. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by godfrey01(m): 11:55pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Lalas247: Please explain how does having beards relates to a man confidence? And if he does not have beards what is she suppose to do.... 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by Elliot2(m): 11:58pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
seekingop:pls give him d cookie. There is no moral booster like a cookie well eaten. It boosts a nigga up: makes him able to speak all the languages at d tower of babel;gives him romantic words of Solomon; makes him brave as david;and also stupid in luv as samson. Just give him that cookie and testify its wonders. 2 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by ngadaAwo: 11:58pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
seekingop:I want to have sex with you 2 Likes |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by ubunja(m): 12:00am On Mar 05, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:manipulation really is in women's DNA isn't it How many men have been fed that lie? That's like telling a man BE YOURSELF and she'll like you GUYS THIS IS 2019, DONT BELIEVE THIS SEWAGE Too many men die lonely holding on to such BS as this. 1 Like |
Re: He Lacks Confidence: Is This Enough Reason To Turn Him Down? by kollinzgee(m): 12:00am On Mar 05, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti: i agree with you but a less confident man will always have a really hard time finding love,because women instinctively love confident men . when a woman is approached by a super confident man they be like woow this is tough man. if he can be this bold and courageous talking to me then he can handle life challenges easily he is sexy though they will test him by acting uninterested in him but if he keeps pushing wisely with a lot of humour they will break their walls for him . alphamales rule for life****peace**-** 2 Likes |
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