lefulefu:
na d first time be dis wey i dey notice ur headlamps. Na really asset i must say.see as dem set. My friend Randy91 no dey joke with watermelons dat year.

lefulefu:
work ke..wich work? Guy if u interact with the woman u go know say d man dey really try.

wetdick:


they are hard to come by nowadays, do you know how many men have treated their gf or wives with love and care, even boost up her self esteem, at the end of the day, she still cheated on them

wetdick:


i pity for the man, that man self esteem don die already, women take advantage of nice guys in marriages and relationships

i always tell guys if you are older marry young girls 18-25 girls, do background check on her and groom her to the woman you want, leave those ladies from 26 upward to divorcees and men that are older, believe me you do not want problem or leftover baggages.

UyiIredia:


Chai! Well, I hope the man is enjoying his marriage. That's all I can say.

lefulefu:
Afterall good nigerian girls dey yankee.

lefulefu:
he's a young pastor.he has a very strong shock absorber.

lefulefu:
all these ones u guys are saying ladies born and bred in nigeria are traditional my guy its not all dat are traditional. My neighbour here his wife is a born and bred bini lady. She does not cook or do any domestic stuff.its her husband who does the domestic stuff and they have a 12 yr old boy that helps the man. The lady no dey enter market as well. Some nigerian guys overseas who have never stepped their foot into africa and nigeria always have this fantasy dreams about african women. African ladies don wise up. Go to some naija homes and u will see dat na man dey cook inside d kitchen in some homes while d woman dey sitting or go dey polish her nails for balcony.

DanDeeBoss:
Just as Lefulefu said, Please Op don't make the mistake of coming back to naija to get a wife..... It'll be good you find a lady over there.... There are exceptions though

WhySoShy:

True, lefulefe. Us good ones exist. Some of us are just looking to be found.

victorian:









Lefulefu , why e be say na always bad marriages u dey always see around your area ?

Oh I forgot ? Na Benin u dey? Sorry jare my mistake

lefulefu:
very low exceptions. Tell me how many genuine ladies u go fit see for a wife if dem code say u are based overseas. Ehn in dis tough buhari environment were dollar and euro is viewed as gold

victorian:









Lefulefu , why e be say na always bad marriages u dey always see around your area ?

Oh I forgot ? Na Benin u dey? Sorry jare my mistake

lefulefu:
ehn na wetin me see i dey talk. Dere is another one outside my compound.this man is based in germany. Anytime im dey around na so im go jus dey shout at his wife dey call her ashawo.d woman no go utter one word. Na so d man go dey blow im generator 24 hrs if light no dey complain of heat. But i notice any time d man travel back to im base in germany na so d woman face go jus brighten up then she go start to dey wear all those ripped jeans and tights. Dis na woman wey dey wear wrapper oo wen im german based husband dey around. Omo some marriages dey dis life ehn.

UyiIredia:


Eh heh! Wetin u dey try talk. Sey u know no be Benin pass for bad marriages so. Mind yourself o.

lefulefu:
no be for nairaland two days ago we read about one lady for bauchi state wey stab her husband to death then set their house on fire. Wat about d one wey we read for another state wey d man murder im wife over d issue of infdelity. Na everywhere for naija bad marriage full jor.

WhySoShy:

True, lefulefe. Us good ones exist. Some of us are just looking to be found.

DanDeeBoss:
... Get a lady that's already used to the system

UyiIredia:


Eh heh! Wetin u dey try talk. Sey u know no be Benin pass for bad marriages so. Mind yourself o.

victorian:








Lol


I remember when my dad go warn all his sons . If u marry Benin or itsekiri woman , just know say they will use jazz control the house

Infact he forbids any of his sons threading those tribes !

lefulefu:
ehn na wetin me see i dey talk. Dere is another one outside my compound.this man is based in germany. Anytime im dey around na so im go jus dey shout at his wife dey call her ashawo.d woman no go utter one word. Na so d man go dey blow im generator 24 hrs if light no dey complain of heat. But i notice any time d man travel back to im base in germany na so d woman face go jus brighten up then she go start to dey wear all those ripped jeans and tights. Dis na woman wey dey wear wrapper oo wen im german based husband dey around. Omo some marriages dey dis life ehn.

victorian:









Lol!

The German husband body too dey hot!

Not every woman like tying wrapper , and that's the truth .

She simply want to feel young wearing those tights , as long as the blouse is conservative or sewn with moderate length.

If woman tie wrapper men will complain , she's local

If woman wears trendy outfits, men will still complain that she's a hoe .

Infact what exactly do men want sef!

Sighs .

UyiIredia:


So person like my sister just get bad name. When she be spirikoko Christian wey go use prayer and Jesus Baptise the house. Ur papa no like. I don't blame him sha I understand.

victorian:








Lol


I remember when my dad go warn all his sons . If u marry Benin or itsekiri woman , just know say they will use jazz control the house

Infact he forbids any of his sons threading those tribes !

lefulefu:
na d ones wey dey waka dey mostly use jazz to hoodwink men. The normal bini girls no dey involve in anythin diabolical.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How about you contribute to the discourse and leave how I look alone? I ain't complaining.

lefulefu:
hm well it might not necessarly be about age cos some younger ladies dey wey dey dominate and control their older husbands though the probability in an older woman controling a younger man is much higher sha. The man na nice but i no think he get low self esteem frm wetin i dey see. Wetin i see be say d guy jus get matured mind and he's willing to let some tinzs slide. But as a sharp woman u suppose to learn some basic stuff cos if u no jus sabi anything den a woman outside could take advantage of dat. Dis one wey dem dey talk say beyouncy admit say she no sabi cook how do we know if rihanna no use her cooking prowess take seduce jayz. Imagine say na so so hamburgers jayzee dey chop all the time dont u think rihanna would have been able to seduce him with one bastard tasty caribbean cuisine.

victorian:







That's what most of the men always say .

If only u had a video camera hidden in their homes , you will definitely pity their wives and stone the men . some talk down on their wives even in public , all to destroy her self morale . While some in private , just to make her feel useless .

Some men are habitual liars . I don't believe all their stories .

Treat à good woman well, give her good sex , money , attention and care , then see if she will cheat on you. most married women are like tenants in their homes , while some loneliness wan kill them die . And the man will be wailing as if he is the best husband a woman can ever have .

I don't believe their lies .

wetdick:


this mature mind tinz that allow things to slide is a manipulation tactics, na him my friend dey form mature mind and allowing things to slide until dem sack am from work because he dey allow things slide instead of standing up for himself.


na because, em dey allow things slide, na why the woman get mouth