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Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by dwilliams: 11:50pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
is she still available, pity me I don de old victorian: 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by dwilliams: 11:56pm On Mar 10, 2019 |
oga Seer, Lord of the Visions,na you de see everything, but this thread de make me fear, e get some naija girls wey I de package online and I de hope say I go com marry dem by November then bring them over, I think I will have to thank properly, I de one of these Eastern Europe countries and blacks no de here let alone Nigerian girl, and I no like whitey girls, my thing no even de stand for them,and I no go fit de eat oyinbo food for the rest of my life if I marry dem, so na naija girl win am,right now I am so confused quote author=lefulefu post=76538984] ehn na wetin me see i dey talk. Dere is another one outside my compound.this man is based in germany. Anytime im dey around na so im go jus dey shout at his wife dey call her ashawo.d woman no go utter one word. Na so d man go dey blow im generator 24 hrs if light no dey complain of heat ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 12:10am On Mar 11, 2019 |
dwilliams:d time wey u dey naija u no get any babe at all? i for suggest say if u be get or u even be get female friend then then and she"s still single try reconnect with any of them than just going for a total stranger.even at then risk fit still cos at that long absence she fit don get guy but she fit dey lie to u dat she"s still single so make u dey hope for relationship with her and in d process dey send her euros ![]() lol@ lord of visions ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by dwilliams: 12:25am On Mar 11, 2019 |
I no wan date any girl for naija for now cos de go open office for my head,I wan start relationship with them lie one month before I go enter naija but from the look of things e b like say I go sofri shoot my shot for this side besides some of my ex wey de very good to me still de alive but the spark no de again I.e that butterfly feeling, I go sofri find one eastern European the funniest thing be say majority of the Eurasian woman are far better than Nigerian women, the Turkish,Azerbaijani, Kazakhstan, Lithuanians etc lefulefu: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 12:42am On Mar 11, 2019 |
dwilliams:at least u know wetin go happen ![]() ![]() ![]() u go jus turn to maga to one based chic for here ![]() ![]() ur family fit arrange a good homebased naija lady but e go hard for dem to get one cos as soon as any lady know say u be foreign based u don turn to authomatic maga be dat.d economy right now is very terrible so i wont lie to u oo..e go hard for u to get a genuine girl.if na me dey ur situation i go jus jejeli get a girl dere except maybe i first get a girl here b4.ehen try out the turkish and kazastani gurls nau. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by aswani(m): 1:45am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Please sir, if you have established yourself (i.e good job, house and assets), I beg of you not to come to Naija to find a wife. You are best of finding someone over there who knows how you have to struggle to achieve what you have. A high proportion of women that go abroad, as a result of marraige, to an established environment are the worst behaved. If you are not established, no wahala, take a wife and you can both struggle together to make it. If you are, your best bet is to find a woman without papers over there who will fully appreciate what she has come into having seen the other side of things. A word is enough for the wise, don't add yourself to the group of people that regularly tell their stories of regret. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:46am On Mar 11, 2019 |
The truth of all these be say what goes around comes around, karma is real. Some of all these our brothers complaining here are there married either a foreign lady who gave him all the support he needed and gave him paper only for him to later divorce her to come home and marry a home breed/Nigerian woman. They calll it smartness(nwanyi mjiiri nweta akwukwo) After divorcing her with lame excuses of not being like African woman or not doing what african women does You think you won’t pay for it especially when she truelly loves you and doing her best to make the marriage work, and you think God will be kind to you, oh! You forgot she’s from a different background and culture totally. So most men are really reaping what they sow. Let know one start what he/she can not finish, marriage entered into with deception or with selfish mindset will surely crash, be ready give up somethings if you want your marriage to work out. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by TaminaliaCatapa: 2:47am On Mar 11, 2019 |
aswani: God bless you bro, you too have seen the struggle.... Tufiakawa make I go Naija go bring one karishika....tufiakwa again.... The matter just tire me abeg 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Ugosample(m): 7:42am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Okada man, park me for this junction.... Id be back with my opinion soon.... |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Ugosample(m): 7:47am On Mar 11, 2019 |
pansophist:panso how far? Well different strokes for different folks. In that same west, you can stilk get "feminine" women if that is what you seek There are good and bad women everywhere. But I will NEVER marry a woman from Nigeria sha it's a risk I am not willing to take 10 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Ugosample(m): 8:06am On Mar 11, 2019 |
wetdick: ladies over 26 are left over baggage ![]() ![]() are you sure you are ok? 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Ugosample(m): 8:13am On Mar 11, 2019 |
victorian: not in all cases tho But a good number of women are suffering in their marriages in Naija especially The truth is that naija men in general were not trained to respect WOMEN or see her needs as important And guess who did that damage? ![]() Their mothers hence women are the problem of women, directly or indirectly But that aside things need to change 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by victorian(f): 8:24am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Ugosample: You are right . So true . Nigerian men don't appreciate women one bit , that's why women don't care anymore . but two wrongs can never make right . But even if their mothers didn't train them well, as they grow up, don't they have compassion to treat another human being well? I was brought up from a well off family , I was trained to see myself as very important and even the most important human being on earth . my mum pampered me like egg and I became proud and self centered , also I had fake friends around . But after my degree in the university , things happened and I retrained myself or would I say circumstances retrained me and I'm humble , selfless and very caring, all my fake friends have gone .I now have friends that are more than family to me . I can't trade them for anything in this world . So if I retrain myself, why can't some men retrain themselves and be a better human being . So don't entirely blame the mothers. Blame the heart of man that refuse to have compassion and reform . that's how I see it . 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by victorian(f): 8:28am On Mar 11, 2019 |
dwilliams: Lol ![]() So u will use her , date her for years withoit marryig her then turn her into a shadow of herself abi? God forbid . Nija man no sabi take care of woman . Don't worry , her dad will matcmake her with one his family friends son. At least family friends can vouch for each other and for their kids . That's why u see the rich marry the rich most times . Make their female children no suffer for man hand. And the male children no suffer for woman hand . Marry the women around u, especially the ones UV used and dumped in the past . 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by victorian(f): 8:30am On Mar 11, 2019 |
wetdick: She's from which tribe ? ![]() Talk true and let the devil be ashamed . |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Ugosample(m): 8:32am On Mar 11, 2019 |
victorian: I like your point of view ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by victorian(f): 8:33am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Estellie: 8:54am On Mar 11, 2019 |
SMH.... |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by victorian(f): 9:22am On Mar 11, 2019 |
chisco82: Don't mind them Karma is paying them back! All those years the women cry untop their heads , thats what they are now reaping ! I don't pity such men! They go cry for a good wife taya! Lol ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Auladimeji2: 9:24am On Mar 11, 2019 |
I'm learning from this thread |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by pansophist(m): 9:28am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Ugosample: OF course, I have always dated feminine women, women who are feminist in the truest and organic sense, not the ones men generally have a disdain for. They are also not hard to find though, one needs to know how to get them. Unto naija women, well, many men are adopting the opinion you have, which is not a good thing. I left naija when I was a teenager, and didn't date any Nigerian women then, so I can't say. But with wetin I de see for this forum, men, if na true, then, I go avoid them as well. But in anything you do, never generalize, people come in different shapes and form, your unicorn may just be somewhere lost in the sea of your generalisations. Greetings Ugochukwu. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Ugosample(m): 9:35am On Mar 11, 2019 |
pansophist: greetings panso remember I used the word "risk" the risk of the women in Nigeria screwing you over is significant And I don't blame them the wicked society screwed them over. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by pansophist(m): 9:37am On Mar 11, 2019 |
lefulefu: I no talk say dem no dey, I talk say dem de hard to find. One just needs to find them. Besides, the reason western men ain't marrying anymore is not that there are no good wife materials, but if she decides to take you to the dry cleaner (especially with the ''no fault'' divorce law in the US), the law, the court, and the system will help her rape you, using your blood as a lubricant. It is about the system, not the individual. For example, your wife can cheat and you, abuse you and do so many horrible things, she claims divorce (with merely two words like "irreconcilable difference", and boom, lawyers, court and the system supports her decision and split your property, and rewards her for it. 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Ugosample(m): 9:45am On Mar 11, 2019 |
chisco82: you have also spoken well |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by pansophist(m): 9:52am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Ugosample: How can a woman screw a man in Nigeria? I'm looking at it from a legal and systematic standpoint. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 10:07am On Mar 11, 2019 |
dwilliams:What is this one feeling like? What exactly do you even have? Don't throw "Nigerian" women under d bus for your gratification. If you wanna get lost in Dem European ladies pls kindly do so and stop making it seem like only Nigerian women are the evil geniuses here. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 10:20am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Ugosample: yes, i am ok....And where did i write that women over 26 are left over baggages except you want to misinterpret or twist my word. now when i meant left over baggages, it means problems from past relationships |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by dwilliams: 10:21am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Na wa o, so out of everybody wey comment na only me u see attack, abeg just carry knife kill me NwanyiAwkaetiti: |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by dwilliams: 10:23am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Black women no de where I de, just white women, help a brother please ![]() victorian: |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 10:30am On Mar 11, 2019 |
victorian: |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 10:43am On Mar 11, 2019 |
Ugosample: i laugh when you write this, who train up most men, is it not their mothers, there is a reason mothers train up their boys like that sometimes, no woman will want another woman to mistreat and play with her son's heart, it is a protective mechanism. do you know how many men are also suffering in their marriages but wont leave because of the kids or because of being brain washed by society that he should allow anything a woman does to him to slide. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Ugosample(m): 10:51am On Mar 11, 2019 |
wetdick: i agree with your second paragraph about the first i think I made it clear that it's the moms of the boys that trained them to be the way they are, which js an irony Men are less inclined to train their boys to be highly misogynist and not respect women It is the mum that arrange second wife for the son It is the mum that is harraser in chief And the list goes on 1 Like |
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