Boss13:
This is a good topic for young men. Marriage should be planned. Forget love. My advice on this is quite straightforward. Muslim have strong traditions and are heavily grounded. Many Muslims don’t believe or support this nonsense feminism wave. If you are indeed searching for a wife abroad, go to a Mosque predominantly Nigerian, confront the Imam and express your wishes.

Please note I’m not a Muslim but I have noticed Muslim women don’t get carried away because of their religion.

victorian:







Eeyah.

Sighs the bad ones have spoilt the good ones .

I know of one Benin girl, she's so homely , christian like dressing , very intelligent school wise , so innocent looking , i can vouch shes a virgin. She came out with first class and her dad bought a brand new Prado jeep for her . Even with the jeep shes so humble , you wouldnt know she driving such car , so respectful!!! Chai! and very dark pretty girl . mehn her type , have never seen! Her parents try in her upbringing.

First time I wanted to go against my dad wish and organize the girl for my brother to marry but my brother doesn't like dark girls , thats how we miss this girl.

So pretty and respectful .. Better girls dey o!

truthsayer009:


As a person of truth, the ratio of disappointed people who have brought Nigerian women over is too much as compared to the one that works out.

Usually the only cases of people who are successful is:

1. You have been dating a lady in Nigeria for some time & then something happens, you now travel. She never dated you for your travel plans, she can always be real with you & tell you her mind.

2. You meet a Nigeria lady (in the Abroad) & you marry her.

Any other scenario usually fails, I know you are not happy about this but this is reality whether you accept it or not.

khiaa:


How many black Americans have you met, have you ever been to America to make that call? That bullcrap that he typed about white girls being loyal is the biggest crop of b.s. they are the biggest cheaters, ask any white boy how loyal they are.

Ishilove:

The tales of woes are too small a ratio to conclude that there are no success stories of home based women and diasporan men. Don't take the ones whining here as the yardstick in measuring success.

cococandy:
You’re looking for who to subdue and dominate

E go red for you.

You don’t want chores as a duty but I’m sure you will want her financial contribution as a duty. You never start. Life go hard you so.

bezimo:


House that he may have paid off before bringing the liability wife to come and take adantage of him..You are an idiot for calling your father that..stupid scumy hoe

SilentListener:

you are a perfect example why abroad guys should stay away from Naija home based girls

Excuzeme:


Bros, your post made me really laugh!
It has nothing to do with religion. Infact, the rate at which the Muslim ladies are rebelling against the Imams, is a cause for worry.
Dont forget that a Muslim lady can also call 911 and l have seen a lot of them in court claiming that their marriage was "arraigned and oppressive" and they want out.

The only people that dont get easily carried away are the East Europeans because their culture just dont support it and they dont have the desperation of the Nigerian babes that open eye once they reach Abroad, these East Europeans/Russians are already "there".

RTSC:
See as dem spoil market for Nigerian based ladies.

The ones that scaled through earlier to Yankee or Europe would be thanking their stars they left before the market got spoilt.

RTSC:
See as dem spoil market for Nigerian based ladies.

The ones that scaled through earlier to Yankee or Europe would be thanking their stars they left before the market got spoilt.

TaminaliaCatapa:
This has been worrisome abeg, I don’t like the idea of bringing any gf from Naija come marry, they mess up real bad.

The Naija girls wey dem born abroad sef, they ain’t any way different from foreigners wey go dey tell you to start sharing house chores 50:50 with dem. There is nothing bad if I do those chores in my own volition, but making it a duty for me is a no-no.

Reason why I cant marry white is obvious, the very immediate point I just made up there, some won’t even let you take your kids back to naija coz it’s shîthole

Please, if you are a
1. Naija married man in a foreign land
2. Didn’t marry here in naija but abroad

How did you get married and what type of woman is she.


Please we wanna learn

cococandy:
You’re really taking Nairaland ramblings of ignorant folks seriously?

People who have reasoning faculties still understand that they can find good women anywhere. Nigerian women in USA are hot cake. Don’t let some heart broken urchins on Nairaland tell you otherwise.

These ones probably got left behind hence their painment.

cococandy:
You’re really taking Nairaland ramblings of ignorant folks seriously?

People who have reasoning faculties still understand that they can find good women anywhere. Nigerian women in USA are hot cake. Don’t let some heart broken urchins on Nairaland tell you otherwise.

These ones probably got left behind hence their painment.

lefulefu:
my dear i used to think there are exceptions but wat my eyes have seen and wat i have heard i now doubt if dere are exceptions. If exception dey at all e go go be like two out of 2000. I remember i said a story here someone told me about a family friend colleague based in yankee. D guy come wan marry homebased then im parents look around then arrange one girl for am. The bros marry d babe carry her over to yankee. After a time then one of the guy friend who is a medical doctor and nigerian as well see d girl come dey like and they started an affair behind d guy back. The lady later divorced d guy and married d doctor and both she and doctor then moved to canada.there been stories of yankee and jandon based guys carryin a girl from the village their parents arranged for him and d guy go train her for nursing school and after the lady go become a nurse she go divorce the man and take over the man house and collect the children plus invite a younger lover to be staying with her in d house. That go surely make d man commit suicide....though some jardonite and yankee guys aint sincere demselves though.

tex73:
I'm blessed to marry a very good Christian lady from Kogi(yoruba) and i am Delta(ibo). Came to niaja to in search of a lady after being in d US for over 5 years. Did not like d one i had being talking to over d phone for over a year, did not want to trap myself with someone i didnt love or like very much.

I had a week left for my naija stay until a childhood friend asked me to leave my hotel and spend the last week in his house. He forgot he had a sister in law that was at d age for marriage and actually was planning to introduce me to one or two female friends he had, hoping i could like them. He forgot about his wife's younger sister because she was so into her studies at IFE and she hardly came back home during holidays, she was locked down at OAU. God was good to me because it was just as i visited naija that these beautiful lady was having a breather from OAU after she had finished her last set of exams. It was when she called her sister to tell her that she had finished her last exams and was in their parent's home that my friend remembered that he had an in law that may like me. My friend told her about me immediately and told her that we would come visiting d next day.

The next day we visited n i saw her in d living room, all cleaned up of course because she was expecting us. We talked for a while and saw that we had so much in common, especially that we both had Jesus as our Lord and Saviour. I departed for the US shortly. we spoke on the phone everyday for about a year, untill i came back to niaja to propose to her. Thank God she used all that time to do her housemanship in LUTH. See how God blessed me. I came back again for the wedding proper but she didn't go back with me untill my filling (travel documents) for her came through( 6 months) . she came to the US and joined me in my one bedroom apartment. We moved to two when we were expecting baby # one.

We planned that she didnt work but focus on her 3 tough exams in order for her to practice medicine in the US. In all exams she scored a 99% percentile ( she's a brain). Shes one of the best Docs a patient can ask for and is practicing in a top hospital. We have two kids and she's getting even prettier as we age. Married for ten years now. Glory to God.

uuzba:

...couldn't marry for racial reasons?
Either one or both of you are racists na!

lefulefu:
all these ones u guys are saying ladies born and bred in nigeria are traditional my guy its not all dat are traditional. My neighbour here his wife is a born and bred bini lady. She does not cook or do any domestic stuff.its her husband who does the domestic stuff and they have a 12 yr old boy that helps the man. The lady no dey enter market as well. Some nigerian guys overseas who have never stepped their foot into africa and nigeria always have this fantasy dreams about african women. African ladies don wise up. Go to some naija homes and u will see dat na man dey cook inside d kitchen in some homes while d woman dey sitting or go dey polish her nails for balcony.

RTSC:

I believe you, cococandy.

That face of yours is hot cake. I am sure you can get any dude you want, if you were still in the dating market.

RTSC:

I believe you, cococandy.

That face of yours is hot cake. I am sure you can get any dude you want, if you were still in the dating market.

Toks2008:


It's not like that o..maby hot ladies are roasting abroad but only few are fortunate.

Many unserious guys out there and most of these ladies are not making things easy with their attitude expeciallly arrogance fuelled by the independent mindset especially in countries where single mothers are well taken care of by the government.

Ishilove:

Don't mind them. They are here ranting and raving about Nigerian women, meanwhile if you check well they are more likely than not mega assholes themselves.

Toks2008:


You this lady looks young but with a mature way.

cococandy:


You’re a perfect example of a mor0n

i can feel your pain,pele you should be grateful that you're no longer in Nigerian, but no you are not, instead you they form one mumu feminist up and down. , TaminaliaCatapa this is the attitude of the so-called Najia home based girls, once you take them out of Nigeria they tend to be more western than the western women, smh Avoid Nigeria home base girls.

cc Baaleoko

cococandy:
Say what you know

SilentListener:
i can feel your pain,pele you should be grateful that you're no longer in Nigerian, but no you are not, instead you they form one mumu feminist up and down. , TaminaliaCatapa this is the attitude of the so called Najia home based girls, once you take them out of Nigeria they tend to be more western than the western women, smh Avoid Nigeria home base girls

Yuugen:
Plenty of gud abroad-born n abroad-raised based Nigerian women. A buddy of mine married one 30years old two years ago in Baltimore U.S, they're happily married with a baby girl now. He was turning 35 n wanted to settle down, no time for play. Raves about how a good wife she is. Am in the U.S n have met nice Naija ladies myself. My elder brother too married a Naija lady Accountant here, two kids now, lovely humble lady, calls me uncle everytime . He's in IT. Both have daily 9-5 jobs. She works longer shifts at times like during tax season. Everyone can't be bad, op, maybe u arethe problem or u better yet change ur circle to find who u looking for

Toks2008:


I know what I am saying. The fact that you are taken means you are among the few fortunate ones.

Many hot ladies are very single and depressed in the western world.

intimacy gadgets have become a regular for them.n they have become comfy with their solitary lives.