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Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Excuzeme: 1:33am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Boss13: Bros, your post made me really laugh! ![]() It has nothing to do with religion. Infact, the rate at which the Muslim ladies are rebelling against the Imams, is a cause for worry. Dont forget that a Muslim lady can also call 911 and l have seen a lot of them in court claiming that their marriage was "arraigned and oppressive" and they want out. The only people that dont get easily carried away are the East Europeans because their culture just dont support it and they dont have the desperation of the Nigerian babes that open eye once they reach Abroad, these East Europeans/Russians are already "there". 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Kunlegzy(m): 1:37am On Mar 12, 2019 |
victorian: Omo I need the babe oo |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Ishilove: 1:41am On Mar 12, 2019 |
truthsayer009:The tales of woes are too small a ratio to conclude that there are no success stories of home based women and diasporan men. Don't take the ones whining here as the yardstick in measuring success. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 1:46am On Mar 12, 2019 |
khiaa:I have met a lots of them, stay with them date them and have many of my friends who got married to them both the black and the white, I saw how their relationships are going. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 1:56am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Ishilove: I know what I am saying, My life didn't start on Nairaland. Just because it is a bad record to Women & you wouldn't like it doesn't make it Untrue. You seem not to consider that not all ladies are fascinated by the abroad "Just Gat Back" kinda guys. The abroad guys usually fall for the Women pretending using them as a way out of poverty. A lady who has a stable job won't leave her work & career for you. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by LUCAS99: 1:59am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy: ![]() ![]() ![]() Biko Stop... 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:03am On Mar 12, 2019 |
House that he paid off when? Lmao. With his security job? ![]() Make una dey yarn rubbish for people wey no sabi Prenup my behind bezimo: 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:04am On Mar 12, 2019 |
SilentListener: You’re a perfect example of a mor0n 11 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:06am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Excuzeme:Any European, east or west, Latin too but with degree and from good family, European descendant and all of them already in America, they are thrifty, good in saving, not wasting food or money and they are not impressed with America, wealth and don't get crazy about wealth as they know the life in America. Be aware of Russians and Ukrainians, they are cheaters (no moral values, no religion), lazy at home and lazy to work, they also are similar to Nigerians, all blinks, money, brands, showing up and easy to call 911 on you, to get all you have and kick you out, they are also very racist. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by RTSC: 2:09am On Mar 12, 2019 |
See as dem spoil market for Nigerian based ladies. The ones that scaled through earlier to Yankee or Europe would be thanking their stars they left before the market got spoilt. ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by LUCAS99: 2:11am On Mar 12, 2019 |
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Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by tex73: 2:13am On Mar 12, 2019 |
I'm blessed to marry a very good Christian lady from Kogi(yoruba) and i am Delta(ibo). Came to niaja in search of a lady after being in d US for over 5 years. Did not like d one i had being talking to over d phone for over a year, did not want to trap myself with someone i didnt love or like very much. I had a week left for my naija stay until a childhood friend asked me to leave my hotel and spend the last week in his house. He forgot he had a sister in law that was at d age for marriage and actually was planning to introduce me to one or two female friends he had, hoping i could like them. He forgot about his wife's younger sister because she was so into her studies at IFE and she hardly came back home during holidays, she was locked down at OAU. God was good to me because it was just as i visited naija that this beautiful lady was having a breather from OAU after she had finished her last set of exams. It was when she called her sister to tell her that she had finished her last exams and was in their parent's home that my friend remembered that he had an in law that may like me. My friend told her about me immediately and told her that we would come visiting d next day. The next day we visited n i saw her in d living room, all cleaned up of course because she was expecting us. We talked for a while and saw that we had so much in common, especially that we both had Jesus as our Lord and Saviour. I departed for the US shortly. we spoke on the phone everyday for about a year, untill i came back to niaja to propose to her. Thank God she used all that time to do her housemanship in LUTH. See how God blessed me. I came back again for the wedding proper but she didn't go back with me untill my filling (travel documents) for her came through( 6 months) . she came to the US and joined me in my one bedroom apartment. We moved to two when we were expecting baby # one. We planned that she didnt work but focus on her 3 tough exams in order for her to practice medicine in the US. In all exams she scored a 99% percentile ( she's a brain). Shes one of the best Docs a patient can ask for and is practicing in a top hospital. We have two kids and she's getting even prettier as we age. Married for ten years now. Glory to God. 72 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:14am On Mar 12, 2019 |
You’re really taking Nairaland ramblings of ignorant folks seriously? People who have reasoning faculties still understand that they can find good women anywhere. Nigerian women in USA are hot cake. Don’t let some heart broken urchins on Nairaland tell you otherwise. These ones probably got left behind hence their painment. RTSC: 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Toks2008(m): 2:17am On Mar 12, 2019 |
TaminaliaCatapa: If you really want to get married in the western world you must change this mindset. It's a different world out there. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by RTSC: 2:20am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy:I believe you, cococandy. That face of yours is hot cake. I am sure you can get any dude you want, if you were still in the dating market. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Toks2008(m): 2:20am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy: You this lady looks young but in a mature way. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by HeliosHay(m): 2:20am On Mar 12, 2019 |
lefulefu: I've heard a lot of such stories too...unfortunately |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:21am On Mar 12, 2019 |
CONGRATULATIONS. Nigerian women in USA are always an asset to their husbands. Nigerian women are the top most educated group in America. Proven by research not hearsay. The men who have a problem handling such women are those who want wives that are full time home makers but also work and submit their total pay checks to the man so he can decide what she gets to spend. Their families come to visit and they expect a servant wife who also works full time but managed to hasten to their every whim. The men who drop the African mentality of wives that must be available to serve them hand and foot, usually enjoy their marriages. I’m sure your doctor wife does get busy and you understand and support her. Let the ignorant boys keep whining. tex73: 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:21am On Mar 12, 2019 |
The thing is as a Nigerian man abroad, you wish the best wife for yourself. Then first, look at yourself and ask yourself are you the best or the good one? You want the woman submissive and doing all housework and, will she be the housewife and will you support her in everything? Because if she is working full time and having kids for you, she will come home tired and is she still responsible for all work at home and with kids? Will you practice the so called Nigerian "culture" having other women and being naturally polygamist? Will you expect your wife to shut up and accept you going and having sex with other women? Will you be very bossy to her and her should be very submissive as similar to a Muslim woman? I don't think it will work this way in America even with a Nigerian village submissive girl, not for long, America teaches freedom to kids and women. If your wife goes to the doctor for any reason and the doctor notices she is sad, they will ask her if you are to bossy or do you abuse her, your own kids will tell at school how you treat your wife and even if she is submissive, your own kids will call 911 if their mom cries. The marriage in America is different, it is not Nigeria. If you are willing to be faithful and you find a woman who is educated and is your best friend, doesn't matter the race, it may work better than any childish plans to pick a submissive one or to mold her your way 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Sholaystar4me(m): 2:22am On Mar 12, 2019 |
interesting thread, as for me nothing will change bringing my gf that I have had for many months in Nigeria before man moved and still have till date. let me buy a land here shaa ![]() Victory is from God Alone #X 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by rex444(m): 2:23am On Mar 12, 2019 |
uuzba:read between d line homie |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by HeliosHay(m): 2:24am On Mar 12, 2019 |
lefulefu: Lmao...polish nail for balcony! for real? you've got to be kidding me lol |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:24am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Thank you. I am taken. By a very lucky Nigerian American man who doesn’t want a servant wife. RTSC: 11 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Toks2008(m): 2:24am On Mar 12, 2019 |
RTSC: It's not like that o..many hot ladies are roasting abroad with just few fortunate ones. Many unserious guys out there and most of these ladies are also not making things easy with their attitude expeciallly arrogance fuelled by the independent mindset especially in countries where single mothers are well taken care of by the government. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:24am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Say what you know Toks2008: |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by LUCAS99: 2:25am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Ishilove: I don’t really know who to believe anymore... Opinions on Nairaland tend to be really biased... Ladies on Nairaland believe Guys are the problem Meanwhile on the Other hand Guys on Nairaland believe Ladies are the problem... Op my best advice to you would be to go back & reconnect with one of the Girls you went to High School with... You remember Amaka, Adaobi & Chineye... Those ones that gave you a chance in High School... They dated you because they love you because you didn’t have to spend anything on them... Those are the ones you need to go back to... Now if you didn’t have any Girlfriend in High School tend start attending Nigerian Churches & Nigerian Ceremonies called Owambe Parties... Usually I will recommend Redemmed Christian Church of God, Winners Chapel & Deeper Life Bible Church if you’re based in the United States... There are eligible Bachelorettes with Good Paying Jobs available... You can start attending Youth events & develop familiarity from there... But don’t go to Church & start womanizing, that doesn’t end so well because Bad News spread very fast especially in Nigerian Churches... If the two options fails, then look around really hard & you should be able to find a White Girl that should be Marriage Material... You can sign for Yoga Classes, Cooking Classes & even the gym... You should be able to find someone as long as you’re outgoing... As always just play your part & God will play his part... There is no Magic Formula to finding the right woman... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:26am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Is this a compliment or what? I don’t understand Toks2008: |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:26am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy:i can feel your pain,pele ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() cc Baaleoko 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Toks2008(m): 2:27am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy: I know what I am saying. The fact that you are taken means you are among the few fortunate ones. Many hot ladies are very single and depressed in the western world. intimacy gadgets have become a regular for them.n they have become comfy with their solitary lives. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:29am On Mar 12, 2019 |
You’re ignorant seriously. If Nigeria is so good, why should I be grateful that I’m no longer in it? I’m trying to veer this discussion into an intellectual angle. Hopefully your brain can handle that. SilentListener: 6 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by bitingcool: 2:30am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Yuugen: He seems to be the problem with his sharp mouth. You're looking for someone to slave while you help when you feel like. Even an angel will wear out. Go and look for a woman from Philippines or Myanmar to do your bidding 7 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:31am On Mar 12, 2019 |
I’m sure many Nigerian married women can benefit from intimacy gadgets. Marital status has nothing to do with it ![]() Toks2008: 2 Likes |
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