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Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:35am On Mar 12, 2019 |
When he gets the Filipina to America and or he is lucky to get one that is already here who he won’t have to file visa for, he will know what’s up. Just two purchases of Louis Vuitton and Chanel per month will make sure that any dream he has of having a bit of money is squashed. They don’t joke with their material stuff. The grass is always greener on the other side. A typical Filipina will spend $3-5k per month on only luxury goods. He should make sure he can afford that. And they are not like Nigerian women who hustle into medical fields to make money for their husbands and families back home. I just laugh at the ignorance on this forum. bitingcool: 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by oboy81: 2:37am On Mar 12, 2019 |
TaminaliaCatapa:Whilst many of us are praying for a white woman this mumu is asking for a a Shithole girl 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Toks2008(m): 2:37am On Mar 12, 2019 |
LUCAS99: All these are easy talks. It's not as easy as many think. The phobia ladies have for naija guys is so alarming that it is only by God's grace that you will find one to really want you. And also the issue of papers is another big one. As long as you are not fully settled as a man, many settled ladies usually conclude you want them for papers n this is why arranged marriages are thriving. And in most cases those who will want you are those who are way off from what you want...u no get luxury to dey picky. It is not as easy as many think 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:38am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy:Lol, so true |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Toks2008(m): 2:38am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy: At least it is by choice for the married ones. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:40am On Mar 12, 2019 |
TaminaliaCatapa:Dude marry where you reside |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by bitingcool: 2:40am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Angela777: He who has an ear, let him hear. A good wife is not determined by tribe, country or religion. A good man makes a good wife and vice versa... except in otherwise situations. 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:42am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:42am On Mar 12, 2019 |
PrinceCharmings:BaaleOko listen to this advice. don't you even think of coming home 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:44am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Toks2008:So true. Women in America learnt the Nigerian man is possibly scam and wants us for papers, now so much information online about it. Also not all American women go into interracial marriage, many educated women are picking from their level guys and if they don't find any at similar level, they prefer being single. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:44am On Mar 12, 2019 |
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Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by khiaa(f): 2:45am On Mar 12, 2019 |
chisco82: So if the marriage/relationship isnt going well it has to be the non-,Nigerians fault right because the Nigerian is never a fault. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Toks2008(m): 2:46am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy: Well you are right cos many factors can contribute to it. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by joepepsy(m): 2:48am On Mar 12, 2019 |
With all due respect for me to get married to this generation of naija babes I will remain single . Ishilove: 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:49am On Mar 12, 2019 |
BaaleOko:yep! i think you should do that... ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by khiaa(f): 2:50am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Elliot2: How did I do that, by stating what those women were doing is filthy? No I didn't credit any point except that the Africoons will defend anything the whites do, even something as despicable as those filthy whores letting men poo in their mouths. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:51am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy:No offense but you sound pained ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:52am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Yea I’m so pained that none of these whiners on this thread want to marry me ![]() JjBankys: 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by bitingcool: 2:52am On Mar 12, 2019 |
BaaleOko: You mentioned your achievements but didn't mention anything about your character. Are you a good man, do you have real fear of God? do you know how to keep your peni.s inside your trouser? Do you boast about your achievements instead of your character? Do you have an understanding heart and willing to work with your future wife as a team? Like begets like. If you're meeting ladies that jump at the prospect of American citizenship, it shows you're fishing in shallow waters. If you want a wife, they yapa for Lagos and wherever you dey.. Women that hold and know their worth. I fit even introduce you to a few ONLY if you can answer to the above questions truthfully. Good wife material will never manage poor husband Material. 13 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by jaybee3(m): 2:53am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy:Gbam |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:56am On Mar 12, 2019 |
If it’s a Nigerian male, then he can’t be at fault. It’s not possible. That’s how ‘God’ made it. But if it’s a Nigerian female, bring on the blame. We don’t really know how to do anything right. We are what’s wrong with the world. the men however, are so perfect that even the angels are taking notes in order to keep up. Well according to NL khiaa: 12 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:56am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 2:57am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy:i don't care if you're married or not. ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 2:57am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Tell me what’s paining me JjBankys: |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by jaybee3(m): 2:58am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy: I still read your battles as part of my daily nuggets |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Toks2008(m): 2:58am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Angela777: And this is one big mistake many ladies make and I will take time out to explain. I always tell these ladies abroad..." if you love him, take the risk" whether he has papers or not. Shits happen and marriage crash for many reasons but if the marriage between two western citizens break up they tag it irreconcilable difference but if it is between a western citizen and a foreigner who is not a citizen they call it scam marriage or green card marriage...how weird. If a lady is good and very wifeable I believe almost every man will love such in the shortest possible period cos I know it takes at least 2years to get papers through marriage in U.S and 5 to 11 years in U.K so if a guy lives with you for a year and he still has no interest to be with you then something is wrong somewhere. Secondly, most guys with papers don't want ladies with papers cos they know they are better of single considering the hot girls looking for guys with papers...so this simply means most ladies with papers who font want guys without papers may remain single for a very long time. As i wrote earlier...if you truly want a guy..paper or no paper...GO FOR HIM AND TAKE THE RISK. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by TaminaliaCatapa: 2:58am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy: From the little display you’ve shown here, it is obvious the guy who decided to put you in his home has carried a cocoon of bee. You have a big mouth and a small ear. Intellectuals carry big ears and small mouth but your big mouth is your undoing. You have turned a ‘thread of learning’ into a disaster, since you started commenting, na him my eyes dey turnoninown ![]() 17 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by HeliosHay(m): 2:58am On Mar 12, 2019 |
cococandy: hahahahahaha..this woman, take it easy lol. Fair point though Everyone is talking prenup like they're dollar millionaires/billionaires 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by khiaa(f): 2:58am On Mar 12, 2019 |
TaminaliaCatapa: Black American women aren't checking for your controlling, insecure behinds, when we see you we run towards the other direction, that is why you beg those big fat, old white whales to marry you. LMAO, ![]() 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by cococandy(f): 3:01am On Mar 12, 2019 |
Thread of learning ![]() You mean I stood up for Nigerian women on a thread that was created to disparage and belittle us? You’re a misogynist who gets upset when your narrative that was meant to demean womenfolk gets turned on you. This cocoon of bee also produces honey ![]() Go and sleep. TaminaliaCatapa: 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad, How Did You Choose Your Significant Half? by Nobody: 3:01am On Mar 12, 2019 |
khiaa:Look at what Alezy has done to this lady ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
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