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Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
It depends, lets not be quick to say 12...18...24. All fingers are not, some people have it faster than others. Also the motive for moving out matters, for lots of youths, they will tell you "freedom". What that means differs amongst individuals. 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Yello1(m): 7:31pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Didnt stay a week after nysc despite d persuasion to stay. Bros/sis i ran oo i hate been fed at that age and i love my space but i visit constantly shaa. And tht was at age 22-23. It hasnt Been easy all through but it hasnt been bad neither. I am happy i took that decision. 4 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by daben1(m): 7:32pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Akalia:I wanted to remind him of the part of bible that says: it's not of him that willeth... But I thought he's not a Christian |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Martinez39(m): 7:33pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
SEXYBILLIONAIRE:Don't mind that dingbat. If you are born in a rich family, it means your parents worked for it. Where were their parents? Is it your fault that you were born in a good family? Don't pay him attention. Success is hard work even when luck is involved. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Akalia(m): 7:34pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
SEXYBILLIONAIRE:you are relatively naive if you think smart/hardwirk alone determined success. Factor in timeline which varies from individual to individual and I will give you a pat on the back. You may have made it earlier than some of your age grade and vice versa who are also working hard and smart. Now does that mean they are indolent or lack vision. You are yet to grasp my fundamental point. I agree that success is not by chance ; I also put it to you that grace plays a big role in making success happen. If you don't need grace of GOD to succeed then why do you pray, except you are an atheist. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by okeniti: 7:37pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
I would say from when child (irrespective of gender) can financially stand on their own two feet. By this I mean make enough to pay for accomodation, bills/living costs, saving/investing and leisure ALONE, without having to ask for handouts/borrow me from family. I would add mentally able to cope without parents too. This can be 18, this can be 27. At home at 30 is against my personal fundamentals. 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by dkronicle(m): 7:37pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
SEXYBILLIONAIRE:watin concern Christianity ode. |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Move and go where?. If robbery yakpa now, na wuna go dey shout everywhere "arm robbers, armed robbers". 9ja no be U.S.A, so thread carefully and use ur head not ur ego. The main thing as parents is to train ur child in the way he/she should go so as not to depart from it when they get old. Moving out doesn't guarantee success especially here in 9ja. Regardless of where your are, all you need to do is work hard n pray 6 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by daben1(m): 7:39pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Akalia:bro, leave am o, everybody with their mindset... I believe in God's grace and mercy and it'll soon work for me, very very soon 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Jiang:guy u funny...i swear 4 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Alighoda2(m): 7:41pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
wetdick:very true we all need support ,but nowadays nobody want to support u,either u make it yourself or u die struggling 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by udomas(m): 7:42pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
wetdick: It all depend on family background. For the rich, it's 100% possible. What about the poor? |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by dkronicle(m): 7:42pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Jiang:Lols bros but e get this comfort wey dey outside parent house. Se u no go like know even d babe wey u go marry when she spend time with you for ur apartment. No be everything be fork. Hotel short time no pass 5k 6 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by mema900: 7:43pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
latexxbro: Who do you? |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by TinaG(f): 7:43pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Jiang:hahahahahahaha. Na so oh 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Alighoda2: i think that is why many people will not make it. if you dont have a stepping stone to climb the ladder, how do you expect to reach the top of the ladder |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Chiefochiefo(m): 7:46pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
It depends on the opportunity you have. Everyone likes to leave and fed for him/herself and pay back to their parents weather rich nor poor. But since the opportunity is not there, what will you do? Pls no one should laugh anyone still leaving with the parents no matter the age, it's not his or her own intentions. One love! ....Chiefo.... 4 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by joeydirisu(m): 7:46pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
left my folks house at 18 rented my 1st house at 21 bought my 1st car at 25 now married with a child at 30 n running my business. Take d bull by d horn, start small n grow 8 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by BoboKush(m): 7:46pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
xpac01: Abeg ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
udomas: squat with someone that is making it, then be ready to serve, use the opportunity to also find for job, be smart, learn, get your own thing going and then move out. 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Alighoda2(m): 7:48pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
wetdick:but it is not good that way we should learn to help one another, that's the only way we can grow as a people |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by gonkin(m): 7:49pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Left at 21,became independent at 25 |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Alighoda2: exactly. |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by BoboKush(m): 7:52pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
SEXYBILLIONAIRE:Hard work.. Smart work without grace is ntn bro |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by nkemdi89(f): 7:53pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
I left my parents house at 18 when I got a federal government job with my o level , trained myself through university and I clocked 30 today. For a lady if you are not employed or having something meaningful at hand, remain with your parents , because men would advantage of your staying alone. It takes a level of discipline to survive it. 17 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Melancho: 7:55pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Most of you living away from your folks, still call them plus your uncles, aunts for money everytime. Becoming a bigger burden to them. Dingbats! Living independently is different from living away from your parents. 8 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by abdulsemiu02(m): 8:01pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
I Hope you all know what it takes to settle down in Lagos. For we lagosians, It’s another case 2 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by tartar9(m): 8:04pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
The moment I can reliably fend for my self,I will run ![]() |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
dkronicle: My guy pls let's be honest, Majority of people who comot from thier parents house usually, wanna have an apartment & bring girls to nack, All those talk of freedom Na bullshyt to justify their ego. If for example ur parents are poor, that is Even more reason to stay with them, they fed you for decades & now YOU DON BECOME ADULT, you bring one shyt like move out, You be eating indomie & rice while ur parents dey soak akamu. Instead stay with them, Hustle & take over the freaking house bills, I ASSURE YOU, YOU WILL BE MORE BLESSED THAN ONE NIGGA WHO ABANDON THEM in order to prove he is man enough to live alone. And I seriously frown upon young ladies moving out, NO MATTER HOW OLD PLEASE STAY WITH ur parents till marriage. Personally I look down upon single women who live alone, unless she's an orphan 9 Likes |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by SEXYBILLIONAIRE(m): 8:06pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Martinez39:i don leave them na. Let them argue with their generator. They think dangote is richest Black man alive because of mercy and luck? 1 Like |
Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by Hoodbilonia: 8:07pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
If na du4ing pdp era No time See men dey take self con at age 21. Rent flat 25 Build house 30. But since apc buhari led regime Oh bobs U run comor from your popsi aous Na die u dey be dat Cuz everywhr hard 3 Likes |
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