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Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by frankblinkz(m): 11:49pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
am late on this thread,but OP just brought out a major problem am passing through right now,like I don't know how to tell her I really don't like her coming to see me almost every day and end up having sex.....Am tired like really tired.. worse part is I keep getting girl's without saying I love you, just talk to Dem as friends,next we on bed. See...truth is girl's love sex more to guys..... 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by shineeye1: 11:49pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
To be a real man, you must muster the braveness to declare your bounds. Make your reservations known to all. You can't continue the way you are doing, wanting to please all and not sooner run into trouble. None embraces fire without getting burnt. No woman should be allowed to visit or stay late into the night- your own woman can deliver that message to those strange visitors. Don't play nicer-than-Jesus please. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 11:50pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
It is the same with every guy that stays away from asking women out. So, nothing special on your case. What you need to do, which works very well, is bring up your girl in every conversation and mention how much you love her. They will get the message. It works very much if you are serious about doing it. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by olajide8(m): 11:50pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
sanmtiago: You want to what? Something dey worry you - what some are paying for 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by uuzba(m): 11:51pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
effnepa:He's a foolish Ajebo big nyash boy with iPhone. Hungry UNICEF girls are coming to breath AC, and relax in his house. Hoping for him to feed them and pay all their expenses with his father's money. His mumuness will be his downfall. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by BalogunIdowu(m): 11:51pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Prevention is better than.... |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by shogsman(m): 11:53pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Tell them you're not interested, going all the way around the matter seems puerile and unnecessary to me. |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by uuzba(m): 11:53pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
BalogunIdowu:....than total stupidness. |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Lovelyn451(f): 11:54pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Resist the devil and he will flee... |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by uuzba(m): 11:59pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
frankblinkz:Sex is meant for marriage. Don't get any gilrfriend if you have no job, cannot pay rent, cannot support yourself. It is unrealistic and irresponsible to use your father's money to be doing boyfriend-Girlfriend. They will tell you people, you won't hear. You will soon impregnate a lady and start murdering an innocent baby in the name of abortion. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Goddyj(m): 12:00am On Mar 16, 2019 |
fūck all of them one by one and you'll thank me later |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Elliot2(m): 12:01am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Headlesschicken:You are one of the few elderly eldered elders,the Methuselah of nairaland. I salute! |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by uuzba(m): 12:01am On Mar 16, 2019 |
koyyes:Let them discover you are not even a serious Christian (Dust on your Bible?) and they will steal all your Christian faith and condemn you to a life of sin with themselves. |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by babadee1(m): 12:03am On Mar 16, 2019 |
sanmtiago: How have you been curbing it up till now? Continue doing that same thing. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by uuzba(m): 12:03am On Mar 16, 2019 |
clive2u:I seriously suspect that he does 100% 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by advocate666: 12:05am On Mar 16, 2019 |
femi4: I know fully well that you wrote this just to get likes. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by MickeyJB(m): 12:07am On Mar 16, 2019 |
femi4: You quoted the OP just to point out that � |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by beauty7: 12:08am On Mar 16, 2019 |
uuzba:there is nothing like stupidness but stupidity or stupidism |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 12:08am On Mar 16, 2019 |
uuzba: I made that phrase 'dust your bible' because the op is fornicating with his girlfriend already. Of course I know he can't preach to them because of that. They would always point out his girlfriend to him. The literatures laying around is just to show them he is not that 'type'. It works. |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 12:09am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Macon1212:Not everyone lacks self control like you. I can definitely relate to the OP. He basically described some aspects of me. Sex while pleasurable is not something that freaks me to the extent of dedicating time and resources chasing women. If I am to chase a woman, its because I really do like being around her,.sex or no sex (unfortunately that doesn't happen often as many folks lack a sound personality and mind, and me I'm well reserved). I've had a girl for 4 years, never cheated, even when she was messing up, not because I want to prove anything to her, its just my principle. I live by my principles. At a time, I was feeling jaded about the whole marriage thingy in lieu of the feminism wave and general apathy of our generation to values like loyalty, honoured trust and truth. I was bold enough to tell my spiritual head that I might have a baby mama or be a serial polygamist and I backed it up with reason. I only dropped it when I was shown that doing so will be in violation to God's ordinance, otherwise I would have done it without batting an eyelid. You see Principle before hormones. Sex is not some ultimate prize. 10 Likes |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 12:14am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Forward their number to me |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by sowilli: 12:14am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Find a job |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Macfortune(m): 12:29am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Oga poster, how can they be nice and you still call them Jezebels? Tell us the main story, this isn't what happened... Thanks. sanmtiago: |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 12:32am On Mar 16, 2019 |
OCEANMORGAN: Do you want him lynched? |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 12:36am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Oyindidi come and see again o. Women don spoil finish, na men dey run away from them now. Everything just abnormal with so called smelling pssy girls we have nowadays. Disgusting things. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Nobody: 12:38am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by TheManOfTheYear: 12:43am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Czarugo007:my brother |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Yahoo24(m): 12:48am On Mar 16, 2019 |
babadee1:Good question??, @op...kindly respond to dis!!! |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by TheManOfTheYear: 12:49am On Mar 16, 2019 |
Jiang:Best advice of the month of March. One beer for you sir 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by Yahoo24(m): 12:51am On Mar 16, 2019 |
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Re: How Do I Politely Turn Down Ladies' Sexual Advances? by TheManOfTheYear: 12:55am On Mar 16, 2019 |
uuzba:I tire!!! One Goldberg for you sir |
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