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We are good by Graduate2015: 12:55am On Mar 17, 2019 |
Thanks for taking ur time to read 1 Like |
Re: We are good by Nobody: 12:57am On Mar 17, 2019 |
Needy, insecure , Petty and very vindictive Grow up, and stop creating fiction on a cheap forum! [img]https://media1./images/41623c30893884b0cd1b2d696a3abd33/tenor.gif?itemid=9495358[/img] 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We are good by cococandy(f): 2:05am On Mar 17, 2019 |
Am I overreacting?’ Not ‘are my overreacting?’ That’s all. 3 Likes |
Re: We are good by Dada2010: 2:50am On Mar 17, 2019 |
My dear you are not over reacting. You should feel betrayed, thats normal. You have told your sisters and your mom how you felt, that shows you have reacted and can face issues instead of running away and holding grudges. But from your post, you have a loving family. So you have to tell them , so they will not think you are retaliating thereby putting strain on your relationship with them. Ultimately ask your husband if you should tell them. Since he also is not telling his family. Putting myself in your shoes, I would tell them when its 4 to 6 months, and don't give any clear details until delivery. NB-your sister didn't tell you because of your sister in law, find out why she was scared, you might want to know |
Re: We are good by Graduate2015: 3:01am On Mar 17, 2019 |
Dada2010: Thanks for ur response. They had a misunderstanding which was about my her husband's attitude and how she is not helping herself(getting pregnant every year, not thinking of doing something), so she feels like our sister in law is gonna get upset and gossip about her more if she finds out about her current situation (that pregnancy). She thinks since we both live in the same country I might tell her hence her reasons for withhelding it from me. |
Re: We are good by donstan18: 9:10am On Mar 17, 2019 |
I find it hard to understand why women are quick to make a big deal out of nothing. Very bad!!
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Re: We are good by Jayslicky: 9:45am On Mar 17, 2019 |
What is wrong with some women? Why exhibit childish behaviour, your mum, you, your sisters are all immature, so if a person does something bad do you also have to do same, grow up and stop whining over spoilt milk. 1 Like |
Re: We are good by Mariangeles(f): 9:34pm On Mar 17, 2019 |
Graduate2015:You're one of those bizarre people right ?? You're not telling any member of your family that you're pregnant, yet you're telling the whole world! I won't be surprised if you got pregnant just to "do your own back " Petty! Petty!! Petty!!! 1 Like |
Re: We are good by mankettle(m): 4:47am On Mar 18, 2019 |
if u tell them or not, who does it affect? if they know or not who does it help? I believe that you are overreacting if it's because your sister didn't tell you she is pregnant that's why you are reluctant to tell your mum and elder sister. relax and take a chill pill. all the others you told them so what is different now? hmm. |
Re: We are good by Rosarie(f): 9:59am On Mar 19, 2019 |
You are over reacting Don't allow the devil come between ur family I have been betrayed by family but mine my sister had no love.. So my dear ur family is closely knitted Don't break the bond Call ur younger sister and show her love. |
Re: We are good by NoToPile: 1:27pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
I find it strange that people get angry over 'she didnt tell me she's pregnant' matter. Its not compulsory your sister tells you shes pregnant neither is it compulsory you tell her you are pregnant. Shikena. I dont even believe in announcing pregnancy. You tell oo, you no tell ooo last last when you born we go hear. Much ado about nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: We are good by mabea: 7:19pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Graduate2015:Then you should understand and eschew vindictiveness. |
Re: We are good by Nobody: 5:11am On Mar 20, 2019 |
Abeg stop jaree,you shouldn't do that since you have all advised her & she refused,just let her be, don't let petty issues like this cause issues between ya family, family is the best thing to me |
Re: We are good by Richy4(m): 12:24pm On Mar 20, 2019 |
What's the big deal about telling people that you were pregnant? Your family are not in a better position to tell your sister how to plan their family...it is between husband and wife... She got pregnant and did not tell u... U too got angry and "fall pregnant" so that u won't tell.... haba!! Is it a competition? |
Re: We are good by elmagnifico411(m): 2:43pm On Mar 20, 2019 |
I think they shoulda let u know that your kid sis was pregnant, and also add 'please don't let her sis in-law know'. You wouldn't have been worried or overreacting. The thing is childish in a way cos the in-law would know someday that the number of kids have increased and there's nothing that will happen. More importantly, I think u guys should go to your sis as a family, and beg her not to think about giving birth again. It's very very dangerous! Her belly has been opened 5 times? She isn't even considering if anything goes wrong, who would take care of her kids.. Lastly, I think u should tell your people that you're pregnant. Like some said, seek permission from your husband first before doing so. After all, you're not a problem to them, and , U and your husband can afford the pregnancy. |
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