.

I virtually gave her the key to my happiness

C'mon Shurup!! What's wrong with you guys?

You gave who the key to your happiness?

You started what she's confidently doing and you are complaining.

You ended the relationship and because she didn't give a damn, you are complaining.

You indirectly gave her the reason to do what she's has been longing to do. Yes, you did.

My advice for you is to know that no one is irreplaceable when it comes to relationships.

You can always get a better person. Don't force yourself on her because you are not in the position to apologise in this issue.

She should, and if she refuses to, then move on.

Na you cause am op. No be her fault. You gave her the excuse she needed. The truth is that most people are insecure and a little opening from you can tip them towards that edge

Obinnau:
Na you cause am op. No be her fault. You gave her the excuse she needed. The truth is that most people are insecure and a little opening from you can tip them towards that edge

Thanks for your response
What do you suggest I do?

donstan18:


C'mon Shurup!! What's wrong with you guys?

You gave who the key to your happiness?

You started what she's confidently doing and you are complaining.

You ended the relationship and because she didn't give a damn, you are complaining.

You indirectly gave her the reason to do what she's has been longing to do. Yes, you did.

My advice for you is to know that no one is irreplaceable when it comes to relationships.

You can always get a better person. Don't force yourself on her because you are not in the position to apologise in this issue.

She should, and if she refuses to, then move on.

Actually what I meant by the happiness thingy was she has been mostly my source of joy asides from work.

Yes actually, her attitude during the whole conversation was surprising for someone who I know actually loves me.
Thank you for your response.

Move on! U dnt deserve ha, vice versa. Let her go! Becus a gal visited u, she said she'll do bck. That gal may b receivin díck bhind ur back.

PORNeliusHUBson:
Move on! U dnt deserve ha, vice versa. Let her go! Becus a gal visited u, she said she'll do bck. That gal may b receivin díck bhind ur back.

My brother the matter tire me.
Thanks for your response.

Since you ended the relationship, be a man and stand by it.

Young man you jump into conclusion easily


So what exactly do you want now..
Be a fucking man and standby your word

Is she still staying with you?

It's certain this lady will later cheat on u if u probably get married; and u have a similar issue like this, geez....I hate girls that will make me to beg and beg in relationship, see, dump that motherfucker and move on with ur life, unless you a re weak guy to do so.....chai I even hate weak guy like u self,

Randy100:
Since you ended the relationship, be a man and stand by it.

Yes I know that's what I'm meant to do especially if she shows no signs of remorse.
Thanks for your response

2dice01:
Young man you jump into conclusion easily


So what exactly do you want now..
Be a fucking man and standby your word

Is she still staying with you?

How did I easily jump into conclusion?
Yes she is, it was only last night I confronted her.
I'm waiting to see her next move concerning staying with me.
Thanks for your response

olowolayemoh:
It's certain this will later cheat on u if u probably get married and u have a similar issue that that happened now, geez....I hate girls that will make me to beg and beg in relationship, see, dump that motherfucker and move on with ur life, unless you re weak guy to do so.....chai I even hate weak guy like u self,

My Bros, I dey beg no be small actually.
I'm far from a weak guy actually especially when I decide to make my move.

Dipsie:


How did I easily jump into conclusion?
Yes she is, it was only last night I confronted her.
I'm waiting to see her next move concerning staying with me.
Thanks for your response

you shouldn't have broken up with her like that


She is likely not going anywhere.. She will be waiting for your next move too

BROS, YOU MAKES THE GIRL FEEL EXTREMELY IMPORTANT WHICH SHOULD NOT BE SO.


SECONDLY, THAT LADY IS THE VERY TOXIC TYPE. SHE ALWAYS BELIEVES THAT AN EYE FOR AN EYE, VERY UNFORGIVING.

IS THAT THE KIND OF PERSON WHO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH?

AS SHE LIVES UNDER YOUR ROOF, ANY CHEATING SHE DOES WILL DEFINITELY AFFECT YOU.


LEAVE HER ALONE, FACE YOUR LIFE AND BE A BETTER PERSON FINANCIALLY AND IN OTHER ASPECTS...


THE NEW GUY WILL BARTER HER SOON AND SHE WOULD WANT TO COME BACK, BUT MAKE SURE YOU SHUT YOUR DOORS.


LET HER GOOOOOOOOO.

2dice01:
you shouldn't have broken up with her like that


She is likely not going anywhere.. She will be waiting for your next move too

I possibly shouldn't have broken up with her but she staying at my place means I get every doze of suspicions and every other thing she does maximally.
This weekend we went out to spend a nice time all in a bid to let her open up to me and try to resolve issues peacefully.
Her actions on Sunday was weakening to me, she really hurt me on Sunday after all my efforts.

Generalnomercy:
BROS, YOU MAKES THE GIRL FEEL EXTREMELY IMPORTANT WHICH SHOULD NOT BE SO.


SECONDLY, THAT LADY IS THE VERY TOXIC TYPE. SHE ALWAYS BELIEVES THAT AN EYE FOR AN EYE, VERY UNFORGIVING.

IS THAT THE KIND OF PERSON WHO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH?

AS SHE LIVES UNDER YOUR ROOF, ANY CHEATING SHE DOES WILL DEFINITELY AFFECT YOU.


LEAVE HER ALONE, FACE YOUR LIFE AND BE A BETTER PERSON FINANCIALLY AND IN OTHER ASPECTS...


THE NEW GUY WILL BARTER HER SOON AND SHE WOULD WANT TO COME BACK, BUT MAKE SURE YOU SHUT YOUR DOORS.


LET HER GOOOOOOOOO.

Yes, I actually over emphasized how important she is to me...I take blame for that.
Imagine she been so upset with me during my birthday period last year and she still kept on giving me attitude even on my birthday.. Lol

One thing I assure myself and I know is that only a handful of guys would bear a lot of things like I have done.
Thanks for your response

Dipsie:


My Bros, I dey beg no be small actually.
I'm far from a weak guy actually especially when I decide to make my move.

Okay o

Woman go soon kill a Nairalander. Op I’m not talking to you but most guys on here. Very soon person go commit suicide coz of woman.

Dipsie:

I possibly shouldn't have broken up with her but she staying at my place means I get every doze of suspicions and every other thing she does maximally.
This weekend we went out to spend a nice time all in a bid to let her open up to me and try to resolve issues peacefully.
Her actions on Sunday was weakening to me, she really hurt me on Sunday after all my efforts.

stop ranting bros.


She’s gone sour already. Nothing you can do about it. Either you act like she’s co habiting with you for the mean time and careless about her excess’s. Or kindly ask her to leave to have your sanity back.

This is why I smoke weed, act funny to me, I roll one, before I drag 4 puff I’m already with about 10 strippers in my head.

Edited: stop being too nice to ladies. When you too nice to them, believe me they take it for granted.

Dipsie:

I possibly shouldn't have broken up with her but she staying at my place means I get every doze of suspicions and every other thing she does maximally.
This weekend we went out to spend a nice time all in a bid to let her open up to me and try to resolve issues peacefully.
Her actions on Sunday was weakening to me, she really hurt me on Sunday after all my efforts.

you should have keep it low

Act like everything is cool
Hack her phone

Get to know if she is cheating or not then that is game over
You won't even have open this thread

2dice01:
you should have keep it low

Act like everything is cool
Hack her phone

Get to know if she is cheating or not then that is game over
You won't even have open this thread

I've sent you a PM, kindly reply.
Thanks

DUDE, IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS LADY THEN YOU SHOULD PLAY A DEAF EAR TO WHAT THOSE GUYS ABOVE ME ARE SAYING.
SHE'S YOUR WOMAN, YOU KNOW HER AND THO SHE MIGHT BE ACTING FUNNY, IT'S STILL NOT TOO LATE. YOU CAN HAVE A HEARTY DISCUSSION WITH HER. LET HER KNOW WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON. ABOUT HOW STRAIGT 4WARD U'VE BEEN WITH HER THE WHOLE TIME AND EXPECT HER TO BE TRUE TO YOU IN RETURN. APOLOGIZE TO HER ALL OVER AGAIN.. HER RESPONSE AND REACTION AFTERWARDS TILL THE NEXT FEWS DAYS WILL DETERMINE WHETHER SHE STILL LOVES YOU OR NOT.
COMMUNICATION IS KEY IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP



PEACE!

Dipsie:


Actually what I meant by the happiness thingy was she has been mostly my source of joy asides from work.

Yes actually, her attitude during the whole conversation was surprising for someone who I know actually lovesme.
Thank you for your response.

Sharrraaapp! A lady who is about to cheat or is cheating on you is your source of joy? Una weak like rubber wey don slack.

What can you use to keep a woman ?
A woman can only be kept if she want to be kept. That is the simple reason .Now if we all here devise a way for you to keep her fine you will succeed but have it in mind that she will also do kpekus connections outside. That is just it. The other man that pick her up every morning is her darling. No doubt, if you check well the man may even be married as well.
She just want a show off...at her work place that man will be known as her bf.
Okay busrt ur head. Tell her u gonna visit her at her work place.
She will not want that because u will just spoil show.
Zero ur mind and move on . I am not saying you should leave her.
Play along but my friend u will do a lot mistake by getting married to her.
Don't reason the number of years you guys have been together. That will be ur undoing.

Dipsie:

I've sent you a PM, kindly reply.
Thanks

have followed you

Kindly follow back and resend the message so i can see it

I wanted to abuse you but I know that feeling when you are in love with a hoe. You are to blame for all this, You are too open minded to a woman and that's what killing you. Must you tell a woman that your work mate came visiting? Tell her to pack out to be with her new guy. She's staying in your home and you are condoning this. Bro you are a weakling I swear. You should be in control, don't beg a woman. Woman will always take advantage of you when you beg them in situations like this. Women like men that are in control. Be in control of your relationship and please what's with the I haven't cheated on her for the past 3 years. So you mean you never see girls for instamessage, stop dulling yourself Mr

Are you sure you have a pair down there? I mean in between your damn legs? Yes a pair of balls, do you have any? You gave a woman the key to your happiness? Now she’s gone with the key, what else would you do now? Jump into the lagoon? The type of effeminate guys we have these days parading as men is quite appalling. Grow some balls, move on with your life if she’s not ready for a relationship with you

I WISH I CAN HELP YOU O

stupidity:
stop ranting bros.


She’s gone sour already. Nothing you can do about it. Either you act like she’s co habiting with you for the mean time and careless about her excess’s. Or kindly ask her to leave to have your sanity back.

This is why I smoke weed, act funny to me, I roll one, before I drag 4 puff I’m already with about 10 strippers in my head.

Edited: stop being too nice to ladies. When you too nice to them, believe me they take it for granted.

Thank you!
Much appreciated

psalmsmiles:
DUDE, IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS LADY THEN YOU SHOULD PLAY A DEAF EAR TO WHAT THOSE GUYS ABOVE ME ARE SAYING.
SHE'S YOUR WOMAN, YOU KNOW HER AND THO SHE MIGHT BE ACTING FUNNY, IT'S STILL NOT TOO LATE. YOU CAN HAVE A HEARTY DISCUSSION WITH HER. LET HER KNOW WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON. ABOUT HOW STRAIGT 4WARD U'VE BEEN WITH HER THE WHOLE TIME AND EXPECT HER TO BE TRUE TO YOU IN RETURN. APOLOGIZE TO HER ALL OVER AGAIN.. HER RESPONSE AND REACTION AFTERWARDS TILL THE NEXT FEWS DAYS WILL DETERMINE WHETHER SHE STILL LOVES YOU OR NOT.
COMMUNICATION IS KEY IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP



PEACE!

Thank you bro!

Celestial777:
What can you use to keep a woman ?
A woman can only be kept if she want to be kept. That is the simple reason .Now if we all here devise a way for you to keep her fine you will succeed but have it in mind that she will also do kpekus connections outside. That is just it. The other man that pick her up every morning is her darling. No doubt, if you check well the man may even be married as well.
She just want a show off...at her work place that man will be known as her bf.
Okay busrt ur head. Tell her u gonna visit her at her work place.
She will not want that because u will just spoil show.
Zero ur mind and move on . I am not saying you should leave her.
Play along but my friend u will do a lot mistake by getting married to her.
Don't reason the number of years you guys have been together. That will be ur undoing.

Thanks, would do just that