faith551:
Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.
I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I'll pick interest). On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn't like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).
Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she's on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.
This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".
Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

eph12:
Just two weeks and she's already your girlfriend? Is that how they do it these days?

eph12:
Just two weeks and she's already your girlfriend? Is that how they do it these days?

DanDeeBoss:
Red flag @first bolded: just two weeks, considering the fact that she was introduced to you by your friend...

I'd advise you reply her with just a "wow" to signify you saw the message...

DanDeeBoss:
Guyman just rush everything

sexy74:

My brother e tire me ooh.
Abeg ask him again.

faith551:
Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.
I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I'll pick interest). On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn't like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).
Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she's on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.
This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".
Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

DanDeeBoss:
Guyman just rush everything

eph12:


Guy is dating himself

Davash222:
Just two weeks and you’re catching feelings

faith551:
Ok, let me make this as short as possible as I need urgent insight.
I met this girl 2weeks ago through a friend. We had casual chat, then I noticed my friend was always saying good things about her (I got the hint the lady must have incited him to do that so I'll pick interest). On meeting (by coincidence) a second time we exchanged numbers, I dnt know how she did it but she got under my skin in a flash. We went on dates twice in a week and the most shocking fact was she footed the bills. (I didn't like that fact tho, but she gets angry when I protest).
Fast-forwarded to few days ago, she travelled back to the west where she works and started acting weird. Actually they were really subtle changes but my 6th sense has a way of magnifying such anomalies, painting vivid pictures. She stopped calling as she does, misses my call without calling back, starts speaking Ibo when she's on phone with me around her colleagues and many more of such acts. I acted cool and matured by not jumping into conclusions.
This evening*
I got a text from her which read "Smiles, lovey-dovey. and where is he going to??".
Normal me would ignore the text and wait for her to come up with flimsy excuses before I flay her, but am scared she would have time to cook-up a coverup story if I don't point it out that I SEE HER.
whats ur opinion guys.
sorry for the lenghty write and typos tho

faith551:



she's pretty, and brainy.
btw how many ladies these days get to offer to foot bills?

faith551:



she's pretty, and brainy.
btw how many ladies these days get to offer to foot bills?

faith551:



thank bro. but am thinking something more subtle but direct like. "Ok, now I guess that wasnt for me"

MiaB:
lol she's playing away games

SEXYBILLIONAIRE:
met many that foot bills. As long as its not up-to 10k. No big deal

ObaKlaz:
What kind of males do we have these days?! Reminds me of this contract worker who came on board 2 years ago. She was cute, got a banging body & all, so I shoot my shot & we hit it off. Weeks later, she started acting funny. Wouldn't pick my calls or reply chats, wouldn't hangout after work no more. I dug around and found that she had been seeing this cashier guy. Now, I'm far from being a miser, but this other guy was more generous, or should I say prodigal with money. Bought her stuff & cruised around with her to places like a cheap thug on weekends. I got her 'message', deleted her numbers & ignored her, though I still say the routine HI-HI to her @ work. A month later, she called me & accused me of 'acting weird' & ignoring her. I discovered that the cashier-guy ain't as strong with her as before, prolly after tasting her cookie a couple times too! She started acting all cool again but I effectively work-zoned her. Now, OP: WOULD IT KILL YOU TO IGNORE HER & GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE? ? ?

faith551:



wudnt be hard to do. but you know how they end up acting the victims.

correctyourself:


Don't worry yourself just see her as she has moved on and stop paying attention to her issue to avoid any pain, you're lucky the relationship is still very new, go back to your normal life before you met her.it would help you.

She could be one of those lady who find love anywhere they travel to and pay attention to whom they are currently with, she may have ignored the call of others while she was with you just like what she is doing to you now.

When next is your turn she would come and beg you, but don't expect that from her for now because her antenna signal is not facing your direction now, hence you would not get her network .

ObaKlaz:
What kind of males do we have these days?! Reminds me of this contract worker who came on board 2 years ago. She was cute, got a banging body & all, so I shoot my shot & we hit it off. Weeks later, she started acting funny. Wouldn't pick my calls or reply chats, wouldn't hangout after work no more. I dug around and found that she had been seeing this cashier guy. Now, I'm far from being a miser, but this other guy was more generous, or should I say prodigal with money. Bought her stuff & cruised around with her to places like a cheap thug on weekends. I got her 'message', deleted her numbers & ignored her, though I still say the routine HI-HI to her @ work. A month later, she called me & accused me of 'acting weird' & ignoring her. I discovered that the cashier-guy ain't as strong with her as before, prolly after tasting her cookie a couple times too! She started acting all cool again but I effectively work-zoned her. Now, OP: WOULD IT KILL YOU TO IGNORE HER & GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE? ? ?

ObaKlaz:
What kind of males do we have these days?! Reminds me of this contract worker who came on board 2 years ago. She was cute, got a banging body & all, so I shoot my shot & we hit it off. Weeks later, she started acting funny. Wouldn't pick my calls or reply chats, wouldn't hangout after work no more. I dug around and found that she had been seeing this cashier guy. Now, I'm far from being a miser, but this other guy was more generous, or should I say prodigal with money. Bought her stuff & cruised around with her to places like a cheap thug on weekends. I got her 'message', deleted her numbers & ignored her, though I still say the routine HI-HI to her @ work. A month later, she called me & accused me of 'acting weird' & ignoring her. I discovered that the cashier-guy ain't as strong with her as before, prolly after tasting her cookie a couple times too! She started acting all cool again but I effectively work-zoned her. Now, OP: WOULD IT KILL YOU TO IGNORE HER & GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE? ? ?

eph12:
Just two weeks and she's already your girlfriend? Is that how they do it these days?

faith551:


thats the point. I didnt want to be specific as it will make the story boring. If am to be honest, she would have spent not less than 12k