AnonymousXYZ:
Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

Sanchez01:

Bad counsel. It is too early to detect a thing.

Daeylar:
Men showing how much they are scum all over FP.
See advice, "blame her for it" smh.

I hope she dumped your stupid cheating ass right after she read that message.

tee59:
Tell her you both need to go for regular check up or test to know if you can straff raw without using protection and both you can also be saved from any infection, and if detected, the affected partner can get treatment immediately. After getting her treated, change your words by saying, you don't want any unwanted pregnancy for now as you need to plan well for her and her baby. So you starts using protection for sex if you wish too.

AnonymousXYZ:
that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

Authoreety:
Bros, u fvcked up big time...

Anyway, Start by asking her how clean her toilet has been...


U can start from there, use ur brain brother and then make her go for treatment

ThothHermes:
Blame her for it. Shout to the heavens and let the whole neighborhood hear your voice. She will start apologizing immediately

Daeylar:
Men showing how much they are scum all over FP.
See advice, "blame her for it" smh.

I hope she dumped your stupid cheating ass right after she read that message.

cococandy:
gonorrhea can cause infertility in men and women. And it doesn’t show symptoms. Not telling her would be him making a decision to affect her child bearing capacity in future. He has treated his, he should give her the same opportunity

themonk:

You cannot be sure if you have HIV till the sixth month. A better bet would be to go and test the girl you had the fling with for HIV, do not infect an innocent girlfriend just because of a fling. Tell her the truth if she finds out she deserved it and hope she forgives you.

Make sure you take this advice because if she later turns to be HIV positive you won't forgive yourself neither will she forgive you. Gonorrhea is just the easy one that shows up a few days after, HIV is what you should be worried about.

tete7000:



Infidelity to who? Are they both married? The way I know, only people in marriage can talk about infidelity. Both has paid the price for fornication..There is a way that seems right to man but the end is destruction...Truth is bitter...

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later

AnonymousXYZ:
of course I know. I've built in a way that her faithfulness isn't a problem. She's 100 loyal

TarOrfeek:


Kill Her, so that another man will not contact the infection.


Please?!

AnonymousXYZ:
Update folks: I've sent her a message on WhatsApp, explaining everything to her. If una no hear from me, know sey ee don sup.
Lefulefu
Sherylbakky
Blissgregory
And others who contributed

sinaj:
He should go for Hiv test with the other girl that gave him the gonorrhea to be on the safer side.

I dont really understand how a guy can comfortably kiss let alone have unprotected sex with a random girl with all the disease in town.
God safe us!

AnonymousXYZ:
that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

tete7000:


What is innocent about a girl sleeping around with a man she is not married to. Nothing kills faster than ignorance and stupidity...

AnonymousXYZ:
that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

DukeNija:


You don mess up! Which kind guy you be? Admitting you cheated? Looool

LadyHeaven:
I so enjoy the hypocrisy exhibited on this great forum, just negodu men dem advising the op to not tell her until notices herself, heap the blame on her whilst accusing her of been a cheap farm tool, just a pat in the back, no outcry on his disloyalty, some even going as far as saying girlfriend no be wife, but if the tables where turned and the girl did even something minute as cuddling with another guy this topic would have been up to 25 pages of pure curses.. Smh

AnonymousXYZ:
Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you

Sanchez01:

So he shouldn't open up that he cheated? How would he tell her about the supposed STI sitting in her body and where it came from? Even in a dire situation as this, you'd rather not come clean? What is wrong with some of you