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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ: 8:33pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Baby has accepted the proposal too ![]() Relieved... Just pray it ends here, and well. I'll never CHEAT again. An eye opener. Thanks all
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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by themonk(m): 8:33pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
tete7000:The problem I have with discussing with Nigerians is that they always jump from one line of thought to another. I'm sorry to use this collective description for all nigerians but unfortunately that is the case. Read through our discussion and rank your coherency. My final answer is that you should not blame the girl because she is not doing anything different from what married couples do. Which is be faithful (if the OP is right) and hope your partner does not cheat. Thanks for your thoughts on this matter, I appreciate. Have a wonderful day. |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 8:34pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Shibaraba:oh my lawd, when will nairalanders ever grow up. 1 Like |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by RiyadhGoddess(f): 8:37pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
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Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by sinaj(f): 8:42pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Sanchez01: Earlier he knows, better for him and his gf. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by tete7000(m): 8:43pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
themonk: The problem I have with people like you is that you talk on issues you are not deep enough to comprehend. You compare marriages to open relationships, you think the same rule guides the two when it was clear that are legal boundaries to one and none to the other You called innocent a girl who knowingly gave her body over to a man she is not married to to toy with. You tried to exonerate her of stupidity and foolishness when it was clear those attributes have got her into the mess she found herself. I don't know if you are a father, but just in case you are, I honestly don't envy your children because you can't give them any moral compass to guide them. Your girls will be loose and be at mercy of vampire boys who might turn them to easy preys, infecting them with diseases while they sit there claiming innocence. Your boys are going to be ruled by sexual passions not knowing where to draw boundaries. I pray God open your eyes to see before it is too late. Thanks for your time. 6 Likes |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by versashee: 8:47pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
udemzyudex: Wife fit still give u HIV |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by sinaj(f): 8:47pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
tete7000:You are very ignorant |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 8:50pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Newboss: Small boy. Your broke a.ss brain needs rewiring. Olosho. |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Anacondaprick: 8:53pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Aunty pocohantas |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by udemzyudex(m): 8:55pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
versashee: Chai, no where is save. |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by iHart(m): 8:58pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Your girl may be the culprit here. Few days after you had it with your random girl, no symptoms. then just two days with your girlfriend you started seeing symptoms,... hey dude, that your girlfriend is a suspect!!! Test the two specifically for Gonorrhea. Be sure the test is for gonorrhea, because most labs don't run that test but they claim they do. Just be specific, tell them you want to test for gonorrhea!!! test the two girls!!! ..and the random girl admitted she has a toilet infect. Dude, gonorrhea is not a toilet infection. I strongly suspect your girl. ...your girl accepts you back without stress, dude she is cheating!!! no matter how dummy a girl is, if she is faithful, she won't tolerate unfaithful guy so easy. 1 Like |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Thank God you have a push over girlfriend. Some women will accept anything just to have a man smh. Good luck to you and your future AnonymousXYZ: 2 Likes |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by FlyingTOMATOE: 9:01pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
AnonymousXYZ:as unfortunate as it is,the best thing is to inform her and get her treated. Prepare for the worst too because you will lose her trust and respect even if she still loves you. 1 Like |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by tete7000(m): 9:03pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
sinaj: Your opinion precipitated by your life style, but I am 100% certain I am far more enlightened than you. Very certain of that. What do you know? Nothing!!! 4 Likes |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by themonk(m): 9:06pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
tete7000:Who told you they are in an open relationship, can you point to one reference to an open relationship made in that original post or are you pulling that out from the nowhere? |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by themonk(m): 9:07pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
sinaj:Don't even exhange words with him, he cannot stick to a logical line of thought. |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ: 9:07pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Saffi: ![]() |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ: 9:09pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Saffi:I'm not her only choice. She has TONS of guys flocking around her,but she chose me. Right, call me a cheating b*stars, but doesn't change the fact that I love her. Pssst* 2 Likes |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by stanliwise(m): 9:09pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
AnonymousXYZ:Be a man and bear the responsibility of your actions. In reality you don't have to win always. You were responsible for your actions, take the responsibility and the pains with it. Tell her to forgive you and give her reason why. if you're lucky she may comeback to you after she leave you for only but a short while. The only reason you should lie is if you know deep down you don't want to change your ways and you still have the intentions of having sex like you just did at some other points in time. Aside this, no other reasons are fit. I hope you think this through. |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Yoighaman(m): 9:09pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
@Op, inform the other girl and plead with her to run HIV test, if for any reason she agrees and it comes out negative, lucky you, thank her for the nice gesture, phase 1passed. Phase 2: Call your girlfriend, tell her you were feeling funny and went for a test and tested positive for hepititis b (or whatever jargon you can concoct), make sure it's what an antibiotic can cure, bamboozle her with all the street and emotional intelligence you got, have her take the meds, never tell her you cheated and contracted gonorrhea, you risk losing her if you did that. She'd take the meds and be fine afterwards. Phase 3: Avoid taking too much alcohol going forward, it makes we humans do crazy stuffs (see what your Etinosa actress did). Vow there would never be a re-ocurrence of this incident. Phase 4: Fix whatever issues in the relationship that got you attracted to cheating on her, alcohol only brings out preconceived intentions, I feel it's the easiest vice that make guys go gaga, and if it's something else, check it, whatever it is, psychological, emotional, whatever. ...and to all those insulting or cursing you, don't give a Bleep, you only came out plain and sought advice, they act like them holy pass but nobody holy pass. Cheers bro. |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ: 9:10pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
stanliwise:I've thought this through, over and over again. I ain't going down that lane... Ever again... Now and forever |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Blue3k(m): 9:10pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
AnonymousXYZ Be a man let her know what happened. Take her to doctor and pay for expenses. There's nothing more to it. |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Nobody: 9:11pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
OK sir. AnonymousXYZ: |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by Jeboy(m): 9:12pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Its been interesting reading people opinion on this thread. If you belong to readers association like me just click the like button ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by tete7000(m): 9:13pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
themonk: If you have read well enough through, you will know they are not married. Or does a man call his wife 'girlfriend'? If I may ask do you know what makes a relationship close? Just in case you don't know, only a marital vow does. By the way you called yourself a monk. As a monk, is your position aligning with the thought pattern of people trained to be monks? 3 Likes |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by def111(m): 9:16pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
My brother. Just tell her that she have toilet infection... 1 Like |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by stanliwise(m): 9:16pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
AnonymousXYZ:Then since you want to make this commitment, then you have your answers. Go and make the confession. A strong relationship need trust and transparency. Your confession will justify this. |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ: 9:17pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Yoighaman:thanks a lot for this bro. I appreciate |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by AnonymousXYZ: 9:17pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Blue3k:Alright. No problems |
Re: I Unknowingly Infected My Girlfriend With Gonorrhea. Advice needed by SEXYBILLIONAIRE(m): 9:20pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
AnonymousXYZ:ok tell her u gave her gono na. What answer you dey expect Abi u be the same guy trolling us on ashawo thread? |
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