[quote author=AnonymousXYZ post=76790447]Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you. go to the hospital

AnonymousXYZ:
Alright. No problems

But come let me ask you??
How sure are you that you girl is a "saint". have you also thought whether the gonorhea was from her??

Saffi:
Thank God you have a push over girlfriend. Some women will accept anything just to have a man smh. Good luck to you and your future cheating endeavours.

He obviously didn't admit he's been cheating to her. Only said they should go for medical checkup. Wish I had her phone number. Dang

AnonymousXYZ:
I'm not her only choice. She has TONS of guys flocking around her,but she chose me. Right, call me a cheating b*stars, but doesn't change the fact that I love her. Pssst*

she chose you cus she doesn't know you're a cheating ass Sissy

stanliwise:
But come let me ask you??
How sure are you that you girl is a "saint". have you also thought whether the gonorhea was from her??

I don't think. We've been ******* before, and nothing like this happened. I went to bed with this other girl, and a day after I did, baby came around and we went down. A day difference is too early for gonorrhea to manifest na... So it's definitely not her.
Thanks for your input

Baddiezz:
He obviously didn't admit he's been cheating to her. Only said they should go for medical checkup. Wish I had her phone number. Dang

just ONCE. Drop it already

WHEN YOU START GOING AFTER ANYTHING IN SKIRT, IT MEANS YOU NEED DELIVERANCE. NOW THE WORK OF THE FLESH ARE EVIDENT: SEXUAL IMMORALITY, IMPURITY, SENSUALITY, IDOLATRY, SORCERY, ENMITY, STRIFE, FITS OF ANGER, DRUNKENNESS, ORGIES, THINGS LIKE THIS. I WARN YOU, AS I WARNED YOU BEFORE, THAT THOSE WHO DO SUCH THINGS WILL NOT INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD.

MiaB:
she chose you cus she doesn't know you're a cheating ass Sissy

tnak you, but ignoring you seems to me the most viable option now

Officialgarri:
Put the blame on her, ask her how she contacted the infection and thank me later

Are u for real? Fear God ooo����

FORGET WHAT HURT YOU BUT NEVER FORGET WHAT IT TAUGHT YOU...!!!

gypsey:
Gonorhea is treatable, it's no big deal, i ve been infected with Gonorhea 15 times, i am still here picking up Different women Always.

i ve even caught Syphillis multiple times.

you get sense?

OHHH really. I didn’t even read it properly. This guy is so stupid, I pray God deliverance her from him.

Baddiezz:
He obviously didn't admit he's been cheating to her. Only said they should go for medical checkup. Wish I had her phone number. Dang

BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND OF NOWADAYS MEANS NOTHING, BUT VANITY UPON VANITY. IF YOU'RE A MAN IN NEED OF A WOMAN "GET MARRIED".IF YOU'RE A WOMAN IN NEED OF A MAN "GET MARRIED".SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE IS CALLED "FORNICATION" WHICH IS "SIN".FLEE FORNICATION. SIN'S KISSES KILL. BUT, SIN WILL DISAPPEAR WITH THE DISAPPEARANCE OF DEATH...!!!

AnonymousXYZ:
tnak you, but ignoring you seems to me the most viable option now

Yet you couldn't help yourself but reply dum-dum ninny

KendrickAyomide:
you get sense?

you talking ne me?

Smh

AnonymousXYZ:
Baby has accepted the proposal too
Relieved... Just pray it ends here, and well. I'll never CHEAT again. An eye opener.
Thanks all

mumu

gypsey:
you taking to me?

yes sir

MiaB:
she chose you cus she doesn't know you're a cheating ass Sissy

thank you, but ignoring you seems to me the most viable option now

KendrickAyomide:
yes sir

So what exactly is your point?

AnonymousXYZ:
thank you, but ignoring you seems to me the most viable option now

Saffi:
Then later we will have men who shame women who are single and over a certain age, but just take a look at the breed of men that are littering Nigeria. One has a diseased penis and the rest of them are supporting him, advising him to switch the blame on his girlfriend. I’m disgusted.

Utterly disgusted. From the pit of my stomach, I want to tell them a lot of things... but I know they are just incarnates of misery, so I'll save my energy.

THE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE AND SEX: SEX IS MEANT FOR MARRIED COUPLES ONLY. MARRIAGE IS ORDAINED AND APPROVED BY GOD(THE CREATOR OF HEAVEN AND EARTH).WHEN YOU ARE FULLY MARRIED, YOU HAVE RIGHT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER ANY TIME, ANY HOUR, AND ANY DAY YOU WANT, IT'S APPROVED BY GOD. BUT, WHEN YOU ARE NOT MARRIED, YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE, IT'S A SIN UNTO GOD, AND YOU ARE BRINGING/PLACING AN INDELIBLE CURSE UPON YOUR HEAD. TO BE FOR WARNED IS TO BE FOR ARMED...!!!

I am just trying to imagine if the situation is the other way round, as in, it is a girl that cheated and then infected her loyal boyfriend, Lord!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, only Almighty God know how the hypocritical guys on this NL would have finish her with abuses and curses.
But imagine that thrashes they are spewing here. Some advising him to turn the accusations onto her, some telling to not to ever come out truthful. Just imagine the kinds of so called guys we have here on NL? To me, they ain't mature guys but sissies, hypocritical beings very annoying set of neophytes.
I am also a guy but don't condone hypocrisy.
Mtwsssssssss.

AnonymousXYZ:
I don't think. We've been ******* before, and nothing like this happened. I went to bed with this other girl, and a day after I did, baby came around and we went down. A day difference is too early for gonorrhea to manifest na... So it's definitely not her.
Thanks for your input

just saying, so you don't sell yourself(vulnerability) and confession to the wrong person.

abdulkayus:
I am just trying to imagine if the situation is the other way round, as in, it is a girl that cheated and then infected her loyal boyfriend, Lord!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, only Almighty God know how the hypocritical guys on this NL would have finish her with abuses and curses.
But imagine that thrashes they are spewing here. Some advising him to turn the accusations onto her, some telling to not to ever come out truthful. Just imagine the kinds of so called guys we have here on NL? To me, they ain't mature guys but sissies, hypocritical beings very annoying set of neophytes.
I am also a guy but don't condone hypocrisy.
Mtwsssssssss.

I tell you. I'm totally appalled by the BS i been reading here.

The best part of the write-up was when he said that he picked a random chick up from an eatery lol. I'm 50% amused and 50% disgusted

OP sorry, for once I no get epistle for you. Theres no way of doing it apart from telling her the truth...if i were a really terrible person i would tell you to get the meds and drop them in her drink or something, but if you dissolve them it renders them ineffective

And you really need to tell her fast before you destroy her womb

The type of answers we are seeing should serve as an example of the rampant misogyny on NL. You people make me sick.. *Lucifer's spitting meme*..

Men! Men!! Men!!! How many times did i call you?

LadyHeaven:
I so enjoy the hypocrisy exhibited on this great forum, just negodu men dem advising the op to not tell her until notices herself, heap the blame on her whilst accusing her of been a cheap farm tool, just a pat in the back, no outcry on his disloyalty, some even going as far as saying girlfriend no be wife, but if the tables where turned and the girl did even something minute as cuddling with another guy this topic would have been up to 25 pages of pure curses.. Smh

lol

AnonymousXYZ:
harder than you think...

You could make her infertile...

Little girls selling themselves short since Eve

AnonymousXYZ:
Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you

Well, if your girlfriend infects anyone, they may be bold enough to tell her and even treat her. So don't worry.

On a serious, you have no choice but to inform her. Please do so fast.