AnonymousXYZ:
I'm not her only choice. She has TONS of guys flocking around her,but she chose me. Right, call me a cheating b*stars, but doesn't change the fact that I love her. Pssst*

themonk:

You cannot be sure if you have HIV till the sixth month. A better bet would be to go and test the girl you had the fling with for HIV, do not infect an innocent girlfriend just because of a fling. Tell her the truth if she finds out she deserved it and hope she forgives you.

Make sure you take this advice because if she later turns to be HIV positive you won't forgive yourself neither will she forgive you. Gonorrhea is just the easy one that shows up a few days after, HIV is what you should be worried about.

Baddiezz:
He obviously didn't admit he's been cheating to her. Only said they should go for medical checkup. Wish I had her phone number. Dang

gypsey:
Gonorhea is treatable, it's no big deal, i ve been infected with Gonorhea 15 times, i am still here picking up Different women Always.

i ve even caught Syphillis multiple times.

Dinho20:
TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN

SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF HIV:
AS EARLY AS 2-4 WEEKS AFTER EXPOSURE TO HIV, PEOPLE CAN EXPERIENCE AN ACUTE ILLNESS, OFTEN DESCRIBED AS "THE WORST FLU EVER". THIS IS CALLED ACUTE RETROVIRAL SYNDROME, OR PRIMARY HIV INFECTION, AND IT'S THE BODY'S NATURAL RESPONSE TO HIV INFECTION. DURING PRIMARY HIV INFECTION, THEIR ARE HIGHER LEVELS OF VIRUS CIRCULATING IN THE BLOOD. WHICH MEANS THAT PEOPLE CAN MORE EASILY TRANSMIT THE VIRUS TO OTHERS. SYMPTOMS OF HIV INCLUDE:
1.) FEVER
2.) CHILLS
3.) RASH
4.) NIGHT SWEATS
5.) MUSCLE ACHES
6.) SORE THROAT
7.) FATIGUE
8.) SWOLLEN LYMPH NODES
9.) ULCER IN THE MOUTH
SIN WILL GIVE YOU AS MUCH PLEASURE AS IT WANTS YOU TO HAVE, BUT ITS ALWAYS WAITING FOR THE TIME TO BREAK YOUR LIFE APART.
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!!!

LadyHeaven:
I so enjoy the hypocrisy exhibited on this great forum, just negodu men dem advising the op to not tell her until notices herself, heap the blame on her whilst accusing her of been a cheap farm tool, just a pat in the back, no outcry on his disloyalty, some even going as far as saying girlfriend no be wife, but if the tables where turned and the girl did even something minute as cuddling with another guy this topic would have been up to 25 pages of pure curses.. Smh

abdulkayus:
I am just trying to imagine if the situation is the other way round, as in, it is a girl that cheated and then infected her loyal boyfriend, Lord!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, only Almighty God know how the hypocritical guys on this NL would have finish her with abuses and curses.
But imagine that thrashes they are spewing here. Some advising him to turn the accusations onto her, some telling to not to ever come out truthful. Just imagine the kinds of so called guys we have here on NL? To me, they ain't mature guys but sissies, hypocritical beings very annoying set of neophytes.
I am also a guy but don't condone hypocrisy.
Mtwsssssssss.

BlindAngel:



Bro, what about the normal hiv symptoms after 3 - 4 week's?? How rare is it to bro. Please respond back please.

themonk:

Check out the early symptoms here, but they are not final as many other illness can have those symptoms too. The only way you can verify your status is through a test in the hospital.

https://www.webmd.com/hiv-aids/understanding-aids-hiv-symptoms

AnonymousXYZ:
just ONCE. Drop it already

BlindAngel:


Thank u very much bro, i got what i was lookin for...thank you

CuddleBear:
Admitting here doesn't rectify anything ,tell it to her face

Baddiezz:
If you dont tell her your thunder is doing press up

Pee01:
Bro... Don't panic.. Gonorrhea in women are mostly asymptomatic... She will not know that she is infected.... Xo just tell her that u want to be using condoms to prevent pregnancy.... Den any time she is down with malaria... U can now use a broad spectrum antibiotics and antimalaria to treat her...
By de way.... Are u having pains on ya scrotum... If yes... U beta treat it well, cos gonorrhea is xo resistant to almost all antibiotics.

PrimadonnaO:


How the heck do you love a person and still cheat on them? Bloody how!!!

AnonymousXYZ:
hello guys..
So I ended up calling this other girl and she told me she went to do a test aand she was told she got it from the toilet. Just gonorrhea, nothing else......
She snapped the test results for me....
So right about tomorrow, I'm going to the hospital tomorrow around 10am with my babe for diagnosis and proper treatment...
Thank you all for the advice. I appreciate your help and support

AnonymousXYZ:
Hello folks. I'm at a dilemma right now.

Had to create a new moniker. Pretty popular here.
I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now. A girl everyone would want to have, but I've goofed... Big time.

I had a random fling with a girl I met sometime at an eatery, and as we were ******* the condom tore, and I just proceeded like that, throwing caution to the wind.
After a few days, my GF came, and we had unprotected sex. Amazing stuff and all.

A day or two later, I noticed discharge from my manhood: which meant only one thing; I had contacted gonorrhea. I went for tests, and It was confirmed. I was given antibiotics and 3 shots of injections, and everything was back to normality.

I'm feeling guilty as of now, and don't know how to tell her she's contacted the infection.

I'd appreciate any advice on how to go forward with this.

No bashing please. Thank you

themonk:
Welcome, have a good night.

lefulefu:
Stop nacking every random girl u see in eateries,ATM stands and car parks in other to minimise contacting stds and also carry ur girl and urself to the hospital. If u no fight the disease now remember that untreated STD can render a man impotent.

grandstar:


Bros, are you married? Do you have kids?

If not, please go to a sperm bank and have your sperm stored specially for your use only.

STD are a major cause of sterility or male infertility and just in case it happens ( I pray not), you'll have insurance. (Read Proverbs 27:12).

Best however you stop being promiscuous. Wish you the best

BlindAngel:



Bro, what about the normal hiv symptoms after 3 - 4 week's?? How rare is it to bro. Please respond back please.

sinaj:
He should go for Hiv test with the other girl that gave him the gonorrhoe to be on the safer side.

I dont really understand how a guy can comfortably kiss let alone have unprotected sex with a random girl with all the disease in town.
God safe us!

Shibaraba:
Oga tell her you nacked another girl and got it from her.... Na girlfriend no be wife. If she stays she stays if she goes continue banging aunty gonorrhea

AnonymousXYZ:
that's not fair. It's obviously not from her own end. She's FAITHFUL. 100%

AnonymousXYZ:
What makes me a coward? Admitting my wrongs and trying to rectify this without hurting feelings makes me a coward?
Please SWERVE

JamaicanLove:





How do you sleep at night?


You are a terrible person

BlindAngel:


Thank u very much bro, i got what i was lookin for...thank you

Shibaraba:

How I sleep?
Seeley avenue Chicago Illinois a bottle of white wine and a couple of cigars
Nigeria ayobo area 3 Andre plus grilled fish
Sleep is easy

JamaicanLove:





Your dream is big.


Work hard you'll get there.