decatalyst:
Udontmeanit!


A whole grown man on the floor like a baby

victorian:










If the husband dies, at the early stage of his death she will look for a menial job if she's an illiterate. But if she's a graduate, she can still look for jobs, coupled with handouts from men, she will come across with and I bet you, she will sleep with those men before they drop pin! That's what most single mothers go through but they won't say.
Taking of care children alone with herself no be beans. It's one hell of a huge enormous financial responsibility.

But why would a married woman live her life , as if the husband is dead?

Then what's marriage all about then?
Cause I sincerely wonder, if I'm married with kids and I start living my life as if I'm all alone in this world and hustle like never before for my kids and home.
Why get married then?

Anyways some women are blessed with great husbands who will not even raise an eyebrow if she doesn't work. These men take care of their homes and wives like no tomorrow. My bestie is a typical example. God will keep blessing her husband for been a source of joy and support to her and the Children. Mind you, she's a graduate but hasn't gotten a job yet after submitting proposals here and there. Shes now on a professional certificate course to add to her CV. courtesy paid by her husband and he's not grumbling. You can see complete peace of mind radiating in her face.

Their store is filled up with bag of rice. Beans ,garri, palm oil. Ground nut oil, and other assorted foodstuffs. Their fridge filled with wines, beers, assorted drinks, fruits, and water, then chicken, ram meat, and bacon . In fact whenever I visit, I eat to the brim and still take some meals with fried meats and drinks home .. It feels good visiting her. She and the kids looks robust and fresh like today's bread. That's how husband suppose be! She's damned lucky!

Na beg she dey beg me to come visit her, cos she loves company alot and likes showing she's a great hostess. But due to work, I go when am chanced and come back home very very happy and tipsy

adontcare:
some men don't want dia wife to see money thereby preventing them to work nor trade. If such a woman should complain, people will tell her to pray as far as she is feeding and he is paying d kids school fee. As if na to chop she come world for.

victorian:








My dear, he also gives her allowance of 90k every Month.

She doesn't complain, she's happy and we are happy for her. Have warned her several times, always make him happy when he comes back from work. Such men are rare to find.
For me I don't see anything wrong in it. Have worked since I graduated from school years back and especially when I lost my parents. Working to be successful is not easy, it's stressful. Then adding it with taking care of the home front is another double task. I wouldnt mind, chilling and relaxing for some years, handling the home front before I resume work again.

If man no provide money for food, shelter and comfort, women will complain.
If man provide more than enough some women will complain.

It's not fair. If as a woman u want to work like Jacky and look tired and worn out in the marriage, marry a man who shares the same mindset with you.

Men like my bestie husband is one of rare good husbands I see around, who doesn't insult his wife nor grumble he is providing alone for the home. I pray to have such husband. I'm tired working all my life, I want rest Biko for some years. I have worked for the past 13years with its ups and downs! It's not easy. Bp fluctuating up and down if biz is Down. Abeg i no come this life to come slave and work forever. Make my bp rest small.

Igbo traders are like that too. They travel to the village, marry beauties and bring to Lagos, care for them, and nothing like fight or quarrel. Their wives appreciate what the husband is doing to make the home comfortable.

adontcare:
. Well, ur friend is very lucky. I pray u find a good man too.

victorian:






Am telling you, She's very lucky.

Amen and Amen and amen!! Thanks dear.

God will grant our heart desires amen.

adontcare:
u have a beautiful heart. People like u deserve the best in life.

crackhouse:
I don't think they had sex already. It seems they man just came with the hope of having sex with the woman buy they have not.

victorian:






Don't mind him, useless husband.
Smhhhh!

When I see some married women with 3 /4 kids on their back and hands begging for money, I always wonder, where the hell is their husbands? For crying out loud!

Twoclans:
There is something about this video. This could be a set up .

BareFacedLies:
What crime did this guy comit to deserve this treatment?

Nigerians need to understand that sex with a married person is not a crime

Martin0:


baby oku

victorian:










If the husband dies, at the early stage of his death she will look for a menial job if she's an illiterate. But if she's a graduate, she can still look for jobs, coupled with handouts from men, she will come across with and I bet you, she will sleep with those men before they drop pin! That's what most single mothers go through but they won't say.
Taking of care children alone with herself no be beans. It's one hell of a huge enormous financial responsibility.

But why would a married woman live her life , as if the husband is dead?

Then what's marriage all about then?
Cause I sincerely wonder, if I'm married with kids and I start living my life as if I'm all alone in this world and hustle like never before for my kids and home.
Why get married then?

Anyways some women are blessed with great husbands who will not even raise an eyebrow if she doesn't work. These men take care of their homes and wives like no tomorrow. My bestie is a typical example. God will keep blessing her husband for been a source of joy and support to her and the Children. Mind you, she's a graduate but hasn't gotten a job yet after submitting proposals here and there. Shes now on a professional certificate course to add to her CV. courtesy paid by her husband and he's not grumbling. You can see complete peace of mind radiating in her face.

Their store is filled up with bag of rice. Beans ,garri, palm oil. Ground nut oil, and other assorted foodstuffs. Their fridge filled with wines, beers, assorted drinks, fruits, and water, then chicken, ram meat, and bacon . In fact whenever I visit, I eat to the brim and still take some meals with fried meats and drinks home .. It feels good visiting her. She and the kids looks robust and fresh like today's bread. That's how husband suppose be! She's damned lucky!

Na beg she dey beg me to come visit her, cos she loves company alot and likes showing she's a great hostess. But due to work, I go when am chanced and come back home very very happy and tipsy

delugajackson:
Do people really think of the consequence of their actions? You went to your fellow man's house to sleep with his wife that was duly paid for, on his bed, his soft pillow and warm bed-sheet, while also breathing the air in his room. What if he shot you with a .44 Magnum or butchered you on the spot with a poisoned matchete that was reserved for armed robbers? Would you still have the chance to beg?

Do you care so little for your life that you have to throw it away for a few minutes satisfaction? There are people that are so cold-hearted that even your "sorry" offends them. It's either you leave with a severed limb, a broken head or you end up in a body bag. He should go for thanksgiving in church today and always learn not to let his manhood do the thinking.

Khd95:
Somebody should read olufunkeabimbola comment na, that her English wounded me

lefulefu:
when u see an uncared for wife with kids begging and the husband is still alive then know for sure say na either alcohol or na sidechic the husband dey spend d money on.

victorian:







Na WA o

That's terrible.

But one man is saying above me here, that if the husband is dead nko won't she hustle and take care of the home. I then replied, should a married woman be living and feeling like her husband is dead? When he's alive and comes back home every evening. Is that how marriage is suppose to be?
How can a woman be married and see herself as a widow All not to ask the man for money for upkeep. Even if his wife no ask am, can't he use his number six upstairs to know he has to take care of his wife and kids.

Cause if he doesn't take care of them, and she's not a virtois woman? different men outside will have a fun filled day with his wife and probably kids too, all for food and water to eat and drink, then probably clothes to wear. Isn't such a man shameless and useless at the same time?
Even the Bible says a man who cannot take care of his wife and kids is worse than an infidel! Bible even curses such man.

He no fit answer again.

Honestly some men are just not worth the time and stress. I'm telling you.
Na them sabi, thank God I never fall into any trap yet, in the name of marriage.

lefulefu:
look a responsible man will always plan for his family in case anything should happen to him though there are cases unforseen circumstances might happen b4 he's prepared.Anyman telling u that its left for his wife and children to fend for demselves is not responsible. We are talking of wife and children here not girlfriend. There's this hostel porter where i grew up. This man get children and wife and federal govt dey pay up to date but this man money all im money dey go to the care of im mistress and her child upkeep. And he's not even d father of d child oo plus im buy land worth millions for this im mistress while im dey stay for single room and his wife and children uncared. Some men are just completely irresponsible abeg.

victorian:









Can you imagine?

lefulefu:
yes ooo na so e jus be. Most of these married men wey dey flirt always find it hard to look after their families cos d bulk of the money dem dey earn na their sidechics dem dey spend am on. This is why most times its always wise as a wife if na d housewife type u be then start a trade so dat d money u earnin u can use it to look after urselv and ur kids if u unlucky to marry an irresponsible uncaring man.

Twoclans:

Marty darlyn Did you receive holy communion today

Martin0:


oh shitt!! wtdf? abeg nor ask me biko

Twoclans:

Come back here and answer

Twoclans:

Come back here and answer

crackhouse:
I don't think they had sex already. It seems they man just came with the hope of having sex with the woman buy they have not.

Martin0:



babe how far Na!you still dey kanduna?

Twoclans:

I left kaduna this morning, currently in Abuja .

Martin0:


eheh OK!I wan call you oo seriously I wan call you

Gucciboss:

Adultery is against our law. Pick up your law book. There is a punishment for that