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My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
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Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by izzou(m): 7:51pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
You are not wrestling against your mum, or flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers and wickedness in high places My advice? Cultivate a serious prayer life. Because I don't see any human explanation for this Pray sister, pray. 6 Likes |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by HarunaWest(m): 8:01pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
return that woman to Naija before she turn ur pikin to winch.....She isn't the woman u used to know,take charge of your life before she takes charge of yours...and I hate when people use the Suicide world carelessly,you will die because of somebody frustrating you and the person will still be alive chopping life...grow up mehn and take the rash decision n..don't look back 11 Likes |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Uyi168: 8:15pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Isn't it obvious ur mama is a winch ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Mizwisdom(f): 8:21pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Might be a medical problem, probably the onset of dementia or Alzheimer 6 Likes |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
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Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Omihanifa: 8:27pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
The woman belongs to a strong witchcraft coven, but the issue is that you are also very strong. she's been trying everything possible to make you fall into her trap(she wants to either donate you, your husband or daughter in the coven )but some how some how you are just too strong for her hence the anger and bitterness. But there are two ways out of this (1) develop a strong prayer life and pray spiritual warfare prayers (2) stylishly send her back to Nigeria where she will meet her Waterloo by either confessing openly or she will die a shameful death. ***But the truth is that prepare for challenging days ahead cuz she won't go down without a fight** 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Graxie(f): 9:30pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Do three days fasting and with praise psalms. Just read as many psalms as you can. Make time to pray between 12midnite to 3am, it could be just 20minutes prayers. Praise more, Ephesians 6v 10 till the end.You just have to fight the good fight of faith. Learn how to have the final say, reply every negative words with God's promises. Shalom. 3 Likes |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by oluplus(m): 9:42pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Please involve your spiritual leaders to join you in prayer. Your mum is up to something. May God be with you 1 Like |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by eyinjuege: 10:07pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
I hope she's not having paranoid delusions or some mental health issues. why not talk to your dad and find out if he noticed any changes in her behaviour? A lot of times, overspirituality can just be a sign of mental health problems/schizophrenia in some people 4 Likes |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 10:10pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
eyinjuege:I have tried talking but no one listens. they pick up fights with me. |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 10:11pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Graxie:Thank you, I take your advice seriously. |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Omihanifa: no, I don't want my mum 2 die. I just hope things will change. Thanks for your advice, I will keep praying. |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Uyi168: please, no name calling. |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by adontcare(f): 10:29pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
Mailisa:u don't want ur mum termed a witch but u r here complaining about her. All what she is doing signify that she is either not mentally sound or spiritually not healthy 1 Like |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by 1Sharon(f): 11:14pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
As a Spirit-filled born again Christian, the holy spirit has revealed to me ur mum is a witch possessed by a luciferian spirit Exodus 22:18- thou shall suffer not a witch to live Thank you. |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
adontcare: Please, take no offense. I am not blind to spirituality or medical issues. I am not here to complain but to seek views. It's heartbreaking enough for me. My mother has sacrificed a lot for me in the past so... 1 Like |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
1Sharon: Thank you. I will not walk in the ways of the old testament. John 8:7 So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her. She is still my mother and if there's spiritual affluence my prayer will be for God to deliver her. After all, Jesus drove off satanic spirits from many in the bible. Thanks for your insight. 4 Likes |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 11:49pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
izzou:Thank you |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Rosarie(f): 12:53am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Send her away. Start praying if not either with time u loose the baby or your baby is be witched. Enter midnight prayers. Browse prayer points online. Don't relent. If you love ur baby do it!!! 2 Likes |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Rosarie(f): 12:59am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Mailisa:if you don't sit up to be a prayer warrior U will loose your home Become broke Become frustrated That is devil It comes to kill to steal and to destroy You did not know ur mom. U thought u did. Stop saying she should change cos she is not ready. |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by sacx: 1:15am On Mar 26, 2019 |
I don't see what your problem really is here. The only thing you should be worried about is that you and your husband argue a lot, and that can be resolved if you both sit and talk things through. Your mum has shown you for good seven years that she doesn't share in your joy. Isn't that enough time to face the stark reality and move on? No you seat there wallowing in self pity and contemplating suicide. Who is going to take care of your kids after you are gone? Your mum that hates them? No, they don't deserve to be put through that. What should be most important to you right now is the welfare of your own family. Every other person is secondary. I know you love your mum, but the earlier you come to realise that things have changed, the better for your sanity. Your mum is likely suffering from Alzheimer. I have a neighbour like that who is passing through same. And mhen, she dey show us pepper. She is of the opinion that every one is plotting to kill her, and even her children too are sometimes not left out. Your mum may be living out the delusion that she is a witch, and that when people look at her, they see her as such. Or she may actually be one. So be prayerful and walk in consciousness of your identity. You've been advised. 6 Likes |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 4:14am On Mar 26, 2019 |
sacx:thank you |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 4:15am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Rosarie: very wise words |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 4:17am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Rosarie:My mum has since left |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by adontcare(f): 5:21am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Mailisa:what type of views are u expecting? Please be fervent in prayers and use wisdom in handling the issue concerning ur family |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by ifyalways(f): 7:38am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Mizwisdom:I see the OP ignored this. Shes obviously adorned the spiritual gown and gone her merry way with it. While subtly calling your mom a witch, be careful ,you dont become one yourself soon. You are arguing more now with your husband, focus on that and solve your immediate problem ie your marriage. When that packs up because you are chasing shadows, your mom will carry the blame. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 9:36am On Mar 26, 2019 |
ifyalways: Be patient! I did not ignore your comment. I am a medical practitioner and have explored these options. There is nothing wrong with my marriage, arguments do occur in marriage and the foundation of the argument has to be dealt with. The foundation of the argument in my marriage is tied to my immediate family (my mum and sibling) hence I am seeking for a resolution. I was in my dark hour when I posted this. you sound educated but brash. Do not judge others. the fact that you didn't get a response does not mean your wise words was not heard. Someone posted a similar answer like yours and got a response. If in doubt, be polite. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 9:52am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Thank you all for your comments and cautions. |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 26, 2019 |
You called your mom to tell her Your expectation a baby. All through the pregnancy stage she didn’t call to check on you. Then after giving birth you called to inform her. And she still caredless. How else do you want her to tell you she’s not happy with your home? Let her be and never bother her again. Focus on growing your home instead 1 Like |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Gloriagee(f): 11:57am On Mar 26, 2019 |
You've never accused your mum of witchcraft but she keeps saying, hey I'm not one. By all means, protect yourself and your family first. The worst lies are those we tell ourselves so your first step to recovery is to acknowledge that something is not right. Do not divulge any unnecessary info. For Chrissakes, pray, pray and pray. If you dont know what to pray about, try Prayer Rain by Dr. D. K Olukoya. It must end in praise |
Re: My Loving Mother, What Has Changed? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Gloriagee: Thank you so much. I was able to look at Prayer rain by Dr. D. Thanks |
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