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Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 9:04am On Mar 26, 2019 |
andyanders: They're not married. He's not obligated to be supportive at this stage. His responsibility begins the moment the child is born. She's a grown woman, she should handle her situation like an adult. She's not the 1st nor the last to go through something like this. Boohoo. What do you want me to say? 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by dingbang(m): 9:05am On Mar 26, 2019 |
noblefuwad:of course. Its social media . |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by OgogoroFreak(m): 9:05am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Not his fault sis. Women can't be trusted these days. You knew he can't father a child but you kept on fvcking him. You had a plan? Well, that's what most people would make him think So, the DNA is very, very important in this your situation. Only a mugu won't demand for it though. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Amhappy(f): 9:06am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Pregnancy is usually a period a woman needs a lot of support. Please make some friends or see how you get any member of your family over. Safe delivery. The baby will bring joy 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by delpee(f): 9:06am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Originalsly: You're right. @OP Any man in his shoes will have some doubts. He has every right to confirm that the child is his. It's also for your own good considering his family members who are aware of his status may not fully accept the child....that places a dent on your relationship with them which can be stressful. Since you're absolutely sure of your faithfulness, you have no reason to fear. The expected positive result will rather place you on a higher pedestal in the scheme of things. Do what you have to do to secure your relationship more if you love him. There will always be some compromise in a relationship that is being built to last. Best wishes for a safe delivery. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 9:06am On Mar 26, 2019 |
chloride6: No, it'd be useful to the OP, Einstein. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by ify1237: 9:08am On Mar 26, 2019 |
[quote author=CiciReally post=76984440] @XhosaNostra Pls dear read carefully before judging or calling me bitter and tagging me dramatic, coming from a fellow woman, is it okey that he got me in this situation then backed out? To come back wen the storm is over, what sort of man or father is he? What will it cost him to stand by me till is time to confirm his doubt, I hav no issue if he doesn’t even pay the bills but that support mean the world, am new to this no friends or family around but him. DEAR SISTER, PLEASE DONT BLAME HIM OK! IT IS NOT HIS FAULT. HE NEVER KNEW THAT HE WILL FATHER A CHILD IN HIS LIF. SO PLS HELP HIM TO PUT THE DEVIL TO SHAME, AND ALSO LETTING HIM KNOW THAT THERE IS NOTHING GOD CAN NOT DO. THANKS FOR YOUR KIND HEART 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by andyanders: 9:08am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Giftedniye: Exactly on point. I believed that the man's attitude was why God put him in a position not to have a child. For me, I will advise op not to go ahead to marry the beast as he has already shown himself. She will suffer in his hands if he eventually marry him. How can a sane man abandon a pregnant woman he slept with on several occasion without protection and when pregnancy appears, he start doubting if he is responsible. When he was striving her up and down, he never knew that such could happen. I believed God used this pregnancy to expose the true person he is. Op should not try to reconcile with him and let him be and with God, she will navigate life and become a proud mother in future. That boy could turn to be a world leader tomorrow. John Fashanu's father abandoned them in London and they were raised by a foster mother and today, he is one of the greatest men on earth. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:09am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Just tell him. He is a german and he might have been told you are tyring to play him. So sit his ass down and let him know that you are happy to agree to his conditions, but that he should stop hurting you cos the manner he says it hurts you and makes you feel untrusted. You put anything marriage on hold and try to rely on him too much. You just have two months to go and all will be well if you are honest. CiciReally: |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by yipata: 9:09am On Mar 26, 2019 |
are u human at all. I mean do u have blood veins in u at all? You are the bitter one. I pity those close to u. XhosaNostra: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:09am On Mar 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse:Lawd |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Unrated900(m): 9:09am On Mar 26, 2019 |
You both trusted your self from day one. When you got pregnant he keep having doubting mind. I will advise you to leave and keep the baby for your self. Proceed to your life.leave him alone When I say leave him alone I don't mind you should free him. Just be playing along. Thats men for you. How would you believe him saying he can't father a child Men can say unreal things to enjoy sex with no protection. You made a mistake for allowing him sleeping without protection. That man is a gamer he knows what he is doing,he just wanted to take advantage of you. Call or watsapp me.I will tell you something that can't be said here. I hate real woman suffering. Am married with kids and I knows what it takes for a woman to lean on herself alone. 08068094003 2 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 9:10am On Mar 26, 2019 |
GoldenJAT: Your comment came hours later. I don't know if she made changes to her story or not, but I'm not gonna restructure my initial post to fit the new narrative. Sue me. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 9:11am On Mar 26, 2019 |
yipata: Haaaaa! OK. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by OILOFGLADNESS: 9:14am On Mar 26, 2019 |
CiciReally: MY DEAR I CAN UNDERSTAND YOU MOST MEN ARE BEAST! I SHARE IN YOUR PAIN BUT DONT FORGET THAT HE HAVE BEEN TESTED IMPOTENT!! ( JUST MANAGE TO UNDERSTAND HIM PLS) HE IS SUFFERING FROM PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECT AND HIS FRIENDS INFLUENCE. JUST BEAR IT, YOU ARR ALREADY 7months in, (3 months more ) and you will be vindicated........ I BELIEVE HE LOVES YOU < BUT FRIENDS ARE BEAST TO A MAN THAT CANT STAND HIS GROUND. my advise: TRY TO TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF STOP REQUESTING ANYTHING FROM HIM IF HE GIVES U ANYTHING , JUST COLLECT BE YOUR OWN BOSS WHEN YOU PUT TO BED, ASK HIM TO SPONSOR THE DNA SINCE HE IS IN DOUBT WHEN THE RESULT COMES OUT, watch his reactions His REACTIONS WILL TELL YOU WHAT NEXT TO DO>>>>>>> PLEASE BE AS CALM AND POLITE AS POSSIBLE>>>>>> YOU WILL REJOICE DONT BLAME THE MAN< HE CANT JUST BELIEVE IT< YOU KNOW ALL THESE FOREIGNER ARE NOT RELIGIOUS LIKE WE NIGERIANS TAKE CARE MY DEAR I WILL END BY ASKING YOU TO ACCEPT JESUS AS YOUR PERSONAL LORD AND SAVIOUR, HE REALLY LOVES YOU, THATS WHY HE DIED FOR YOU, JESUS IS OUR PEACE, he loves you and He needs you......... one love### 6 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:14am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Nawao, he is 90% infertile but this my sharp warri girl utilize the remaining 10% ![]() |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:16am On Mar 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse: I'm Bread, how ya? |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by kaziblake(f): 9:17am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:With this comment my suspicions are true about your gender 2 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Angelawhite(m): 9:17am On Mar 26, 2019 |
CiciReally: I will doubt the paternity of the baby if I were in his shoes . I wouldn’t treat you that way though. It’s difficult to believe that after so many unprotected sex and having probably been declared infertile by a doctor he’s responsible for the pregnancy. His friends must have advised him not to be excited too early until the baby is born and paternity certified . Prolly why his attitude suddenly changed. My sister , give him the benefit of doubt . It’s not easy for someone who has certified himself infertile not to doubt his babies paternity. If I were you, I will simply forgive him. I know his attitude will change as soon as he’s shocked to the reality that after all , you were faithful 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by laptopsale(m): 9:18am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Parental rights my foot, you will do worse if you were in her shoes, why do women always find a reason to go hard on their fellow women because I don't get where the hate stem from. from all she said about the man not supporting her,hurting her and making her feel abandoned the only thing you could picked is the Op shutting the door on her man once the baby is born? 5 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by legreat(m): 9:20am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Some of the comments here to you are insensitive and harsh maybe by people who have never carried a child. Thank you to the first person at commented. Please take heart! It is always best to be secure in a marriage before mating. However, everyone’s story and path is different and God turns all situations for the good of those who believe. There are indications that you are carrying a child with unique and significant destiny. Every great future attracts great distractions. The man is not himself. Even a lot of married men misbehave during their wive’s pregnancy. I have 4 boys and the experience with each child for my wife has been different. There was one child that we thought this is the end of our marriage. Life is a movement against frictions or opposition. Please rise above the hurts, forgive in advance, cry when you need to, but speak daily to he child in your womb. Tell the child, mummy loves you. Daddy loves you. You’re a blessing to us and to the world. Play soft music whiles you are sleeping. Finally, the fact that you carry a child for a man does not mean he is your husband. Time would not permit to tell you about one of my best friends, who came back to live in the city of her birth, became homeless and got pregnant for the man who offered a house. She went through hell, I look back today, the child is now on route to Univeristy, she is now married with two other children. Then, she was studying for first degree, now she has PHD and a good jobs with great business in London. We cried together during her pain, but today we laugh about it. The man might be yours, but focus on this child first. I pray, you get angels visit you in human form to comfort you. Please, don’t harbour bitterness. The child is not a mistake. Selah. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:21am On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by megareal: 9:21am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Op, if you have a means of livelihood, forget the man and take care of your baby alone. Don't agree to a DNA test, just let the effing eejit go. Time will deal him cards that will make him sweat and look for you. In your position, I would have written that man off the moment he started with the doubts and attitude. I would simply tell him the child isn't his and move on. Love is not just noise, it's about trust and courage to stand by the ones we love against all odds. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Mariangeles(f): 9:22am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:You're insensitive . 3 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 9:27am On Mar 26, 2019 |
kaziblake: Knock yourself out. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by movetoca: 9:28am On Mar 26, 2019 |
You are fvcking a dog smelling Neanderthal and you have the guts to come here to say it. Shame on you enemies of black race. Hope massa is treating you well like a house kneegrow you are. Spits |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 9:30am On Mar 26, 2019 |
laptopsale: You can go ahead & coddle her, I'm not going to. I gave her an advice void of emotions because that's basically what it is going to boil down to if she doesn't tread carefully. You can focus on the emotional side of it, nobody is stopping you. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Opiletool(m): 9:32am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: After he tricked her into a position she doesn't want to be? Do you lack analytical skills? I think those that called you names were right about you. 3 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Nobody: 9:33am On Mar 26, 2019 |
You are black ans he is White that is np problem but the fact that he knew he can't father a child and he knows best that "blacks" have a reputation of manipulations that is where the problems comes in. He may have good mind towards you and the baby yet unborn but he is equally under pressure from uncertainties as as well. If truly the baby is his own. At this point you just have to wait and be at peace. Listen as soon as you have yhe baby andd he confirm that the child belong to him of ur power don come. You are a Nigerian woman amd i know you will show him pepper. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by laptopsale(m): 9:34am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Re-read what you wrote and point out the part you considered an advice because I can't find any. 3 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by kristosky(m): 9:34am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: U are not serious at all just full parallel thoughts 2 Likes |
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