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Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 10:07am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Opiletool: Well, that's you. I call it how I see it. I didn't abuse her or call her names. I simply gave her a more matter-of-fact approach to her situation. Her emotions are her own problem, not mine. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 10:09am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Preshy561: Hahaha. Then you should know how I feel about the above. Nothing. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by almarthins(m): 10:12am On Mar 26, 2019 |
CiciReally: Yeye dey worry u! Make u dey smile. Small case you get, so if i were you. I go wait til baby come. The guy no trust and you cant blame him. So many nigerian stories out there wey go make am dey doubt. No hold am against the guy at all. When baby come remember to send me invite sha ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 10:12am On Mar 26, 2019 |
lomprico: What exactly am I jealous of? I'm not the one with a man that wants nothing to do with me. I wouldn't exchange positions with her even if I was paid to. This is too much drama for me. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 10:14am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Chuks9000: Well, he's still doubtful it's his child. She can sue him for half the expenses after the DNA has proven without a shadow of doubt that the child is his. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by AntiWailer: 10:16am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Lexusgs430: It can be. Depending on the content. She will give up some entitlements meant to secure her in the future to make him feel safe. So she needs to understand what u are signing. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Xisnin(m): 10:18am On Mar 26, 2019 |
CiciReally: He is unreliable and you will be gullible to accept him back even if the child is his. The best he should get is visitation rights if he behaves. Don't mind those insulting you, they are clueless and don't know what you are going through. Some of them are broken and looking for who to blame for their misfortunes. Whatever you do, DO NOT marry him! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by dcutey: 10:20am On Mar 26, 2019 |
CiciReally: Dear CiciReally, inasmuch as XhosaNostra's comments are unpopular, I think they addressed your questions. You asked whether it would be wicked of you to cut the father off, have your baby, send him a pic, have him do DNA then deny him right to own the child and XhosaNostra answered you albeit devoid of emotions. It's good to have a balance of suggestions and opinions so you can combine them all for your good. I think you should sit your man down and pour out your heart to him in a loving way. Tell him how his behavior and words hurt you and remind him of his promise to stick with you during the pregnancy until the paternity of the child is confirmed. Remind him of how happy he was when he first found out he was going to be a daddy. You need to be strong for what lies ahead. 2 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 10:21am On Mar 26, 2019 |
dcutey: Thank you. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Lexusgs430: 10:30am On Mar 26, 2019 |
AntiWailer: If she has a child, that would be taken into consideration + financial provisions made for them....... Prenup, is not so much a bad idea............ And I hope you know a Judge would still decide on the finer details, in the final settlements ?.......? He cannot just take 100%, and leave her/them with 0%..... It does not work like that........ |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:33am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Look at what you are saying. Please hush with your own bitterness and don't rub it on someone's issue. Can you imagine this wicked comment? Just shut up already. It is your type that births such irresponsible males. 4 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 10:36am On Mar 26, 2019 |
koyyes: Unfortunately for you, that's how the world works. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by zanga420: 10:36am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Thanks for this. I don't know if it's applicable in Nigeria. Witnessed a similar situation in my compound some time ago. Sought help here and got none. https://www.nairaland.com/4484607/owns-child If a lady denies a man access to his child or run away with the child, what are his options? And on what grounds can a man get custody of his child. Hope to hear from you. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Psoul(m): 10:36am On Mar 26, 2019 |
CiciReally: My dear lovley sister, I really understand every beat of how u feel. Whatever ur mind may be telling u to do now may be right, but let me say this to u. When u told him about the pregnancy, he was excited. Good beginning. Along the way, he started acting up. Something has happened. See, as a rational being, he must have tot about it and wonder how possible that the pregnancy is his. He has not done anything wrong here. He may have remembered how some men got heartbroken after coming to realize that the child they have bn training is not theirs. He is still right in thinking that way. Friends may have cautioned him to be careful before he claim another man's child just because he want to father a child of his own. He is a human being. reasoning with his friend is not really a bad line. Whatever the case may be, what do u have to do? You need to be strong. Don't hate the man. Don't be harsh to him if truly what u are carrying is his. You are coasting towards earning his respect for life. Let the man be and talk to ur family to give u time to sort urself out. When u deliver that bundle of Joy, let the man go for the DNA test. I assure you, he will break down, regret all the time he was not there for u and wish he can turn the hands of time. But since he can't he will make it up by bn extra nice to u. My sister, remain calm, have a peaceful delivery and a lovely home afterwards. 4 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by ashjay001(m): 10:39am On Mar 26, 2019 |
CiciReally: I believe it's possible to get a DNA test done, even in the womb? I get ur pain, he should be able to stand with u at this trying time, especially since he claims to love u. Goes to show u, love is relative 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by omogemi: 10:40am On Mar 26, 2019 |
ghettochild4u: Forget matter. U dont knw how their system works. These whites can manipulate and state a case against the mother that shes insane and incompetent. He is their own, she is black. . Who do u think they ll favour. She has everything to lose. I have seen a case as this. Let her just play along and keep her plans or whatever under wraps. Whites are wicked o 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Nobody: 10:41am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Then it is very obvious you are from another part of the world. Because not all humans reason like you. Keep your wicked thoughts to yourself because no sane person needs them. 3 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by wolebest: 10:46am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Please calm down. I can understand your plight. He may be having doubts that the child is not his (its not easy to be convinced when a man is childless). Please take care of yourself and deliver the baby, a paternity test will prove your case. Remember the probability is 10% and it has worked in your favour. I watched a parternity case on TV similar to this. The young chap (deu to low sperm count) was in doubt of a baby the current girlfriend claimed was his just because non of the ladies he had been sleeping with for years couldn't conceive. To make matters worse the mother of his child embarrassed him on TV that his dick was small. The bady in contention was as result of a one night stand between the two. When the DNA result showed the child was his, he wept for joy that he could father a child, hugged the little girl and immediately took responsibility of the childs upkeep. Such is life! 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 10:46am On Mar 26, 2019 |
zanga420: You can go to a lawyer or the courthouse & they will file on your behalf, I think. I'm not certain of the ins & outs of child custody battles. So you're going to need someone with better knowledge of the laws in your state, to explain what needs to be done & what your chances are at retaining sole custody of the child. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Omoge87(f): 10:47am On Mar 26, 2019 |
ashjay001: It is possible to get a DNA test with the fetus in the womb only it has its risk - the main one being a risk of fetal loss. She is better off waiting till after the child is born. |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by oyinda1599(f): 10:50am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:ur comment is so bitter, so nauseating....do you understand this lady at all, borrow brain from the first commenter pls,u are surrounded by Evil, I can feel it. 3 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Kagd10: 10:56am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Miserable bitter thing wanting people to share in her misery. Misery loves company. Now I know. 3 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 10:59am On Mar 26, 2019 |
oyinda1599: I really do not care how my comment makes you feel either. That's your issue to deal with. Is this some sort of a support group for the emotionally fragile? Look, I'm not a shrink. I'm not here to appeal to your emotional sensibilities. I believe there're pills for that. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 11:01am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Kagd10: Hey, it's lonely over here, come in ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by IjebuWarrior: 11:03am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: You get mental problem, I swear! ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Kagd10: 11:05am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: Lol. We all know you're miserable. Your comment shows it all. 3 Likes |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 11:06am On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 11:08am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Kagd10: And I'm not even gonna try to convince you otherwise. You're entitled to your make-belief. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by GoldenJAT(m): 11:08am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:I won't sue you!!Still... It doesn't change the fact that your comment addressed a different subject matter!! Peace. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by XhosaNostra(f): 11:11am On Mar 26, 2019 |
GoldenJAT: So didn't she ask whether she should cut him out of the child's life? How's that going off on a tangent? |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by Kagd10: 11:12am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra: That's what miserable element always say. They won't go help their miserable lives yet want others to share in their misery. Very useless nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Infertile Boyfriend Mysteriously Impregnates Girlfriend by zanga420: 11:13am On Mar 26, 2019 |
XhosaNostra:Thank you 1 Like |
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