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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by buhariski(m): 9:31pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
pcguru1:bro Ibadan is a very large city and the area I'm staying is made of 90 per cent Muslim so majority of the girls there are Muslim and hard core Yorubas so they have nothing to do with strangers dat how they are brought up with.someone told me they flow with their own and not strangers,and the only way you can get them somehow is when u can speak the language fluently. I'm DAT kind of introverted guy from home to work.I don't really have DAT time to go far to meet and mingle with people.but now I'm try to go to places like mall, bar and doing some clubbing. 6 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Shakushaku1(m): 9:31pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
buhariski: Who's ya favorite pornsttar? Mine is nyomi banxx and channel heart, u fit check dem out, badas babes 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by saucerence(m): 9:32pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
simple just forgive ur self and move on with life no porn watching and thinking of it for 2 weeks . and stay committed to the word of God ......... we re humans after all 7 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Jagaban880: 9:33pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Shakushaku1: 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Shakushaku1(m): 9:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 9:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
buhariski: I get what you mean now. Sorry 6 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Makaveli217(m): 9:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Martinez39(m): 9:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
a BONERfide nairalander. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by buhariski(m): 9:53pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Shakushaku1:Salutes bro u dey game too. I don't have any favorite porn star but I luv crystal clear from d bbw world I don't know if she has retired now.I know Cherokee d ass,and messaratti. I luv home made ebony videos it real to me and fat ass bbw videos. don't forget black creamy pu**y get f **ked. mehn just watching those videos can make me cum six times a day. 6 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by daneni1(m): 10:12pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
I self services once or twicecin a week......tho I really don't enjoy it again haven been doing so since 2007, but one thing i have done to avoid watching porn which is what triggers the desire to self-service has been loads of movies in my phone. Once d tot(masturbation) comes up, I just watch one of d movie in my phone, this takes my mind off masturbation and by the time I am done watching, d desire to masturbate would have wiped out. I hope this help you tho. 12 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Shakushaku1(m): 10:18pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
buhariski: Lmao bad guy, but on the real though, it's up to you to quit watching porn, like u gas make up ya mind, stand by it and never fall, easier said than done, but there's no rule to it, pple will come with lot of suggestions, frm prayers to getting busy and stuff, but ur brain is wired in a way that u will ways have the urge and find a way to do the do.. So make up ur mind,cos without it, all other routine will fail.. 6 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 10:27pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
I pray u don't turn pedophile...... #rape is punishable,dash person ur Android phone,use Torchlight nokia.....I feel ur pains bro 2 Likes
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by buhariski(m): 10:31pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Shakushaku1:that is why I brought it here so DAT I can get some suggestions. I've been reading d comments here and I have gather some ideal ways to go about it. Thank u. 4 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by IjebuWarrior: 10:33pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
buhariski: Guy... you need to dey visit "The beer parlor/Ashawo" section very well. Btw... Continue with ur masturbation joor... I even masturbate with my ladies sef. 2 Likes
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by CAPSLOCKED: 11:13pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Core9ja(m): 11:27pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Delete all the porn videos on your phone, since you can't get a girlfriend or get married, you might to continue your brothel parole with protection until you decide to settle down with a woman otherwise the masturbation will eventually kill every sensuality in you. 6 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by cassyrooy(m): 11:27pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
buhariski:If you are really ready to quit, lemme try and see if my methods will work on you. If you decide to go by the above, you can reach me through 080***98on call or whatsapp. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by finalboss(m): 11:35pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
cassyrooy:you sound gay, he dose'nt need to contact anybody. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by cassyrooy(m): 11:37pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
finalboss:Okay. Move on then. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by finalboss(m): 11:39pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
cassyrooy:extrinsic mention 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by cassyrooy(m): 11:41pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
finalboss:Yeah, right? Okay. Bye. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by finalboss(m): 11:49pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
cassyrooy:Arrivederci homophile 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by cassyrooy(m): 11:53pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
finalboss:Bros, I no sabi why you dey pick on me but the truth be say, I no get your time. Lemme be. 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by buhariski(m): 12:10am On Mar 27, 2019 |
Core9ja:I don't like having porn movies on phone because I no like repeating one video scene many times.and I don't like passwording my phone. I watch all porn movies online and after that I delete d browser history. the problem now is how do I stop to subscribing for data to watch videos online cos there re many ways that I can use to subscribe for data tru my bank, network credit. as at now I'm even owning MTN 400naira I borrowed last one week just to use it tosub for data. I don stop ashawo parole cos I don't really fancy the one I see for here in Ibadan. last year December I fought with a prostitute in one of d brothel na serious fight blood flow everywhere and they have to call the security to intervene. since then I promised not visit a brothel. I just want to live a responsible life. 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 12:13am On Mar 27, 2019 |
Truth is the first thing you need to deal with is self guilt. I can tell you 90% of niggas on this thread are having the same issue, they come here to read the comment hoping to find a solution. Truth is there is no quick fix to masturbation. You just gotta take it a step at a time. If you can do 1 week without masturbating, you can definitely do 1week and 1 day without it, again a week and 2days. If the urge is too much to handle. It’s ok if masturbating would get off the edge. Go ahead. And then start again the next day. A week and 1 day, a week and 2days and so on. Just always try to go extra than the last time. And gradually you can go two weeks without it. And even a month. Another thing is, you need to tell someone. The moment you feel you’ve let down someon, trust me, the healing process will begin. Because only when you actually admit to yourself and to someone and accept the fact you have a problem, that’s really when you will be ready to tackle it head on. And you can still visit brotel, after 1 week of abstaining from it and get a fix. No shame in that. Because from what you saying, you might rape someone’s kid one day. I hope you find the help you need 14 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by jesmond3945: 12:54am On Mar 27, 2019 |
Anybody that is telling masturbation is good would not be there when erectile dysfunction calls. I don't know whether you are a christian but Jesus saved me from masturbation. Masturbation is a kind of addiction to manage loneliness and depression. Something to give you a momentary high. Some people take to alcohol, some sleep around, some take drugs and smoking. All these are to feel better when depressed but they offer temporary relief. It is a cycle that would be hard to stop ezcept you give you life to Christ . Always listen to worship songs. Throwaway anything secular. 16 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Obainoneandonly(m): 1:51am On Mar 27, 2019 |
different strokes for different folks they say...as its ruining your life it has made my sex life great.....I used to b a one minute guy,but because of masturbation have been able to last longer in bed which I can control myself......you just have to take charge of it and avoid the temptation of doing it excessively......mine is thrice a week,four is my limit and I don't go beyond dat no matter what.... it's a good tool in sexual enhancement if used properly,and me my friend have mastered the art of it 6 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by tohyorsih(f): 3:46am On Mar 27, 2019 |
IjebuWarrior:spirit of ojuelegba 6 Likes
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 4:21am On Mar 27, 2019 |
buhariski: You are far from redemption bro. . I thought you’d ignore that fella but he has triggered you. You need to work on your social skills, you need a girl that loves you, expend your energies on developing yourself and try and mix with the right group of friends. Play some sport rather than sitting at home watching it. Meet friends and organise 5 aside footie, table tennis, jogging etc. Overall I think you need a woman in your life. You are very lonely and in your moments of solitude, you’ll descend into that hole that fills you with so much guilt. Just out of curiosity, are you a leftie or a rightie?? With the frequency with which you extract yourself, I’ll not be surprised if the creases/lines on your dominant palm disappears. Good thing is no palmist will be able to read your palm 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by IjebuWarrior: 4:51am On Mar 27, 2019 |
tohyorsih: 4 Likes
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by rokoto1986(m): 5:56am On Mar 27, 2019 |
SO U BE DELTA BOY 4 YORUBA LAND, NA U DEY FALL MY HAND? NA WA 4 U OH. D DAY I WENT 4 A PARTY IN D WEST, I HAD A GIRLFRIEND DAT WAS READY TO COME BCK WIT ME TO DELTA STATE. UR PROBLEM IS THAT U NEED TO HAVE GUD SEX 4 A LONG PERIOD, BROTHEL WILL NT SOLVE UR PROBLEM. MAYBE U SHLD TRY TO VE A GIRL OF LOWER STANDARD IT WILL BOOST UR CONFIDENCE. U CAN GET THEM FRM LOW COST HOUSING AREA. U MIGHT EVEN END UP BEGGIN DEM DAT U DONT WANT SEX AGAIN. 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 5:59am On Mar 27, 2019 |
Freedom is possible and I will be creating a topic on that soon because most are trapped in that Web.. Follow me so you can know when I do that.. Cheers! 1 Like |
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