I have a serious relationship ongoing with my senior coworker but my side chick got pregnant and claims she don't want abortion and I am trying so hard to ensure it doesn't affect my relationship with my fiancé but she is constantly calling and texting at odd times which is becoming suspicious and I don't know if I should tell my fiancé.

Don't you block numbers with your phone and unblock anytime you want to talk to her?

Am going to tell you this. A friend impregnated a girl and aborted it. He just died two days ago and he's still single

If u don't love her, let her give birth to the baby and be there for them take care of ur kid. U don't necessarily need to marry her. Don't abort. Explain to ur fiancée what u did. If she doesn't forgive u, life goes on.

You're evil. You cheated on your fiancee and on top of that, were going in raw. Now the consequences of your actions have come back to bite you in the ass and you're here asking annoying questions.

I hope she gives birth to triplets. Evil you

michlins:
Am going to tell you this. A friend impregnated a girl and aborted it. He just died two days ago and he's still single

What's the correlation?

Ishilove:

What's the correlation?

OP will die without a heir if he makes her abort it. Too much Nigerian films.

pocohantas:


OP will die without a heir if he makes her abort it. Too much Nigerian films.

A lot of Nigerian films are drawn from practical experiences

Hotzone:
I have a serious relationship ongoing with my senior coworker but my side chick got pregnant and claims she don't want abortion and I am trying so hard to ensure it doesn't affect my relationship with my fiancé but she is constantly calling and texting at odd times which is becoming suspicious and I don't know if I should tell my fiancé.

No your type dey make wife build ten story building behind your back.

Ishilove:

A lot of Nigerian films are drawn from practical experiences

Alright then, now you can see the practical correlation drawn from experiences

Hotzone:
I have a serious relationship ongoing with my senior coworker but my side chick got pregnant and claims she don't want abortion and I am trying so hard to ensure it doesn't affect my relationship with my fiancé but she is constantly calling and texting at odd times which is becoming suspicious and I don't know if I should tell my fiancé.

Tell her to abort it or possibly block her calls and text

Resener28:

Tell her to abort it or possibly block her calls and text

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Would you like your daughter to go through this as well

I hate seeing replies to posts like this with;

1. You should have not ..........
2. So you had a fiancee but you still ..........
3. Why didn't you use a condom ...........

It irks me. He didn't request for opinion on what he should have done differently. He came with a problem, give an idea of your solution or fast-forward.

Again, the question of the poster is paraphrased as "I don't know if I should tell my fiancee that I got another girl pregnant since she now incessantly calls and text"

Well, yes you should inform her. Especially when we are sure the pregnant lady isn't terminating it (Thank goodness for that by the way). Realise also, you have made a mistake and if she (fiancee) decides to leave you, she is justified. You deserve no pity. You deserve to be a dad. You've earned it.

Hotzone:
I have a serious relationship ongoing with my senior coworker but my side chick got pregnant and claims she don't want abortion and I am trying so hard to ensure it doesn't affect my relationship with my fiancé but she is constantly calling and texting at odd times which is becoming suspicious and I don't know if I should tell my fiancé.

if you can dive into an ocean full of sharks, surely you can make up and swing in that ocean.

Now stop being a Lil twerp and tell your finace the truth. She deserve to know the truth.

Beside, try and ascertain if she's really pregnant because I know many Nigerian girls are fvcking desperate, especially when they see a guy who's working and have a Lil to spare.

annex1:
I hate seeing replies to posts like this with;

1. You should have not ..........
2. So you had a fiancee but you still ..........
3. Why didn't you use a condom ...........

It irks me. He didn't request for opinion on what he should have done differently. He came with a problem, give an idea of your solution or fast-forward.

Again, the question of the poster is paraphrased as "I don't know if I should tell my fiancee that I got another girl pregnant since she now incessantly calls and text"

Well, yes you should inform her. Especially when we are sure the pregnant lady isn't terminating it (Thank goodness for that by the way). Realise also, you have made a mistake and if she (fiancee) decides to leave you, she is justified.

This is all the op needs.

u go must want am. wen d forking tin dey sweet u b4

Ishilove:
You're evil. You cheated on your fiancee and on top of that, were going in raw. Now the consequences of your actions have come back to bite you in the ass and you're here asking annoying questions.

I hope she gives birth to triplets. Evil you

Are you not overreacting?

She doesn't want to abort it,so for how long will you keep it hidden from your fiancée?
You better tell her and damn the consequences.
You knew what you were heading for having unprotected sex with another person when you had a fiancee.

Ishilove:

What's the correlation?

keep the child. If you are ready for marriage, marry here

You dey ask? When u were nacking without protection did u ask us? Come dash me the pregnancy nah! Yeye dey smell. You get mouth to call another person daughter side chic. Berra go see the girl and talk to her make una know what next to do before everything u hold dear come crashing down for ya very eye. Preeknasty nikkur

Ranchhoddas:
Are you not overreacting?

Nope. I hate cheating with passionate hatred

Marry her.. You don’t love her but you kept fvcking her till you got her pregnant.. Ewu

It's your cross bro, let her give birth, but if you love your fiancee, break up with the side chick and be loyal to your fiancee. My 2cents bro.

Guy, take out your side chick and continue your life.

Take responsibility for your actions, abortion is not an option, it is a chance to kill, like a murderer.

so many wicked and evil men on nairaland

see them telling him to block the calls of a pregnant woman whom op willfully impregnated.

He is obviously protecting the main relafionship because his boss is richer.

wicked man

may God judge you if you abandon the lady.

Hotzone:
I have a serious relationship ongoing with my senior coworker but my side chick got pregnant and claims she don't want abortion and I am trying so hard to ensure it doesn't affect my relationship with my fiancé but she is constantly calling and texting at odd times which is becoming suspicious and I don't know if I should tell my fiancé.

Don't tell your fiancee yet. Wait to see how things play out in the coming weeks. If your side chick still insists on keeping the pregnancy, then you have no option other than telling her.

What has things got to do with the senior colleague? Have you been over achieving your target by leading your leader in very sensitive arena? If yes, doxology

Oh...the senior colleague is the fiancée! What an over achiever! Well done man. May God bless your triangle

Okay

kleppur:


Boli how are you?

Same to you to! Epa

sisisioge:


Same to you to! Epa

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Make we talk nau.