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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by spyg1(m): 12:04am On Mar 29, 2019 |
buhariski:Take my words serious! I was once in your shoes, girls used to beg me for sex but I used to form. because of one reason or the other I started engaging myself in this your act, at a point I ask about 20 girls out they all turned me down, at times we will start perfectly and they will loose interest along the line, i stayed a year and half without sex, I used to think I have chronic mouth odour or something, until one day my formal neighbor (local girl) who used to give me green light came, after begging for hours she finally allowed me, after that day's sex, come see the number of girls that do enter my apartment these days. once you succeed in having sex with one lady, the rejection from ladies will just vanish. 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Donjazzy12(m): 12:08am On Mar 29, 2019 |
buhariski:Masturbate responsibly! |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Built2last: 12:11am On Mar 29, 2019 |
buhariski: Follow this method and you will stop. 1. Change phone. Get a phone with no internet access at all. Just answer call and SMS only for 6 months to one year. 2. Avoid movies, read more of novels watch news channels. 3. If you are a Christian/Muslim read your bible/Quran when the urge come at night on your bed. The two don't go together. 4. Change friends who fan that. There are friends who meet you and all they talk is fine girl and big yansh. Avoid them. 5. To masturbate you need, internet access to porn, your hands to hold your joystick, and eyes to watch the porn. You can't cut your hand or plug your eyes but you can reprogram your mind by avoid access to internet and watching only news. All the best 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by nkem1992: 12:12am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Chai! Masturbation is a very deadly act, started it as early as 2010 while in SS2, i was highly conscious of the danger of pre marital sex, and viewed fornication as the sin second to murder alone.......anyway i started it without knowing that it is called masturbation. Then i was having my occasional dream bet wet,the feeling was orgasmic and very releiving. It all started when i scrambled upon some lollyplus magazines in my dads shop, i read through them and always saw some shiny swan fluid emanating from my penis, i never knew then the existence of orgasm....On fateful day a customer came and was chatting with his friends, i don't really know what prompted him to play some pornographic films, but i remember vividly that i was curious to see what i have read in lollyplus magazine, after all said and done, he left the phone with me, because he wanted some things on credit, i was happy to be faced with the opportunity....that night passed, i watched the ponography and the outcome was only the swan fluid...bla bla bla, i graduated to buying pornographic films, and learned in one of them that orgasm was due to friction, and thereafter started masturbating...i don't tire abeg, it cost me a lot socoaly, spiritually, psychologically and mentally because i started it very early....Thank God i have stopped..... U too can stop, its not easy at all especially if had hit the peak.. 5 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by toyosiabayomi96: 12:14am On Mar 29, 2019 |
bro the truth is that nobody can overcome masturbation by oneself, it takes the grace of God and self discipline.. I have been in such barbaric situation before trust me I always feel bad each time I did it. you have to trust God for victory over it Never condemn yourself for it always give yourself to pray, get busy, dont stay in door too much and saturated your mind with the word of life (God) learn how to control your mind, eyes, and your hears (avoid listen to secular music and Indecency) |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Dalexicographer(m): 12:15am On Mar 29, 2019 |
francesco01:Na Na na |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 12:16am On Mar 29, 2019 |
buhariski: I just throw way akamu this evening so Relax bro we all gather de.. 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by toyosiabayomi96: 12:17am On Mar 29, 2019 |
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by watchindelta(m): 12:18am On Mar 29, 2019 |
The solution to master of masturbation is toto. I said notin else gbam 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 12:20am On Mar 29, 2019 |
WebSurfer: For you to be this defensive, you must have wanked before. 3 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by blazerzz: 12:25am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Celomosa: 12:30am On Mar 29, 2019 |
To add salt to injury, girls and women on the street dressed like Satan gave them employment.One can't look them twice except you start looking for a scripture verse to fight back.God have Mercy 2 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Chonu79(m): 12:34am On Mar 29, 2019 |
[quote author=buhariski post=77011470]I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness. This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal. It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest. The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day. Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.[Just God for Mercy and deliverance...] |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Timisamd(m): 12:37am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Use this method I bet it might work.. During your free times... solve integral calculus |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by udy001: 12:45am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Let's be realistic here. What this gentleman just shared is touching. It calls for those with deep concern for him. Really, it's not a laughing matter. He needs help, and i strongly believe he's been perusing through this threads to see who will offer him the advice he needs to get out from the mess he has found himself. Unfortunately, there are many people like him out there on the street struggling in similar situation. Just last week, a young man called me pouring his heart out on how masturbation is dealing with him. I asked him how he got my number? He said from my outreach poster he saw on the street. Well, today he is FREE. I will soon tell you how he got his FREEDOM. My friend, let me begin by applauding your courage for pouring out your heart here in this forum. Really, it can only take someone who has been in similar situation like yours to understand what you are passing through.Well, I have been there. As a young boy after my secondary school, waiting to gain admission into the university, i was always at home doing nothing, watching movie, etc. One day i decided to borrow a movie from my neighbor who just returned from the US. I picked up a movie from a basket full of VHS movie tapes. This was January 1994 to be precised. The movie i picked was titled, "Double Impact". It looks good, and i quickly went home to watch it. Unfortunately, when i played the movie, what came out from the screen was a "Blue Film". In fact, it wasn't what i expected to see. I was expecting an action movie, but here am i, sitting in front of the TV watching a pornographic movie. To stop it was a challenge because the more i watched, the more the movie became interesting. Before you know it, i sat for over 2-hours until the movie was finished. Really, i became another man when i stood up from that place. From that moment i started acting strange, having unusual desire for sex, touching my penis, and always chasing after the house help, Elizabeth, in our house. In fact, the "little girl hear am". I tore her pant one day trying to penetrate into her, but she refused. She fought with all her strength to defend herself. Wherever she is today, I salute her for her courage. I began to masturbate from that period. It became terrible...that i even masturbate while driving, after church service, and almost anywhere. My trouser was always swelling because my penis was always "on". It became so embarrassing situation for me. I was so ashamed to share it with anybody. Within that period, I became sick unto death. I was loosing weight so fast. Then my family took me to different hospitals around Lagos, and several tests were conducted on me. It was found that my backbone was growing, i was having kidney problem, heartbeat disorder, drying up like crayfish, and having an unusual headache that defiled all medication. I remember one day crying out loud to God for mercy. Then i said, Lord Jesus save me. Heal me and i will do two things for you: (1) I will not go near a lady until I get married; (2) I will preach your gospel round the world. Immediately i finished this prayer, i heard a loud voice saying, "you are healed". This was June 18th 1996, a day before my birthday (19th June). I was driving to a place in Allen Avenue called "Pintos" then, to go buy ice cream and cake with a friend. This great encounter happened at the 7UP, by Motorways Ikeja, at the traffic junction leading to Daystar Church. In that instant, all the sickness in my body left me including the MASTURBATION.The urge to masturbate died INSTANTLY from that day. Before, i can't stay a day without masturbation. But from that day, I got my freedom by the Power in the Name of Jesus. Friend, go no further. It's only Jesus that can save you in this thing. I tried using my willpower, by setting goals and trying to be more disciplined, but the force of masturbation was stronger.You know why? It's DEMONIC. It's ONLY the POWER IN THE NAME OF JESUS THAT CAN CHECKMATE IT. Do you know i stayed 10-years not going near a lady until I got married in 2006. The Lord kept me. Then I realized through this, that it is possible to live clean in an unclean world. Today, i am married with children, and have traveled round the world preaching the gospel. Now, coming to the young man that came to me last week. what i did was to shared the word of God to him. Immediately, he gave his life to Christ, and I prayed for him. He was in my office yesterday and he said. Sir, I have not been able to masturbate since that day you prayed with me". What has happened to him? He opened up his heart, and Jesus took over. I bet you, that's what you need NOW to be FREE. Wherever you are right now, just humble yourself before God, cry out to him, genuinely repent, and give your life to Jesus. He will exchange His strength with yours...and you will become empowered to overcome. Hope this helps. All the best. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Desyfoley1452(m): 12:47am On Mar 29, 2019 |
[quote author=annford post=77012137]You need to always engage your mind. Think positive thoughts and carry out positive activities. Disadvantages of self-service are just too many. Some of them include but not limited to; Terrible weight loss, insufficient sleep, restlessness of the mind, constant headaches, disfiguring of the male organ, possibility of becoming infertile, mood swings, sexual aggression, looking older than one's age, premature ejaculation for a man or even unnecessary delayed ejaculation, constant need to ejaculate, anger issues and so much more. Masturbation isn't a thing anyone ( male or female) should engage in. Sex is a feeling'. feelings come and they go. you need to stop it now so you don't find yourself running to Doctors or Fertility Clinics when you're married cos that thing has rendered a lot of men incapable of fathering children.[/quotem most of these are no truth stop deceiving the young man. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by mmadu5(m): 12:59am On Mar 29, 2019 |
who is pushing this to front page ? |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by davidque007(m): 1:06am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Jagaban880:marriage will not solve shit, believe me. If you cant deal with this before marriage, you will still with it in marriage. You need to deal with your mind. Change your focus and what you pay attention too |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Judybash93(m): 1:14am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Dami12345: You're a legend bro. This is best response ever 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Judybash93(m): 1:15am On Mar 29, 2019 |
udy001: 1 Like
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by RealAdewole(m): 1:16am On Mar 29, 2019 |
buhariski: Start playing mobile games or evening football matches that will always wear you out |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 1:30am On Mar 29, 2019 |
pcguru1: He his -1 years old |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Sagay212: 1:32am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Oga go to the brothel and phuck and let ya body camdan. With the way you are going, it's just a matter of time before you embarrass yourself. I hope you don't end up raping somebody's daughter. This one wet you dey look neighbour breast your dick dey stand. Go phuck olosho and make sure you use condom or make you find girlfriend. In fact girls yapa for outside. If them no gree for you, face olosho. And if you dey fear olosho, then continue your masturbation jeje. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Halo22: 1:36am On Mar 29, 2019 |
Lol............I was once a victim this ur situation about few years ago courtesy of idleness. But thanks to my neighbor then that helped me quench the fire. I mean bleeping me all night , though the feelings do come and go sometimes but am fine now. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by blazepascal(m): 1:36am On Mar 29, 2019 |
you must be a virgin that's what we suffer we are hormonal there is nothing we can do about it and stop masturbation. our sex urge is High cus we are still virgin. at 20+ |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by blazepascal(m): 1:38am On Mar 29, 2019 |
i don't even masturbate its a sin. but I do have frequent wet dreams that's the only way |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by ericmor: 1:40am On Mar 29, 2019 |
buhariski: If u don’t have the money u will need to be very patience to get a girl. For the main time, stop the porn movies and try and get yourself involve in something more meaning and hang out with friends |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by arrestdarrester: 2:10am On Mar 29, 2019 |
The power to stop begins with knowing it is self destructive. Next is knowing you can and will stop the habit. Finally you will unlearn your thought pattern and replace same with productive thought pattern. You need a higher power to help you in all these. I propose you receive the Kingdom of God into your soul by receiving the Lord Jesus. You'll agree with me that there is no better higher power than the highest power Himself. Congratulations! Your cry for help was your first victory |
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