Softness147:



I know u can do worst. u can even sleep with monkey

This shows how immature you are... insulting someone for his opinion... you need to grow up kid!

Tallesty1:
It is always a man's fault yea?

Did my comment in anyway suggest that? I only said maybe "maybe"
I'm not in support of the woman's act

Tallesty1:
It is always a man's fault yea?

Did my comment in anyway suggest that? I only said maybe "maybe"
I'm not in support of the woman's act

tolanibae:


How can you justify cheating, betrayal and bringing another man’s child into her matrimonial home?

I'm not justifying anything here please, it's just a thought just thinking out loud.. many men has led their wives into crime all in the name of looking for a male child.

it's just a "maybe "

lefulefu:
u sound like u came from a dysfunctional family .i understand .

Of course you would understand after all you a basterred product of a dysfunctional family..


No worry.. U go dey alright las las

anonymous1759:


Go and Sleep if you don't know what say.

It's nobody's fault you have a comprehension problem.

How you were able to read what was not written is still a mystery.

Na so una dey take fail exam

Soulmender:
Maybe your desperation for a male child pushed her to the extreme.

You are very stupid for saying this...listen to yourself

Why didn't you mum sleep with another man for a male child?

Let me quickly add. I did not see anywhere the man said he wasnt happy with his daughters. He just voiced his frustrations at not having Male children after 9yrs. This is normal and we should not make a saint out of men. It's normal to see others having boys and girls easily and wonder "why me". Granted some dont even have kids at all but that's another level of frustration. None is any easier for we humans, who desire completeness

To the comments on a man being responsible for the sex/gender of a child. This is a qualified yes. Qualified because basic biology says true. Advanced biology says not so true. I would explain shortly for the benefit of our younger generation

Indeed the man produces the X and Y chromosomes while the woman only the X. So if the man gives out the X the combination becomes XX and therefore a girl child. If he gives the woman Y, it becomes XY and therefore a boy. Simple right? Not quite so

There are several factors that influences which of these chromosomes is actually given to the woman. During intercourse the man gives both: X and Y. Several factors determine which gets to the woman. Since these factors are outside the man's control, you can then see why it is not completely his determination that leads to the gender

One of those important factors is the PH level of the woman's birth canal. If her PH level is highly acidic, the fragile Y chromosomes would be killed before getting a chance to fertilise her egg leaving only the Stronger X chromosome to survive and fertilise her egg. A woman with a high PH level invariably produces mostly female kids unless treated and supervised by a gynae during the conception process. A high alkaline canal is a perfect condition for having Male kids conversely. Please read this up.

This is why you see some women having serial Male kids and some mostly females. In some rare cases a strong Y chromosome defies the odd in an acidic environment to fertilise the egg. It happens and science hasn't really explained how this happens but its occurrences are usually rare

Another factor is timing of intercourse itself. For a woman with a balanced PH level, the timing is also essential for having Male or female kids. This is a much simpler biology based on the longevity of the X and Y chromosomes when they are released. Science has proven that the Y chromosomes are fragile and survives in the woman's body for about 24hrs whereas the stronger X chromosome can live for 4 or more days thereby increasing the likelihood that it would be lurking around long after intercourse to act on a subsequent ovulation. The Y chromosomes released when the woman is not ovulating would be long dead if ovulation occurs days after intercourse whereas the X chromosome would still be there to act

These are important facts which often leads to the wrong assumption it is a man that determines the gender of the child. Ultimately he releases both chromosomes but the gamble of which wins are entirely as much to do with the woman's body as it is to do with what he has produced

My friend act like a man and quit ranting on FB. Mtchewww!

His prayers can only work if he has not cheated on his wife before, nonscence. If she did not have that male child, in future this man would have gone outside to his luck to have a boy. Must he tell his story here? How can he bring such a thing to the whole world to see. So childish. Wht wd he have lose if he just sent the wife away and disown the child, rather than bring shame to the poor child, because that child will grow up to see all this nonscence on the internet.

AAinEqGuinea:
Don-Christian I heard that baby Jesus was conceived the same way.

You better repent of such evil, JESUS is only merciful

And how are u sure u are the father of all the girls? Mumu people. If woman won do u , na only God go fit save u.

tolanibae:


How can you justify cheating, betrayal and bringing another man’s child into her matrimonial home?

He pushed her, under pressure you ll throw morals into dustbin

Fear women

lefulefu:
a child weda male or female is still a child.if woman keeps on bearing female children then the problem lies with d man not the woman.it was probably ur nagging for a male child that pushed her to go outside.

No mind the foolish man..... Your wife could not give you a male child, ke. Not supporting her actions though but if you put boy for there, boy go come out...Iranu Its not her fault that she bears only girls.

Dude sounds like a real loser...

Obviously the inability to have a male child is yours since (if we are to believe your drivel) she has no problem bearing a male child. SMH

melaninpop:



No mind the foolish man..... Your wife could not give you a male child, ke. Not supporting her actions though but if you put boy for there, boy go come out...Iranu Its not her fault that she bears only girls.

exactly and to worsen everything im don come post im family palava enter social media thereby casting himself. Such issues if e no good for ur eye u handle it maturedly by sending the wife quietly back to her parents home rather than coming to social media to complain.

All these type of essay writing and name calling always comes out after every thing has gone sour.

You went to introduce yourself to the family and did all the wahala to marry the 'harlot'.

Thereafter, you lived with the "harlot" for several years as husband and wife, only for you to realize that your wife is now a "harlot".

Bros calm down, we know marital crisis hurt so much but please try and be a man. It will be well with you and your family.

stuffs4me:



It's nobody's fault you have a comprehension problem.

How you were able to read what was not written is still a mystery.

Na so una dey take fail exam

Next time read well before you quote me ok.

anonymous1759:



Next time read well before you quote me ok.

Olodo rabata.

Go back and read the OP and read the garbage you typed. Hopefully you just might see how dump and _stupid you sound.

ole gbon mon mo

Hamilton1:
Afonjas at it again

stuffs4me:



Olodo rabata.

Go back and read the OP and read the garbage you typed. Hopefully you just might see how dump and _stupid you sound.

You and the OP are dump. Goat head. I know you're like him disgracing yourself and your family to gain Attention. Don't quote me again o.. I don't have your time.

Teewhy2:
Many fathers in Lagos are fathering many first borns they never knew and might not know is not theirs.

Not just Lagos oh, ph and abuja

anonymous1759:



You and the OP are dump. Goat head. I know you're like him disgracing yourself and your family to gain Attention. Don't quote me again o.. I don't have your time.

Gerarehia you this bastrerred child.

Go and meet your family for giving you a bastardy life that bastardized your bastarrred life.

Only a basterd child will encourage unfaithfulness in marriage

so d woman gave birth to a male now u say na bastard my bro ya illiteracy don pass boundary

stuffs4me:



Gerarehia you this bastrerred child.

Go and meet your family for giving you a bastardy life that bastardized your bastarrred life.

Only a basterd child will encourage unfaithfulness in marriage

E pain am... You're Big fool please don't quote me again Bastard... I'm sure you're raised from a lousy family who wash their dirty linen outside... Once you're married you're one with your wife. If you disgrace her you're equally disgracing yourself. How on Earth will a man call his wife out in front of the whole world. He disgraced himself big time. Exposing the innocent baby and tarnishing his name on social media just because you're seeking Attention. You and the OP lack balls.
If my partner cheats on me I don't need to call the whole world for Attention before I take action as a man.

Weak man like you. Shameless Child from a lousy family. Because if your family is not lousy you wouldn't support the OP. Guess you've done the same thing before Bastard

midnighter:


Ok, but if you were desperate for a male child, and a girl from a fling after you said your vows showed up with your son, you would send her away and keep trying with your wife

Well maybe not "you" in particular but i feel a lot of guys wouldnt do that

No, i wouldn't send her Away if it was proven that the child is my son. Atleast that son will be my own blood, has my DNA.

And He wasn't born as a result of me cheating on my wife, he is from a past relationship. Even if he was born as a result of my infidelity i will still take him. He is MINE. even if i wasn't desparate for a son i will take him still, even if it was A girl i will take her too

infact. At the moment i have 3 children from 3 different women.

I think this man should have handle things maturely ,bringing it on social media because he is pained is unfair to his kids and the little boy whose paternity he is disputing.Nigerian women Sha some of you sabi do and not tell,but what is my own, little boy sha don come to the world whether through the front door or back i care less hopefully he doesn't have to be stigmatized by this man outbursts

gypsey:
No, i wouldn't send her Away if it was proven that the child is my son. Atleast that son will be my own blood, has my DNA.

And He wasn't born as a result of me cheating on my wife, he is from a past relationship. Even if he was born as a result of my infidelity i will still take him. He is MINE. even if i wasn't desparate for a son i will take him still, even if it was A girl i will take her too

infact. At the moment i have 3 children from 3 different women.

Lol your own na special case hope they all resemble you? so that it will not look strange when you take them all somewhere at the same time