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Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(m): 7:49pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot. Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff. On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church. She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date. I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work. Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth. I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made. She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete. Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue. Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on. Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined ![]() ![]() ![]() 120 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Lagbaja01(m): 7:54pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
You had a date with "miss independent" 480 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by femmoy(m): 7:57pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
no need to feel bad,u ordered what u can afford. 208 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Preshy561(f): 8:01pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
She's not gonna disgrace your little ass. She's a feminist y'all have been shouting and yelling untop your voices that they don't pay their bills. Now, you've seen one, you are feeling emasculated and acting all sissy. ![]() 635 Likes 50 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Jayslicky: 8:05pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Move on and forget about all these, if you over spent your income because of a date will she be there when you will be going 101 for the rest of the month? 92 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(m): 8:08pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Lagbaja01:I am certainly not proud of all this 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by SageMK: 8:09pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
I wish guys can take a page from your book and stay within their stipulated budget when they take a woman out for a date but nah, most spend uselessly to impress. Guy, you should walk into your workplace tomorrow with your head held high. You have nothing to worry about & your reputation is in check... Now she knows what you are all about. It's left to her to stick around or bounce. 339 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(m): 8:10pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Jayslicky:Naso bro, that wud have really bleeped up my monthly budget and mth still far 5 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(m): 8:13pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
SageMK:Logically i feel i did the right thing but then it was a very awkward moment for me 15 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by SaucyBenks(m): 8:13pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Gaspardd:seriously bro, you mumu true true... Stingy grasshopper!!! Mtseeeeewww! No wonder you no get shirt... 192 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by flokii: 8:14pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Some ladies don't need you to spend much.. just show them love and be a good company is all they need. @OP don't panic yet.. I'm sure she is the understanding type 50 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Nobody: 8:19pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Men; We want independent women. Nigerian ladies are olosho, they don't pay on dates. Man goes on a date with lady. Lady pays the bills and even tops the menu Man comes on NL next day to create a thread like this. 257 Likes 17 Shares
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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(m): 8:21pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
SaucyBenks:I just dont spend money on mundane things. And i am not stingy 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by SaucyBenks(m): 8:23pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Gaspardd:you knew you're colleagues at work, you should know better what to do... First impressions bro ![]() 54 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(m): 8:27pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:She could have done it in a cool way, y'kno.. carry me along and shìt 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(m): 8:27pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
SaucyBenks:I should have gone with 10k or my ATM? 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by SaucyBenks(m): 8:31pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Gaspardd:good... At least, lessons learnt. 13 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Nobody: 8:35pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Gaspardd: If you were the one with all the money, will you carry her along? Maybe ask her, "babe, I want to buy meat, do you have money to add?" I am VERY SURE you won't. You will just order the thing like a boss and pay the bills. Tell me the truth, if say you get money and she pay, shey you for the plan return match to equalize? Oga, you are fighting with your ego. It is very hard dating guys without much money and I am not being condescending here. Call a rich guy "ewu" and he will laugh, because im know say the money dey pon the beat. Call a humble guy "ewu" and he will rush to create thread. I graduated since 2016, I have one small job I am managing, but I don't hesitate to take care of my babe. Yesterday she called me ewu, should I breakup with her? Walahi, you guys are paranoid. Una dey synonymous with not-goodlooking girls. 263 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by luvyaself95(m): 8:35pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:That guy no get sense you see better lady you dey talk anyhow 26 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by daddytime(m): 8:42pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
She got one over you...lol No biggies guy. . Take a chill pill.. Little silly awkward episodes like these are a potential solid foundation for a burgeoning love affair. Most ladies can kill for a straight up natural and no faking dude like you... Stay awoke dude... We don experience worse.. As a young chap back in the days on the streets of The Netherlands I had seen a Caribbean lady with an ass and a hip like none I ever had beheld pronto and so I said to myself "we die here after all all die na die"... Long gist and not much different from yours...I had over spent to give her a great time when she came visiting me for the first time and later asked we go clubbing that night to which I had obliged even when I knew I had gone seriously low on cash. After clubbing...na leg me and her take trek the length and breath of Rotterdam through the Willemsbrug. Na so love take start o come lead to marriage... 175 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 8:42pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
guy stop worrying else you will just give yourself depression. all fingers are not equal. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by mrjaydee(m): 8:50pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(m): 8:52pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:We all have our roles to play, i am the man and shld act like the boss. This is not me being paranoid its about she being full of herself 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by CaZmir: 8:54pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Gaspardd howfa that your hot, sexy ,fine colleague wey drink your Pepsi sometime ago inside bus? that one u no de show face for work ![]() Una later parole. 2 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Gaspardd(m): 9:02pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
CaZmir:She is a flirt. Everybody says she likes them, even one said she was flirtin with him on fb. Maybe she went beyond boundry with me but then i realised it wasnt sth special. 10 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by dreamwords: 9:08pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Gaspardd:U no knack am, y |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by IAmSkinny: 9:09pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Gaspardd: I hail you bro. You are quite discipline and you are just the kind of my nigga. . What exactly are you ashamed of? That you chose a plan, stuck to it and delivered? Weldone bro, at least you are not a YES MAN. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by febrezedarego(m): 9:26pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Nah bro nothing will happen, she just proved she don't need your cash just attention and care shikena 20 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Megfrivolous: 9:29pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
Preshy561: Please do this feminists have a kind of online dating app where i can see them... Biko. ![]() 19 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Biglittlelois(f): 9:32pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
It's really funny when a guy says he likes a lady that pays her bills on a first date, then feels bad when it actually happens, isn't that what y'all have been preaching about, why being ashamed and behaving like a sissy, be proud of yourself a lady paid her and your bills so hold yourself high at work sissy!!! 65 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Megfrivolous: 9:33pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
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