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Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by nkwuocha: 10:07am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Jidibia: Inviting over is the best sef ![]() ![]() ![]() But for someone who hasnt got clean shirt, i wonder how bedsheets go be, before AKIKI( Termites)finish person pikin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by nkwuocha: 10:08am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Gaspardd: Naa....the girl is also dirrty. You can be clean and still lacks composure. Please how did you get the money out, you had it in your wallet or it was squeezed out in your pocket! ![]() ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by RTSC: 10:08am On Apr 09, 2019 |
spiceadole:It's not that we don't like independent Women, we are just not used to it. Most women are dependents. If more women start being independent, men will get comfortable over time. |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Nobody: 10:09am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Clefayomide:Dating is not meant for everybody, you know. 4 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Awoo88: 10:11am On Apr 09, 2019 |
nkwuocha:U get problem oo. Person say him cheap u still dey ask why him borrow cloth. Mind you, being broke is not the same as being cheap. Cheap is the operational word here. You can be broke and not cheap. You can be rich and still be very cheap!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by RTSC: 10:12am On Apr 09, 2019 |
But the guy fucvk up. Why must you place the money on table like a kid.? You could have lied your way through like a man, instead of doing that. 6 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by ImaIma1(f): 10:12am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Gaspardd: But you know in your mind that you are stingy. Prioritize indeed. The solution is...do not hang out. That is a sure way to spend money and it is not really for people on a budget 6 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by kunleweb: 10:12am On Apr 09, 2019 |
RTSC: What's the issue here. So I dependency or dependency is what it comes down to. Smh. Who cursed this generation. Dating is an avenue to know one another with slight possibility for futuristic future relations. And when a guy reduces enjoying the littlest of things life offers for the sake of not being reduced to a fool, it tells a lot about his roles lifestyle and how he'll handle real life issues which shouldn't be swept under the rug. Guys, women now earn, deal with it. When men start owning their actions and are not dependent on how their ladies react but by default own their own actions dependency or indepency financially wouldn't matter. I wonder how you boys think 3 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Jidibia(m): 10:13am On Apr 09, 2019 |
nkwuocha:Termite keh? Na bedbug go end person pikin. 3 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by kunleweb: 10:13am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Awoo88: Comment of the thread 3 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by MissJoy29(f): 10:15am On Apr 09, 2019 |
kunleweb:You know me to an extent. i don't do because others are doing. I didn't cuss; was only saying the truth. These guys dent the image of the good guys out there. Those who are future father figures spew thrash all over the place. Don't you see it's worrisome? Btw, I have been looking all over for you on the other side. You have been MIA. |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by kense88: 10:16am On Apr 09, 2019 |
AntiBrutus:Op is very confuse. |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by kunleweb: 10:16am On Apr 09, 2019 |
MissJoy29: We need to talk. I'll call you. Make we make am private. I'm u happy walahi Work I don't really do social media jawe |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Clefayomide: 10:19am On Apr 09, 2019 |
ClixMaster: Just like sense isn't meant for everybody, you dig |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by MissJoy29(f): 10:21am On Apr 09, 2019 |
kunleweb:Good to know you haven't changed your stance on these things. |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by ImaIma1(f): 10:22am On Apr 09, 2019 |
RTSC: So why do you guys curse out girls that depend on guys? You guys will call the leeches...olosho and all the lewd names to belittle them. Now here is an independent woman and the ego cannot handle it. 6 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by kunleweb: 10:23am On Apr 09, 2019 |
MissJoy29: Only whole people should date or marry abeg. It's not for sick unhealthy people 1 Like |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by MissJoy29(f): 10:25am On Apr 09, 2019 |
kunleweb:Who's talking about social media even though you used to do it. Lol. "I'M U HAPPY WALAHI" What does this mean? |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by RTSC: 10:25am On Apr 09, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Because we want Women to be better. We want them to be independent. That We are uncomfortable with independent women does not mean we don't like it. Keep doing it and we will get less uncomfortable with time. |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by MissJoy29(f): 10:26am On Apr 09, 2019 |
kunleweb:I'm telling you! |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by scarplanet(m): 10:26am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Gaspardd: It is good to be quite sincere in one's dealings and it is also great to live within one's means. You mentioned that you live cheap and prioritize your spending, fantastic! Now read your own words... "On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). " Now how will you call someone, suggested the person meets you, and you assumed that the person you called to meet you also lives cheap and prioritize spending? I mean, you willingly offered to take a person, you were not coerced into it whatsoever, and you still subject the person to your desires because that is just what you want? That is selfish of you bro. Things to take out of this event: 1. Do not make assumptions for other people and dont presume you can bend a person to your desires. 2. Do not start what you clearly cant finish 3. 2k is never enough to plan outings in Nigeria... She could call you stingy, and rightly so. 4. She is a good friend; any other lady might have publicly disgraced you. One mistake you made though.... you should have given her the 1500 for transport to pay for herself, and not directly paying the driver. That act probably might have redeemed you from what transpired earlier and less likely solidify her thoughts about you as being stingy and selfish. And No, that doesn't mean you cannot eventually date her in the future... You might be surprised she held nothing against you. We learn everyday, I am sure you must have learnt something from what happened to you! 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by kunleweb: 10:26am On Apr 09, 2019 |
MissJoy29: The way you commented is a serious red flag. I said I was unhappy walahi. Opinionated is good I tligence is bae, but cockiness..babe I'll shut up and mind my business sha |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by HardMirror(m): 10:26am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Hedonisst:lol. U got me laffing real good 1 Like |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by RTSC: 10:29am On Apr 09, 2019 |
kunleweb:Oga, I don't know what you are on about. I want women to be independent in everything including during dates, just like their counterparts in other parts of the world. I don't know exactly what you are talking about. |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by MissJoy29(f): 10:32am On Apr 09, 2019 |
RTSC:Do you really think the crop of men available now want women to be better? Our being better will mean less dependence on men and men will NEVER be comfortable with that level of liberation. Therefore, I don't think men will EVER be comfortable with women being independent no matter how much they say it. It's a vicious cycle. 1 Like |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by queenitee(f): 10:33am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Gaspardd:Permit me to say you have a problem. She wasn't being full of herself, it wasn't like you paid and she told the waiter to return your money, she simply helped out. If she was being full of herself, she wouldn't have laughed it off when you told her the amount you had, she would definitely make you feel so bad about yourself verbally and with her actions, which she didn't do and judging from what you posted, she told no one. What's with guys and ego self? If she was being full of herself, she wouldn't have allowed you pay her tfare. You really need to work on your self esteem bro 9 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by kunleweb: 10:34am On Apr 09, 2019 |
RTSC: Why are you whining? Who's withholding your I dependency. Swerve joor.before you chop slap. . |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Biglittlelois(f): 10:34am On Apr 09, 2019 |
bossrillboss: I love that Lalasticlala took it to front page so that other low grade,stupid mentality, dirty, stingy cheapskate like Op will have sense and learn from him, funny thing is I use to think @gaspardd is one of the sensible dudes here, smh!!! 7 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by Yummmy: 10:35am On Apr 09, 2019 |
Gaspardd:. Lols, it's nothing about her. Her action is giving you low self esteem ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by RTSC: 10:35am On Apr 09, 2019 |
kunleweb:Whinning? ![]() Who the fucvk is this guy? You well so? |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by MissJoy29(f): 10:37am On Apr 09, 2019 |
kunleweb:You think I sounded cocky? Anyway, I was seriously vexed that's why I sounded that way. |
Re: Date With My Colleague: I Have Ruined My Reputation At Work. by kunleweb: 10:37am On Apr 09, 2019 |
MissJoy29: With liberty Comes responsibility which lies the problem. What percentile of women would have their dreams fulfilled, liberated and successful and still provide the emotional safety she should provide. Just the question o leave folorunsho alakija and Co out of it. 1 Like 1 Share |
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