MissJoy29:

You think I sounded cocky?

Anyway, I was seriously vexed that's why I sounded that way.

RTSC:

Whinning?

Who the fucvk is this guy?
You well so?

Preshy561:
She's not gonna disgrace your little ass.
She's a feminist y'all have been shouting and yelling untop your voices that they don't pay their bills.

Now, you've seen one, you are feeling emasculated and acting all sissy.

Awoo88:

U get problem oo. Person say him cheap u still dey ask why him borrow cloth. Mind you, being broke is not the same as being cheap. Cheap is the operational word here. You can be broke and not cheap. You can be rich and still be very cheap!!!

RTSC:

Because we want Women to be better.
We want them to be independent.

That We are uncomfortable with independent women does not mean we don't like it.

Keep doing it and we will get less uncomfortable with time.

Jidibia:
Going on a first date, anything can happen. Bros, let me tell you the truth, you are stingy. The meat the babe ordered for will not be more than 1k las las. Going with enough money like 5-7k will not be bad in case of emergency. Anyways, your stinginess your life so e no concern me.

ImaIma1:


You want independent, yet you are uncomfortable with it? I don't think you know what you want.

We should keep doing it like we are trying to please you, get your approval or warm up to it? Who has that time?

The double standard is too glaring. You can't handle an independent woman yet you will curse out a dependent one. Be true to yourself

AntiBrutus:


If you were the one with all the money, will you carry her along?

Maybe ask her, "babe, I want to buy meat, do you have money to add?"

I am VERY SURE you won't. You will just order the thing like a boss and pay the bills.

Tell me the truth, if say you get money and she pay, shey you for the plan return match to equalize? Oga, you are fighting with your ego.

It is very hard dating guys without much money and I am not being condescending here. Call a rich guy "ewu" and he will laugh, because im know say the money dey pon the beat. Call a humble guy "ewu" and he will rush to create thread. I graduated since 2016, I have one small job I am managing, but I don't hesitate to take care of my babe. Yesterday she called me ewu, should I breakup with her?

Walahi, you guys are paranoid. Una dey synonymous with not-goodlooking girls.

ImaIma1:


So why do you guys curse out girls that depend on guys? You guys will call the leeches...olosho and all the lewd names to belittle them. Now here is an independent woman and the ego cannot handle it.

queenitee:

Permit me to say you have a problem. She wasn't being full of herself, it wasn't like you paid and she told the waiter to return your money, she simply helped out. If she was being full of herself, she wouldn't have laughed it off when you told her the amount you had, she would definitely make you feel so bad about yourself verbally and with her actions, which she didn't do and judging from what you posted, she told no one. What's with guys and ego self? If she was being full of herself, she wouldn't have allowed you pay her tfare.
You really need to work on your self esteem bro

kingreign:

Ishilove:

It's a poke in the eye of those who say ladies are leeches

Rilley:
Shut up jare! how many girls will spend on guys? unless those that have rich parents, 95% of girls in Nigeria are leeches, they are broke, hungry and stingy.

kunleweb:

Na so. You try

kunleweb:

Na so. You try

Afrosage:
lolsss...dude u re so funny,I bet u re also as cheap as the ranting OP, you re on a thread,a very good example of a hard working lady tryna show her worth and u re still here ranting....damn!,mbakwa....I tire for una double standards.

Ishilove:



It's a poke in the eye of those who say ladies are leeches

kunleweb:


Na so. You try

Gaspardd:
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.

Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff.
On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church.
She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.

I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work.
Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth.
I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.

She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete.
Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue.
Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on.
Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined

Gaspardd:
There is this lady at work, she works for the client and i work for the contractor. She has a nigga friend who is my padi and he has been talking to me about her, after so much persuasion, i said fùck it and gave it a shot.

Really she was so receptive than i envisaged and since then we've been casually saying hi and stuff.
On saturday i called her and asked about her weekend, she told me she wasnt doing anything, i suggested we meet on sunday(ytd). She said she wud call me wenever she's back from church.
She called around 5pm, i dressed up, all my clothes were creased so bad so i had to borrow a niggas Tshirt, pocketed 2k cus i am cheap and i live cheap, so i cant spend more than 2k on a date.

I got to d venue, she was waiting already, she was putting on a gown revealing some cleavage which was a very nice sight but really unlike her as she always dress modest to work.
Long story short, i ordered for drinks, all was 1400 naira, which was within budget, d 100 naira change will be for my TP and i will give d maruwa guy 500 for her own TP to give her d remaining change. Everything was going according to plan, things were going fine , what a good time to be alive. Suddenly she said she feels like chewing sth.
I initially made as if i didnt hear what she said, she said it again and i interjected with "NOPE, CHEWING IS BAD FOR TEETH" She laffed and beckoned on the waiter to come over. In shock i yelled wait wait, i brought out the whole of 1500, dropped it on the table and told her this all i have with me, already she knows there is 1400 payment to be made.

She didnt give a shìt, she called the guy, brought 2 plates of meat, i was just feeling awkward watching how the whole shìt wud play out. At last she brought out her purse, gave d guy some money, i picked the 1500, gave it to the waiter but he returned the money, said the money she gave him is complete.
Seriously i was ashamed of myself, i wanted to talk about it but i decided to let it slide so as not to overflogg the issue.
Later we were done and i saw her off, i gave d driver 500 for her TP. Some hrs later i saw 3missed calls from her, i texted her back and she responded with... see you tmao. While i dont know wht that means but i know she is gonna tell everybody at work about what happened, about how i am a stingy pig. But i aint stingy, i just priotize things i spend money on.
Today i told my niggas what happened, i have only two niggas, but neither i nor any of them has heard about the parol from another source. But then i am sure that if words get around, my reputation = Ruined

Biglittlelois:


See the rubbish he said "chewing is bad for your teeth" what type of lame ass excuse is that for petes sake? Jeez, I'm tired

Preshy561:
She's not gonna disgrace your little ass.
She's a feminist y'all have been shouting and yelling untop your voices that they don't pay their bills.

Now, you've seen one, you are feeling emasculated and acting all sissy.

Rilley:
Shut up jare! how many girls will spend on guys? unless those that have rich parents, 95% of girls in Nigeria are leeches, they are broke, hungry and stingy.

Nnemaranma:


I'm disappointed in you and your write up.
What do guys really want?
Your expectations were cut. You expected that after the cheap hangout, you'll invite her over to come pay in kind, but she beat you to your game and you ran to Nairaland crying foul.
Next time don't go for ladies that know their worth, go for your type of girls; the hungry girls. Those that hardly spend on themselves not to talk of others. That's the type of female you need in your life.

Rilley:
I'm just saying the obvious truth, besides how many girls in Nigeria will pay the bills in Nigeria? let's be honest.

Most girls will never spend anything but want you to spend all your money, we know their are damn hungry girls in this country and talking about me am not like the OP, I can't go on a day with little cash, it's better I don't go on a date than take little cash with me because of unforseen circumstances.

INDUSTRIALFAN:
calm down.. He and the OP don't represent all of us guys. They re both confused.

Personally, I love independent women but no matter how buoyant she is, I like to take care of everything myself except she insists. I wonder why someone will invite someone for a date and not want to go all out. That's prison mentality.

Afrosage:
how much is dis spending dat y'all kip talking bout sef..lemme tell u,a girl dat likes/loves a guy wud do anything xpecially wen u re still trying to impress a guy be it a negroid, Caucasoid or mongoloid ...I have taken bfs out before,all expenses on me,I have helped out on bills wen they come up short n stuffs and I bet everyoda gal has done dat one time or the other as long they have.No be gals dey carry school fees go give boyfriends again....you guyz shud stop bashing girls up n down