Truckpusher:
Most Nigerian women remain in abusive marriages mainly for economic gain. Though the trend is changing these days.

Truckpusher:
The writer also talked about autopsy report reporting something else as the cause of death. Why didn’t she also mention it ?

Jessyjack:


there's no economic gain in an abusive marriage.... the men are always useless to their immediate family.... some remain just because they are from a broken home and don't want to repeat history....

quirus:


So that justifies murder. She had the option all the years to pack and go back to her father's house, why didn't she took that option?

alert01:


From your bitterness, I think you've suffered the same fate.

Mutemenot:
Well, i don't want argue much into this case but from what this sister wrote, she sounds more like a lawyer defending a client in a law court.
I have a biological sister who's husband beat up recently for her bad characters, it's well known to me my sister that my sis pays little or no respect to her husband n that has been going on for years. It's either cos me n other bro are richer than her husband or for what's 're reason bear non to her . So when the fight broke out she called, crying n shouting thay has husband has murdered sleep bra bra bra.. that I should come over before she dies ....i just out off my phone n went back to sleep.. for a week plus I didn't put call to her, I ignored her totally cos I know how women reacts n how they can expose one to dangers ...
To cut it shot, the sister who is defending her friend is not sincere, she's just a common liar who can only deceive her fellow shallow minded women. Looking at the man's picture, I don't believe he is already 51 n the sister doesn't look 27 either. 2, the sis said the man sleeps with his wife only when he's ready to recreate .. all dis 're lies ... they habe murdered an innocent man, may his soul chase the killers to death..

newdawn2017:
Get away u. nonsense! She did very well. Call which police?? Does she ve money for such? Sovereign God Yahweh is d defense of d defenseless. Jail kih u dia!

Kinikini:
Please state the result of the autopsy because it is still not right for a wife to arrange her families to beat up her husband. According to her defender, she was so poor and had no one to run to yet had brothers strong enough to beat up the husband. Those strong brothers did not take her in and look after her in the 12 years she was been beating but suddenly have arms strong enough to snuff life out of her husband. Tales can be written about the dead after all, the dead don’t talk.

Kinikini:
I pity your husband or whoever is going to marry you. An idiot is someone who does not know and does not know he or she does not know. Can you go through my comment which you replied to and point at one line that justified the husband beating her? If you cannot find any such statement in my comment and that being the basis you called someone an idiot, you be the judge of who is an idiot.

Jessyjack:


there's no economic gain in an abusive marriage.... the men are always useless to their immediate family.... some remain just because they are from a broken home and don't want to repeat history....

tactius:
1.I don't engage in tribalism here, and I like Igbo people and admire them, but child marriage too is a problem in Ibo land....A 16 year old marrying a 40 year old is not right.

chivera018:
You are very stupid, so because the husband is taking care of her, that is why he had to turn her into punching bag for 12yrs ?
too many idiots parading nairaland.

Jessyjack:



like your mother is suffered now abi....

Rosuxexat:

Olosho you no go every get sense till Jesus comes. Thunder fire your life there

Truckpusher:
Well! One factor can’t be an overriding factor in this circumstance.
You’re right and I’m also right .
Abused spouses tend to make excuses and that alone baffles me. Question is : have they tried to leave ? Whether she was abused or not according to the two different writers of the same incident will no longer hold water when homicide is involved. Unless there were documented cases after each abuse.
To all dumb women that do not know their right , always report abuses if you want to remain in the marriage , to enable you get some soft landing if things goes South and you’re the one alive to tell the story.

chivera018:
You are very stupid, so because the husband is taking care of her, that is why he had to turn her into punching bag for 12yrs ?
too many idiots parading nairaland.

chivera018:
You are supposed to be in a mental hospital.

Qssolarworld:



Not forgetting Regina Daniels. Rumored marriage to Nwoko.

alert01:


The thing is we men should be careful. If a wife kill her husband and the matter reach court, the court will vindicate the woman on the premise that if they jail her who'll take care of the children, and also she's a woman,and shes's weak. I'm speaking from what I've seen. This happened to a former neighbour of mine. The wife's family pulled all connection to ensure their daughter didn't sleep at the police station even after all evidence claimed that she killed her husband, she even confessed. She was discharge because shes's of weak sex,and it's a woman's world...


men be careful' If you can no longer put up with her, let her go. Instaed of exchanging bitterness. Remember its not a do or die

Frankyboy1:
Unfortunately the man is dead to say his own part of the story, the man married a naive girl, took advantage of her naivety and maltreated her, d girl grew to knowing her rights, started exercising,gained some self confidence,and probably started standing up to the man, cheating can not be ruled out of her accusations, cause that's one vice unsatisfied married women at the gym in pH engage in, the man finds out, or an outburst ensues between them, he beats her silly, and now she wants to show the man she is now grown up, hires thugs to beat up her own husband( the biggest mistake of all times) while she could have jejely walked out, now the man is dead, and even though she is out on bail, she will face the music for premeditated murder! Lessons to all, look before you leap, never be pressured by age,circumstances or family pressure to settle down, most unmarried people are actually happier than most married folks, but due to societal and family pressure, they either marry wrongly, or endure negative situations in marriage! Marriage should not define who you are! What a sad tale

Praizeupdates:
A man has lost his life after his wife allegedly hired thugs to beat him for slapping her. This was according to a narration by a man identified as Bernard Ufuoma, who is a friend to the deceased.

Meanwhile Friend of Lady Accused of ordering the beating of Her Husband To Death finally Speaks to defend her friend and narate what really happened.

See her post below

Gist From Praizenews ; http://www.praizenews.com/friend-of-lady-accused-of-ordering-the-beating-of-her-husband-to-death-speaks/

Rosuxexat:

Stfu the husband owns her. She’s his property. Why her brothers no marry her

chivera018:
You are very stupid, so because the husband is taking care of her, that is why he had to turn her into punching bag for 12yrs ?
too many idiots parading nairaland.

chivera018:
You are very stupid, so because the husband is taking care of her, that is why he had to turn her into punching bag for 12yrs ?
too many idiots parading nairaland.

SageMK:
Pictures doesn't lie.

I am inclined to believe this.

Mehn that so called friend of her late husband that fabricated the story against this woman surely dines with the devil. Every thing about his version of events reeks of lies. This is why we should take every story on social media with a pinch of salt.

Karma is a bìtch last last.

alert01:


Learn how to communicate well. Your pussy doesn't neccessarily have to solve all problems and open all door for you.

It ought to be ' like your mother is suffering right now abi,

Get sense!

I'll neglect/disregard you from here.

Rosuxexat:
Olosho you no get sense. So stfu

chivera018:
She is nobodies property.
You reason like an idiot.
Mind you, slavery has already ended.
I pity the unlucky lady that would marry you.
You are just too stupid.

Jessyjack:



I can perceive senseless guys without seeing them.... they can't say anything without mentioning sex, pussy,breast.... that's the only thing in their empty skull.... they think everyone is like their sister who sells her body for a mere phone..... ...

chivera018:
I feel so much pity for your mother.
Your mother is so unlucky having an idiot like you as a son.