OAUTemitayo:

Can you please save your energy?
Most Nigerian feminists are bloody hypocrites.
You are just wasting your energy.

Let's hear her say Amen first so we, can, be, sure she is true to her cause and not a, double faced hypocrite.

Jessyjack:



you have already said an amen... case closed!

Oh so u can't say Amen for your son,whichever way mark my words today,whether u say Amen or not what u wish for other will befall you in hundreds fold,its not a curse but a prophetic declaration into your life.

Realboygenius:
You're not happy, he's beating you LEAVE or report to police but instead you called people to beat him up and now he's dead. Kindly go to jail Ma. You can't justify wrong actions.

Sorry boi, she has bn released.

horlique:
what rubbish can she possibly speak.. there many ways to resolve marital violence not by killing your spouse

Read the two stories and then judge from both parties, it seems the man knew the wife predicament and then decide to use it at his own advantage.

Classicalman:
God can never defend murderers. She killed a human being. The man is no longer alive to tell his side of the story. She is a devil and needs to be jailed for life.

U re such a man like d demonic deceased, i can percieve. What was the man's aim while beating her to a pulp & treating her like local dog? D after effects of all maltreatment & physical beating result re diseases such as athsma, autoimmunne diseases ( a branch of it is rheumatoid arthritis), chest pains, stomach pains, headaches, PTSD, Etc. May d tragic fate of d abused woman befall u. May ur dignity bevtaken away from u. May u be reduced to a mere pig in d sight & in d hands of d woman u love & call ur own. U python!

Jessyjack:


there's no economic gain in an abusive marriage.... the men are always useless to their immediate family.... some remain just because they are from a broken home and don't want to repeat history....

U sound like u were brought up in a troubled home with irresponsible head

gloria34:
You sound like she shot or stabbed him.

keep supporting evil.. a woman.hire people.to beat to.death her husband.and you are here trying to support Evil... Am not supporting domestic violence and in anyway but killing your spouse should never come in

Common sense is not common. It is very unfortunate that your sister has a dunce for a brother. Keep saying thrash while your sister is being violated and treated like a punching bag.

Per the op, it is very obvious that this account is more tangible than the other because the lady has provided proof of domestic violence against the husband as opposed to what the man's friend said earlier.

Mutemenot:
Well, i don't want argue much into this case but from what this sister wrote, she sounds more like a lawyer defending a client in a law court.
I have a biological sister who's husband beat up recently for her bad characters, it's well known to me my sister that my sis pays little or no respect to her husband n that has been going on for years. It's either cos me n other bro are richer than her husband or for what's 're reason bear non to her . So when the fight broke out she called, crying n shouting thay has husband has murdered sleep bra bra bra.. that I should come over before she dies ....i just out off my phone n went back to sleep.. for a week plus I didn't put call to her, I ignored her totally cos I know how women reacts n how they can expose one to dangers ...
To cut it shot, the sister who is defending her friend is not sincere, she's just a common liar who can only deceive her fellow shallow minded women. Looking at the man's picture, I don't believe he is already 51 n the sister doesn't look 27 either. 2, the sis said the man sleeps with his wife only when he's ready to recreate .. all dis 're lies ... they habe murdered an innocent man, may his soul chase the killers to death..

Depression dey make person fat?

Look at this fool. Just like your mother is your father's doormat right?

Rosuxexat:

Stfu the husband owns her. She’s his property. Why her brothers no marry her

trapQ:
Common sense is not common. It is very unfortunate that your sister has a dunce for a brother. Keep saying thrash while your sister is being violated and treated like a punching bag.

Per the op, it is very obvious that this account is more tangible than the other because the lady has provided proof of domestic violence against the husband as opposed to what the man's friend said earlier.

Common sense is not common Indeed, now the brother 'll rot in jail while she suffers alone to Carter for the kids ... as for the woman, she's only bn defensive . When they get to court let her come with her evidence .
The lady is an orphan or married at 17, what has that to do with the man's death. People like you follow women to grave

In which part of the Constitution is it also written that a man can beat up his wife almost to the point of damaging her eyes?

Intent to cause what bodily harm? What part of this write up showed there was body harm? Read and comprehend Mr truckpusher, there was an altercation that led to them fighting.

This one doesn't even know anything. The bolded is pure trash and shows you're blockheaded.

Truckpusher:
You'll need a good attorney to prove that the brothers aren’t thugs.
On which part of the constitution was it written that you can beat up your Inlaw simply because he’s an asshole ? Nowhere .
Even if the autopsy reports the actual death as something else they’ll still fall for man slaughter and the intent to cause body harm to another man.

Eyaah,
I really feel for her
All these abusive men sef

Jessyjack:



your brain you are using now should tell you why the man died days after the assult..... if it doesn't,then you have not used it either.....

U should read with understanding the account of d deseased friend and that of d suspect friend. The account of d deseased friend is an eye witness account but that of d suspect friend is what she was told. Which of them is a strong and direct evidence slowpoke? Always read with understanding before u go public to embarrassed ur self. Have u head of hearsay evidence before? That's d account or evidence of d suspect friend! Or have u heard of circumstantial evidence? That's d evidence of d suspect friend against her friend if d court is to evaluate her evidence. However, have u heard of an eye witness account? That's d strong and direct evidence of d deceased friend. Whatever was u have to put it that woman ain't going anywhere, she must face d wrath of d law.

OAUTemitayo:

You will pity her when the people who looks up to the man in his own family resort to Africa method of punishment.
Wife beating is not something we should tolerate nor encourage.
Also on no circumstance should we encourage barbarism.
Hiring people to beat up your husband is callous, inhumane and crude; not even when you can just help SARS make some money with a simple visit to their station.

If she truly hired people or invited her brothers to beat the man, her punishment would be worse.
If only you know how things like this end in average African families.
The Yorubas will say, "raborabo e lo ma pa"

She didn't hire thugs to beat her husband, her brothers confronted him because he was always beating their sister. He died 10 days after the confrontation meaning the death may not even be connected to the scuffle. The other man that relayed the first story twisted it to make her look like a demon and the man appear a saint. Not once did he give account of the numerous physical abuse she endured in the hands of the man. Whether she serves jailterm or not, her live will never be the same again. If only the brute she called a husband had not been physically abusing her, this tragedy could have been averted.

dominique:


She didn't hire thugs to beat her husband, her brothers confronted him because he was always beating their sister. He died 10 days after the confrontation meaning the death may not even be connected to the scuffle. The other man that relayed the first story twisted it to make her look like a demon and the man appear a saint. Not once did he give account of the numerous physical abuse she endured in the hands of the man. Whether she serves jailterm or not, her live will never be the same again. If only the brute she called a husband had not been physically abusing her, this tragedy could have been averted.

How did you know the version told by the ladies is correct?

I am not saying the man is innocent o. Because I was not there. But if truly she did that, sense is far from her.
Her children will never forgive her

OAUTemitayo:

How did you know the version told by the ladies is correct?

I am not saying the man is innocent o. Because I was not there. But if truly she did that, sense is far from her.
Her children will never forgive her

I examined the both accounts, the second one sounds more believable. The first one was too ridiculous to be true. Which Nigerian man will beg his much younger wife to allow his siblings to move in with them? He slapped her then knelt down and started begging for forgiveness? Bullshit! The friend tried a little too hard to hard to paint the woman a demon sent to earth to torment the man, he only made his version look more like a fairytale than a true story.

Sally97:

Illiterate, it's not murder it's manslaughter. He could beat a woman but could not handle his fellow man

prof. Stay single for insulting your grand father.

trapQ:
Google "murder" so you don't go making a fool of yourself.

may you be blessed with what you bless others with. Selah!

There are holes in both stories. She is a princess and when her father died, she married out of poverty? Which place is she a princess of?

Also, the husband should not have slapped his wife in the first place and later begged immediately.

From what I read, she might not have been directly involved in her brothers' actions but the picture she sent to and and told them would have made her brothers act in that way. Her brothers should face the law.

Now that her husband his dead, who will continue paying her bills. God help her that she is the guy's next of kin. If not, she is in soup because the husband's family go show her wen. Am sure she will be regretting this now.

I don't support wife beaters but no one will do this to any of my relatives, he or she will face the law.

xtycool:
any man who is above 35 years, yet un married are considered irresponsible, they have problems. Except some unusual cases.

This statement is incredibly foolish. Your stupidity is legendary.

topeorekoy:
There are holes in both stories. She is a princess and when her father died, she married out of poverty? Which place is she a princess of?

Also, the husband should not have slapped his wife in the first place and later begged immediately.

From what I read, she might not have been directly involved in her brothers' actions but the picture she sent to and and told them would have made her brothers act in that way. Her brothers should face the law.

Now that her husband his dead, who will continue paying her bills. God help her that she is the guy's next of kin. If not, she is in soup because the husband's family go show her wen. Am sure she will be regretting this now.

I don't support wife beaters but no one will do this to any of my relatives, he or she will face the law.

I'm wondering if the man doesn't have brothers and other family members. A well to do man for that matter. God forbids that I'm in the picture on the man's family side. The violence and bouts of cold, brutal vengeance would spiral out of control. At the end, wetin the woman go gain? People need to have sense.

As bad as domestic violence is, it is what it is - DOMESTIC violence. Outside parties can only play mediatory roles, but interfering in the matter with violence (such as in-laws ganging up to beat or kill their sister's husband) is an incredibly senseless, short sighted and disastrous recourse. It never ends well. At worst go to the man's house and forcibly evacuate your sister, and insist that the marriage can no longer continue. But going there like a mob of miscreants to unleash violence when the issues are so complicated and the stakes are so high (children, a dependent wife, livelihoods, police case, potential jail terms, potential other side vengeance, etc), there's no winning in that. Things can only get worse for everybody.

Rosuxexat:

Stfu the husband owns her. She’s his property. Why her brothers no marry her

And how much was your mother's life bought by your dad Because it's obvious that your idea of marriage is slavery where you get to buy a human being and useless 'it' as you deem fit.

horlique:
keep supporting evil.. a woman.hire people.to beat to.death her husband.and you are here trying to support Evil... Am not supporting domestic violence and in anyway but killing your spouse should never come in

oga, take am easy. I am not supporting domestic violence but killing her husband was not intentional (doesn't justify the act tho). It's the same thing as a man who beats his wife to death. Truth is, if a doctor can confirm that the fight was not d cause of his death, the wife will walk free. Domestic violence should be shunned from both sides And i hope this story serves as a warning to others

MyFlair:

U sound like u were brought up in a troubled home with irresponsible head

Let me answer that question, yes, i was born and raised to an extent in such home. I have a first hand experience of it and my mom is a living testimony of the after effect of such abuse. I really finds it hard to sympatize with such men

gloria34:
Let me answer that question, yes, i was born and raised to an extent in such home. I have a first hand experience of it and my mom is a living testimony of the after effect of such abuse. I really finds it hard to sympatize with such men

It's unfortunate your case turned out the way it did, but rest assured there are 1001 families with husband and wife cohabiting safely and lovingly not because issues don't arise but because they have been able to manage it.
Plz don't take this mind set into marriage

gloria34:
Let me answer that question, yes, i was born and raised to an extent in such home. I have a first hand experience of it and my mom is a living testimony of the after effect of such abuse. I really finds it hard to sympatize with such men

It's unfortunate your case turned out the way it did, but rest assured there are 1001 families with husband and wife cohabiting safely and lovingly not because issues don't arise but because they have been able to manage it.
Plz don't take this mind set into marriage.

MyFlair:

It's unfortunate your case turned out the way it did, but rest assured there are 1001 families with husband and wife cohabiting safely and lovingly not because issues don't arise but because they have been able to manage it.
Plz don't take this mind set into marriage.

Dont worry, i Dont plan on killing my husband or inviting others to beat him up, i will simply walk out when a guy takes it as his responsibility to beat me. I want to live a strong and healthy life till old age

Hedonisst:


This statement is incredibly foolish. Your stupidity is legendary.

Tell that to ur mama boy

gloria34:
oga, take am easy. I am not supporting domestic violence but killing her husband was not intentional (doesn't justify the act tho). It's the same thing as a man who beats his wife to death. Truth is, if a doctor can confirm that the fight was not d cause of his death, the wife will walk free. Domestic violence should be shunned from both sides And i hope this story serves as a warning to others

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