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Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 9:19am On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: I am going to create a new thread with a new moniker and pretend all I have to go on a date is 5k. You will be surprised at the bashing I will get. A lot of people would come and say I am stingy and broke and shouldn't even talk to ladies. . This has nothing to do with mentality. It's about not letting others set a standard for you knowing well how materialistic these same people are. . Your claim of food poisoning here is rather subjective, not objective. . Ironically, I won't be going on dates ever again. Thanks to my ogas, it has to be on my bed now or no where. 5 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Nobody: 9:30am On Apr 12, 2019 |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Evercurious(f): 9:38am On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: It's okay. We may all continue and flow with our different opinions of life. Cheers |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 9:45am On Apr 12, 2019 |
Jayneek: It's a mentality for them basically. It is in the mind |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Evercurious(f): 9:45am On Apr 12, 2019 |
Laurene: My dear, materialism has really done alot of harm |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 9:46am On Apr 12, 2019 |
Jayneek: It's always good to have a back up plan. Now, the extra cash is your back up plan and not your actual budget plan. The plan is to work within your budget and when things go south, you call for back up. . Even if I am going to the market to get food stuffs, I go with extra cash so it's not new here. But I try as much as I can not to deep into that extra cash. So it's nothing new. 4 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 10:01am On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: Whatever makes you sleep at night. I never went out on a date where a guy picked what i would drink or eat. What i am used to is a guy asking "what would you have?" And not him deciding for me. And i would usually ask his budget and how much he is willing to spend. I guess these younger guys have a different orientation. And i guess it is ok especially with the standard of girls they usually take out. 1 Like |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 10:27am On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Of course #1400 would still buy 2 doughnuts and two bottles of water in any average eatery in Nigeria so that should do, it's about bonding and getting to know each other and not a banquet at the ballroom of a Chateau,i can however decide to spend way more depending on the connection,if the, connection is right then we can then proceed to go for a banquet if I'm willing and able. 1 Like |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Jayneek(m): 10:39am On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: So now do you get the whole point of why I said going on a date with just only a budget of 2k was totally wrong? |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Raalsalghul: 10:46am On Apr 12, 2019 |
Laurene:Babe I dey. I just dey watch you since in James Bond mode. Honestly, you are too rational and I agree with many of your opinions. Therefore...take this one bottle. 1 Like
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Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Raalsalghul: 10:47am On Apr 12, 2019 |
Laurene:Supu. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 10:50am On Apr 12, 2019 |
Jayneek: Your analysis holds no logic the probability of that happening is 50/50 worst case scenario,besides I won't be taking a a girl with tear tear slippers on a date anyway,however if it ever happens he would take her to a, supermarket to buy a low budget slippers and pay with my ATM,he never said the 2k was his last penny anyway,by your analogy the slippers could also have cut soon as you guys departed on her journey home,you would just tell her to stay at the bus stop then u disembark on your journey home to go buy her your bathroom slippers then take it to her isn't it. 2 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 10:53am On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: What if she says she wants juice and shwarma and she is the classy type that can buy it herself? Or are you saying you only take out babes that are worth doughnuts and water? The point is not if you would spend 2k or less. Would you leave your house with only 2k and not plan for eventualities? |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 10:56am On Apr 12, 2019 |
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Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 11:01am On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Of course if she has any cravings then she had better be able to afford it and not turn a date into a banquet after all no be only tissue paper they una bag,if the lady thinks she is worth more than, that then she should be ready to spend her worth,my dear bottle water is good enough for a date until your gluttonous instincts kick in I guess. Of course I can leave home with 2k and my ATM handy and with money transfer on my phone I'm sure I can never go wrong,is there a dating rule that u must eat something on a date,if u are classy an ant to do some grandstanding do it with your funds not mine,a date isn't an avenue to massage your vain ego. 2 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 11:17am On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: So shawarma and juice is a banquet? ![]() ![]() Why not just leave her to drink her water at home? Or must you go out on a date? Your response of having your atm handy just proved my point and nolified all the claims of you and the op. You might end up spending 2k or less but that is not all you leave the house with. Case closed! |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 11:29am On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Why must you eat sharwama and juice on the date, why not buy it on your way home after the date if u are craving for it,cant u afford it, oh I guess it's one of the seven wonders of the world to you so anything just to have a bite goes right and any fool that buys u a, sharwama has already won your heart I guess,it's like going for a meeting and expecting to be welcomed by the smell of jollof rice and chicken,you could be served with just bottled water or nachos with cheese enchiladas but u are entitled to nothing at all,get it? 2 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 11:42am On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: What is all these subtle talk about worth and class? This obviously carries an undertone of materialism. The concept of class is birthed from materialism which is exactly what you are pushing subtly with all your comments. . Are you saying some girls are bigger than water and doughnut on a date which is going to last an hour at max? . For christ's sake I am going on a date with you and not dinner with you. The whole essence of a date is stomach pleasure from the angle of the average Nigerian girl. You have gone a long way to prove that point. Date simply means to meet. To someone. From the definition, did you see "to meet someone and eat shawarma or pizza"? . In reference to your last mention, I can bet my left balls that I am older than you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 11:43am On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: My point exactly. Refer to my post above. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 11:45am On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: I see that shawarma and juice is luxury to you as you liken it to one of the wonders of the world. And spending is an issue. You can go on your date with 1,400 as long as that is what you can afford. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 11:47am On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: You have said it all here. YOU DON'T LEAVE THE HOUSE WITH 2K EVEN IF YOU PLAN TO SPEND JUST THAT. This has been the point all along and you have been beating about the bush since ![]() |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 11:51am On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: You were the one that kept ranting about sharwama and juice as if your life depended on it and not the other way round,wobia olojukokoro!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 11:55am On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: Are you saying that you get there and say "it is doughnuts and water we are taking o" or you call the attendant and say "please give her doughnut and water" without asking what she would take? Where does materialism start and stop? If i go out on a date and i eat chicken and chips with a bottle of soft drink, am i materialistic? How much is that? You are looking at it in relation to your pocket? The funny thing is that i hardly eat out because i love to cook and i can be too critical of the food outside. But i would feel offended if a guy took me out and just ordered for me without asking. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 11:56am On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: Are you saying that you get there and say "it is doughnuts and water we are taking o" or you call the attendant and say "please give her doughnut and water" without asking what she would take? Where does materialism start and stop? If i go out on a date and i eat chicken and chips with a bottle of soft drink, am i materialistic? How much is that? You are looking at it in relation to your pocket? |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 12:02pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: Why expose yourself this way now? ![]() How is shawarma giving you high blood pressure like this? On top 1k. Well done |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 12:05pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Madam, what's the essence of a date? To meet or to eat? 2 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 12:07pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: Why not Google it and see what you come up with. Maybe you shouldn't call it a date if it is not that. You can call it a meeting ,stroll or you describe what it is you are going for. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by kunleweb: 12:09pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: M ![]() |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Apination(m): 12:09pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1:How much be bottle water and coke? Abi e should go and buy live cow? I don't understand ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 12:15pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Olomoge onisharwama the 1k isn't the problem but the mindset,if I ever go for a date with your likes that like to turn dates to food stamps,i will form a call and excuse myself for an emergency and let u enjoy your feast because that's all that matters to u anyway,and that would be that last date ever because I would rather waster my money than sit with you because time lost can never be regained and time wasters like to waste their time with others. 1 Like |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by raymi: 12:20pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
It's not by force to go on a date. If you don't have money, stay at home, work harder so as not to go outside and disgrace yourself as a man in front of a lady. What is worth doing, is worth doing well. Don't allow poverty affect your thinking lads. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by pansophist(m): 12:21pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: You are smart. You nailed it. I've actually been on dates and spent nothing except water and a few chocolate that doesn't even cost up to 2k. It was in a park, an open bar where you can bring your stuff, or just meet somewhere and go for walk together while discussing on-the-go. That doesn't mean if I have to spend 50k at the spot, I can't. It simply means that date doesn't have to cost something. Date is not a spending spree, but an avenue for two people to know themselves on a deeper level. Our generations have become so materialistic, that been financially handicapped is a knock-out to enjoying basic pleasures of life. Women on here telling him to remain single, while simultaneously refusing to be single while being broke themselves is an height of hypocrisy and double standard. And if women can start footing their own bills during dates, issues like this wont be a thing. If I were you OP, and she decided not to call back because you're still a struggling dude with potentials, I'l wont bother. She doesn't worth it anyway. That's if you're looking for something long term. 2 Likes |
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