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Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Nobody: 12:23pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
Cool. First of all, ignore all these guys and girls condemning you. Most of them are just leeches and parasites who are only after a guy's money. They're those girls who a after rich guys because they are too lazy to work for themselves. This might seem like a tough position to take but there's lots of sense in it. Any girl that can't learn to manage with the little you have doesn't deserve to be in your life. That's how you know a girl who's only interested in and impressed by your money, and not in you as a person. Even if you spend on her today, what happens if tomorrow for some reason you no longer have enough money to impress her, she will dump you for someone richer. Dating shouldnt be all about spending money extravagantly. It's about two people trying to get to know each other better. You can even go on a date without having to spend money on heavy meals and drinks. You can go out with someone to an open place and just enjoy the scenery. Go to a field and watch a live football game. Or visit an interesting place in the city and enjoy the view. The focus should be on the two individuals, not on the financial display. A responsible and modest girl will be more interested in you as a person not on what you spend on her. 5 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 12:31pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Keep beating about the bush aunty. My question still stands. What's a date? A meet or an eat? 2 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Jayneek(m): 12:32pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: Stop chatting carelessly. Its just one simple example among millions of other situations that could occur. You saying going to the ATM to get low budget slippers doesn't make sense. The point has always been the fact that it was wrong to just carry only 2k which was his budget to spend without thinking of any other situation that could probably shake the budget a little. Are you trying to say the embarrassment he got is better because he kept to the budget he had in mind? Who does a budget without adding miscellaneous to it? What do you think that word means when you see a well prepared budget from a sensible person. When you plan to do something on a budget always plan in case of any unexpected. That is the most sensible thing to do so there is not justification for budgeting 2k on a date because that's a lifestyle of the person and still ended up being embarrassed only to start blaming the lady because of 2k date budget. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 12:34pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
pansophist: GBAM! . The essence of a date is to meet and not to supply balanced diet to a broke girl. Did you notice how all these silly feminist failed to mention splitting the bills? 1 Like |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 12:39pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
Nnaabros: You are wise sir. This your wisdom is not ordinary. It is divine. 1 Like |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Evercurious(f): 12:42pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: Don't even bother. The end of all this talk is materialism which ends up in class. That I have said in the first thread. It isn't compulsory to continue with the guy after the first date if she feels he isn't her class . IT'S ALL ABOUT CLASS HERE |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 12:54pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: Even of you don't believe it is for eating and she says she is hungry, what would you do? |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 12:59pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: Next thing now you will start singing"olodo rabata" ![]() Calm down. Life is not that hard. I don't eat what i cannot pay for. If i order chicken and chips and it tears your pocket so much that you run away, i will happily pay for my food. Your mindset is the issue here. You think 1k food is a feast and you are already singing insults like a market woman. Breathe! |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 1:03pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
Jayneek: I don't need to have a budget for something as, petty as going for a date,I only have an expenses threshold,its just about the same as going out to drink with a beer buddy which 2k should also be enough in an average bar or hotel,i only add miscellaneous expenses on projects, family expenses and investments not dates. You dont go to dates with a sweet tooth expecting some form of gratification,its a date, it's it what it is. It's about the same as going for a meeting and expecting to be welcome with fried rice and chicken,a date is to discuss and get to know each other if the chemistry is right. If I ask to take u out for lunch or dinner then that's a different ball game, a date is a date. 4 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by pansophist(m): 1:04pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: What if he told her he is hungry what should she do? 2 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Raalsalghul: 1:16pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1:I've been reading your comments since and notice you always bring up food. Haba! |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 1:25pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Olomoge onisharwama life is not that hard,if u order for chicken and chips then u should be ready to pay, that's the norm for any sane person, are u a baby or do u expect us to clap for u been responsible for your meals,which one is happily pay again,kukuma dont sadly pay na,nah body go tell u,however I can decide to be benevolent and decide to pay based on my discretion but it's not an entitlement only that your like take advantage of the benevolence of your dates to satisfy your cravings and stuff your tummy. 5 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 1:32pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: Ok then. As i said, you can go on your 1,400 date since that is what you can afford. Enjoy the rest of your day |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 1:32pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1:. Ohhhhhh, so it's now my responsibility to feed her? I see. . Get her something within my planned budget then. 3 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Gaspardd(m): 1:33pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: The point is curtsy. Large percentile of Nigerians(both guys and girls) lack that. They dont want to do anything for themselves, all they do is live off other pple(very disgusting). They only know how to take take take take even without saying thank you. Why would sn invite you on a date, and you will see that as an opp to satisfy your irrational or rational cravings? If u re hungry then go get it for yourself but if you dont have the money, then ask nicely. Dont make it seem like the guy owes you sth. Sometimes back i was hangin out with a friend, we were at this bar and this dude ordered for a wine of like 7k, immediately i told him i dont take wine. I prefer a beer instead. Atlast we spent 1.8k max. Maybe 7k is no big deal to him but then i prefer we just chill, talk and just relax as oppossed to trying to impress eachother. And oops this is thesame dude i lent some money cuz he said he was broke 1 Like |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by IronPants: 1:36pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
Evercurious:Sadly, this is just the summary of the whole argument |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 1:36pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
pansophist: Note that he was the one who invited her on a date. If a guy takes me on a date and says he is hungry and doesn't have money, i will buy him food. But off course i would wonder what kind of guy takes a girl out with an empty pocket. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by pansophist(m): 1:38pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: Yes I did. The fact remains that money (an integral component of class) is an important factor on how desirable a man will be to women. Its that simple. 2 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 1:41pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
IronPants: Ok I see. Enjoy the rest of your day |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Gaspardd(m): 1:41pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Been reading your comments and then i sense a correlation btw ungratefulness and your views. This mentality of yours is the reason why Nigerians dont have nice things cuz they go after shining(on the surface) things of which the end there of its all destruction. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 1:43pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
Gaspardd: Sorry of that's how you see it. It still doesn't justify going on a date with 2k. So 5k will deprive you from having nice things? Keep consoling yourself with that |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 1:45pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
Raalsalghul: What is a date? Maybe you guys should define it well and use the right term..."we are going out for a drink", etc. A date and what is required on one should be looked up |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 1:45pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: I could have decided to take u to dinner at a 5 star hotel tonight however folks like u ain't worth my time, I could have decided to send u the equivalent so u can eat sharwama tonight and not have nightmares of sharwama but I got nothing to prove and nothing to lose to your likes. I decided to check your profile to see the face of Olomoge but got nothing,however i saw your motto was All man for himself bla bla, bla So you know how to do all man for himself when its your turn yet u want to use another man money eat sharwama,isnt God just wonderful ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by Gaspardd(m): 1:47pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Going on a date with 2k doesnt need to be justified. This is Nigeria... wtf woman? |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 1:50pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: I don't even eat shawarma. Allow me spend my hubby's money. Is it your money? And hope you will spend when you find a good woman. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 1:52pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 1:56pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Spend your hubby money on sharwama,do u ever want to be responsible for anything in your life,and your motto is All man for himself,when will u man up and do something for yourself,everything nah my husband go buy am,is that your relationship goals,thank God I'm already married,your likes go make life tire person. 3 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 2:06pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
Raalsalghul: Oh that's the national anthem of ineverchop gals now, are u surprised? 1 Like |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 2:20pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: You have no idea but you can keep running your mouth since it gives you pleasure to do so. |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by pansophist(m): 2:27pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Good response, and I agree with your strategy. Conversely, I'm a proponent for equal distribution of spending, regardless of who does the invitation. This should be the ideal, to avoid embarrassing moment where the non-payer ordered something above the budget of the payer. Like the OP. It is also a known fact that women go on date with a guy they otherwise, will not go out with, just because they will get to eat whatever through their medium. If I invite someone to my house, then, yes, the onus of hospitality rest on me. If each individuals start paying for dates themselves, sham dates and embarrassing scenario will disappear overnight. 4 Likes |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by neyobills: 2:28pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: I'm giving you advice free of charge so u won't take your gluttonous instincts along on your next date and scare potential partners away hopefully you might get lucky,he that has ears let them hear |
Re: I Still Maintain My Stance, 2k Date Is The Cool Date. by ImaIma1(f): 2:34pm On Apr 12, 2019 |
neyobills: Food worth 1k is gluttonous in relation to your pocket. Don't generalize it. You can keep your advice for someone who asks for it. |
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