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Re: urg by Samshumy: 1:27pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
ImaIma1:So asking a wife to do all chores means she’s a slave? |
Re: urg by ImaIma1(f): 2:35pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Samshumy: As i said before, you can marry a slave or a maid if you so desire. There are still women that will not mind your arrangement. 8 Likes |
Re: urg by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 2:41pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
ImaIma1. You have time to yarn words with that overgrown 5 Likes |
Re: urg by greatcrown: 2:50pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Your husband needs to grow up. To achieve that, he needs to first of all see himself as a baby that need to grow up very quickly. He needs to unlearn his old bad habits which were identified in your post and consciously work on himself to acquire new good habits. He is not the first to find himself in such circumstances so it's not a big issue if he is willing to change. Let him get some self some help books (Success Through Positive Mental Attitude, THE SUCCESS SYSTEM THAT NEVER FAILS, etc) and attend churches where issues relating to marriage are taught at least once a month. In-addition the two of you should visit an experienced and certified marriage counselor. (A lot of Pastors are not qualified as one) 3 Likes |
Re: urg by ImaIma1(f): 2:55pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Don't mind the cultural man only in chores 1 Like |
Re: urg by Samshumy: 3:01pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Lol there are still so many women that will do such: I’m actually doing anyone I’m gonna marry a Favour and so she should be happy that I’m marrying her |
Re: urg by Samshumy: 3:03pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Na master Emmanuel you Dey call overgrown baby? |
Re: urg by Nobody: 3:08pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Madam op,go and watch the movie " war room" and learn how to fight your husband on your knees,shouting back at him or any physical tantrum you throw at him,to make him change,will never solve your problem,rather it will keep escalating. Thank God,you are a believer of God,step down for him to do his job,trust him and learn to respect and love your Husband and his wahala,avoid fighting him or correcting him,it is not your duty to fix him,rather its your job to love,respect him ad pray for him,remember men don't like it when their women try to fix them ,allow God to do his job(fix him). Remember who the real enemy is,Devil,he hides and creates problem,and we end up fighting the wrong people (husbands,marriages and family) instead of him. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: urg by ImaIma1(f): 3:16pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Samshumy: Ok |
Re: urg by Nobody: 3:27pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
ikechizoba:Everything you said makes sense, but not realistic. How will he know he has a problem if she never tells him? She should do both abeg. Let's not leave it only 4 God. Even the bible says Faith without work is dead. 3 Likes |
Re: urg by Acidosis(m): 3:33pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
ikechizoba: 3 Likes |
Re: urg by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Jen92: She has been doing that over and over again and what has changed??! Nothing l used to do these,l tried to change my husband too,little issues like these ,yet it threatened my marriage until l applied this principle, and l can tell you that feel better now than b4 . Her husband is not ready to change even after admitting his wrongs and apologising. He knows his faults that why he apologizes but to change is difficult. He is under an influence,She can't change him ,only God can |
Re: urg by Nobody: 3:44pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Acidosis:lol love this |
Re: urg by TonyeBarcanista(m): 4:17pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
davenaija:[/s]
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Re: urg by TonyeBarcanista(m): 5:10pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Samshumy:Your wisdom will never be shaken |
Re: urg by Nobody: 5:47pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
mtchew,why will he help you with house chores? why? talk of other pressing issues and erase that house chores thingy from your brain.house chore oshi |
Re: urg by Samshumy: 6:11pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:Thanks my brother. Don’t mind these women wey 1 turn op’s husband to a sissi |
Re: urg by Sterope(f): 6:12pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
You can employ others when yourself is earning enough to live comfortably. Kendumazy: |
Re: urg by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:38pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Samshumy:Many men are wives in their own house, they are women on male skin.
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Re: urg by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:04pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Hope you'll foot the bills 100%? 1 Like |
Re: urg by Ishilove: 9:07pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Na wa o. If you no marry wahala, you marry, wahala. Abeg this one don taya person |
Re: urg by Ishilove: 9:07pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Na wa o. If you no marry wahala, you marry, wahala. Abeg this one don taya person. 2 Likes |
Re: urg by mercy87: 9:24pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
I am so sad with the comments I am seeing here. Poster and husband I hope you realised the need to use the wisdom of God to sift the comments here. Rehoboam, Solomon's son requested for advice, some people told him to be harsh, others told him to be nice. He rejected the ones that told him to be nice and went for the ones that told him to be harsh. Result? A broken kingdom. Oga treat your wife kindly and with love. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed. Life is too long (or short depending on the context) to be suffering all through. Listen and amend your ways. 5 Likes |
Re: urg by Nobody: 9:25pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:You better pay for All expenses , trips inclusive. 1 Like |
Re: urg by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:23pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Ishilove: Don't be scared. You go dey alright. 1 Like |
Re: urg by Ishilove: 10:46pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: |
Re: urg by TonyeBarcanista(m): 10:50pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Jen92:By my philosophy as a man, I am primarily responsible for bills and that's my responsibility as a man... I won't even ask my woman for any contribution sef! Reason I work hard! However, her submissiveness must be 100%...
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Re: urg by Shepherd00: 11:05pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Samshumy:Poor thing. She doesn't know she's headed for a disfunctional and broken home. All the signs are there, but she'll convince herself she's in love and marry you. Oh boy!!! 4 Likes |
Re: urg by Shepherd00: 11:07pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Samshumy:But, mostly importantly, you have low self esteem 5 Likes |
Re: urg by Shepherd00: 11:11pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Samshumy:You will never assist to pay your kid's school fees? Wait!!!!!, I hope this guy is not bipolar 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: urg by ImaIma1(f): 11:28pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Don't waste your money. No woman can submit hundred percent. Can you love someone else 100%? 4 Likes |
Re: urg by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:05am On Apr 18, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: But you once said you're an advocate of feminism? Why are you speaking from both sides of your mouth? 1 Like |
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