Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Ebiskele: 5:50am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Patience Jonathan was into business and Jonathan was Just a Lecturer...technically she was contributing very well to the family and also active women leader which contributed to Jonathan growth in state Level politics. ANGELMARVE: Absolute Nonsense.
A lady stuck by you when you were broke, now that you are Rich, you left the lady because in your words, "She has now become a liability" So tell me why Goodluck Jonathan is still with patience Jonathan?
Are you more richer and educated than Goodluck Jonathan?
Yes!!! i know a woman must develop her own self, mentally, educationally or resourcefully but that do not mean that if she fails to meet the requirement guaranteed for your financial level, that you should dump her.
A real man will use his wealth to uplift his woman financially, educationally and transform her to your standard. 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 5:51am On Apr 18, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by CaptainMitch: 5:54am On Apr 18, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by CaptainMitch: 5:54am On Apr 18, 2019 |
It's too early go back to bed CruellaDeVil: he needs to get a life and a job |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 5:59am On Apr 18, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by CaptainMitch: 6:02am On Apr 18, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Smalliegirl: 6:08am On Apr 18, 2019 |
ANGELMARVE: Absolute Nonsense.
A lady stuck by you when you were broke, now that you are Rich, you left the lady because in your words, "She has now become a liability" So tell me why Goodluck Jonathan is still with patience Jonathan?
Are you more richer and educated than Goodluck Jonathan?
Yes!!! i know a woman must develop her own self, mentally, educationally or resourcefully but that do not mean that if she fails to meet the requirement guaranteed for your financial level, that you should dump her.
A real man will use his wealth to uplift his woman financially, educationally and transform her to your standard. God bless you for this. The article was really painful for me to read for some reasons. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Wisemen0147(m): 6:09am On Apr 18, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Abbymart777(m): 6:12am On Apr 18, 2019 |
[Your reaction is emotional not logical. You talk as if you are a victim.quote author=ANGELMARVE post=77045293]Absolute Nonsense.
A lady stuck by you when you were broke, now that you are Rich, you left the lady because in your words, "She has now become a liability" So tell me why Goodluck Jonathan is still with patience Jonathan?
Are you more richer and educated than Goodluck Jonathan?
Yes!!! i know a woman must develop her own self, mentally, educationally or resourcefully but that do not mean that if she fails to meet the requirement guaranteed for your financial level, that you should dump her.
A real man will use his wealth to uplift his woman financially, educationally and transform her to your standard. [/quote] |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 6:13am On Apr 18, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by CaptainMitch: 6:18am On Apr 18, 2019 |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Daeylar(f): 6:20am On Apr 18, 2019 |
This thread. LMAO Showing everyone reasons why a lady shouldn't date nor stand by a broke man. With 124 likes i.e people in agreement and counting. And so many other comments from fellow men showing support. Continue looking for faults in women who stood by you when you were broke which you'll use as an excuse to dispose of them (But it's this same naira land that a lady would be bashed and called a golddigger if she refuses to date a broke man ) Very soon These ladies will learn never to stand at all. LMAO What a lovely day that would be. jezuzboi: Women who stick to struggling men until the men grow their financial IQs and become financially stable are usually praised and approved by almost everyone.
While that may be a testament to a woman's praiseworthy character, I am of the opinion that such women still fall short, in the sense that they only stick to a man while he grows his financial IQ, without them growing theirs too.
A poorly resourceful but endearing woman may mean the world to a struggling man. But the moment he mounts financial heights, his once endearing but financially uneducated partner may become a liability.
Mounting financial heights is a function of FINANCIAL EDUCATION, and financial education promotes ASSETS but frowns at LIABILITIES. As you know, assets put money in your pocket while liabilities take money out of your pocket.
A poorly resourceful woman may be an asset to a struggling man because she supplies his emotional needs despite his low financial state. But when he grows his IQ and gets rich, he'll most likely require more than emotional satisfaction from her.
If she had failed to grow her financial IQ along with him, she will depend on him to supply her financial/material needs just as she supplied and still supplies his emotional needs. At this point, the woman may become less attractive to the man.
Any woman can supply emotional needs. And when it comes to supplying emotional needs, it's a two-way traffic. But if she had grown her financial IQ along with him, she would easily flow in the same frequency with him, both emotionally and financially.
That way, their attraction to each other endures and their love blossoms. Between a financially educated partner and a financially uneducated partner, there will be arguments and fights over money, and most of the time, if not all the time, the root of the problem can be traced to the partner with low or no financial education.
That is why one partner eventually walks away. Even the Bible says; "Can two work together except they be agreed?" In most cases, the partner who walks away is the one with more financial education, which in the context of the write-up, is the man.
We may call him a monster, an ingrate, or Lucifer, as the case may be. But if you take a quick run through history, you'll find that many financially educated women had to dump their financially uneducated male partners when they could no longer agree on certain money-related matters. It is not a GENDER THING. It is a GROWTH THING.
The 21st century ladies have asserted that sticking to a struggling man is one of the most uncalculated risks to take because the man dumps them for another woman the moment he gets rich. But how many men of substance walk away from women of real WORTH and VALUE?
If you supply emotional needs alone, what happens when other needs arise? It takes more than the emotions of love to keep an affair going. And I am not in any way talking down on women who see beyond a man's pocket. As a matter of fact, I ADORE them.
That is why I am writing this piece: to give them heads up on how to keep the RICH VERSION of their partner glued to them, thereby making the years they spent with his POOR VERSION count. Don't just service his emotions while he grows his financial IQ. Grow yours too. That's one important thing that will earn you his affection and respect in the long run.
Emotion and finance have been the key focus of this piece. But they are not the only areas that require growth to keep you BALANCED. Others include spiritual, mental, academic, etc. Whatever the growth, the bottom line is: GROW ALONG WITH YOUR PARTNER TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH.
Jezuzboi© 5 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Yoighaman(m): 6:29am On Apr 18, 2019 |
So how do we define Peter Okoye (Psquare) and his wife? What analogy do we give for that relationship? 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Immarocks(f): 6:32am On Apr 18, 2019 |
This brings Tyler Perry's movie ACRIMONY to my mind(even though theirs is a different case).... there is no reason whatsoever for a real man or should i say responsible man to dump a girl friend(that was true n loyal to him)that supported him through his struggling years.....you think she never had advances from other successful guys? trust me that lady did not only support him emotionally but financially as well.So if had big dreams(where he want to see himself in some years) and was true and loyal to her as well...he would have given that same emotional support to her too so they will grow together...she was resourcesful then and gave emotional and financial support ofcourse you should have gotten it elsewhere but you chose to be with her too.... those times when he was broke,she has had reasons to be ashamed of him and even thought of leaving but she stayed against all odds like her friends talk n mockery,her friends getting married but she believed in you enough to stay, like her mother constantly on her neck to dump ur broke ass....So tell me why you will dump her when you made it when she was the one pushing you up the ladder all the while .... you are selfish and not loyal...if you use that excuse to leave a REAL WOMAN...remember... that wealth you think you got it's all vanity and can vanish as quickly as it came but that woman's loyalty will stay through think and thin. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Acidosis(m): 6:33am On Apr 18, 2019 |
How many unmarried women and men of this generation can boldly say they have only one man or woman in their lives? No unmarried man will leave a woman that stood by him at his worst without genuine reasons.
Btw this sort of question is not meant for single men and women in my own opinion. People break up everyday, poor and rich, so your boyfriend/girlfriend is meant to leave you anyway. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 6:34am On Apr 18, 2019 |
This is a typical example of my dad and mum, both were broke and poverty-striken when they got married but nw my dad has made the money he ditched her due to the fact dat she's an illiterate, e pain me gan that i made a vow nt to date a woman or marry one, i will just make the millions and go to d land beyond. Today the live separately, men marriage is big sham, love is nonsense belief, Bleep love, Bleep marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Yoighaman(m): 6:39am On Apr 18, 2019 |
otipoju:
You have a point but have only looked at it from only one angle
Successful men whose wives were financially better off when he was struggling and end up leaving the wife have one factor in common.
Even though they might be helping him with money those women have insulted and emotionally abused and humilated the man verbally and in every other way when he was struggling .
When things get better for him, the woman will now be more friendly and nice and this begins to seriously irritate the man untl he leaves the woman.
Words like babe and honey will piss him off when he had become uses to labels like " irresponsible" worthless, useless man. Very correct. I recently read Wizkid's chat with one of his baba mamas (Zion's mum, not sure about the child's name though), the one she published publicly and recall a line where Wizkid told her that she'd regret her actions when he finally 'blows', the exact scenario you painted above was what played out. Her attitude then towards him was unpleasant and there was no staying for her when the guy finally 'arrived'. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by dominech: 6:45am On Apr 18, 2019 |
These assertions are incorrect |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Jason007: 6:50am On Apr 18, 2019 |
some people just wake up and write whatever..
where is the statistics to back up your claims or examples. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Youngjohnosas: 6:58am On Apr 18, 2019 |
not all long time girlfriends are loyal.my one time sweet baby always supported me because I was in school and never wanted to add to my burden.she never asked me for money and was always understanding.this single act endeared her to all my friends.they all held her in high esteem.Each time we had a disagreement the backlash I received from them always prompted to reconcile with her. "o boy u get free girl u nor dey spend u still dey form"it was later I knew she was into 4 different relationships at that time.she started having issues with them that later it was reduced to just two.I never felt such love before it was so unconditional back then that while I discovered Wat she was into I couldn't just end it at that time.it was tough not everyone will believe me. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 7:00am On Apr 18, 2019 |
CruellaDeVil: I knew elder0001 was the same person as l0ol. Ive known this fact before but I just reconfirmed yesterday. he's also n0one, note their love for using zeros's in their names. I moda fuckin knew it! what a fuckn coward he is! I wonder how pocohantas/ antibrutus got mixed up with such a character. tueh! You’re obviously sick . This hungry bastard male hiding under a female moniker to gain attention Any account not bearing elder0000 or hanseel or fadedvoices isn’t me. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Lionpikin(m): 7:01am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Saffi: Please we all know what he typed up there is bullshit. The real reason why men leave their gfs who struggled with them, is because their taste has upgraded. A woman who settles for a broke man, has low standards and men subconsciously know this. When a man finally gets money, he now has access to the most expensive high class women available, women with high standards that he can finally impress. He can put all the designer clothes on his gf, he will always view her as low class because she accepted him at his worst, something which a high class babe will never do. It’s subconscious and you men don’t even notice this. That’s why men always get a ‘trophy wife’ once they make it big. If a man decides to stay with his day one gf, he will cheat on her severely or eventually leave because he will never be satisfied with her. Only on rare occasions, he remains loyal, but it’s better to not take that risk. That’s why I always tell women to stop dating broke men, they don’t value you because you don’t even value yourself. They will only use you and suck you dry emotionally until they can stand on their two feet and run away.
WOMEN BE SMART! I support you on this 100%. I sent you a pm, try and reply, it's people like you that share similar ideas as I that I love to have as friends.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 7:03am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Daeylar: This thread. LMAO Showing everyone reasons why a lady shouldn't date nor stand by a broke man. With 124 likes i.e people in agreement and counting. And so many other comments from fellow men showing support
Continue looking for faults in women who stood by you when you were broke which you'll use as an excuse to dispose of them. (But it's this same naira land that a lady would be bashed and callled a golddigger if she refuses to date a broke man ) Very soon These ladies will learn never to stand at all. LMAO
What a lovely day that would be.
Understand the post before spilling your usual bullshît. While the man was busy building himself financially and otherwise ,what was the woman doing ? While a man is building himself financially,the woman should also do same . That’s the point of the OP 2 Likes |
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Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 7:06am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Not applicable to all. Wrong assessment. Vice versa should always apply. Primary assignment is raising up. Kids while I focus on wealth creation. When kids grow I support her to meet up and overtake her pears. The beholder knows it all. 1 Like |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 7:07am On Apr 18, 2019 |
jezuzboi: [s]Women who stick to struggling men until the men grow their financial IQs and become financially stable are usually praised and approved by almost everyone.
While that may be a testament to a woman's praiseworthy character, I am of the opinion that such women still fall short, in the sense that they only stick to a man while he grows his financial IQ, without them growing theirs too.
A poorly resourceful but endearing woman may mean the world to a struggling man. But the moment he mounts financial heights, his once endearing but financially uneducated partner may become a liability.
Mounting financial heights is a function of FINANCIAL EDUCATION, and financial education promotes ASSETS but frowns at LIABILITIES. As you know, assets put money in your pocket while liabilities take money out of your pocket.
A poorly resourceful woman may be an asset to a struggling man because she supplies his emotional needs despite his low financial state. But when he grows his IQ and gets rich, he'll most likely require more than emotional satisfaction from her.
If she had failed to grow her financial IQ along with him, she will depend on him to supply her financial/material needs just as she supplied and still supplies his emotional needs. At this point, the woman may become less attractive to the man.
Any woman can supply emotional needs. And when it comes to supplying emotional needs, it's a two-way traffic. But if she had grown her financial IQ along with him, she would easily flow in the same frequency with him, both emotionally and financially.
That way, their attraction to each other endures and their love blossoms. Between a financially educated partner and a financially uneducated partner, there will be arguments and fights over money, and most of the time, if not all the time, the root of the problem can be traced to the partner with low or no financial education.
That is why one partner eventually walks away. Even the Bible says; "Can two work together except they be agreed?" In most cases, the partner who walks away is the one with more financial education, which in the context of the write-up, is the man.
We may call him a monster, an ingrate, or Lucifer, as the case may be. But if you take a quick run through history, you'll find that many financially educated women had to dump their financially uneducated male partners when they could no longer agree on certain money-related matters. It is not a GENDER THING. It is a GROWTH THING.
The 21st century ladies have asserted that sticking to a struggling man is one of the most uncalculated risks to take because the man dumps them for another woman the moment he gets rich. But how many men of substance walk away from women of real WORTH and VALUE?
If you supply emotional needs alone, what happens when other needs arise? It takes more than the emotions of love to keep an affair going. And I am not in any way talking down on women who see beyond a man's pocket. As a matter of fact, I ADORE them.
That is why I am writing this piece: to give them heads up on how to keep the RICH VERSION of their partner glued to them, thereby making the years they spent with his POOR VERSION count. Don't just service his emotions while he grows his financial IQ. Grow yours too. That's one important thing that will earn you his affection and respect in the long run.
Emotion and finance have been the key focus of this piece. But they are not the only areas that require growth to keep you BALANCED. Others include spiritual, mental, academic, etc. Whatever the growth, the bottom line is: GROW ALONG WITH YOUR PARTNER TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH.
Jezuzboi©[/s] Gibberish, rubbish, useless mentality. Not to talk of fools liking this pure encouragement of selfishness. If the woman was worth it then, she must be worth it now. Very useless post. Spits 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Yoighaman(m): 7:09am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Saffi: Please we all know what he typed up there is bullshit. The real reason why men leave their gfs who struggled with them, is because their taste has upgraded. A woman who settles for a broke man, has low standards and men subconsciously know this. When a man finally gets money, he now has access to the most expensive high class women available, women with high standards that he can finally impress. He can put all the designer clothes on his gf, he will always view her as low class because she accepted him at his worst, something which a high class babe will never do. It’s subconscious and you men don’t even notice this. That’s why men always get a ‘trophy wife’ once they make it big. If a man decides to stay with his day one gf, he will cheat on her severely or eventually leave because he will never be satisfied with her. Only on rare occasions, he remains loyal, but it’s better to not take that risk. That’s why I always tell women to stop dating broke men, they don’t value you because you don’t even value yourself. They will only use you and suck you dry emotionally until they can stand on their two feet and run away.
WOMEN BE SMART! Wow. Your post is deep and I quite agree with you to an extent but I think only a myopic woman who doesn't see beyond her nose would always opt for the rich guy. A woman of substance who knows her onions has foresight, she sees far beyond what today offers and she's willing to take her shots. I always use Peter Okoye and Lola Omotayo as an example, Lola was not Peter's mate on any level, I mean any level but look at them. She met 2 broke brothers, helped them, fell in love with one of them, came down to his level, brought out the best in him and then took him up where she belonged. The rest as they say, is history. I don't think I should highlight the lessons here, it is embedded in the post. |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by centboy123456(m): 7:14am On Apr 18, 2019 |
sweetilicious: I quite agree with you op.Most of these ladies feel it's an entitlement.If you were dating him while he was poor, work on yourself as he works on himself too.You are supposed to partner with him to build castles.What if he didn't make it or something happened to him, won't be able to to survive still? Build castles together and stop looking for someone to drain.The blessings of God for a man is the same for a woman.He said he will bless the works of our hands.Women should learn how to grab the bag too! wow is this coming from a woman that really nice keep it up girl may God bless the work of ur hand |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by godofuck231: 7:14am On Apr 18, 2019 |
the poor girls starts demanding more than what the guy has in his account daily |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Preshy561(f): 7:19am On Apr 18, 2019 |
Daeylar: This thread. LMAO Showing everyone reasons why a lady shouldn't date nor stand by a broke man. With 124 likes i.e people in agreement and counting. And so many other comments from fellow men showing support
Continue looking for faults in women who stood by you when you were broke which you'll use as an excuse to dispose of them. (But it's this same naira land that a lady would be bashed and callled a golddigger if she refuses to date a broke man ) Very soon These ladies will learn never to stand at all. LMAO
What a lovely day that would be.
I pity the illiterate ladies who after reading this garbage will still stick their ditsy asses standing with a broke man that gave a like to this op. I'm sorry for ladies that will be disappointed atleast after entrusting all to their broke man. They will never learn. Even if he eventually marries her out of pity, believe me, it will be only a matter of time, before the man will unleash his cheating habit using she's no longer his standard as a yard stick. Ladies should keep dating blindly. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Poor Guys Leave Their Longtime Girlfriends When They Become Rich by Nobody: 7:21am On Apr 18, 2019 |
jezuzboi: Women who stick to struggling men until the men grow their financial IQs and become financially stable are usually praised and approved by almost everyone.
While that may be a testament to a woman's praiseworthy character, I am of the opinion that such women still fall short, in the sense that they only stick to a man while he grows his financial IQ, without them growing theirs too.
A poorly resourceful but endearing woman may mean the world to a struggling man. But the moment he mounts financial heights, his once endearing but financially uneducated partner may become a liability.
Mounting financial heights is a function of FINANCIAL EDUCATION, and financial education promotes ASSETS but frowns at LIABILITIES. As you know, assets put money in your pocket while liabilities take money out of your pocket.
A poorly resourceful woman may be an asset to a struggling man because she supplies his emotional needs despite his low financial state. But when he grows his IQ and gets rich, he'll most likely require more than emotional satisfaction from her.
If she had failed to grow her financial IQ along with him, she will depend on him to supply her financial/material needs just as she supplied and still supplies his emotional needs. At this point, the woman may become less attractive to the man.
Any woman can supply emotional needs. And when it comes to supplying emotional needs, it's a two-way traffic. But if she had grown her financial IQ along with him, she would easily flow in the same frequency with him, both emotionally and financially.
That way, their attraction to each other endures and their love blossoms. Between a financially educated partner and a financially uneducated partner, there will be arguments and fights over money, and most of the time, if not all the time, the root of the problem can be traced to the partner with low or no financial education.
That is why one partner eventually walks away. Even the Bible says; "Can two work together except they be agreed?" In most cases, the partner who walks away is the one with more financial education, which in the context of the write-up, is the man.
We may call him a monster, an ingrate, or Lucifer, as the case may be. But if you take a quick run through history, you'll find that many financially educated women had to dump their financially uneducated male partners when they could no longer agree on certain money-related matters. It is not a GENDER THING. It is a GROWTH THING.
The 21st century ladies have asserted that sticking to a struggling man is one of the most uncalculated risks to take because the man dumps them for another woman the moment he gets rich. But how many men of substance walk away from women of real WORTH and VALUE?
If you supply emotional needs alone, what happens when other needs arise? It takes more than the emotions of love to keep an affair going. And I am not in any way talking down on women who see beyond a man's pocket. As a matter of fact, I ADORE them.
That is why I am writing this piece: to give them heads up on how to keep the RICH VERSION of their partner glued to them, thereby making the years they spent with his POOR VERSION count. Don't just service his emotions while he grows his financial IQ. Grow yours too. That's one important thing that will earn you his affection and respect in the long run.
Emotion and finance have been the key focus of this piece. But they are not the only areas that require growth to keep you BALANCED. Others include spiritual, mental, academic, etc. Whatever the growth, the bottom line is: GROW ALONG WITH YOUR PARTNER TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH.
Jezuzboi© Even the world will never see you until you make a move..... Nice write up bro |