OkoroPeugeot:
You didn't blur the account number in the reply

soberdrunk:
Mtcheeewww!! Ontop how much?? Money that I am owing my friends he reach to build stadium and I still dey disturb them Friendship is for better for worse........

Daslim180:
A friend of mine once did that sh*t! He said he needed 15k and it very urgent. He said he will be paying back the next day. Gave him my Card to withdraw and he did and I was received debit alert. Since then till now (3 years) baba no even talk about it...lol

Funny a enough, I did not even asked him about the money. Months later, he came to me to lend him 1k, I just tell him I don't have.

Moral: Don't lend out the money you cannot dash out.

pek:
*hear*

STRENGTHesq:
You can send money to him then

shevon:
I can relate to this.
Borrowed some cash on behalf of a family member last year September because he had an emergency. The money was supposed to be paid back in October; fast forward to February, the money was yet to be paid and the person I borrowed the money from had an emergency too, so I had to use the money I got from selling my car and another one I got from another source to pay the original lender (even though her dad died despite everything)
Before I paid the money, I told the family member I got the money for that the fund I'm using to pay back was meant for me to replace the car I sold and he said it won't go beyond 1st week in March. Right now, he doesn't even call or text me and I still don't have a car. I went all out for him because he had borrowed in the past and paid back, there was nothing to indicate he would treat the last transaction like this. A transaction that was supposed to be closed out within 1 month is 7 months old now and counting, with no end I sight.
It is well.

soberdrunk:
Mtcheeewww!! Ontop how much?? Money that I am owing my friends he reach to build stadium and I still dey disturb them Friendship is for better for worse........

manitoba:
Lol. Too many Nigerians have taken my act of kindness for granted severally.


Nowadays, I just give out what I can afford to lose.
There is one that is a 'big man' to many people but refused to pay or pick my calls or respond to chats again.


But this doesn't stop me from helping those i can help.

You can never know who will help you when down too.

There are few bad eggs in Nigeria but many nice people too.

Skhibanj1015:
Same way a man in my office asked me to borrow him money just for 2 days, I told him no wahala that he I am adding another day to it. He took it on the 21st of November to payback on the 24th of November, 2017. Till today I have not received my money. He has given birth to another child, did a lavishly naming ceremony, moved from his previous apartment to another where he paid 700k. But he has refused to pay my 140k for over 16 months now. I just wrote it off has bad debt last month and would never ask him again. But I so much believe in that beautiful "lady" called karma.

kingBenedict:
Are you serious?

Driggs:
This WhatsApp conversation is ridiculous..

I dunno what kind of advice to give my friend who sent this to me.

How will someone borrow you money after begging and crying to return it the next day and you have the audacity to use it to do another business?

Like that isn't enough, he's being lieing about sending it for over 3 days now (4 days after the agreed time oo) and he still has the boldness to update his WhatsApp status with motivational quotes.

Chaii.. Nigerians are low-key wicked.

I used to do it too and I thought I was smart but once I started losing good friends, it made me stop.

Moral of this post: Your friends are going through a lot probably lot more worse than you are. If they decide to help you out with a fast loan, do well to pay back before/on the agreed date.

They won't embarrass you because y'all are friends but you will never be trusted again.

hidee20:


This is meant to be a joke.

Maverickking1:
Honestly op the blame is on you. Why give out money when you know it's your last card?

PAGAN9JA:
Very bad. This is the reason why our nation is faring so badly. No Trust, no Honesty, No morality, No values.

Everyone is just a scam. Disgusted. How will the Gods help you if you wrong someone else You will never succeed in life.

cremedelacreme:
Moral lesson: Do not displease yourself to please somebody.

efjay:
Honestly, if you're too nice, people will take you for granted. It's good to be nice but not too nice. I could remember last year a friend came to borrow 7k from me, he didn't pay back and I never asked him. Few months later he sent a message on WhatsApp that I should lend him another 2k and he sent his acct number immediately. I told him I don't have and his reply was he knew that was what I would say and he's been expecting that. Imagine o, someone that has refused to pay his former debt.
Another one was a friend I lent 18k twice (36k) and I didn't collect the first 18k. When I was broke and I went to him to lend me 25k, his reply was that I'll add 5k to the money when paying back. This is a friend I've really helped in the past o.
There are many scenarios, but that shouldn't stop us from helping people, because even the air we breathe in was given to us freely
One rule to lending people money I've learnt is, do not lend people money you can't give them ( infact, just assume you gave them the money).

soberdrunk:
Mtcheeewww!! Ontop how much?? Money that I am owing my friends he reach to build stadium and I still dey disturb them Friendship is for better for worse........

soberdrunk:
Mtcheeewww!! Ontop how much?? Money that I am owing my friends he reach to build stadium and I still dey disturb them Friendship is for better for worse........

Buffalo2:
Me I no sabi draw money from people that is why i no dey borrow pple money and I no dey hide am. If anybody come say "Buffalo2, abeg borrow me so so amount" Na straight I dey tell dem say "sorry oo I no sabi draw money ni oo I for borrow you". After that anything wey dem like make dem tallk, e no concern me again. how I go labour to get money con borrow one werey we no go return am again. Tufia