I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation

I don't think I can help you with this but lemme call experts. Biglittlelois Amaratasha UyaiIncomparabl shibaraba lalasticlacla The last one has experience with snakes but he might be of help.

Delete the one that doesn't make you smile...

madam stick to ur man. what stops u from making him laugh. try and be more playful with him.

u might regret it when he gets married to another lady.

you have a loyal and great man..but you fell for a smooth talker who can make you laugh......you are the one of the reasons why lots of men say women are confused!!..please leave the bf...you don't deserve him..he deserves someone serious and better...do you know what people will give to have a loyal and devoted man?..if all you desire at these stage is someone to.make you laugh..please marry bovi nansense!!

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The nice and loyal guys are mostly boring.

The exciting ones don't know how to stay in one place. Be warned.

He's exciting and funny for a reason, to get girls like you to fall and you did

Go for the exciting one if you want to laugh and have fun but don't come back crying to us about how all men are the same.

WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAME.

Discuss with your boyfriend about him being too serious. You would start seeing the unfunny side of this new guy, once he shines your congo

So generally now, laughing is your problem.... Aunty you're confused.


Na so dem go dey dey nice nice till your pant shift like 2-3 times, then hanty eye go clear

chapmanapr:
Discuss with your boyfriend about him being too serious. You would start seeing the unfunny side of this new guy, once he shines your congo

leave am now...she is falling fr smooth guy with game...after shining kpekus and dumping her..she will open. a thread on how all.men are scumm

See aunty, aunty!!! Aunty wey mumu, aunty wey no wise.

OP never know anything... That your kpekus need thorough shinning to bring you back to your senses... Your new found love is great, is cool, is funny, is this and that... Chai... E ti ri kankan ...oya e ti ri kankan..

babyfaceafrica:
you have a loyal and great man..but you fell for a smooth talker who can make you laugh......you are the one of the reasons why lots of men say women are confused!!..please leave the bf...you don't deserve him..he deserves someone serious and better...do you know what people will give to have a loyal and devoted man?..if all you desire at these stage is someone to.make you laugh..please marry bovi nansense!!

Well said!!!

Lol, you want to leave a loyal man of ten years for some smooth talker you met two months ago. Sigh.

The devil you know is way better than the angel you don't know. Think about it.

If you already feel horrible about this, then know what you are about to do is horrible, but I promise you this, you will always find fault with that your man until you clear your eyes with this new guy,

nothing we say here will even matter to you until you cheat on him, he’ll notice the change in you and will later discover your treachery. Your new guy will be fed up of you and will go on to other catches or to his own steady babe. Then you’ll finally blame yourself for wasting ten years of your life in just a couple of months.

Why fall in love with someone who is boring. My girlfriend says sometimes I am boring and she tells me she is in love with me and I am like Why so confused?

If you like me then you should be able to understand and accept my personality, if you dont like my personality then how can you say you love me?

Or maybe you love the fact that he gives you Money?


Pls dont be confused.

dingbang:
Why fall in love with someone who is boring. My girlfriend says sometimes I am boring and she tells me she is in love with and I am like Why so confused?

If you like me then you should be able to understand and accept my personality, if you dont like my personality then how can you say you love me?

Or maybe you love the fact that he gives you Money?


Pls dont be confused.

apt

Samyj247:
madam stick to ur man. what stops u from making him laugh. try and be more playful with him.

u might regret it when he gets married to another lady.

i try but he's just not funny anymore

dingbang:
Why fall in love with someone who is boring. My girlfriend says sometimes I am boring and she tells me she is in love with me and I am like Why so confused?

If you like me then you should be able to understand and accept my personality, if you dont like my personality then how can you say you love me?

Or maybe you love the fact that he gives you Money?


Pls dont be confused.

i am not confused. I love the one I met two months back because he is a good sexer and he gives cheerfully

makydebbie:
Lol, you want to leave a loyal man of ten years for some smooth talker you met two months ago. Sigh.

The devil you know is way better than the angel you don't know. Think about it.

I suspect he is even cheating on me

SaucyBenks:
So generally now, laughing is your problem.... Aunty you're confused.


Na so dem go dey dey nice nice till your pant shift like 2-3 times, then hanty eye go clear

hahaha

well weing wit sumx1 whu is funny is ok cus u guys wuld be like friends u can discuss anytin but since u guys ve dated for 10 yrs dats a vry long tine and he is loyal beta marry him and if u wnt 2 laugh jx watch comedy

Anonny1:
i am not confused. I love the one I met two months back because he is a good sexer and he gives cheerfully

oh you are already cheating on your boyfriend, thats good. I hope when you ladies come on here to say all men are cheats, you won't be among them

Anonny1:
i try but he's just not funny anymore

how are u sure d other guy likes u. are u really sure abt him?

because of lashing u wan leave ur main guy... I dey laff

the confusion I see here, is that she want to change the personality of the guy. mind you, you can not change a person personality. just make sure that you are doing the right thing. left to me the exciting guy just want to taste the hoe between your legs that is why you see him to be jovial and cheerful giver, with time those things will diminish. I believe that was how the first guy also started when the relationship just began with lot of gifts. but just know that the exciting guy have another lady elsewhere

You may go ahead and destroy your life sweetie. I'll be watching the disaster unfold from my frontrow seat.

At this point in your life the only thing that matters to you now is being funny and sexing you hard abi, have you told your guy to up his sex game? have you told him how you like getting it? he's probably taking it soft on you as a woman he wants to marry but you prefer that guy that's giving it to you like someone that's trying to get the value of his money from a sex worker. For you both to be in a relationship for 10years that means that a level of compatibility. Ask yourself, am I going to be Hot forever? will good sex be my priority in many years to come?
when you answer these questions then you go with your best option. ...

why waste my time sef when I know you've made up your mind to go with your new catch

Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation

juliet lol i knew something was up ungrateful bitch

babyfaceafrica:
you have a loyal and great man..but you fell for a smooth talker who can make you laugh......you are the one of the reasons why lots of men say women are confused!!..please leave the bf...you don't deserve him..he deserves someone serious and better...do you know what people will give to have a loyal and devoted man?..if all you desire at these stage is someone to.make you laugh..please marry bovi nansense!!

you said it ALL!

Yes you are destroying your life!!

Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation

this was exactly how my girlfriend broke up with me...

o.p..dnt deceive your self..the loyal man has already lost you..you are already into that sweet mouthed guy and its just a matter of time before you break up ur with your first man..

o.p you are weak, a fool and a betrayal...

in no time,the loyal man will discover whats going on with you cause trust me when i say you will never and cant hide it from him cause he's going to notice it, things will start changing in your relationship soon, your feelings and emotions and everything you have for the loyal man will shift to the sweet mouthed guy..the loyal with will be heart broken but you wont be cause someone has already sweet mouthed your weak and ungrateful brain
your relationship with the loyal guy will be broken and you both will go apart while you into relationship with the sweet mouthed guy, a relationship that wont last up to 6months or even a year compare to the first guy...
then you come back begging and crying to have the first guy back.

o.p screenshot this comment,cause its all going to happen soon..just watch and see..

idiot,just ask yourself, he makes you laugh,fine! BUT what if that laughter is no longer there??...

may i never meet an ungrateful harlot like you in my life.."AGAIN!"