I have been feeling sick ever since i had sex with my girlfriend, so i went for a test today only to find out she's infected me with HIV. This is someone i trusted with everything. I've learned my lesson the hard way. My life is ruined right now, I've cried my eyes out and suicide is the only thing coming to my mind now. I'm still alive because of the thought of my mother, butt I'm not sure i can hold on.

Please be careful with who you say you love.

Hey! Hang on!
There are many people living with HIV out there, calm down Bro. You got this!

Ehyaa..

Ehyaaaa

I almost feel sorry for you.


Sha take 2 spoons of gbogbonise twice a day for a week and you go dey alright

MariaLavina:
Hey! Hang on!

There are many people living with HIV out there, calm down Bro. You got this!

Do you know know what it is to be on pills for the rest of your life?

Sorry to ask, but when did you have sex with this your gf and when did you start feeling sick?

Btw hiv isnt as bad as it was. You can still do whatever you were doing before.

Karrma:

Do you know know what it is to be on pills for the rest of your life?

lolll chill.

Heard the pill is even taken weekly if you not having any complication. If you want to know what it is to be on pill, go visit a sickler or cancer patient.

You have nothing to worry about, relax and stay positive. There are countless ways to get over it.... You can get in touch if you wish... Best of luck

Karrma:

Do you know know what it is to be on pills for the rest of your life?

I don't know, but I know there are other things worst than that.


Just don't go too hard on yourself.

OMG

ur life isn't doomed bro, plz report to a general hospital, and register with an HIV agency, u can still live ur normal life.
most importantly, take da girl along too

@Op be positively minded. You can live ur normal life, Get married, have kids. Don't let negative feelings kill you fast.

Stay on ur mess to control ur viral load. @Op seems that ur girlfriend wasn't taking her med for her to infect you or she didn't even know her status?

anthonyuncle:
ur life isn't doomed bro,
plz report to a general hospital, and register with an HIV agency,
u can still live ur normal life.

most importantly, take da girl along too

Ain't taking her along, let her die if she's to die.
This is someone i have been begging to go do a test, even had to send her money to go do the test only for her to start playing victim mentality saying i don't trust her and accusing her of being promiscuous.

Karrma:

Ain't taking her along, let her die if she's to die.
This is someone i have been begging to go do a test, even had to send her money to go do the test only for her to start playing victim mentality saying i don't trust her and accusing her of being promiscuous.

da problem is that she'll continue spreading it & it might even get to someone close to u

hmm this gist worwor o,I better go run test,I dey fear

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
@Op be positively minded. You can live ur normal life, Get married, have kids. Don't let negative feelings kill you fast.

Stay on ur mess to control ur viral load. @Op seems that ur girlfriend wasn't taking her med for her to infect you or she didn't even know her status?

She's very lackadaisical about her health status

Karrma:

Ain't taking her along, let her die if she's to die.
This is someone i have been begging to go do a test, even had to send her money to go do the test only for her to start playing victim mentality saying i don't trust her and accusing her of being promiscuous.

So what's the assurance you got this from her?

I'm not judging you bro. The worst thing a man can do in his life is to have sex without a good condom.

Women are emotional and don't always request guys they love use condom on them.

It is left for men to use condom. I have practically let two girls go cuz they insist we do raw.

My life is my own. Raw sex should only be practiced in marriage where you know the ins and outs of your partner.

The most painful part is that HIV is being spread by innocent careless girls. 95% of professional prostitutes are HIV free because they are emotionally equipped and sexually educated.

The consequence of having raw sex on a girl you love without being married is grave. Even the most disciplined girls cheat a times when men prey on their head.

All guys should be careful. Trust no one when it comes to HIV status.

It is better to live castrated and masturbate all your life than do raw with any girl.

Meanwhile, you may rely on God. I have witnessed hundreds of HIV positive patients who their results turned negative after receiving prayers at Lord's Chosen Church. My fiancee is a medical practitioner and that's how I knew about it.

Take anti retroviral drug while going for prayers.

@Op, take my advice here very serious. In months, you will thank God for bringing me forth to give you this advice.

Olamega78:
You have nothing to worry about, relax and stay positive. There are countless ways to get over it.... You can get in touch if you wish... Best of luck

I'm not sure I'll get over this. If i am a very randy guy i wouldn't be this pained. how will i face my family?

MariaLavina:
So what's the assurance you got this from her?

She's the only one I've been with.

Eeeyahhh!!!pele o.p. this is why using condom is very important.me i always have a pack of condom in the car wherever am going because i don't really trust people(you can say i've got trust issues i no mind,not when some idiots with hiv feel the best thing is it keep spreading the virus all about).so o.p. will always be taking a pill everyday till him die??that's a tough call..but one advice i got for you,please don't start spreading it deliberately,because if you start that,a lot of fools will get afflicted since most people like running away from condom.

Karrma:

She's the only one I've been with.

Oh sorry about that.

But are you sure you didn't share any personal things with anyone? Do you have your own personal clipper? Not that this matters anymore but until she's tested you can't really be sure you got it from her.

Karrma:
I have been feeling sick ever since i had sex with my girlfriend, so i went for a test today only to find out she's infected me with HIV. This is someone i trusted with everything. I've learned my lesson the hard way. My life is ruined right now at 25, I've cried my eyes out and suicide is the only thing coming to my mind now. I'm still alive because of the thought of my mother, butt I'm not sure i can hold on.

Please be careful with who you say you love.

Take my above advice with every seriousness. If you come with a serious heart, God will see you true

MariaLavina:
Oh sorry about that.

But are you sure you didn't share any personal things with anyone? Do you have your own personal clipper? Not that this matters anymore but until she's tested you can't really be sure you got it from her.

Madam, if you know how this virus spreads, you shouldn't have mentioned clipper. The virus can't survive high temperature. Once a clipper is touched with a fuel and burned a bit, the virus die. Sex is number one way to contract it or sharing of syringe

Karrma:

She's very lackadaisical about her health status

Too bad. I'll advice u get her to take her meds and if possible marry. Na she give u, so u both can live lovely. P. S you both can have negative babies

Goddys:


Madam, if you know how this virus spreads, you shouldn't have mentioned clipper. The virus can't survive high temperature. Once a clipper is touched with a fuel and burned a bit, the virus die. Sex is number one way to contract it or sharing of syringe

Noted.
Number one but not the only way remember?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Too bad. I'll advice u get her to take her meds and if possible marry. Na she give u, so u both can live lovely. P. S you both can have negative babies

I'm done with her.
I don't want to have anything to do with her.

MariaLavina:
Oh sorry about that.

But are you sure you didn't share any personal things with anyone? Do you have your own personal clipper? Not that this matters anymore but until she's tested you can't really be sure you got it from her.

I'm a very careful person

Karrma:

I'm a very careful person

So sorry about your condition, you just have to move on.

Hmmmm, can't say I know how u feel op, cos I aren't wearing the shoe.. But i know it must be hard to accept ur new status considering u are just 25 of age. Talk to her about it, if more infected people are on ARV trust me the disease won't be easily spread. I believe u can still live ur normal life, but the truth is venture into business and other self employment.

Olamega78:
You have nothing to worry about, relax and stay positive. There are countless ways to get over it.... You can get in touch if you wish... Best of luck

If there's no cure, how am i supposed to get over it.
I've disappointed my family. I can't get a job with this.

That's how my ex gave me one funny dangerous one that made my bazooka looking like one fresh boiled corn. That was my first and last sex. Nobody tell me make i zip up oo.. Op, don't make rash decision. Tomorrow will be better.