lilianofentse:
look how this one is high.

united442:


thumbs up man you still remember..

lolxxx..she came to my lodge,pretending to visit and check on me.,i ask her abt her new life,she just hiss then i knew there was fire on the mountain,she try hiding it,but she couldn't cause she knew she could trust me and i always give her advise that will guild her when we were together,so she had to spill everything out in essence for me to advise her,telling me the said guy has another 3 extra babe, and one was even pregnant for him and that she was lucky not to have go too dip with d guy that she would have suffer..

though i was angry at her for leaving me for that kind of a dude,latter when she left, i nor knw when i take laugh troway ma evening food..

she was still trying to come back through visiting and checking on me until i text her that i appreciate i what we've been through but i DNT WANT TO SEE HER FACE or HEAR HER VOICE AGAIN...up till today, have not heard from her..

though i still love and have feeling s for her,
but things have change
i have to do the needful,
i have to man up and let things slide away no matter how hurtful it is..
am getting better now..

raphemmanuel:
U see ur life Am i wrong with what I'm saying? All this heartless, bad and cheater girls don't deserve good.

But that aside; hope u are really getting rid of the guy u meet at club off ur memory.

chapmanapr:
Discuss with your boyfriend about him being too serious. You would start seeing the unfunny side of this new guy, once he shines your congo

lilianofentse:
formatted his face outta my memory..

raphemmanuel:
Glory be to God.
If not God, what would have been the caption of your next thread.

May be it might look similar to that of this op "I have destroyed my life"

Centrallock:
juliet lol i knew something was up ungrateful bitch

If he ain't funny, then you be the funny one. Crack open his heart, maybe you'd get to his humor compartment. He doesn't give it to you the way you like it? Ride him to death, do all the naughty stuff to and for him. Take the lead, and lead him on. He hasn't proposed yet? Propose to him. If y'all both not so financially stable, plan with him how to improve your finance. The guy mustn't do everything, You can do better.

millionboi2:
lets bargain here

jackals:
This life sha, Even we as beautiful as we are, we cant hook a man for long. They expect you to have good behavior that their mother doesnt even have. Before you know it, he start complainning and misbehavingg even after promising marriage. I'm tiredof most of these weak men, they only know how to hit and run

Anonny1:
I suspect he is even cheating on me

lilianofentse:
formatted his face outta my memory..

lilianofentse:
but seriously you girls are showing too much hate to this girl. She bleeped up a little though

dingbang:
Why fall in love with someone who is boring. My girlfriend says sometimes I am boring and she tells me she is in love with me and I am like Why so confused?

If you like me then you should be able to understand and accept my personality, if you dont like my personality then how can you say you love me?

Or maybe you love the fact that he gives you Money?


Pls dont be confused.

generationz:


stop trying to 'hook' a man

Womanizers can smell that desperation miles away and leverage

Live your life, work hard at your goals be happy and the right man will come

It is important that as a lady you have set principles which everyman who comes into your life must be judged against or else he isn't worthy.


If you don't stand for anything you will fall for every Tom , dick and kazeem

I'm not talking of "he gives me money ish" even though money is important

For example one of my principles is this: If when I just met you and while talking casually as friends( I'm a good conversationalist so you won't even know I'm judging silently) the man mentions "You can't eat only egusi everyday of your life you must eat other meals". I don't need a prophet to tell me that man will cheat.

another example
Most men who are alcoholics cheat. Why
1. Alcohol boosts the libido .
2. Too much alcohol can make Segun see shrek as Cinderella
3. Alcohol makes one more outspoken and confident
And the most important is this
Where two or three men are gathered drinking yansh matter must be part of the topic of discussion.
So even if he isn't the flirtatious type he will learn from his friends.




You are not to jump into conclusions but mark these things as your red flags and pay attention to them

Many men will fall away like a pack of cards and it will be easier for you to choose with clear eyes.

ImaIma1:


Love is not actually blind. Her loving you doesn't stop her from seeing your flaws. She only chooses to live with it because she loves you.

luvyaself95:
I think She must be your first love That why you still have feelings for her if yes it happens like that..

Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation

raphemmanuel:
You know some girls don't know the kind of things the put some men (especially the nice ones) into.
I must say this, "it is mostly the NICE GUYS that suffers heartbreak most times".

Imagine investing, trusting and giving it best to a girl, just for her to come up with a FOOLISH UNREASONABLE REASON to end the relationship.

This girls will have one thing to give as a reason the should end their relationship. Whereas on a real sense, this is what they can sit down and discuss to settle it.
I don't know what the think most times? Do they always think u can get a man that is totally perfect.

If you look deeply into this girls, u will still find out that the have their own problem too but this NICE GUYS will still overlook that problem that is found in them and still try to get use it, but this girls will still be looking for loopholes to lay hold on.

I don't give a fvck to this girls, I never pity them when they are dealt with by the BAD GUYS AND SWEET-MOUTHED GUYS.

This girls don't like to hear the truth from the NICE GUYS they prefer to be flattered by lies.

To Hell with such kind of girls which this Op is among them.

Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation

Anonny1:

A big fvck u to anybody that insulted me. I asked for advise not insults.
Once again.
Fxxck u

Centrallock:
juliet lol i knew something was up ungrateful bitch

Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..
I perfectly can relate with this scenario, eternity is a long time not to be happy, you actually feel pity for the first guy not love, and you don't want to trade 10 of your beat years for nothing because you are not sure of the intentions of the new guy.

now let me give you my own advice, I think you should calm down about getting married for now, go for what you want not what is available.


Cc: lilianofentse rocktation

Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation

femi4:
Happiness is key, go for the second guy cos sexual satisfaction cannot be over emphasize. I m sure you don't wanna cheat on your hubby

united442:


this was exactly how my girlfriend broke up with me...

o.p..dnt deceive your self..the loyal man has already lost you..you are already into that sweet mouthed guy and its just a matter of time before you break up ur with your first man..

o.p you are weak, a fool and a betrayal...

in no time,the loyal man will discover whats going on with you cause trust me when i say you will never and cant hide it from him cause he's going to notice it, things will start changing in your relationship soon, your feelings and emotions and everything you have for the loyal man will shift to the sweet mouthed guy..the loyal with will be heart broken but you wont be cause someone has already sweet mouthed your weak and ungrateful brain
your relationship with the loyal guy will be broken and you both will go apart while you into relationship with the sweet mouthed guy, a relationship that wont last up to 6months or even a year compare to the first guy...
then you come back begging and crying to have the first guy back.

o.p screenshot this comment,cause its all going to happen soon..just watch and see..

idiot,just ask yourself, he makes you laugh,fine! BUT what if that laughter is no longer there??...

may i never meet an ungrateful harlot like you in my life.."AGAIN!"