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I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 5:07am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Sorry for my long post I am a lawyer by profession, who is currently serving. I met this gal in my final year in skul,she was a year my junior in skul. Lets call her B. Like i really loved this gal. I gave her attentiton. At a point i thought i was jazzed by her. After i graduated from skul, i proceeded to the law school and those of u that have been dere knw d temptations dat one can face dere but i still came bak loyal to this babe. I came out with good grades and it was time for service, she begged me to work my service to her state of residence so we can be seeing. I did this giving up other opportunities i would have gotten if i served in Lagos. Things were rosy between d 2 of us during my initial stay here because she was around till abt nov last year when she left for law school. When she told me of d kind of roomates she had i became scared dat dey will influence her because of deir materialistic nature. In the month of march, our issues became xo complicated dat she broke up wit me. I was depressed dat i had to resort to weed just to forget her, something i have never done before. 2 weeks ago she came bak home and came around to see me dat we should work tinz out. I initially refused but after her persistent beggings i accepted her bak and tinz became fine until yesterday. She came to my house to read. While reading a call came through from a guy she met while in lagos who was around in uyo and who wanted to see her. I was like u came to see me all of a sudden u want to meet dis guy. After much arguments, she called d guy and gave him d direction to my house, he drove to my place. I welcomed him. After few minutes he left ,she escorted him to the car and came back with a sheepish smile that CAN SHE GO OUT WITH THiS GUY?. I was Xo mad. I went to meet d guy and shouted at him telling him he disrespected me in my house. He begged me. Initially, she was remorseful and was begging me for her attitude but later started defending her actions dat cant she have male friends while dating me. She said she is no longer interested. I knw 4 a fact dat she will come bak begging but i dont know what to do to forget abt her because i am seriously loosing it here. Everyday i wake up depressed. This is a girl who i have done xo many things even at my own expense. Plz help me out. |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Avast(m): 5:15am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Amicusacuriae:Brother forget this girl and move on with your life. Whatever you do with your life now doesn't guarantee she gonna stay. Taking weed can not solve your problem, it will only cause damages to your health. She doesn't worth your love and never fight or argue with someone that you sense he is dating your gf, you can be killed. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 5:16am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Avast:thank you sir. I couldnt sleep all night after thinking of the 3 years we spent together. The sacirfices and risks i had to pass through because of her |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Avast(m): 5:22am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Amicusacuriae:That is just half of my first relationship. We spent six yes together, we even lived couples life together back then in sch. it was like I was in a fire when she gave me the news that she is not interested anymore. Here I am today, strong and firm. 7 Likes |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 5:26am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Avast:thank u sir for ur time |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Avast(m): 5:28am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Amicusacuriae:You are welcome sir. |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by nifemi25(m): 5:35am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Oga you better leave the girl alone now before she disappointed you few days to your wedding. Forget about the years you have spent together. Do not accept her when she comes back. She might come back to damage your life beyond repair. That's my little advice to you. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by femmoy(m): 5:37am On Apr 23, 2019 |
op I went through ur post but I must be honest with u, I prefer a lady walking up to me to call it quit to a cheating one that would still stay with u. she would call it quit and later come back to apologise whereas she has not changed a bit to the extent of asking if she could follow a guy she had dated before out,that's a huge downgrading to u. why accepting her back in the first place? are u a dustbin where a lady can mess herself up and still come back to? look the earlier u forget about her,the better it is for u because humans are replaceable. pick urself up as a man and move on. improve urself by improving ur life (double ur hustle) so when she'll see u in the nearest future,she would feel a great sense of loss. BTW stop smoking weed because of depression from a girl,I smoke it naturally and I feel good,not because a lady jilted me.... be wise op 8 Likes |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 5:42am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Amicusacuriae: Start making moves on another girl. That's the best way to truly move on. 7 Likes |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by UniQue84: 5:44am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Guy I totally understand what you are going through, and that lady knows she has gotten you by the balls reason she can misbehave and be asking you if she could go out with some guy in your presence and house hmmmm that's was the height. Presently I am faced with a similar case after trying everything to come back to me proved abortive, she called yesterday night telling me she has something with one company for 2 days if she can stay with me, imagine, someone I still have feelings for but have vowed not to go back again, inside my house alone with me, going to the kitchen and bathroom with big yansh shaking ![]() See you just have to be a man, a real bad guy nigga, not a pussy nigga, dump that ass and move on, get another babe or babes and rock and throw away emotions and be logical or else you are doomed ....sorry but she is a hoe. I repeat dump that hoe and don't ever allow your emotions to have a better part of you, by making a wife out of her, you will bite your finger in regret. Peace . 15 Likes |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by iTearHerToto: 5:44am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Me : You abandoned the opportunities you would have gotten if you served in Lagos for a Hoe? ![]() ![]() Him : i only see myself as a weak, Brainless man looking for advice. But where would the advice store if given ![]() Me : (Pukes) ![]() 10 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Wizywiz(m): 5:47am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Op pls jus move on and never accept her back there are lots of girls who could love u genuinely but pls never accept her back be strong hearted u will overcome....and pls for now....stay off girls and relationship...gradualy d right girl will come around and things will fall in place.... Be strong 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 5:47am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Dudeweedlmao:thank you sir |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Oluromantic: 7:04am On Apr 23, 2019 |
You're not abnormal op, most men have gone thru that as first experience. That's girls attitude, they know men are more forgiving and they frustrate that forgiving nature..if you were the one that offended her that way, she won't forgive and she'll start spoiling ur name up and down that you're a dog bla bla. She doesn't know what she wants, youre just a back up plan to her, you need to be courageous to leave her orelse she'll mesmerize your feelings totally and manipulate you emotionally without conscience. Go for grown up and mature ones who are respectful and don't give too much sacrifice for a woman again such as changing ur NYSC state to where she is..that's too much and that contributes deeply to your pain. They don't deserve that much until they agree with you on any decision you make as a man on the lead. When u see a girl saying things like u must keep teddybeard etc orelse no picture with you, my brother leave her. When a girl is serious, she'll follow you as you are. @Miznay..check this out. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 7:49am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Oluromantic:thank u sir for ur advice |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 7:54am On Apr 23, 2019 |
nifemi25:tank u sir |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 7:57am On Apr 23, 2019 |
femmoy:tank u sir 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by IamPlato(m): 8:43am On Apr 23, 2019 |
For Her To Have The Guts To Tell You so He Can Come To Your House Shows How Superior She Is Over You. Guy You Weak Die... Maybe I Can Teach You How To Use The Power of Smile And Silence over A Woman.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Avast(m): 8:51am On Apr 23, 2019 |
IamPlato:I wish to learn that from you. 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by IamPlato(m): 9:02am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Avast:At First Smiling Creates A Welcome Expression and They Smile Back but With Time The Ladies Can Easily Tell The dangerous Ones From The Harmless ones so They Now Know When To Smile Back And When not To Dare... Eye Contacts hold Them... I Will Create An Article About It Soon 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by MufasaRebirth: 9:11am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Op how was your experience with weed I hope you enjoyed the cruise.... ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Promxy94(m): 9:18am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Amicusacuriae: Bro that's how most relationships are. Congratulations on your successful call to Bar. I humbly advice you give her time, she loves you dearly. But I think she is easily influenced, from the little you penned down here. But my final submission is if you believe and think you can't continue with her attitude please call the relationship off... Thanks learned friend. 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 9:25am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Your mumu don do ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Destiblack(m): 9:33am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Man up nigga, no bitch what ur happiness or joy. She is a bitch that will always cos u pain for life.Better erase her from ur mind now. 3 Likes |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 9:35am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Promxy94:thank u my bro at d bar 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by aanuoluwami14(f): 10:57am On Apr 23, 2019 |
Thank God you are a lawyer, use your brain. Let her go. Occupy yourself with something good like reading the Bible, watching good movies, etc. |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Nobody: 11:04am On Apr 23, 2019 |
aanuoluwami14:thank u sir |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by kingkoboko: 11:11am On Apr 23, 2019 |
1st of all, u're a mumu. Wallahi, i feel like slappin sense in2 u. Cant u see she has lost all d respect she ever had 4u? Kai! U need 2improve ur game so that u don't become a mumu 2d next woman comin in2 ur life soon. I summon u in here https://www.nairaland.com/1406518/how-beat-women immediately 2com &learn how 2subdue women like a real man. 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by mrpaedo(m): 11:39am On Apr 23, 2019 |
OP is suffering from Oneitis.All guymen have experienced it ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by Aieboocaar(m): 11:47am On Apr 23, 2019 |
IamPlato: I swear this OP na ogbono ![]() ![]() imagine your woman get mind coordinate another gee come your house naim you never use slippers flog two of them enter express ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by gabi98(m): 11:47am On Apr 23, 2019 |
When a partner in a relationship tells you he/she quit, just put an end to it straightaway. Do not give chance for a comeback or else it will hurt you later or sooner 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Myself. Please A Brother Is Loosing It by drmikeadams(m): 12:49pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
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