Sorry for my long post


I am a lawyer by profession, who is currently serving. I met this gal in my final year in skul,she was a year my junior in skul. Lets call her B. Like i really loved this gal. I gave her attentiton. At a point i thought i was jazzed by her.
After i graduated from skul, i proceeded to the law school and those of u that have been dere knw d temptations dat one can face dere but i still came bak loyal to this babe.
I came out with good grades and it was time for service, she begged me to work my service to her state of residence so we can be seeing. I did this giving up other opportunities i would have gotten if i served in Lagos.

Things were rosy between d 2 of us during my initial stay here because she was around till abt nov last year when she left for law school. When she told me of d kind of roomates she had i became scared dat dey will influence her because of deir materialistic nature.

In the month of march, our issues became xo complicated dat she broke up wit me. I was depressed dat i had to resort to weed just to forget her, something i have never done before.

2 weeks ago she came bak home and came around to see me dat we should work tinz out. I initially refused but after her persistent beggings i accepted her bak and tinz became fine until yesterday.

She came to my house to read. While reading a call came through from a guy she met while in lagos who was around in uyo and who wanted to see her. I was like u came to see me all of a sudden u want to meet dis guy.

After much arguments, she called d guy and gave him d direction to my house, he drove to my place. I welcomed him. After few minutes he left ,she escorted him to the car and came back with a sheepish smile that CAN SHE GO OUT WITH THiS GUY?. I was Xo mad. I went to meet d guy and shouted at him telling him he disrespected me in my house. He begged me.

Initially, she was remorseful and was begging me for her attitude but later started defending her actions dat cant she have male friends while dating me. She said she is no longer interested.

I knw 4 a fact dat she will come bak begging but i dont know what to do to forget abt her because i am seriously loosing it here. Everyday i wake up depressed.

This is a girl who i have done xo many things even at my own expense.
Plz help me out.

Amicusacuriae:
Sorry for my long post


I am a lawyer by profession, who is currently serving. I met this gal in my final year in skul,she was a year my junior in skul. Lets call her B. Like i really loved this gal. I gave her attentiton. At a point i thought i was jazzed by her.
After i graduated from skul, i proceeded to the law school and those of u that have been dere knw d temptations dat one can face dere but i still came bak loyal to this babe.
I came out with good grades and it was time for service, she begged me to work my service to her state of residence so we can be seeing. I did this giving up other opportunities i would have gotten if i served in Lagos.

Things were rosy between d 2 of us during my initial stay here because she was around till abt nov last year when she left for law school. When she told me of d kind of roomates she had i became scared dat dey will influence her because of deir materialistic nature.

In the month of march, our issues became xo complicated dat she broke up wit me. I was depressed dat i had to resort to weed just to forget her, something i have never done before.

2 weeks ago she came bak home and came around to see me dat we should work tinz out. I initially refused but after her persistent beggings i accepted her bak and tinz became fine until yesterday.

She came to my house to read. While reading a call came through from a guy she met while in lagos who was around in uyo and who wanted to see her. I was like u came to see me all of a sudden u want to meet dis guy.

After much arguments, she called d guy and gave him d direction to my house, he drove to my place. I welcomed him. After few minutes he left ,she escorted him to the car and came back with a sheepish smile that CAN SHE GO OUT WITH THiS GUY?. I was Xo mad. I went to meet d guy and shouted at him telling him he disrespected me in my house. He begged me.

Initially, she was remorseful and was begging me for her attitude but later started defending her actions dat cant she have male friends while dating me. She said she is no longer interested.

I knw 4 a fact dat she will come bak begging but i dont know what to do to forget abt her because i am seriously loosing it here. Everyday i wake up depressed.

This is a girl who i have done xo many things even at my own expense.
Plz help me out.

Brother forget this girl and move on with your life. Whatever you do with your life now doesn't guarantee she gonna stay. Taking weed can not solve your problem, it will only cause damages to your health. She doesn't worth your love and never fight or argue with someone that you sense he is dating your gf, you can be killed.

Avast:

Brother forget this girl and move on with your life. Whatever you do with your life now doesn't guarantee she gonna stay. Taking weed can not solve your problem, it will only cause damage to your health. She doesn't worth your love and never fight or argue with someone that you sense he is dating your gf, you can be killed.

thank you sir. I couldnt sleep all night after thinking of the 3 years we spent together. The sacirfices and risks i had to pass through because of her

Amicusacuriae:
thank you sir. I couldnt sleep all night after thinking of the 3 years we spent together. The sacirfices and risks i had to pass through because of her

That is just half of my first relationship. We spent six yes together, we even lived couples life together back then in sch. it was like I was in a fire when she gave me the news that she is not interested anymore. Here I am today, strong and firm.

Avast:

That is just half of my first relationship. We spent six yes together, we even lived couples life together back then in sch. it was like I was in a fire when she gave me the news that she is not interested anymore. Here I am today, strong and firm.

thank u sir for ur time

Amicusacuriae:
thank u sir for ur time

You are welcome sir.

Oga you better leave the girl alone now before she disappointed you few days to your wedding. Forget about the years you have spent together. Do not accept her when she comes back. She might come back to damage your life beyond repair. That's my little advice to you.

op I went through ur post but I must be honest with u, I prefer a lady walking up to me to call it quit to a cheating one that would still stay with u.
she would call it quit and later come back to apologise whereas she has not changed a bit to the extent of asking if she could follow a guy she had dated before out,that's a huge downgrading to u.
why accepting her back in the first place? are u a dustbin where a lady can mess herself up and still come back to? look the earlier u forget about her,the better it is for u because humans are replaceable. pick urself up as a man and move on. improve urself by improving ur life (double ur hustle) so when she'll see u in the nearest future,she would feel a great sense of loss.
BTW stop smoking weed because of depression from a girl,I smoke it naturally and I feel good,not because a lady jilted me....

be wise op

Amicusacuriae:
Sorry for my long post


I am a lawyer by profession, who is currently serving. I met this gal in my final year in skul,she was a year my junior in skul. Lets call her B. Like i really loved this gal. I gave her attentiton. At a point i thought i was jazzed by her.
After i graduated from skul, i proceeded to the law school and those of u that have been dere knw d temptations dat one can face dere but i still came bak loyal to this babe.
I came out with good grades and it was time for service, she begged me to work my service to her state of residence so we can be seeing. I did this giving up other opportunities i would have gotten if i served in Lagos.

Things were rosy between d 2 of us during my initial stay here because she was around till abt nov last year when she left for law school. When she told me of d kind of roomates she had i became scared dat dey will influence her because of deir materialistic nature.

In the month of march, our issues became xo complicated dat she broke up wit me. I was depressed dat i had to resort to weed just to forget her, something i have never done before.

2 weeks ago she came bak home and came around to see me dat we should work tinz out. I initially refused but after her persistent beggings i accepted her bak and tinz became fine until yesterday.

She came to my house to read. While reading a call came through from a guy she met while in lagos who was around in uyo and who wanted to see her. I was like u came to see me all of a sudden u want to meet dis guy.

After much arguments, she called d guy and gave him d direction to my house, he drove to my place. I welcomed him. After few minutes he left ,she escorted him to the car and came back with a sheepish smile that CAN SHE GO OUT WITH THiS GUY?. I was Xo mad. I went to meet d guy and shouted at him telling him he disrespected me in my house. He begged me.

Initially, she was remorseful and was begging me for her attitude but later started defending her actions dat cant she have male friends while dating me. She said she is no longer interested.

I knw 4 a fact dat she will come bak begging but i dont know what to do to forget abt her because i am seriously loosing it here. Everyday i wake up depressed.

This is a girl who i have done xo many things even at my own expense.
Plz help me out.

Start making moves on another girl. That's the best way to truly move on.

Guy I totally understand what you are going through, and that lady knows she has gotten you by the balls reason she can misbehave and be asking you if she could go out with some guy in your presence and house hmmmm that's was the height.

Presently I am faced with a similar case after trying everything to come back to me proved abortive, she called yesterday night telling me she has something with one company for 2 days if she can stay with me, imagine, someone I still have feelings for but have vowed not to go back again, inside my house alone with me, going to the kitchen and bathroom with big yansh shaking how can I cope , I just told her NO,that was followed with a long text saying shiiiit, like I care.


See you just have to be a man, a real bad guy nigga, not a pussy nigga, dump that ass and move on, get another babe or babes and rock and throw away emotions and be logical or else you are doomed ....sorry but she is a hoe. I repeat dump that hoe and don't ever allow your emotions to have a better part of you, by making a wife out of her, you will bite your finger in regret.

Peace .

Me : You abandoned the opportunities you would have gotten if you served in Lagos for a Hoe? and you never asked yourself if she would do same. Why

Him : i only see myself as a weak, Brainless man looking for advice. But where would the advice store if given

Me : (Pukes)

Op pls jus move on and never accept her back there are lots of girls who could love u genuinely but pls never accept her back be strong hearted u will overcome....and pls for now....stay off girls and relationship...gradualy d right girl will come around and things will fall in place....



Be strong

Dudeweedlmao:


Start making moves on another girl. That's the best way to truly move on.

thank you sir

You're not abnormal op, most men have gone thru that as first experience. That's girls attitude, they know men are more forgiving and they frustrate that forgiving nature..if you were the one that offended her that way, she won't forgive and she'll start spoiling ur name up and down that you're a dog bla bla. She doesn't know what she wants, youre just a back up plan to her, you need to be courageous to leave her orelse she'll mesmerize your feelings totally and manipulate you emotionally without conscience.

Go for grown up and mature ones who are respectful and don't give too much sacrifice for a woman again such as changing ur NYSC state to where she is..that's too much and that contributes deeply to your pain. They don't deserve that much until they agree with you on any decision you make as a man on the lead. When u see a girl saying things like u must keep teddybeard etc orelse no picture with you, my brother leave her. When a girl is serious, she'll follow you as you are.


@Miznay..check this out.

Oluromantic:
You're not abnormal op, most men have gone thru that as first experience. That's girls attitude, they know men are more forgiving and they frustrate that forgiving nature..if you were the one that offended her that way, she won't forgive and she'll start spoiling ur name up and down that you're a dog bla bla. She doesn't know what she wants, youre just a back up plan to her, you need to be courageous to leave her orelse she'll mesmerize your feelings totally and manipulate you emotionally without conscience.

Go for grown up and mature ones who are respectful and don't give too much sacrifice for a woman again such as changing ur NYSC state to where she is..that's too much and that contributes deeply to your pain. They don't deserve that much until they agree with you on any decision you make as a man on the lead. When u see a girl saying things like u must keep teddybeard etc orelse no picture with you, my brother leave her. When a girl is serious, she'll follow you as you are.


@Miznay..check this out.

thank u sir for ur advice

nifemi25:
Oga you better leave the girl alone now before she disappointed you few days to your wedding. Forget about the years you have spent together. Do not accept her when she comes back. She might come back to damage your life beyond repair. That's my little advice to you.

tank u sir

femmoy:
op I went through ur post but I must be honest with u, I prefer a lady walking up to me to call it quit to a cheating one that would still stay with u.
she would call it quit and later come back to apologise whereas she has not changed a bit to the extent of asking if she could follow a guy she had dated before out,that's a huge downgrading to u.
why accepting her back in the first place? are u a dustbin where a lady can mess herself up and still come back to? look the earlier u forget about her,the better it is for u because humans are replaceable. pick urself up as a man and move on. improve urself by improving ur life (double ur hustle) so when she'll see u in the nearest future,she would feel a great sense of loss.
BTW stop smoking weed because of depression from a girl,I smoke it naturally and I feel good,not because a lady jilted me....

be wise op

tank u sir

For Her To Have The Guts To Tell You so He Can Come To Your House Shows How Superior She Is Over You. Guy You Weak Die...



Maybe I Can Teach You How To Use The Power of Smile And Silence over A Woman..

IamPlato:
For Her To Have The Guts To Tell You so He Can Come To Your House Shows How Superior She Is Over You. Guy You Weak Die...



Maybe I Can Teach You How To Use The Power of Smile And Silence over A Woman..

I wish to learn that from you.

Avast:

I wish to learn that from you.

At First Smiling Creates A Welcome Expression and They Smile Back but With Time The Ladies Can Easily Tell The dangerous Ones From The Harmless ones so They Now Know When To Smile Back And When not To Dare... Eye Contacts hold Them... I Will Create An Article About It Soon

Op how was your experience with weed


I hope you enjoyed the cruise....

Amicusacuriae:
Sorry for my long post


I am a lawyer by profession, who is currently serving. I met this gal in my final year in skul,she was a year my junior in skul. Lets call her B. Like i really loved this gal. I gave her attentiton. At a point i thought i was jazzed by her.
After i graduated from skul, i proceeded to the law school and those of u that have been dere knw d temptations dat one can face dere but i still came bak loyal to this babe.
I came out with good grades and it was time for service, she begged me to work my service to her state of residence so we can be seeing. I did this giving up other opportunities i would have gotten if i served in Lagos.

Things were rosy between d 2 of us during my initial stay here because she was around till abt nov last year when she left for law school. When she told me of d kind of roomates she had i became scared dat dey will influence her because of deir materialistic nature.

In the month of march, our issues became xo complicated dat she broke up wit me. I was depressed dat i had to resort to weed just to forget her, something i have never done before.

2 weeks ago she came bak home and came around to see me dat we should work tinz out. I initially refused but after her persistent beggings i accepted her bak and tinz became fine until yesterday.

She came to my house to read. While reading a call came through from a guy she met while in lagos who was around in uyo and who wanted to see her. I was like u came to see me all of a sudden u want to meet dis guy.

After much arguments, she called d guy and gave him d direction to my house, he drove to my place. I welcomed him. After few minutes he left ,she escorted him to the car and came back with a sheepish smile that CAN SHE GO OUT WITH THiS GUY?. I was Xo mad. I went to meet d guy and shouted at him telling him he disrespected me in my house. He begged me.

Initially, she was remorseful and was begging me for her attitude but later started defending her actions dat cant she have male friends while dating me. She said she is no longer interested.

I knw 4 a fact dat she will come bak begging but i dont know what to do to forget abt her because i am seriously loosing it here. Everyday i wake up depressed.

This is a girl who i have done xo many things even at my own expense.
Plz help me out.

Bro that's how most relationships are.

Congratulations on your successful call to Bar.

I humbly advice you give her time, she loves you dearly. But I think she is easily influenced, from the little you penned down here.


But my final submission is if you believe and think you can't continue with her attitude please call the relationship off...


Thanks learned friend.

Your mumu don do

Man up nigga, no bitch what ur happiness or joy. She is a bitch that will always cos u pain for life.Better erase her from ur mind now.

Promxy94:




Bro that's how most relationships are.

Congratulations on your successful call to Bar.

I humbly advice you give her time, she loves you dearly. But I think she is easily influenced, from the little you penned down here.


But my final submission is if you believe and think you can't continue with her attitude please call the relationship off...


Thanks learned friend.

thank u my bro at d bar

Thank God you are a lawyer, use your brain. Let her go. Occupy yourself with something good like reading the Bible, watching good movies, etc.

aanuoluwami14:
Thank God you are a lawyer, use your brain. Let her go. Occupy yourself with something good like reading the Bible, watching good movies, etc.

thank u sir

1st of all, u're a mumu. Wallahi, i feel like slappin sense in2 u.

Cant u see she has lost all d respect she ever had 4u? Kai!
U need 2improve ur game so that u don't become a mumu 2d next woman comin in2 ur life soon.

I summon u in here https://www.nairaland.com/1406518/how-beat-women immediately 2com &learn how 2subdue women like a real man.

OP is suffering from Oneitis.All guymen have experienced it

IamPlato:
For Her To Have The Guts To Tell You so He Can Come To Your House Shows How Superior She Is Over You. Guy You Weak Die...



Maybe I Can Teach You How To Use The Power of Smile And Silence over A Woman..

I swear this OP na ogbono em no deserve the balls wey em dey carry for waist

imagine your woman get mind coordinate another gee come your house naim you never use slippers flog two of them enter express

When a partner in a relationship tells you he/she quit, just put an end to it straightaway. Do not give chance for a comeback or else it will hurt you later or sooner

I still wonder/wander how guys still love 100% and want to die when the lady breaks up wit em I just wonder/wander am amaized/amazed