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Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by Tomblaize: 5:54pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Hi guys, there's this friend of mine called Johnson, he is 32 but not married yet. His mom has been Presurizing him to get married and settle down just like his younger siblings, but Johnson feels it's not right for him to settle down in Nigeria now because nothing is working for him here at the moment. His business has collapsed, and he doesn't want to get married with the little change he has left in his account, because he doesn't want his wife to suffer after they get married, so instead he wants to use the money to travel abroad (Canada Precisely), and see if he can begin a new life there. P.S : He already has an agent that wants to do the visa for him, and he is not paying the agent a dime until his visa comes out and he confirms it at the airport to be legit. Pls guys, he needs your advice, because his mom is threatening to do something crazy if he doesn't settle down this year. |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Ok OP, I'm cumin. Wait let me ask my friend to tell his mother that wants to travel abroad for advice.. The mother has an agent too. She will not pay the agent yet for the advice until you agree dat u re de fùckin persn. Stop brngin imaginary frnds into dis shìt. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by MiamiePizza(m): 6:19pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
I don't know if that your friend is you or you're asking on his behalf for real, but here is my advice... Get the hell outta Nigeria if you get the chance Canada is a great place to settle down for your friend, but he should be ready to sacrifice a lot... He shouldn't expect all to be rosy once he gets there. The chances of him getting a better life in Canada is 7/10 if he's really ready to work will back home is probably 4/10 even if he's a workaholic. Go abroad, make money, come back home and marry even mama will be happy with you(we you've made it). it's possible no one will support you in this but remember... "in order to succeed, your desire for success must be greater than your fear for failure". Take the risk, if you win you gain...and if you lose, no shame, you try again. Above all good luck, favor and Grace is key 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by Xavi2019: 6:23pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
PORNeliusHUBson:LOL You've got no chills, bro. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by Hadampson(m): 6:47pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Travel to Canada for a better life. Might not be rosy as first but definitely worth it. This country is nothing to write home about. But if he is the type who wants quick money (because many NIGERIANS believe once they cross the border, they have made it) tell him to stay in Nigeria. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by obi4eze(m): 7:26pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Whatever you do, forget about agent. Do it yourself. There are threads on this forum to guide you. Nigeria is messed up and we don't know where this country is headed so moving out is more than worth it. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by Tomblaize: 7:30pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Lol, it's not me bro. I am married with 2 kids. My second child came in 2 weeks ago |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by queengift(f): 7:48pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Tell your friend to travel out now that he is in thirties, if he does not have a stable job here. he can always marry and move his wife. He should be careful of agents, every information he needs is on nairaland. lastly, which country do he intend to travel to, what kind of visa? It might not be rosy as we all think he should be ready to face challenges, Great men are not scared of challenges, because is a partway to success. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:27pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Tomblaize: NEVER USE VISA AGENTS.... they can get you a real visa obtained with fake documentations, and when you arrive at the Canadians airport, you would get busted and lose your money (before being sent back) 1 Like |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Why can't you people be bold for once and admit you're the one who needs help? It is always "my friend" "a friend" "my cousin" haba wetin! Dem use lie water baff una? Anyways, as you're thinking of traveling, have a plan B by the side to make sure you have something to fall back on in case it doesn't work out. Regarding the marriage issue, it's a normal thing cos if you don't marry in your 30s you might end up regretting it cos how old would you be by the time you child graduates? Just make sure you look before you leap and find the right partner, prayerfully! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by HenryThegreat1(m): 8:42pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Tomblaize:I sent u a mail pls reply me back. |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by Tomblaize: 11:10pm On Apr 23, 2019 |
Done HenryThegreat1: |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by gees101(m): 8:56am On Apr 29, 2019 |
PORNeliusHUBson:lol u bad mouth eeen |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by Ugosample(m): 9:29am On Apr 29, 2019 |
Tomblaize: only you know what is best for you. You can try to start up another business or make plans to go abroad. and you using an agent for Canada visa with the intent to immigrate is a BIG MISTAKE You either do express entry or the pnp running away with visiting visa no nice You stand a better chance with the USA using that scope |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by ursolution: 1:03pm On Apr 29, 2019 |
The real issue here is what does your friend want to do? If he has made up his mind to travel out, let him travel out but if he himself is undecided then he can yield to the wishes of his parents. |
Re: Should I Travel Abroad For A Better Life Or Get Married And Settle Down in 9ja? by gees101(m): 2:44pm On Apr 29, 2019 |
Guy one word 。。。。。。。 RUN |
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