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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by SimplePlan34: 3:27pm On Apr 25, 2019
We all atone for d sins in our blood lines

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by cescky(m): 3:28pm On Apr 25, 2019
sad

Well don't know what to say...

God uses pastor Chris to perform miracles yes

Is pastor Chris perfect Capital No

Whose at fault only God knows..

The man doesn't want a divorce and is. Moving on with the work of God.

The woman has moved on, and keeps referring to her past.

She's bent on using this stain on pastor chris every opportunity she gets

There's nothing major In life apart from God..we all know what it means when people try to show how happy and how much their enjoying on social media..it always means their misrable in reality..that says a lot about this lady anyways may God heal them.

Bit most importantly she should be mature enough to know she's fighting the church (God) with this her actions...some one mentioned about her attitude, the above says a lot

God de

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Nobody: 3:30pm On Apr 25, 2019
these same fools will tell u prayer solves all problems and u need gods guidance before marriage . see how they turned out. nonsense and ingredients

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by MyGeneration(m): 3:37pm On Apr 25, 2019
desiredhome:
The worst thing that can happen to any one is to be in an enduring marriage, unfortunately some religious cabals will encourage their members to rather die in there than divorce.
This post alone shows that she's already missing him

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by MyGeneration(m): 3:39pm On Apr 25, 2019
fvck:
From her last statement she wrote "There's so much in this life to enjoy"
My dear nothing dey this lyf, singer Akon said "No need to cherish luxury cos everything comes and goes" so if you don't live your life for Jesus then it's a waste cos there's eternity,let's all live for it.

A real G would code that she's beginning to rethink her action's about divorcing Chris. She thought the divorce was going to tear him apart but now Chris has moved on, love world moved on and forgotten about her. She's badly missing the old days

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by HallaDaTruth: 3:39pm On Apr 25, 2019
MyGeneration:

This post alone shows that she's already missing him
Exactly and she doesn't want to be forgotten. The man is still popular while nobody knows her again

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by JJBROS(m): 3:42pm On Apr 25, 2019
jampro123:
None of you replying are married, have you asked yourself what made the man to travel? Before a man dies emotionally go and check the wife that he is married to. Most men are good husbands but the attitudes of these wivies drive them towards a direction that they will start to find happiness elsewhere.

Very correct sir

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by MyGeneration(m): 3:44pm On Apr 25, 2019
Andhominem:
So unfair!

I feel for her.

Mere hearing my wife talk to me like this will melt me down... embarassed
But it was her who filed for a divorce.

Nobody way no beg her she said her mind was made up, who do u think suffered most.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Nobody: 3:44pm On Apr 25, 2019
MyGeneration:

This post alone shows that she's already missing him

Of course. Divorce is not easy at all. Those that pushes people for it are not always there when it's reality get dawned on the divorcees.

God help us all.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Jaqenhghar: 3:45pm On Apr 25, 2019
GentleMoney:
shocked
That was what I was saying years before this. I was telling some members why is it so hard to see a picture of them both. They started bringing cropped pics. When I pointed that out too they reacted in their usual fashion. With anger, hissing and spitting like alley cats

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by sowilli: 3:48pm On Apr 25, 2019
MyGeneration:

This post alone shows that she's already missing him
according to her, she just wants to be with her man but then I remembered reading a post claiming she declined residing in nigeria or where her husband is... I can’t remeber. So if you want to be seeing your man often, why don’t you agree to live where he is given that you know the nature of his job. Other than infedility, I don’t see reasons why they can’t work things out given the number of years spent together.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Just2endowed2(m): 3:49pm On Apr 25, 2019
jampro123:
None of you replying are married, have you asked yourself what made the man to travel? Before a man dies emotionally go and check the wife that he is married to. Most men are good husbands but the attitudes of these wivies drive them towards a direction that they will start to find happiness elsewhere.

it does not justify your stance. Idolatry is not a good thing. both could seek help to fix the breakdown in communication.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by whizbee(m): 3:50pm On Apr 25, 2019
fvck:
From her last statement she wrote "There's so much in this life to enjoy"
My dear nothing dey this lyf, singer Akon said "No need to cherish luxury cos everything comes and goes" so if you don't live your life for Jesus then it's a waste cos there's eternity,let's all live for it.

loving Jesus should form part of enjoyment...not suffering in silence...I didn't subscribe my life to Jesus to suffer biko

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Jelal0007(m): 3:50pm On Apr 25, 2019
GentleMoney:
shocked
our pictures are 'interjected'.... Deep...

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Jelal0007(m): 3:51pm On Apr 25, 2019
GentleMoney:
shocked
our pictures are 'interjected'.... Deep....

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by mudiana(m): 3:52pm On Apr 25, 2019
wink2015:


I WISH THIS YOUNG COUPLES CAN SETTLE AND COME BACK TOGETHER.

But the issues dividing them is somehow BALLOONED beyond proportion that the centre could not hold.
they can't work. This story is about them obviously. How u go abandon ur wife for another country while you dey another country and call it a marriage. It is called union not reunion(anytime they see). Keep ur wife by ur side and send others to wat ever country u want to send em to. After all d church belongs to God not you.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Hermionegranger(f): 3:55pm On Apr 25, 2019
MyGeneration:

But it was her who filed for a divorce.

Nobody way no beg her she said her mind was made up, who do u think suffered most.
You should not be quick to judge her. I don't think it was easy for her to ask for a divorce. She didn't want to stay in an uncommitted relationship with her husband even though clearly she loves him. Loneliness in a relationship is one of the worst things you can go through and it's better to be single than to be in that kind of relationship. Believe me I've been there She probably asked for a divorce hoping it would make him come to his senses and realised he was neglecting her but the man was already far gone. She had to see it to the end because his non protest of the divorce showed he didn't care anymore. His thirst for power and influence was more important than his marriage.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by MyGeneration(m): 3:57pm On Apr 25, 2019
mudiana:
they can't work. This story is about them obviously. How u go abandon ur wife for another country while you dey another country and call it a marriage. It is called union not reunion(anytime they see). Keep ur wife by ur side and send others to wat ever country u want to send em to. After all d church belongs to God not you.
Read the divorce history. The woman was the main cause of both the problem and the divorce.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by ChristyB(f): 3:58pm On Apr 25, 2019
And again i ask, what do they teach their members?

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by MyGeneration(m): 3:59pm On Apr 25, 2019
Hermionegranger:
You should not be quick to judge her. I don't think it was easy for her to ask for a divorce. She didn't want to stay in an uncommitted relationship with her husband even though clearly she loves him. Loneliness in a relationship is one of the worst things you can go through and it's better to be single than to be in that kind of relationship. Believe me I've been there She probably asked for a divorce hoping it would make him come to his senses and realised he was neglecting her but the man was already far gone. She had to see it to the end because his non protest of the divorce showed he didn't care anymore. His thirst for power and influence was more important than his marriage.
When the mistake was acknowledged, Chris try to come back and she bluntly refused. She said she wanted the divorce.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by MyGeneration(m): 4:01pm On Apr 25, 2019
Hermionegranger:
You should not be quick to judge her. I don't think it was easy for her to ask for a divorce. She didn't want to stay in an uncommitted relationship with her husband even though clearly she loves him. Loneliness in a relationship is one of the worst things you can go through and it's better to be single than to be in that kind of relationship. Believe me I've been there She probably asked for a divorce hoping it would make him come to his senses and realised he was neglecting her but the man was already far gone. She had to see it to the end because his non protest of the divorce showed he didn't care anymore. His thirst for power and influence was more important than his marriage.
Seriously she divorcing because he refused to protest it is an excuse for divorce?

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by SexynSerious(f): 4:03pm On Apr 25, 2019
well said. very well said!

Lovelyn451:
Everybody with their different approach to a problem...some marriages go through worse trial but by grace they overcame and got back stronger..

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by AristocraticMe: 4:04pm On Apr 25, 2019
fvck:
From her last statement she wrote "There's so much in this life to enjoy"
My dear nothing dey this lyf, singer Akon said "No need to cherish luxury cos everything comes and goes" so if you don't live your life for Jesus then it's a waste cos there's eternity,let's all live for it.
that's where we all get it wrong. People always trying to be holier than thou . I am a born again christian and what she said has nothing to do with her faith. THERE IS SO MUCH TO ENJOY IN LIFE. Yes. Joy, peace, healthy marriage, wonderful family and kids, love. Jesus died so we can have all this. There is truly so much to enjoy when you are in Christ. Nigerians and their holier than thou attitude. I am sure you did not read the full article.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by jmoore(m): 4:04pm On Apr 25, 2019
jampro123:
None of you replying are married, have you asked yourself what made the man to travel? Before a man dies emotionally go and check the wife that he is married to. Most men are good husbands but the attitudes of these wivies drive them towards a direction that they will start to find happiness elsewhere.
The woman is always the witch while the men are saints. Crucify the women!!! Smh undecided

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Hermionegranger(f): 4:04pm On Apr 25, 2019
MyGeneration:

When the mistake was acknowledged, Chris try to come back and she bluntly refused. She said she wanted the divorce.
Who knows the sincerity behind his return. Maybe he was doing it half-heartedly to save face. She must have insisted because his attempts were not sincere.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Culturedman(m): 4:05pm On Apr 25, 2019
jampro123:
None of you replying are married, have you asked yourself what made the man to travel? Before a man dies emotionally go and check the wife that he is married to. Most men are good husbands but the attitudes of these wivies drive them towards a direction that they will start to find happiness elsewhere.

Just shut it. I wonder how your comment best that of most that commented before you. Also, I wonder how you know that most of them are not married while only you are supposedly married. People like you irritate me.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Nobody: 4:06pm On Apr 25, 2019
jampro123:
None of you replying are married, have you asked yourself what made the man to travel? Before a man dies emotionally go and check the wife that he is married to. Most men are good husbands but the attitudes of these wivies drive them towards a direction that they will start to find happiness elsewhere.

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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Hermionegranger(f): 4:08pm On Apr 25, 2019
jampro123:
None of you replying are married, have you asked yourself what made the man to travel? Before a man dies emotionally go and check the wife that he is married to. Most men are good husbands but the attitudes of these wivies drive them towards a direction that they will start to find happiness elsewhere.
Nonsense and Ten Pence! It's always the woman's fault with all of you angry
What of the man that marries a woman for convenience and the woman ends up developing feelings for him while he doesn't? What of men suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Borderline personality disorder? What of men whose craving for power dwarves every human emotion they have?

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