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Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by harizonal123(m): 5:47pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Marrying and still being lonely is the worst thing that could happen to any one. I sincerely pray & hope that pastor Chris comes back to his senses one of these days 2 Likes |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Nobody: 5:51pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Hermionegranger: Nice points but are you also aware a good woman is powerful enough to control a man more than he can control himself? Maybe not immediately but in the long run? This has got nothing to do with the OP by the way. |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Kokoebapluse(m): 5:53pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
![]() That woman need oko work than voice of Jesus, I think that pastor way also no pure, 10 days in a year? Pastor na you kill your God so you are seeking for forgiveness? Abi you are looking for angel to bribe ? Spirit is telling me that that pastor is special deliverance somewhere, One country is very small for a couple to live together ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by LegalOpinion: 5:53pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Kennydoc: It was actually the wife that filed for divorce and insisted. |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by pinkygurl(f): 5:57pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
unclesuruoffi: ![]() |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Nobody: 6:12pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
deltateam: He doesn't know that divorce dey tire divorcees. How many times e wan even divorce sef? An average divorcee is not even trusted in a new relationship because he/she is mostly viewed from the prism of divorce. |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by chineloSA(f): 6:20pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
AristocraticMe: Mmmceeewww as if being Born Again Christian gives you the birds eye view in everything. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by AristocraticMe: 6:21pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
chineloSA:Yes it does. When being led by the Spirit |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Sanchez01: 6:22pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
LegalOpinion:True! It was she who filed for divorce after she couldn't cope with the height of frustration. I hope you're aware that Pastor Chris visited the UK one time and never bothered to see her despite being apart for over two years or more? She only got to see her supposed husband on the television and he barely attended to her calls when she placed them. She was always told by those around him that he was busy and he never acknowledged those calls or returned them. Any human would have been frustrated by his actions and he clearly didn't seem to care. It was he who sent her to the UK to manage their church there and ended up forgetting about her. Pastor Chris might have been untouchable and clearly had his minions who defended him and demonized the poor woman, it still doesn't deny the fact that the man failed at managing his home. One cannot neglect the needs of his/her partner in marriage and expect things to run smoothly. She clearly wanted out because she could no longer take it. 8 Likes |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by chineloSA(f): 6:25pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
AristocraticMe: That's Born Again Christians' attitude. You people think you have it all figured out, but you don't. You constantly humiliate yourselves when you dont meet the same bars you set for yourselves. You are the first ones to do the worst of sins. Being Born Again means nothing. 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by MissRaine69(f): 7:01pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Sometimes the earlier you accept that things are dead and no amount of CPR will bring that relationship back to life the better instead of masquerading in pretence. I am sure they counselled other couples regarding their marriages. How you gonna win when you ain't right within? 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by MissRaine69(f): 7:05pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Kennydoc: That bad gateway malarkey is the reason why I don’t log in for days sometimes. 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Luvinghubby: 7:12pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Hmmm... She is clearly missing him I pray both of them drop their pride and reunite. I believe nothing is impossible for God to do. God did it in Benny Hinn's marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by femi4: 7:13pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
DWJOBScom:when money and fame come, you ll see their new/true colour |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by OShepherd: 7:26pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
jampro123:Hmmmm! "Experience" they say "is the best teacher", if you think you are 100% compatible, how about external prevailing factors eg INLAWS, ECONOMY, HEALTH ISSUES etc? Think twice; think deep before you cast a stone. 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by AristocraticMe: 7:32pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
chineloSA:That's the problem I feel a lot of folks have with Christians, you feel we don't make mistakes, we do make wrong decisions and even go over board. We do, bro ... let me speak for my self, I do... but what makes the difference is in your ability to come back to God humbly and guess what ? He is already waiting for you. 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by BdorianGray(m): 7:45pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
MissRaine69: Smart post.. Its what aint right within.. One persons selfish interest, insensitivity, doggedness and dunderheadedness can cause a whole lot shits to spiral out of control beyond redemption. People usually do cause problems for themseles and other people unconsciously with their warped psychology. As far as I am concerned Chris is far away in the city of Ephasus where so mightly grew the word of God and prevailed ..he ain't looking back.. 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Kennydoc(m): 7:51pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
MissRaine69: Thank God I'm not the only one. |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by BdorianGray(m): 7:51pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
chineloSA: Being born again means nothing.. Am lost..? Why did the holy book say one must be born again? Except there be a misinterpretation of what being Born again really connotes? |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Kennydoc(m): 7:53pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
LegalOpinion: Yes, she was the one but it appears like Pastor Chris didn't try hard enough to keep the marriage going. From what she wrote up there, it's obvious she was starved of attention. You can't be too busy (even with ministry) to starve your wife of attention as a man, pastor or not. 4 Likes |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Godswillgregson: 7:55pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
One country is not enough for us to stay together... Hmmn a man of God saying that to his wife 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by amokeme(f): 7:57pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Kennydoc:I understand how you feel especially what this kind of news does to the body of Christ. Keep them in your prayers. God will always take control. 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by bamasite(m): 8:44pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
I read it twice to understand it. Try that if you will. But if you still cannot after that, then quote me and I will explain charlsecy: |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by SURElee(f): 8:54pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Kennydoc: Question should be why should a wife head the UK church and husband head Nigerian church? What time do they have in a year to spend as hubby and wife. Only during leadership conferences held in Nigeria. How does a marriage survive in this condition. Couples are bound to drift apart na. 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Omofranca(f): 8:57pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
SexynSerious: Just my personal take: I think having come such a long way together and it seems there were no reported issues of physical abuse or infidelity, she should just have endured until he became old and tired as will inevitably happen and then she will have him all to herself! A lot of 'enjoyable' things don't matter any more after a certain age and couples just grow old together peacefully. |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Kennydoc(m): 9:06pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
SURElee: My dear, I just don't understand. That's the root of their marital crisis. Couples shouldn't be apart except when there isn't any other option, and it shouldn't even be for long. Even when it happens, they should endeavor to spend quality time together as often as possible so that they won't give the enemy room to infiltrate their marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by mechanics(m): 9:09pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
We just have to be careful on the foundation will build our marriages and would be marriages on. |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Greatzeus(m): 9:25pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
fvck:Here they go again, hypocrites ![]() Just to think that the name you could come up with as your moniker is "fvck" shows who you are and what goes on in your heart. You have no business telling people about eternity, remove the log in your blind eyes first. 2 Likes |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by Amanda4life: 9:30pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
desiredhome: Something similar to this is happening in my friends marriage. Her husband has suggested they rent apartment very far away from their residential home for my friends school business. And the man has also suggest that my friend being his wife and children should stay over there from Monday to come back to their resident on Friday with their two kids. Although my friend has been rejecting this offer while the husband keeps on pushing for it. Meanwhile this man keeps late nights everyday without explanation. Although i be told her to take this offer. Pls what do u think. |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by COOL10(m): 10:13pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
HallaDaTruth:. She probably thought divorcing him would divide the church. Unfortunately for her,it almost tripled sef. Who God don bless,NO ONE can curse. 1 Like |
Re: Dead Marriage By Anita Schafer (Oyakhilome) by lilyheaven: 11:09pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
MyGeneration:Ye, she's missing him. But how can husband and wife stay apart, year to year, no body contact, young couple for that., their body na firewood? I am sure she divorced her husband out of anger. 1 Like |
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