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Who Else Gets This Feeling by lilianofentse(f): 11:50pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Sometimes I feel weird for no reason. At times I feel afraid and my heart keeps beating fast even though there's nothing bad going on. I feel lonely at certain times even when I call my boyfriend I still feel empty. This is supposed to be on a health section but I feel like I know many romancelanders. Even when I think it's gone it just comes back after a while, sometimes it takes a week, sometimes a month. I am generally a happy person, even people close to me tell me my smile alone makes them happy in some sort of way, but I guess only me knows me. Is there anyone else who feels this way? Some say it's depression but I don't think that it is. |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by amaniro: 11:57pm On Apr 25, 2019 |
Because you are not happy or satisfied with something i don't know. BTW... i sell snipers and ropes. 13 Likes |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 12:02am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse: Get yourself out of depression. Those are its symptoms 1 Like |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 12:02am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse: Yeah that happens to me, I write mostly about this in my diary section, in my own case it's a mixture of so many things, family issue, low self esteem and constant stress especially in this rat race, I will be extremely honest I have no answers for you , because in my own case, I heavily relied on marijuana and alcohol. Even now I am planning on seeking a therapist, but want I do, is to engage myself in alot of activities and plan, and the more I do this and accomplish them, It makes me feel confident about myself and all, also are you an introvert, do you mix alot, obviously appearing happy and being happy are different. You will have to do an introspection into your life and see what it is; that is making you sad, because this can limit you from reaching your potential because you might not see anything good about yourself and that will start to manifest in your life. Because at my former place, I was so depressed that my colleagues had to report me to HR because I was always punching the walls to cope with stress, and this hurt my hands badly. Even went to work drunk early in the morning and vomited luckily I wasn't sacked because I played it off as being sick. Are you heavily stressed out from work ? Are you happy with your current job ? Are you dealing with issues like Family, or something else ? Have you gone through some past trauma that you never dealth with ? Please kindly treat it fast, because for a long time , I was a shell of myself, but now I am in a better place ( I hope ) I wish you all the best dear. Right now am too focused making money to be depressed. 30 Likes |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by lilianofentse(f): 12:03am On Apr 26, 2019 |
Drabeey:but how? |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 12:05am On Apr 26, 2019 |
amaniro: Haba guy, this is not needed, forget even some hardcore niggaz get their moments 13 Likes |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by lilianofentse(f): 12:10am On Apr 26, 2019 |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by lilianofentse(f): 12:10am On Apr 26, 2019 |
pcguru1: I used cannabis for a month. It helped in relieving the stress. I don't do alcohol or hard drugs. Also xxxtentacion and juice wrld's music helped a lot. But my issue is that I just get back to being sad after sometime. I want it to go away totally not going and coming back. But thanks anyway 2 Likes |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by MissRaine69(f): 12:19am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse:Everyone experiences peaks and troughs in their lives it’s not possible to be happy 24/7 But what you are doing is dwelling on these fleeting thoughts and trying to find a problem where none actually exists. Not everyone needs to have a label to make sense. We have our own quirks that makes us who we are. When you have or feel empty train yourself to refocus on the positive aspects of your life. You have achievements and you have failures such is life. Find the middle ground. You are not depressed. 1 Like |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 12:19am On Apr 26, 2019 |
just strip nude and tell ur boyfriend to massage ur nude body with olive oil .yu go feel alright las las. |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by JejeNaija(m): 12:21am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse: Cannabis won't help, you only felt it did. Have you had any sort of bad experience that sometimes flash back? If not ask your parents if at anytime when you were really young you had an experience that made you really panic. If you had such an experience when you were little, probably could be the cause even though you can't recall, that traumatic experience could always reflect in your mood without you knowing. |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by MissRaine69(f): 12:23am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse:Do you have friends? Hobbies a social life? What is your definition of happiness? Cannabis could precipitate long term issues with your mood. Stop self medicating. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by lilianofentse(f): 12:27am On Apr 26, 2019 |
JejeNaija:will do that tomorrow thanks dear |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Brugo(m): 12:28am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse: Nothing is wrong with you. You need to focus more on your hobbies. And eat plenty jollof rice and asun. Don’t thank me, thank God. 1 Like |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by lilianofentse(f): 12:28am On Apr 26, 2019 |
MissRaine69:not too many friends but I flow with people. I've stopped cannabis and maybe that's why I feel this way. Thanks for your advice. |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 12:34am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse: A small suggestion, can you try out a project or pick up something that is heavily engaging and rewarding, but truly what might work for me might not for you, so you will have to do an introspection, if you can figure the root, then you can go a long way, other more experienced people here will help out more. peace 2 Likes |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 12:37am On Apr 26, 2019 |
MissRaine69: Truly I agree, I have been smoking weed for years, it would mess your mood up and make you constantly tied to it, lol there were days that the slightest discomfort would have me running to people selling weed, I feel ashamed because I spent alot on weed even though finance wasn't a problem. 1 Like |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by lilianofentse(f): 12:38am On Apr 26, 2019 |
pcguru1:ok. Will try that |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 12:40am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse: Hi beautiful, I have a Trailer load of Cannabis that my Uncle plants around Iwo Road, Ibadan. Kindly give me your address & I will send 12 bags to you on Wholesale price. Also comes with discount, depends on how you re-purchase. It will definitely cure the sadness & depression. |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by lilianofentse(f): 12:43am On Apr 26, 2019 |
truthsayer009:I get your sarcasm. Move on |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 12:44am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse:Mtchew!!! No be you dey find Cannabis https://www.nairaland.com/5072792/should-still-give-him-chance You sure say no be Prick be your problem? 3 Likes |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by JejeNaija(m): 12:44am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse: You welcome beautiful... |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 1:40am On Apr 26, 2019 |
Lilian, I think you need to work on your cardio because you're obviously not breathing right, but first off I would advise you quit smoking. That shìt only makes things worse. Look up gym houses near your location and get a membership. All that stress and pent-up energy in your body is dying for a release that's why you're getting anxious/nervous. Girl go hard on a thread-mill - strengthening your heart and lungs is key to decreasing your heart rate and blood pressure - which in turn improves your breathing. Work on your after all body fitness too (the gym instructor could help tailor out certain programs that best suits your needs). By the end of the first week, i guarantee you Lilian there would be significant improvements in not only your energy levels, sex drive, sleep quality, etc but most especially in your mood; your entire body would be producing so much endorphins that your perceived fears and anxieties will be almost nonexistent. It's also a great place to make new friends too. Best of luck. 4 Likes |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by fox26: 1:45am On Apr 26, 2019 |
You are Hot my sister |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by PrinzCarter(m): 2:07am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse:hi dear |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by lilianofentse(f): 2:26am On Apr 26, 2019 |
CorGier:thanks |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by NiggasInParis: 2:27am On Apr 26, 2019 |
Anxiety is a Dangerous thing. Quit smoking and Alcohol as a solution to this problem for your own good. If you must smoke/drink, do it care freely like, on your normal relax mode. If you depend on it as a point of relieve for this ish then you are in for it. Get a busy with a hobby. Release energy and release your thoughts. The gym comes to mind. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by femi4: 5:47am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse:Its the fear of losing someone close to you |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by zexy2030(m): 5:59am On Apr 26, 2019 |
have u visited depressed victims and try cheering them ? maybe that could work on your psychology...cheer the depressed children, sick folks and helpless orphans. see how joy flows back to you..render free services for fun and tackle that thought that makes u feel sad and lonely...avoid being idle..work and get paid... remembering a loved one or just sad for being single and not married. just tire a reason to the subtle thought of depression then tackle it the opposite way. |
Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Nobody: 7:10am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lefulefu:
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Re: Who Else Gets This Feeling by Wizvicky(m): 7:25am On Apr 26, 2019 |
lilianofentse:in my adolescent age and early adult stage of my life, I used to think that way. so it's a normal thing I guess |
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