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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by luvyaself95(m): 7:48pm On Apr 23, 2019
united442:


dude i swear..
i tried to kill the feelings i have for her, ah no fit, its as if am deceiving my self.. d pain is way too much..i jst leave am like that make time heal my heart..
make e heal anytime e like provided i ignore and avoid her..
Na this same thing am trying to do here and it been hard task to get done since...
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by united442(m): 7:53pm On Apr 23, 2019
luvyaself95:
Na this same thing am trying to do here and it been hard task to get done since...

the worst aspect is that she live very close to me both in school and at home..#DOUBLE_WAHALA....grin
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by luvyaself95(m): 7:57pm On Apr 23, 2019
united442:


the worst aspect is that she live very close to me both in school and at home..#DOUBLE_WAHALA....grin
Like seriously how are you dodging her..
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by mikejj(m): 8:05pm On Apr 23, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
leave am now...she is falling fr smooth guy with game...after shining kpekus and dumping her..she will open. a thread on how all.men are scumm
the guy don shine her kpekus now..if u read the story well.. But my advice to girl..you need to sit yourself down and ask yourself what exactly do you want in a relationship..?? Start from there girl
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by united442(m): 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2019
luvyaself95:
Like seriously how are you dodging her..

hahahaha...lolxx..Franklin speaking, its not an easy taskgrin
bt am getting use to it shagrin..the last time we bump each other,she was about to stop n say hi,seeing her getting close,i just put on my earpiece and walk pass her like i nvr saw her, i dnt look back but i knew she felt embarrass cux she was with her friends...

though it wasn't easy for me to do that cause i still have that strong feelings for her,like crazeeeee...but i have to use it to pass a message to her..we can't be friend's,certainly not now,mayb next 3years or whenever my feelings for her is completely gone..i can't settle for less..
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by luvyaself95(m): 10:43pm On Apr 23, 2019
united442:


hahahaha...lolxx..Franklin speaking, its not an easy taskgrin
bt am getting use to it shagrin..the last time we bump each other,she was about to stop n say hi,seeing her getting close,i just put on my earpiece and walk pass her like i nvr saw her, i dnt look back but i knew she felt embarrass cux she was with her friends...

though it wasn't easy for me to do that cause i still have that strong feelings for her,like crazeeeee...but i have to use it to pass a message to her..we can't be friend's,certainly not now,mayb next 3years or whenever my feelings for her is completely gone..i can't settle for less..
You're real nigga
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Bestchoice4me(m): 11:41am On Apr 24, 2019
What a dumb lady.. Go marry basketmouth na, if laughing is ur problem... U don already Bleep someone u just met.. Ur tears go full bucket later..
Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Bestchoice4me(m): 1:40pm On Apr 24, 2019
Wow.. Exactly... D gbedu don enter her body..
Evercurious:


You should have known that 'advice' in scenario such as this will come with insults just to straighten your brain.. Your response confirms that the message has been delivered.

YOU DESERVED IT BABE
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by botdidy: 11:21pm On Apr 24, 2019
Kirchhoff01:
You dey sell pages too?
not yet bro, accounts for now.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by botdidy: 11:24pm On Apr 24, 2019
millionboi2:
how much?
Prices are negiciable. also depends on the year amount. example : 5yrs+ 4k+
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by millionboi2: 2:41pm On Apr 25, 2019
botdidy:


Prices are negiciable.
also depends on the year amount.
example : 5yrs+ 4k+
drop d price by d year....so I can pick


Price will decide Sha
Be serious
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by botdidy: 3:22pm On Apr 25, 2019
millionboi2:
drop d price by d year....so I can pick

Price will decide Sha Be serious
2-3yrs 2k
4-5yrs 3k 6-8yrs 5k 9yrs+. 8k(negotiable)
purchase in bulk 4-5yrs (2) 5k 9yrs+ (3). 20k Guarantee- No recovery by owner
if you refer me to others, you buy at less on next purchase.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Jman06(m): 3:23pm On Apr 25, 2019
Samyj247:
madam stick to ur man. what stops u from making him laugh. try and be more playful with him.

u might regret it when he gets married to another lady.
Seems you don't know Nigerian ladies!

They always want everything done by the man. Nothing from them at all!
The man must be the money provider, the leader of the relationship, the fun creator, the peace maker, every damn thing must be done by the man!

Very selfish set of people!
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by millionboi2: 5:03pm On Apr 25, 2019
botdidy:

2-3yrs 2k

4-5yrs 3k
6-8yrs 5k
9yrs+. 8k(negotiable)

purchase in bulk
4-5yrs (2) 5k
9yrs+ (3). 20k
Guarantee- No recovery by owner

if you refer me to others, you buy at less on next purchase.
I need 6yrs for 2k
If agree,we seal it instantly.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by akaahs(m): 7:40pm On Apr 25, 2019
SaucyBenks:
So generally now, laughing is your problem.... Aunty you're confused.


Na so dem go dey dey nice nice till your pant shift like 2-3 times, then hanty eye go clear grin grin grin grin
Guy abel no kill me with laugh
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 8:19pm On Apr 25, 2019
Chaii God in heaven!! So for this life now, na laugh be your problem madam?? You see person wen hold you strong for ten years, you wan loose gaurd because of one whether na "smooth talker" dem dey call am, e sweet mouth you finish now, you open leg, he collect the kponor, he run leave im waist, you cry dey even think of suicide, na the kind life you plan for your self be dis Aunty at this your age?
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by botdidy: 10:41pm On Apr 25, 2019
millionboi2:
I need 6yrs for 2k If agree,we seal it instantly.
nah Bruv no deal. renegotiate.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by millionboi2: 8:55am On Apr 26, 2019
botdidy:


nah Bruv
no deal.
renegotiate.
ok.. I just need d one of 2k with minimum of 2k likes
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by botdidy: 10:54am On Apr 26, 2019
millionboi2:
ok.. I just need d one of 2k with minimum of 2k likes

What I sell are hacked accounts.
so they are real and contain real people.
it's best for working before making any further changes.

inbox me on Whatsapp @07013031380
we'll talk
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Daguccizgreat(m): 12:11pm On Apr 26, 2019
SaucyBenks:
So generally now, laughing is your problem.... Aunty you're confused.


Na so dem go dey dey nice nice till your pant shift like 2-3 times, then hanty eye go clear grin grin grin grin
They don kpansh already according to her
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Samyj247: 1:31pm On Apr 27, 2019
Jman06:
Seems you don't know Nigerian ladies!

They always want everything done by the man. Nothing from them at all!
The man must be the money provider, the leader of the relationship, the fun creator, the peace maker, every damn thing must be done by the man!

Very selfish set of people!
I am telling u bro.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by botdidy: 10:34pm On Jun 25, 2019
millionboi2:
I need 6yrs for 2k If agree,we seal it instantly.
alright. send me a message 07013031380
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by emmysolo2001(f): 10:47pm On Jun 25, 2019
How can u be with someone for 10yrs and just realized you don't love him. Are you OK you are just thinking rubbish, it cause he's the only man you've ever known since secondary school that's why the other guy seems romantic, funny and so on.honesty you'd be a big fool at 27 no offence if you ever think of living him.besides this other guy might just see you as a challenge cause he knows you've a guy and he just wants to prove that he can get you. Baby this is God actually testing Your commitment to your man.and I hope this your 10yrs guy has proposed.
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 7:12pm On Apr 21, 2020
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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by jumpampass(m): 7:00am On May 02, 2020
Michelle55:
Lemme relax here smiley, if I say what's on my mind you won't like it atall.. But I'm happy people are dishing it out for you as e dey hot.. Shebi toto dey scratch you bah, just wait until the smooth talker is done with you then you go know howfar cheesy We dey here dey wait for another thread with different moniker
Babe, I fall for you ohh. You sounded like a soji girl from Kaduna or anywhere from the north. Or maybe an ABUSITE cheesy
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Michelle55: 7:26am On May 02, 2020
jumpampass:

Babe, I fall for you ohh. You sounded like a soji girl from Kaduna or anywhere from the north. Or maybe an ABUSITE cheesy
Lol... Not anywhere closeby bro cheesy
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by aimmoney9: 7:42am On May 02, 2020
abdeiz:
The nice and loyal guys are mostly boring.

The exciting ones don't know how to stay in one place. Be warned.

He's exciting and funny for a reason, to get girls like you to fall and you did

Go for the exciting one if you want to laugh and have fun but don't come back crying to us about how all men are the same.

WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAME.
Even if all men are the same
Choose one already
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by aimmoney9: 7:44am On May 02, 2020
chapmanapr:
Discuss with your boyfriend about him being too serious. You would start seeing the unfunny side of this new guy, once he shines your congo grin
He is already shining her Congo u did not read it completely
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by FunkyAlhaji2015: 7:59am On May 02, 2020
makydebbie:
Lol, you want to leave a loyal man of ten years for some smooth talker you met two months ago. Sigh.

The devil you know is way better than the angel you don't know. Think about it.


You're overlooking the fact that the smooth talker is also very good in bed.

Pls let her enjoy the sex and the laughter while before she gets dumps. She will definitely get dumped.

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