Bae came around last week friday to leave on saturday, all went really nice and we said so many sweet nothings to eachother. Saturday morning at around 4am, she wanted to ease herself but there was no light so i gave her my fone as a torchlight for visibility and stuff. I did that out of my church mind as in its d logical thing to do. But i never knew pple have got some twisted sense.

After a very long time bae was still inside the bathroom, initially i heard some sounds of water dropping but that was like the first 5mins, 1hr in, all was still silent which raised some concerns but since i didnt hear any yelling or distress shout, i didnt want to intrude.
Finally she came out, kinda bashed into the room, i was thinking the sweet times would resume but instead she threw the fone at me in rage and said some things i couldnt make out. Later she yelled angrily that "i hope tyler(not real name) knows that i just came out of bathroom"
In shock i asked who tyler is, but she looked at my fone and rushed outside again. That was when i realised what she was talking about and i immediately felt weak. I kinda collapsed in bed afterwards

Tyler is my best padi i gossip with about things, we say shìt just for the lols. I was kinda talking to him about how a girl is coming over for weekend and how i am prepared to bang the shìt out of her, how she wants to really get married, how i am not ready for now and you know, all those talks guys talk with their fellow friends just for the fun of it. And i can say this authoritatively that all guys have this type of friends they shill with and just discuss stuffs in a ridiculous way.
Well bae saw the chats on my whatsapp and that was what pissed her up. But then i gave it a thought and i realised the whole shìt is kinda fùcked up, Why would you be snooping around on my whatsapp without my permision? What kind of sick psycho does that? That really pissed me off in return and i bashed in on her and gave her the full undiluted piece of my mind.
She was shocked tho but i knew i was right. It was supposed to be used as a torchlight and not for you to go FBI on my personal stuff. Like there is a sayin that if you push a goat into a wall, invading its boundry, its going to fight back. Thats for a goat, how much more a human being. She really crossed the boundary and i have the right to be pissed.

Well later she traveled back all moody and stuff. She msged, telling me how wicked and insensitive i am for not apologising for what i did. But then i told her that i apologise she felt bad but i still maintained that she was in the wrong. If she hadnt behaved like a psycho, she wouldnt have felt bad. Next time stay on your lane.
She is still mad at me but i blame her 100%.

Dear Gaspardd,

Feeling bad for her intruding your privacy is okay, BUT gossiping about your girlfriend to your friend is the very height of STUPIDITY.

I can NEVER gossip about the lady I love to my best friend, NEVER! And that's maturity.

E get where my talks about my girlfriend dey reach and I nor dey like "SEE FINISH"

Apologies to her and stop being a tell-tale.

Gossip with a friend using your woman, I mean your real babe? How would you want that friend to see her tomorrow? Do you have sense at all?

She should do herself a favour and dump your puerile ass. Honestly, you have no shame.

Despite the fact that you go on 2k dates in borrowed clothes, you still have guts to gossip about your girlfriend in such manner?

Newbies giving their opened phone to their women hoping she wouldn't snoop.... GEt real bro

QueenSekxy:
Gossip with a friend using your woman, I mean your real babe? How would you want that friend to see her tomorrow? Do you have sense at all?

She should do herself a favour and dump your puerile ass. Honestly, you have no shame.

Stop taking things so hard, all normal guys do that. Your guy does that too if he is normal.

MrBrownJay1:
Newbies giving their opened phone to their women hoping she wouldn't snoop.... GEt real bro

I have learnt my lesson. I think i got carried away too much by the morning groove.

AntiBrutus:
Despite the fact that you go on 2k dates in borrowed clothes, you still have guts to gossip about your girlfriend in such manner?

You girls do thesame also. Beside the dude talks about his personal stuff too, and he doesnt even know the girl in question.

Op, I would not commend you for what you did, but then your babe is wrong for intruding into your privacy without your permission.


Truth be told, most guys say alots of stuff with their best friends. And it does not mean they don't love their girl friends. It is just like that for some guys.



The only mistake you made was not passwording your phone. No way a lady would not like to check her BF's chats.

Next time you should be smarter.

Gaspardd:

Stop taking things so hard, all normal guys do that. Your guy does that too if he is normal.

No, unless you don't see future with this babe.
Stop normalizing foolishness and insensitivity.
Assuming you caught her prancing around with her friend on how you are this/that, how would that make you feel.

Ladies should know the kinda immature guys they date, this type no follow atall.

Gaspardd:

I have learnt my lesson. I think i got carried away too much by the morning groove.

... And the babe had the right to be mad as you talked about her in a very offensive manner.
Btw Here you are calling her "bae" but to your buddy she was "a girl", lol.

AntiBrutus:
Despite the fact that you go on 2k dates in borrowed clothes, you still have guts to gossip about your girlfriend in such manner?

I'm wondering when he suddenly has a girlfriend, or maybe the independent sweet collegue didn't tell on him at work and accepted to be his girlfriend.


It's only immature fvckboys that talks about their sexcapades.

Modified: Ladies, if you are in a relationship with a guy who passwords his phone or doesn't allow you touch his phone, know that you are only for chop and go, and he is cheating, do not be sweet talked to accept such insanity.

molybdenum0012:
Oo, I would not commend you for what you did, but then your babe is wrong for intruding into your privacy without your permission.


Truth be told, most guys says alots of stuff with their best friends. And it does not mean they don't love their girl friends. It is just like that for some guys.



The only mistake you made was not passwording your phone. No way a lady would not like to check her BF's chats.

Next time you should be more smarter.

It wasnt the back torch she used, it was d screen torch, so that it would provide minimal lighting and stuff. I removed the password cus if by chance or by mistake the fone goes off she wudnt have problem getting it back on.
And on a second note, this dude doesnt know this girl.

QueenSekxy:

No, unless you don't see future with this babe.
Stop normalizing foolishness and insensitivity.
Assuming you caught her prancing around with her friend on how you are this/that, how would that make you feel.

Ladies should know the kinda immature guys they date, this type no follow atall.

You kinda right though. But the truth is that kind of careless talk usually happens when the relationship is new or just starting, but after sometimes when things are stable, it naturally stops.

D ladies here will kill u let me walk out u messed up

Mine has been close-marking me like kilode. She's always snooping around my phone. Gallery, contacts, call logs, text messages and even Whatsapp. It's feel like mans has no secrets anymore... for a private person like myself it's been so depressing fam.

Okay last week we get to see each other after a couple of days apart, and first thing chick does is stylishly situate herself between my legs so she could sniff at my privates. I'm fücked.

Biglittlelois:



I'm wondering when he suddenly has a girlfriend, or maybe the independent sweet collegue didn't tell on him at work and accepted to be his girlfriend.


It's only immature fvckboys that talks about their sexcapades.

Modified: Ladies, if you are in a relationship with a guy who passwords his phone or doesn't allow you touch his phone, know that you are only for chop and go, and he is cheating, do not be sweet talked to accept such insanity.

Your naivety literally makes me feel dizzy

CorGier:
Mine has been close-marking me like kilode. She's always snooping around my phone. Gallery, contacts, call logs, text messages and even Whatsapp. It's feel like mans has no secrets anymore... for a private person like myself it's been so depressing fam.

Okay last week we get to see each other after a couple of days apart, and first thing chick does is stylishly situate herself between my legs so she could sniff at my privates. I'm fücked.

Seriously i would dump her ass if it was me.

Gaspardd:

Your naivety literally makes me feel dizzy

I'm glad you feel dizzy, now roll out of my mention dude

CorGier:
Mine has been close-marking me like kilode. She's always snooping around my phone. Gallery, contacts, call logs, text messages and even Whatsapp. It's feel like mans has no secrets anymore... for a private person like myself it's been so depressing fam.

Okay last week we get to see each other after a couple of days apart, and first thing chick does is stylishly situate herself between my legs so she could sniff at my privates. I'm fücked.

The problem here is YOU... How can you allow your babe to do what you are not down with?! The 1st time she tried this shiit, was the time you should have checked her and put her back in her place. Sadly, you didn't and now you come here on NL to moan about it.

How about growing some balls and tell her your mind, have you tried that?

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Gaspardd:

Seriously i would dump her ass if it was me.

Too late for that I'm hooked already bro, chick fits me to a T.

Yes bro.... You are the GOAT..she chased you to the wall and you should nod her..

Childish monkey, that's what you are.
I would have kicked your balls before dumping your sorry ass. (if i was her. But hell no! I can't date a kid like you)
The situation of the country has not only affected your pocket but also your brain.

Divay22:
Childish monkey, that's what you are.
I would have kicked your balls before dumping your sorry ass. (if i was her. But hell no! I can't date a kid like you)
The situation of the country has not only affected your pocket but also your brain.

Take it easy beautiful.

JasonScoolari:
Take it easy beautiful.

I will

CorGier:
Mine has been close-marking me like kilode. She's always snooping around my phone. Gallery, contacts, call logs, text messages and even Whatsapp. It's feel like mans has no secrets anymore... for a private person like myself it's been so depressing fam.

Okay last week we get to see each other after a couple of days apart, and first thing chick does is stylishly situate herself between my legs so she could sniff at my privates. I'm fücked.

Lmao @bolded she owns you, she wants to know if her property is still intact, sissy niggers are coming out more this days lmao

diary of a teenager

Divay22:
Childish monkey, that's what you are.
I would have kicked your balls before dumping your sorry ass. (if i was her. But hell no! I can't date a kid like you)
The situation of the country has not only affected your pocket but also your brain.

Good thing u re purging right now. But then i hope u re not d psycho type that snoops around like a pig.

guy, u messed up big time. that was immature of u, her going through ur phone ain't a defense at all

Biglittlelois:



I'm wondering when he suddenly has a girlfriend, or maybe the independent sweet collegue didn't tell on him at work and accepted to be his girlfriend.


It's only immature fvckboys that talks about their sexcapades.

[s]Modified: Ladies, if you are in a relationship with a guy who passwords his phone or doesn't allow you touch his phone, know that you are only for chop and go, and he is cheating, do not be sweet talked to accept such insanity.[/s]

Password or no password, with my phone, you'd only see what I want you to see.

funkyjms:


Password or no password, with my phone, you'd only see what I want you to see.

You don't count dude, a mature man that know the value his lady and relationship wouldn't do things that will make him password his phone, simple as that!!!

Gaspardd my guy, make I no lie you, you ef-up!
It's not a crime to be caught in some fvckt up situation, handling them is the key. You're bad at that.
You really need to learn how to handle some situations.